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Guys get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are worse!

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude!

I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets.

They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete.

If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete.

I "

Nothing in the terms and conditions we have to reply

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Women don't have to reply, it's in the bible like FAQs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP for King.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do try to reply, even if it's a no thanks. Just out of courtesy. Doesn't always happen same day, but I never just delete, feels rude if someone takes the time to message.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And guys do the same, for the record. I rarely send messages unless I find them too hard to resist, and get ignored. Not good for a shy girls ego! I'll stick to getting messages I think x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Women get swamped with msgs so dont got time to reply lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude!

I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets.

They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete.

If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us. "

Everyone does it regardless of their gender! I've had 3 time wasters in 5 weeks all were men and all have lots of veries and I had gone to the time of chatting on phone or camming before arranged meet just to try and wheedle out the them being a time waster BUT still they wasted my time........... just move on, it happens

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude!

I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets.

They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete.

If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us. "

Wow. Just wow. I get what your saying pal, but in fairness, it they already are ignorant with you then, do you think they give a shite after that rant?

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

When I get a message from a 1 liner profile with no pics, I just ignore as they obviously don't feel I need the same courtesy as I have given them, because their message always state they love my profile and pics yet they have fuck all.

Why are they owed a response?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I learnt very quickly after i joined OP that women on here are swamped with messages after seeing it for myself via a female friend.

I since stopped messaging first and now wait for them to find me, at least i know their actually interested and its doing me ok on here and plus gets rid of stressing out over it.

Chill buddy its not worth it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude!

I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets.

They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete.

If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us.

But guys get bad rep for it.

I always reply to every msg. I even reply to the gay guys asking to suck my cock with a polite reply.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I learnt very quickly after i joined OP that women on here are swamped with messages after seeing it for myself via a female friend.

I since stopped messaging first and now wait for them to find me, at least i know their actually interested and its doing me ok on here and plus gets rid of stressing out over it.

Chill buddy its not worth it.

This is probably the best advice you'll get.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When I get a message from a 1 liner profile with no pics, I just ignore as they obviously don't feel I need the same courtesy as I have given them, because their message always state they love my profile and pics yet they have fuck all.

Why are they owed a response?

Exactly

I delete messages I get from profiles with no pics, married men on here secretly, copy n pasted crap or one liners even if they've been kind enough to add a cock pic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude!

I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets.

They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete.

If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us.

But guys get bad rep for it.

I always reply to every msg. I even reply to the gay guys asking to suck my cock with a polite reply."

So do women and couples ........ lost count how many forum threads I've seen like this one slagging women off just like your doing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I learnt very quickly after i joined OP that women on here are swamped with messages after seeing it for myself via a female friend.

I since stopped messaging first and now wait for them to find me, at least i know their actually interested and its doing me ok on here and plus gets rid of stressing out over it.

Chill buddy its not worth it.

This is probably the best advice you'll get."

This is great advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude!

I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets.

They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete.

If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us.

But guys get bad rep for it.

I always reply to every msg. I even reply to the gay guys asking to suck my cock with a polite reply.

So do women and couples ........ lost count how many forum threads I've seen like this one slagging women off just like your doing

The guys are fighting back lol

No longer will we be called timeasters! No longer will we be treated with discontent! No longer will be be shown a total lack of respect! Haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I learnt very quickly after i joined OP that women on here are swamped with messages after seeing it for myself via a female friend.

I since stopped messaging first and now wait for them to find me, at least i know their actually interested and its doing me ok on here and plus gets rid of stressing out over it.

Chill buddy its not worth it.

This is probably the best advice you'll get."

That and not licking the wire around a field. You know; the one one the plastic sticks.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude!

I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets.

They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete.

If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us.

But guys get bad rep for it.

I always reply to every msg. I even reply to the gay guys asking to suck my cock with a polite reply."

That's fair enough. If I was a male and had the same amount of messages, I would reply to all too. When you have hundreds, it's not as simple as that. We would spend most of our time replying to messages and not chatting to the ones we do want to.

I don't think men are worse than women or couples when it comes to to cancelling/ no shows meets. It is not gender specific.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A lot of them are nuts. When I first joined, I saw someone I liked the look of and messaged her, complimenting her on her pics. She replied and we chatted for a while and then she said that we probably weren't a good match as she wasn't in to kink at all. I responded with "fair enough, have fun x" and she went absolutely mental and said that I "shut her down" and that I needed to "lower my expectations"... They're always whining about men not taking no for an answer and not dealing with rejection, yet me taking rejection graciously made her even angrier.

