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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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2 guys meet up unexpectedly and you both realise your on fab, or you've both seen each other at a social. Do you verify each other?
I'm asking how I look at womens verifications and how lots of them are from other women. They show a lot about each others characters. They were just socials and nothing more.
Men aren't rushing to to verify each other in the same way, and it has me wondering why.
Guys, why is that? I'm just throwing this question out there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If 2 women meet up for a social and verify each other that's fine.
If 2 men meet up for a social and verify each other they are clearly raging homosexuals that fucked each other senseless, no matter what the verification says. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If 2 women meet up for a social and verify each other that's fine.
If 2 men meet up for a social and verify each other they are clearly raging homosexuals that fucked each other senseless, no matter what the verification says. "
and if the woman fucked each other, that will turn off nobody, but if the men fucked each other, it will turn off many |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If 2 women meet up for a social and verify each other that's fine.
If 2 men meet up for a social and verify each other they are clearly raging homosexuals that fucked each other senseless, no matter what the verification says.
and if the woman fucked each other, that will turn off nobody, but if the men fucked each other, it will turn off many"
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"If 2 women meet up for a social and verify each other that's fine.
If 2 men meet up for a social and verify each other they are clearly raging homosexuals that fucked each other senseless, no matter what the verification says. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So for men, they're sexuality is that fragile, they protect it by saying they've never ever met or spoke to another man? . Haha. Cute. "
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According to the ladies. No men have actually said
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've verified guys from socials in the past, and I've been verified by guys from socials, I don't see it being an issue myself, just proves you are who you say you are  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"2 guys meet up unexpectedly and you both realise your on fab, or you've both seen each other at a social. Do you verify each other?
I'm asking how I look at womens verifications and how lots of them are from other women. They show a lot about each others characters. They were just socials and nothing more.
Men aren't rushing to to verify each other in the same way, and it has me wondering why.
Guys, why is that? I'm just throwing this question out there. "
Social conditioning 
Just verify each other already
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So for men, they're sexuality is that fragile, they protect it by saying they've never ever met or spoke to another man? . Haha. Cute. .......
According to the ladies. No men have actually said
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If 2 women meet up for a social and verify each other that's fine.
If 2 men meet up for a social and verify each other they are clearly raging homosexuals that fucked each other senseless, no matter what the verification says.
Spot on!! "
Im thinking it's the same attitude.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I verify men at socials - in fact, most of my men veris are from socials. It's just to say they are real. "
But at what point do we not need to prove we're real. A guy had 50 veris from meeting women. Why does he need 1 from a guy to say he exists? Or more to the point, another one from a woman? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have veris from blokes from social events.
I spend most of my time talking to the laydeez though so don't see much point writing one if all it is going to say is 'yes he was there' |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I verify men at socials - in fact, most of my men veris are from socials. It's just to say they are real.
But at what point do we not need to prove we're real. A guy had 50 veris from meeting women. Why does he need 1 from a guy to say he exists? Or more to the point, another one from a woman? "
It can be quite confusing for some I guess. I still don't know if I'm a figment of my imagination or not. Maybe I need to be verified socially and by a woman just to make sure?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I verify men at socials - in fact, most of my men veris are from socials. It's just to say they are real.
But at what point do we not need to prove we're real. A guy had 50 veris from meeting women. Why does he need 1 from a guy to say he exists? Or more to the point, another one from a woman? "
But you can choose who to verify and which verification go shoe? So why would a man want to not be verified by a man but by a woman? I think it's to do with how men see their masculinity and a fear of being labelled 'bi' because they've met a guy?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"2 guys meet up unexpectedly and you both realise your on fab, or you've both seen each other at a social. Do you verify each other?
I'm asking how I look at womens verifications and how lots of them are from other women. They show a lot about each others characters. They were just socials and nothing more.
Men aren't rushing to to verify each other in the same way, and it has me wondering why.
Guys, why is that? I'm just throwing this question out there. "
After the not so secret social last year, I veri'd, and recieved veri's from the fellas that attended. I did get a few cold call messages after recieving them from folk that had just seen that I had veris from fellas too and assumed I was fab straight from that though. Lazy feckers  |
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"I verify men at socials - in fact, most of my men veris are from socials. It's just to say they are real.
