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over a year ago
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Hi just wondering what people use as an opening message. I prefer to say hi and ask how the person is.. dont really get any responses. However a friend I know is a bit more...how can I say filthy haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I introduce myself, tell them what I can offer, add a little spice to the message, and leave it with a question, it its unanswered it's a no thanks, simples  |
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I get about a hundred "hi, how are you?" messages a day, I delete all of them.
If I get any graphic messages I delete them and often block the sender.
Out of you and your mate I guess you fare slightly better as I don't immediately block you but the results are the same - neither gets a reply. |
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" Hi. How are you?' messages are shockingly high. Along the lines of 'Are you okay?'. They just blend into the hundreds.
I tend to write a longwinded polite message. Pointing out why I messaged the person. Things that I enjoyed about their profile. What I'm looking for on here and ending with a hope that they get back to me, but if not, I'll know I'm not their type and hope they have fun on the site . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I get about a hundred "hi, how are you?" messages a day, I delete all of them.
If I get any graphic messages I delete them and often block the sender.
Out of you and your mate I guess you fare slightly better as I don't immediately block you but the results are the same - neither gets a reply."
That's a bit harsh isn't it?! |
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"I introduce myself, tell them what I can offer, add a little spice to the message, and leave it with a question, it its unanswered it's a no thanks, simples "
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"I get about a hundred "hi, how are you?" messages a day, I delete all of them.
If I get any graphic messages I delete them and often block the sender.
Out of you and your mate I guess you fare slightly better as I don't immediately block you but the results are the same - neither gets a reply.
That's a bit harsh isn't it?!"
Yes, it is a bit harsh. Fab is meant to be fun, not a full time job. I am not prepared to spend hours replying to people who mostly haven't read my profile and who have not made an effort when they contact me. |
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Make the message unique to the profile so it doesnt seem like a copy & paste, dull or half hearted message.
Add some info that they have put into the bio into the message to show & prove you have read it all .i.e (ours) cards against humanity, dom/rough, geeky (lol)
If they've put key words to use in messages make sure you use them.
Be polite but not trashy; flirtatious but not rude. Not one liners, but some thought into it
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"I get about a hundred "hi, how are you?" messages a day, I delete all of them.
If I get any graphic messages I delete them and often block the sender.
Out of you and your mate I guess you fare slightly better as I don't immediately block you but the results are the same - neither gets a reply.
That's a bit harsh isn't it?!
Yes, it is a bit harsh. Fab is meant to be fun, not a full time job. I am not prepared to spend hours replying to people who mostly haven't read my profile and who have not made an effort when they contact me."
I see your point.
Fab as a full time job conjures up images of day-long shagging sessions, not answering countless messages! |
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