The truth is, the single women that are on here are incredibly insecure and can't find any body in their every day social life, this is what causes the angry, ranting profiles and the defensive attitude. Many are on here for a confidence boost to counter the feelings of worthlessness they have developed due to no men in their lives taking an interest in them, so actually have no intention of meeting anyway, they just want to numb the pain and loneliness with fabbed photos and compliments.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I learnt very quickly after i joined OP that women on here are swamped with messages after seeing it for myself via a female friend.

I since stopped messaging first and now wait for them to find me, at least i know their actually interested and its doing me ok on here and plus gets rid of stressing out over it.

Chill buddy its not worth it.

This is probably the best advice you'll get."

I was on here 2yrs as a cpl so I know how many msgs we used to get but we always replied to those who read our profile, those that was polite etc

Fair enough, if you get a msg saying I wanna fuck you or suck my dick, I get thst but when a guy takes time to read a profile, is polite then surely a reply wouid be nice.

I just think some women on hete thibk they are all that and don't need to reply.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude!

I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets.

They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete.

If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us.

But guys get bad rep for it.

I always reply to every msg. I even reply to the gay guys asking to suck my cock with a polite reply.

So do women and couples ........ lost count how many forum threads I've seen like this one slagging women off just like your doing

The guys are fighting back lol

No longer will we be called timeasters! No longer will we be treated with discontent! No longer will be be shown a total lack of respect! Haha "

Erm we will ya know

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

can't we just all get along

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Women don't have to reply, it's in the bible like FAQs

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"A lot of them are nuts. When I first joined, I saw someone I liked the look of and messaged her, complimenting her on her pics. She replied and we chatted for a while and then she said that we probably weren't a good match as she wasn't in to kink at all. I responded with "fair enough, have fun x" and she went absolutely mental and said that I "shut her down" and that I needed to "lower my expectations"... They're always whining about men not taking no for an answer and not dealing with rejection, yet me taking rejection graciously made her even angrier.

Ooooooh just getting the popcorn out as this going to be a good watch now lol

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

Most of the guys on here don't have pics or just a dick pic and they mostly bother to read profiles and I've got patience for it

Quite clear about that in profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude!

I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets.

They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete.

If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us.

But guys get bad rep for it.

I always reply to every msg. I even reply to the gay guys asking to suck my cock with a polite reply.

So do women and couples ........ lost count how many forum threads I've seen like this one slagging women off just like your doing

The guys are fighting back lol

No longer will we be called timeasters! No longer will we be treated with discontent! No longer will be be shown a total lack of respect! Haha "

There's another reason why women don't reply because of abusive messages on one occasion ......... I replied "I'm not interested enjoy fab" and I got 'oh sorry love I changed my mind I just took a better look at your pics and YUK! You fat slag"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude!

I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets.

They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete.

If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us.

But guys get bad rep for it.

I always reply to every msg. I even reply to the gay guys asking to suck my cock with a polite reply.

I don't think men are worse than women or couples when it comes to to cancelling/ no shows meets. It is not gender specific."
I could filter down most women's messages and set up a block list for them in between 20 and 30 minutes even with 500 to 1000 messages but then again I'm a good judge of character.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is why my filters are now up high I would get loads and been here years and don't feel like doing mail everyday I don't like being rude so I put in my profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Most of the guys on here don't have pics or just a dick pic and they mostly bother to read profiles and I've got patience for it

Quite clear about that in profile "

I always read a profile before I msg.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude!

I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets.

They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete.

If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us.

But guys get bad rep for it.

I always reply to every msg. I even reply to the gay guys asking to suck my cock with a polite reply.

So do women and couples ........ lost count how many forum threads I've seen like this one slagging women off just like your doing

The guys are fighting back lol

No longer will we be called timeasters! No longer will we be treated with discontent! No longer will be be shown a total lack of respect! Haha

"
Your not fat it's just that your pocket sized

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

so funny coming from you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I take it you've stopped asking all the crazy women on fab for sex then???? lol... Quite a generalised assessment you've come up with there!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wow!!! Group is all together why don't you!. I'm on here as I don't like the vanilla out there. Oh and I have kids so don't get time to 'date' very Maronic response

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude!

I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets.

They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete.

If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us.

But guys get bad rep for it.