But at what point do we not need to prove we're real. A guy had 50 veris from meeting women. Why does he need 1 from a guy to say he exists? Or more to the point, another one from a woman? "
dunno. Was just being socialable. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Also if the guy you meet leaves the site the veri will disappear but still show on your summary that you met a guy.
That's a good point actually."
That's a veri good point. But seriously, it says straight on my profile, when will people believe it? |
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"Also if the guy you meet leaves the site the veri will disappear but still show on your summary that you met a guy.
That's a good point actually.
That's a veri good point. But seriously, it says straight on my profile, when will people believe it? "
Does it matter? You know you straight, people you play with knows it. I know some women don't play with biguys, but life is too short to be worrying abour how others see you. Just have fun with play meets and social meets.
Mrs SB
Ps fancy a paella? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Also if the guy you meet leaves the site the veri will disappear but still show on your summary that you met a guy.
That's a good point actually.
That's a veri good point. But seriously, it says straight on my profile, when will people believe it?
Does it matter? You know you straight, people you play with knows it. I know some women don't play with biguys, but life is too short to be worrying abour how others see you. Just have fun with play meets and social meets.
Mrs SB
Ps fancy a paella? "
Tease.  |
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"Also if the guy you meet leaves the site the veri will disappear but still show on your summary that you met a guy.
That's a good point actually.
That's a veri good point. But seriously, it says straight on my profile, when will people believe it?
Does it matter? You know you straight, people you play with knows it. I know some women don't play with biguys, but life is too short to be worrying abour how others see you. Just have fun with play meets and social meets.
Mrs SB
Ps fancy a paella?
Tease. "
Love it . I make awesome points about thread and you only see paella typical |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Also if the guy you meet leaves the site the veri will disappear but still show on your summary that you met a guy.
That's a good point actually.
That's a veri good point. But seriously, it says straight on my profile, when will people believe it?
Does it matter? You know you straight, people you play with knows it. I know some women don't play with biguys, but life is too short to be worrying abour how others see you. Just have fun with play meets and social meets.
Mrs SB
Ps fancy a paella?
Tease.
Love it . I make awesome points about thread and you only see paella typical "
Slow clap to misterbee |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Also if the guy you meet leaves the site the veri will disappear but still show on your summary that you met a guy.
That's a good point actually.
That's a veri good point. But seriously, it says straight on my profile, when will people believe it?
Does it matter? You know you straight, people you play with knows it. I know some women don't play with biguys, but life is too short to be worrying abour how others see you. Just have fun with play meets and social meets.
Mrs SB
Ps fancy a paella?
Tease.
Love it . I make awesome points about thread and you only see paella typical "
and people say I think with my dick? Nope, it's my taste buds that are in charge. |
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"Also if the guy you meet leaves the site the veri will disappear but still show on your summary that you met a guy.
That's a good point actually.
That's a veri good point. But seriously, it says straight on my profile, when will people believe it? "
They won't on here,it could alway's be explained in the profile though couldn't it. |
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"Also if the guy you meet leaves the site the veri will disappear but still show on your summary that you met a guy.
That's a good point actually.
That's a veri good point. But seriously, it says straight on my profile, when will people believe it?
Does it matter? You know you straight, people you play with knows it. I know some women don't play with biguys, but life is too short to be worrying abour how others see you. Just have fun with play meets and social meets.
Mrs SB
Ps fancy a paella?
Tease.
Love it . I make awesome points about thread and you only see paella typical
and people say I think with my dick? Nope, it's my taste buds that are in charge. "
You have taste buds on your dick  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a veri from a guy from a recent social.I see no issue with it and it hasn't increased the number of Fab Straight people messaging me on the off chance.
If you get on with someone and want to meet then do so |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Also if the guy you meet leaves the site the veri will disappear but still show on your summary that you met a guy.
That's a good point actually.
That's a veri good point. But seriously, it says straight on my profile, when will people believe it?
They won't on here,it could alway's be explained in the profile though couldn't it."
No one reads profiles.....but they read verifications? . This is just stupidly confusing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"2 guys meet up unexpectedly and you both realise your on fab, or you've both seen each other at a social. Do you verify each other?
I'm asking how I look at womens verifications and how lots of them are from other women. They show a lot about each others characters. They were just socials and nothing more.