I always reply to every msg. I even reply to the gay guys asking to suck my cock with a polite reply.

So do women and couples ........ lost count how many forum threads I've seen like this one slagging women off just like your doing

The guys are fighting back lol

No longer will we be called timeasters! No longer will we be treated with discontent! No longer will be be shown a total lack of respect! Haha

Your not fat it's just that your pocket sized

I'm comfortable

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Fuck me!

I don't know whether to pull these faces

or laugh.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is why my filters are now up high I would get loads and been here years and don't feel like doing mail everyday I don't like being rude so I put in my profile."

That some good advice. Thank you. I will see if I can up my filters!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's always the same just don't reply to eachother people usually think of something well balanced and thought out, then someone who has the opposing view replies and all hell breaks loose, of you disagree to such an extent don't reply because that person is so irrelevant to your view it shouldn't matter.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Hmmm interesting,do pray tell what's the reason you're on here?

I'm just getting a fit of giggles for some reason

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm sensing that your sexually frustrated and your taking your frustrations out on every female that ever existed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude!

I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets.

They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete.

If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us.

But guys get bad rep for it.

I always reply to every msg. I even reply to the gay guys asking to suck my cock with a polite reply.

So do women and couples ........ lost count how many forum threads I've seen like this one slagging women off just like your doing

The guys are fighting back lol

No longer will we be called timeasters! No longer will we be treated with discontent! No longer will be be shown a total lack of respect! Haha

Your not fat it's just that your pocket sized

I'm comfortable

"
Yeah you are, you sexy pocket rocket xXx

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By *ornylittlesubWoman over a year ago

Grangemouth

so funny coming from you "

Not sure you would know "the truth" if it slapped ya in the face....and if it didn't..I WOULD!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That post cracked me up, if I was you I'd put your tin hat on.

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

so funny coming from you

Not sure you would know "the truth" if it slapped ya in the face....and if it didn't..I WOULD!

Is that me or him?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude!

I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets.

They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete.

If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us.

But guys get bad rep for it.

I always reply to every msg. I even reply to the gay guys asking to suck my cock with a polite reply.

So do women and couples ........ lost count how many forum threads I've seen like this one slagging women off just like your doing

The guys are fighting back lol

No longer will we be called timeasters! No longer will we be treated with discontent! No longer will be be shown a total lack of respect! Haha

Your not fat it's just that your pocket sized

I'm comfortable

Yeah you are, you sexy pocket rocket xXx"

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By *ornylittlesubWoman over a year ago

Grangemouth

so funny coming from you

Not sure you would know "the truth" if it slapped ya in the face....and if it didn't..I WOULD!

Is that me or him? "

HIM!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I had a fem 2 week ago msg for meet. We exchanged pics and had chat and decided to meet. She then didn't reply to me. I thought oh ok I'll leave it.

Following week she msgs me asking for meet. I reply politely that you binned me off when we arranged meet so not sure. She talks me into it then goes off fab for 2 days so no meet again.

I msgd her fridsy asking does she want to meet or leave it as don't want my timewasting. She says meet me Sunday at 11am (todsy). I'll msg you Saturday with my adress.

Sunday morning comes and noting. I msg her and she reads but no reply. I then msg her nicley telling her " you have let me down now 3 times so I don't want to meet anymore so plz don't msg me again as it's not funny now".

Her reply " your a fucking timewaster. People like you give fab a bad name. You think your to good for me don't ya? Your fucking blocked" haha

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

so funny coming from you

Not sure you would know "the truth" if it slapped ya in the face....and if it didn't..I WOULD!

Is that me or him?

HIM!

I guessed so

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Oh and she also called me a juice head lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Responses on threads like these make me awfully glad that all of my filters are up so that nobody can complain about not getting replies from me.

My friends know I'm a bit shit at replying anyway.

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I had a fem 2 week ago msg for meet. We exchanged pics and had chat and decided to meet. She then didn't reply to me. I thought oh ok I'll leave it.

Following week she msgs me asking for meet. I reply politely that you binned me off when we arranged meet so not sure. She talks me into it then goes off fab for 2 days so no meet again.

I msgd her fridsy asking does she want to meet or leave it as don't want my timewasting. She says meet me Sunday at 11am (todsy). I'll msg you Saturday with my adress.

Her reply " your a fucking timewaster. People like you give fab a bad name. You think your to good for me don't ya? Your fucking blocked" haha "

She sounds like a nightmare. But you shouldn't have given her so many chances!

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By *oiluvfunMan over a year ago

Penrith

"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude!

I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets.

They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete.

If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us. "

Probably 30% of the 'women' you message are blokes with a fake profile, and if you didn't send a cock pic for him to whack off to, he will just delete your message. The genuine women are just swamped with messages, and if you don't tick all their boxes, there will be literally hundreds who do, so she will be just waaaaaaay too busy to reply. Facts of Fab life mate

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"I had a fem 2 week ago msg for meet. We exchanged pics and had chat and decided to meet. She then didn't reply to me. I thought oh ok I'll leave it.

Following week she msgs me asking for meet. I reply politely that you binned me off when we arranged meet so not sure. She talks me into it then goes off fab for 2 days so no meet again.

I msgd her fridsy asking does she want to meet or leave it as don't want my timewasting. She says meet me Sunday at 11am (todsy). I'll msg you Saturday with my adress.

Her reply " your a fucking timewaster. People like you give fab a bad name. You think your to good for me don't ya? Your fucking blocked" haha "

Yeah very strange behaviour indeed,don't know what too suggest really. Some people just attract the fruitloops I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had a fem 2 week ago msg for meet. We exchanged pics and had chat and decided to meet. She then didn't reply to me. I thought oh ok I'll leave it.

Following week she msgs me asking for meet. I reply politely that you binned me off when we arranged meet so not sure. She talks me into it then goes off fab for 2 days so no meet again.

I msgd her fridsy asking does she want to meet or leave it as don't want my timewasting. She says meet me Sunday at 11am (todsy). I'll msg you Saturday with my adress.

Her reply " your a fucking timewaster. People like you give fab a bad name. You think your to good for me don't ya? Your fucking blocked" haha "

She said that?? Maybe

she needs to look in the mirror.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Oh and she also called me a juice head lol "

Ok what's a juice head,is it a bad thing?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had a fem 2 week ago msg for meet. We exchanged pics and had chat and decided to meet. She then didn't reply to me. I thought oh ok I'll leave it.

Following week she msgs me asking for meet. I reply politely that you binned me off when we arranged meet so not sure. She talks me into it then goes off fab for 2 days so no meet again.

I msgd her fridsy asking does she want to meet or leave it as don't want my timewasting. She says meet me Sunday at 11am (todsy). I'll msg you Saturday with my adress.

Her reply " your a fucking timewaster. People like you give fab a bad name. You think your to good for me don't ya? Your fucking blocked" haha "

I think you should be glad you didn't meet up, she sounds like a complete nutter!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh and she also called me a juice head lol

Ok what's a juice head,is it a bad thing?

Yeah what's a juice head ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude!

I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets.

They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete.

If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us. "

define timewasters OP as for me timewasters are those who you chat and chat to, then perhaps move on to whats app, exchange pics then chat on the phone ...eventually you decide that yes, this is the person you want to meet and so arrange a date and get all excited as the day gets nearer and nearer, all the while firmly believing that he wants the same too...and then the day comes and you get to where you arranged to meet and you wait...and wait...and wait...and finally realise that the f*cker isn't coming

that's a timewaster IMO, not someone who doesn't respond to a message because you aren't what they are looking for....

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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so what, that's what NSA is, not having to explain yourself to anyone and not even having to reply to their messages.

tough shit.

you want NSA you got it from all angles as far as i'm concerned and the more men that accept that the better.

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

OP, you do realise 'all these females' who've let you down on meets are fake profiles, actually men, dont you?

MrB

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP, you do realise 'all these females' who've let you down on meets are fake profiles, actually men, dont you?

MrB"

I've been on here 7yrs, I'm not stupid. We spoke on phone and face time

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Oh and she also called me a juice head lol

Ok what's a juice head,is it a bad thing?

Yeah what's a juice head ?

Someone on steroids

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had a fem 2 week ago msg for meet. We exchanged pics and had chat and decided to meet. She then didn't reply to me. I thought oh ok I'll leave it.

Following week she msgs me asking for meet. I reply politely that you binned me off when we arranged meet so not sure. She talks me into it then goes off fab for 2 days so no meet again.

I msgd her fridsy asking does she want to meet or leave it as don't want my timewasting. She says meet me Sunday at 11am (todsy). I'll msg you Saturday with my adress.

Her reply " your a fucking timewaster. People like you give fab a bad name. You think your to good for me don't ya? Your fucking blocked" haha

I think you should be glad you didn't meet up, she sounds like a complete nutter!