Men aren't rushing to to verify each other in the same way, and it has me wondering why.
Guys, why is that? I'm just throwing this question out there. "
It is a bit strange, I have no issue with verifying a guy though. Do you want one?
I think being the one to do it first is the problem, you don't want the other guy to think wtf |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"2 guys meet up unexpectedly and you both realise your on fab, or you've both seen each other at a social. Do you verify each other?
I'm asking how I look at womens verifications and how lots of them are from other women. They show a lot about each others characters. They were just socials and nothing more.
Men aren't rushing to to verify each other in the same way, and it has me wondering why.
Guys, why is that? I'm just throwing this question out there.
It is a bit strange, I have no issue with verifying a guy though. Do you want one?
I think being the one to do it first is the problem, you don't want the other guy to think wtf "
Of course I want one.....you first. |
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"Also if the guy you meet leaves the site the veri will disappear but still show on your summary that you met a guy.
That's a good point actually.
That's a veri good point. But seriously, it says straight on my profile, when will people believe it? "
You don't have to show your verification summary. Nobody knows how many people I've met or what gender.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"one question - does it bother you what other people think
It bothers a lot of people, cause the label is there and we all know how that goes."
but ive met him at the weekend and he could have a dozen single men from there verify him - he could show them all together with all the others he received and it woudl be obvious it was a huge social event - and i wasnt asking about others i was asking him if it bothered him |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"If 2 women meet up for a social and verify each other that's fine.
If 2 men meet up for a social and verify each other they are clearly raging homosexuals that fucked each other senseless, no matter what the verification says. "
Exactly this. Just to say another chap is handsome gets you a big dose of the gay |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"one question - does it bother you what other people think
It bothers a lot of people, cause the label is there and we all know how that goes.
but ive met him at the weekend and he could have a dozen single men from there verify him - he could show them all together with all the others he received and it woudl be obvious it was a huge social event - and i wasnt asking about others i was asking him if it bothered him "
I know but my point was that most guys won't verify another guy from a social as regardless of what it said, the mind would be thinking something else.
Verifications for me mean that the person is actively meeting |
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Make it a masculine veri then.....
Ahem.
Met XXXXX at an organised social at the weekend, I must say he was popular with the ladies. We had a quick chat about football over a pint of real ale. Top bloke. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"one question - does it bother you what other people think "
Me? No. I could not give a damn if some judge me on what they 'think' my sexual orientation is. I'd rather everyone get along because we like each other's personalities. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"one question - does it bother you what other people think
Me? No. I could not give a damn if some judge me on what they 'think' my sexual orientation is. I'd rather everyone get along because we like each other's personalities. "
didnt think it would - |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Make it a masculine veri then.....
Ahem.
Met XXXXX at an organised social at the weekend, I must say he was popular with the ladies. We had a quick chat about football over a pint of real ale. Top bloke."
Change top bloke to...
By eck he were reet champion.
Then you got it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"one question - does it bother you what other people think
It bothers a lot of people, cause the label is there and we all know how that goes.
but ive met him at the weekend and he could have a dozen single men from there verify him - he could show them all together with all the others he received and it woudl be obvious it was a huge social event - and i wasnt asking about others i was asking him if it bothered him
I know but my point was that most guys won't verify another guy from a social as regardless of what it said, the mind would be thinking something else.
Verifications for me mean that the person is actively meeting "
yes i get that - but i was asking mister bee as in a get to know him kind of question - seeing if i had sussed him out correctly - hes answered and it seems i thought right |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"one question - does it bother you what other people think
It bothers a lot of people, cause the label is there and we all know how that goes.
but ive met him at the weekend and he could have a dozen single men from there verify him - he could show them all together with all the others he received and it woudl be obvious it was a huge social event - and i wasnt asking about others i was asking him if it bothered him
I know but my point was that most guys won't verify another guy from a social as regardless of what it said, the mind would be thinking something else.
Verifications for me mean that the person is actively meeting "
I get exactly what your saying. After the last social, lots of women are verifying and such. But not many men have been in touch to say 'great social, do you want a veri'?
There's a reason, and I think it's exactly the perseption it creates. I think Men are protective of ther masculinity.
*im not fishing for veris. It's just what I noticed, and I'm sure I'm not alone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"one question - does it bother you what other people think
It bothers a lot of people, cause the label is there and we all know how that goes.
but ive met him at the weekend and he could have a dozen single men from there verify him - he could show them all together with all the others he received and it woudl be obvious it was a huge social event - and i wasnt asking about others i was asking him if it bothered him
I know but my point was that most guys won't verify another guy from a social as regardless of what it said, the mind would be thinking something else.
Verifications for me mean that the person is actively meeting
I get exactly what your saying. After the last social, lots of women are verifying and such. But not many men have been in touch to say 'great social, do you want a veri'?
There's a reason, and I think it's exactly the perseption it creates. I think Men are protective of ther masculinity.
*im not fishing for veris. It's just what I noticed, and I'm sure I'm not alone. "
I'd veri anyone that asked me at a social, I'd veri you, BUT I didnt attend, I've met MrsSpanishbrunette for a social though, so she can vouch for me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I get exactly what your saying. After the last social, lots of women are verifying and such. But not many men have been in touch to say 'great social, do you want a veri'?
There's a reason, and I think it's exactly the perseption it creates. I think Men are protective of ther masculinity.
*im not fishing for veris. It's just what I noticed, and I'm sure I'm not alone.
I'd veri anyone that asked me at a social, I'd veri you, BUT I didnt attend, I've met MrsSpanishbrunette for a social though, so she can vouch for me "
Did she serve you paella? I need to know if I'm looking forward and building this up to much. |
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"Make it a masculine veri then.....
Ahem.
Met XXXXX at an organised social at the weekend, I must say he was popular with the ladies. We had a quick chat about football over a pint of real ale. Top bloke."
Back slaps all round!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I get exactly what your saying. After the last social, lots of women are verifying and such. But not many men have been in touch to say 'great social, do you want a veri'?
There's a reason, and I think it's exactly the perseption it creates. I think Men are protective of ther masculinity.
*im not fishing for veris. It's just what I noticed, and I'm sure I'm not alone.
I'd veri anyone that asked me at a social, I'd veri you, BUT I didnt attend, I've met MrsSpanishbrunette for a social though, so she can vouch for me
Did she serve you paella? I need to know if I'm looking forward and building this up to much. "
No, we just had drinks at a local establishment, had a good laugh with her though. |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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Over the years here ive seen many a anti bi profile and theres been much discussions around this in the forum. Any remote chance that a chap could effectively ruin his chances with half the female/couple population of fab is going to make him think twice.
Of course it should be the case that one thinks i dont want to meet people who are like that anyway. But you know that numbers game that the forum talks about regularly will play on the mind.
Im saying half whilst obviously having no idea if the actual numbers just to be clear. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Over the years here ive seen many a anti bi profile and theres been much discussions around this in the forum. Any remote chance that a chap could effectively ruin his chances with half the female/couple population of fab is going to make him think twice.
Of course it should be the case that one thinks i dont want to meet people who are like that anyway. But you know that numbers game that the forum talks about regularly will play on the mind.
Im saying half whilst obviously having no idea if the actual numbers just to be clear."
I agree. Especially when men use the phrases "how can I be more successful on here?" It is a game to some. And as you say, increasing chances to meet women seems the goal. Putting a veri from A guy could be counter productive.
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Depends on the wider context to me. Two relatively established, plausible and already verified male profiles meeting socially (or otherwise) would register. Two borderline blank, otherwise unverified guys verifying each other, I would interpret as two mates trying to get a rung or two higher up the instashag ladder. It's right up there with the bland unverified ones who say 'I've been here before'.
Oooh, I'm a cynical old bird at times. |
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"Depends on the wider context to me. Two relatively established, plausible and already verified male profiles meeting socially (or otherwise) would register. Two borderline blank, otherwise unverified guys verifying each other, I would interpret as two mates trying to get a rung or two higher up the instashag ladder. It's right up there with the bland unverified ones who say 'I've been here before'.
Oooh, I'm a cynical old bird at times. "
Old?
Oh no dear not old at all. |
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"Depends on the wider context to me. Two relatively established, plausible and already verified male profiles meeting socially (or otherwise) would register. Two borderline blank, otherwise unverified guys verifying each other, I would interpret as two mates trying to get a rung or two higher up the instashag ladder. It's right up there with the bland unverified ones who say 'I've been here before'.
Oooh, I'm a cynical old bird at times. "
You mean you read things and make up your own mind? This is what I'd have hoped for, but it doesn't seem the case.
It seems there preconceptions made all the time in here, even before we verify another male. "What will he think?" "What will other think if they read it?"
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By (user no longer on site)
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i am past caring about verifications most are from people you never see again, you cannot leave bad ones, i dont read them much as they seem rather pointless.
i would rather make my own mind up, not what others think |
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"Depends on the wider context to me. Two relatively established, plausible and already verified male profiles meeting socially (or otherwise) would register. Two borderline blank, otherwise unverified guys verifying each other, I would interpret as two mates trying to get a rung or two higher up the instashag ladder. It's right up there with the bland unverified ones who say 'I've been here before'.
Oooh, I'm a cynical old bird at times.
You mean you read things and make up your own mind? This is what I'd have hoped for, but it doesn't seem the case.
It seems there preconceptions made all the time in here, even before we verify another male. "What will he think?" "What will other think if they read it?"
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The veris I have from guys are from socials or 3somes with my wife, this was before we set up a couples profile, I don't display my veris cause I had a bit of trouble with a member contacting them and causing unnecessary grief. |
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"Depends on the wider context to me. Two relatively established, plausible and already verified male profiles meeting socially (or otherwise) would register. Two borderline blank, otherwise unverified guys verifying each other, I would interpret as two mates trying to get a rung or two higher up the instashag ladder. It's right up there with the bland unverified ones who say 'I've been here before'.
Oooh, I'm a cynical old bird at times.
You mean you read things and make up your own mind? This is what I'd have hoped for, but it doesn't seem the case.
It seems there preconceptions made all the time in here, even before we verify another male. "What will he think?" "What will other think if they read it?"
The veris I have from guys are from socials or 3somes with my wife, this was before we set up a couples profile, I don't display my veris cause I had a bit of trouble with a member contacting them and causing unnecessary grief. "
yes i had people contact my veri on display asking for 3sums and details .. yet they did not message me (strange characters) |
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"Depends on the wider context to me. Two relatively established, plausible and already verified male profiles meeting socially (or otherwise) would register. Two borderline blank, otherwise unverified guys verifying each other, I would interpret as two mates trying to get a rung or two higher up the instashag ladder. It's right up there with the bland unverified ones who say 'I've been here before'.
Oooh, I'm a cynical old bird at times.
You mean you read things and make up your own mind? This is what I'd have hoped for, but it doesn't seem the case.
It seems there preconceptions made all the time in here, even before we verify another male. "What will he think?" "What will other think if they read it?"
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I tend to find I have far more in common with curious, inquisitive people who don't leap to wild conclusions, maybe that's because I always prefer people who have a squeak more depth than a puddle and afford me the same consideration.
The fact that two chaps who happen to be genuinely into the lifestyle find themselves in the same place having a natter is hardly something that warrants breaking out the tar and feathers. We're a wide and varied bunch on Planet Fab. |
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I see masses of overthinking going on here....guys, just veri another guy if you want...or not..seriously, us girls that matter don't give two hoots, and those that do don't matter!
Chill Bee you sexy little thing 
Peach x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I see masses of overthinking going on here....guys, just veri another guy if you want...or not..seriously, us girls that matter don't give two hoots, and those that do don't matter!
Chill Bee you sexy little thing
Peach x "
I'm chilled, it's just a curious thought that's all. |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Depends on the wider context to me. Two relatively established, plausible and already verified male profiles meeting socially (or otherwise) would register. Two borderline blank, otherwise unverified guys verifying each other, I would interpret as two mates trying to get a rung or two higher up the instashag ladder. It's right up there with the bland unverified ones who say 'I've been here before'.
Oooh, I'm a cynical old bird at times.
You mean you read things and make up your own mind? This is what I'd have hoped for, but it doesn't seem the case.
It seems there preconceptions made all the time in here, even before we verify another male. "What will he think?" "What will other think if they read it?"
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Precinceptions is the essence of fab. Rightly or wrongly. Lets be honest its like that outside of fab too. |
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"If 2 women meet up for a social and verify each other that's fine.
If 2 men meet up for a social and verify each other they are clearly raging homosexuals that fucked each other senseless, no matter what the verification says. "
True and honest post. You obviously know the workings of the fabstraight men. |
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"I can verify that Misterbee has a great handshake and doesn't look his age 
......on here though.
Did you get the veri ?
No.
not yet "
I've sent again and nothing |
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Veris can be both a blessing and a curse, no matter who they come from.
I originally joined fab to meet men. Had no interest in women, and for the most part was left alone by both women and couples for the first few months. Then I attended a Social event much like Saturday's one and was verified by a woman and a couple whom I had spoken to. Suddenly (regardless of what my profile or my veris said), I started getting lots of mail from women and couples who expected to meet me.
People will make assumptions based on veri summaries alone. They won't read profiles or the veris themselves. If you have a lot of veris you'll be branded a slut, regardless of whether they are play or social veris. I have 20 new veris since the Social... I'm already getting mail congratulating me on my wild weekend, asking how many cocks I rode and if I'm sitting on bags of frozen peas to recover...
I know being judged on your veris won't bother you OP, you're very much comfortable in your own skin. But I do see your point in asking the question... veris do colour your experience of fab and how others view you... Be it for good or bad... |
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"I can verify that Misterbee has a great handshake and doesn't look his age
......on here though.
Did you get the veri ?
No.
not yet
I've sent again and nothing "
I got one. I've got the set. i feel like I've completed Pokemon go. |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"If 2 women meet up for a social and verify each other that's fine.
If 2 men meet up for a social and verify each other they are clearly raging homosexuals that fucked each other senseless, no matter what the verification says.
Spot on!!
Im thinking it's the same attitude. "
Please bear in mind you are talking to me here..... I have HOW many veris??
I hide most as people DON'T read them. They look at that fookin summary and make an assumption. Same will happen with guys - some will see a male verified by males and go no further let alone consider reading them.
Same as they'd see the total on mine and pass out rather than understand I've been her 10years, work where I do, host/attend socials and have used cams in the past..... |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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"Veris can be both a blessing and a curse, no matter who they come from.
I originally joined fab to meet men. Had no interest in women, and for the most part was left alone by both women and couples for the first few months. Then I attended a Social event much like Saturday's one and was verified by a woman and a couple whom I had spoken to. Suddenly (regardless of what my profile or my veris said), I started getting lots of mail from women and couples who expected to meet me.
People will make assumptions based on veri summaries alone. They won't read profiles or the veris themselves. If you have a lot of veris you'll be branded a slut, regardless of whether they are play or social veris. I have 20 new veris since the Social... I'm already getting mail congratulating me on my wild weekend, asking how many cocks I rode and if I'm sitting on bags of frozen peas to recover...
I know being judged on your veris won't bother you OP, you're very much comfortable in your own skin. But I do see your point in asking the question... veris do colour your experience of fab and how others view you... Be it for good or bad... "
This
Well said x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would love one from another women 
I'd love one from you. .
You're four hours away from getting one "
I've never been teased so much in one day. Promises of Paella, and now this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The veri system needs a shake up.
There should be an option for social or play meet. They can then be shown diffrent on the summary."
that would be good a social veri |
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"If 2 women meet up for a social and verify each other that's fine.
If 2 men meet up for a social and verify each other they are clearly raging homosexuals that fucked each other senseless, no matter what the verification says.
Spot on!!
Im thinking it's the same attitude.
Please bear in mind you are talking to me here..... I have HOW many veris??
I hide most as people DON'T read them. They look at that fookin summary and make an assumption. Same will happen with guys - some will see a male verified by males and go no further let alone consider reading them.
Same as they'd see the total on mine and pass out rather than understand I've been her 10years, work where I do, host/attend socials and have used cams in the past....."
One of the reasons I love my current profile version so much is the reactions I get from my 'verification summary'. It's a great filter on many different levels!
Verifications are a crazy system anyway. What does it prove? Nothing. I've had a few different profiles and met X amount of people. Their verifications aren't on this profile.
I've met people 'in real life'. Their verifications aren't on this profile either.
If people are choosing to meet me based on this profile, it's not the whole story. |
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