"
i would of deleted and blocked after the first incident

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh and she also called me a juice head lol

Ok what's a juice head,is it a bad thing?

Yeah what's a juice head ?

Someone on steroids "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude!

I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets.

They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete.

If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us.

that's a timewaster IMO, not someone who doesn't respond to a message because you aren't what they are looking for....

Timewaster is pretty easy to define. It's someone who wastes your time

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Oh and she also called me a juice head lol

Ok what's a juice head,is it a bad thing?

Yeah what's a juice head ?

Someone on steroids

Somebody who looks after himself, eats a good healthy diet, trains 5 times a week and trains very hard is often defined as a juice head lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude!

I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets.

They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete.

If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us.

that's a timewaster IMO, not someone who doesn't respond to a message because you aren't what they are looking for....

Timewaster is pretty easy to define. It's someone who wastes your time "

I would say you waste your own time! Either that or your bloody naïve if you think chatting is time wasting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

it must e difficult for some to be turned down for a meet, then decide to label them a time waster as they do not fancy or want to meet you

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple over a year ago

Leeds

Our profile currently states that we're taking a brake. It's very clear and not impolite. Yet we still get messages from guys asking if we want to "meet now". So, we're guessing they've not taken the time to read our profile, and if they have they're blatantly ignorant of our wishes.

We don't see why we should give our time to someone who isn't prepared to give a few moments of their time to us. On the other hand, we do reply to polite, well thought out messages which don't contain a plethora of cock pics and egotistical rubbish.

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"Oh and she also called me a juice head lol

Ok what's a juice head,is it a bad thing?

Yeah what's a juice head ?

Someone on steroids

Somebody who looks after himself, eats a good healthy diet, trains 5 times a week and trains very hard is often defined as a juice head lol "

Not condoning her calling you a juice head but how could she know from a pic it's from pure dedication and not steroid assistance?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Oh and she also called me a juice head lol

Ok what's a juice head,is it a bad thing?

Yeah what's a juice head ?

Someone on steroids

Somebody who looks after himself, eats a good healthy diet, trains 5 times a week and trains very hard is often defined as a juice head lol

Not condoning her calling you a juice head but how could she know from a pic it's from pure dedication and not steroid assistance?

Why assume? Why even mention ?

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude!

I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets.

They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete.

If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us.

that's a timewaster IMO, not someone who doesn't respond to a message because you aren't what they are looking for....

Timewaster is pretty easy to define. It's someone who wastes your time "

Does every single conversation you have, have to result in a fuck then?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Our profile currently states that we're taking a brake. It's very clear and not impolite. Yet we still get messages from guys asking if we want to "meet now". So, we're guessing they've not taken the time to read our profile, and if they have they're blatantly ignorant of our wishes.

"
can you clarify what a break is, they might of thought a T break

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"it must e difficult for some to be turned down for a meet, then decide to label them a time waster as they do not fancy or want to meet you"

Yes it is, especially when she asked me 3 times to meet.

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

"OP, you do realise 'all these females' who've let you down on meets are fake profiles, actually men, dont you?

MrB

I've been on here 7yrs, I'm not stupid. We spoke on phone and face time "

Well something is wrong. I cant comment on your profile, but genuine women will check out a profiles public pics and content before replying.

The replies and let downs are 90% sure to be fakes.

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"Oh and she also called me a juice head lol

Ok what's a juice head,is it a bad thing?

Yeah what's a juice head ?

Someone on steroids

Somebody who looks after himself, eats a good healthy diet, trains 5 times a week and trains very hard is often defined as a juice head lol

Not condoning her calling you a juice head but how could she know from a pic it's from pure dedication and not steroid assistance?

Why assume? Why even mention ? "

Because "she" was but heart but if your that well defined it's an easy insult and logical to pull out

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By *louWoman over a year ago

Sheffield

Same, on more then one occasion! I replied to thank them for the compliment on my photo, and politely let them know I wasn't interested in what they wanted. I then got abuse telling me I was fat and ugly!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Same, on more then one occasion! I replied to thank them for the compliment on my photo, and politely let them know I wasn't interested in what they wanted. I then got abuse telling me I was fat and ugly!

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you look pretty hot to me and many others on here

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman over a year ago

your imagination

Sorry you got a bad wrap (no idea what a jesus fem is ~ are they toasted?)... Maybe try a ciabatta next time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Haha, that has no truth in it at all, it's actually YOUR situation!

*they type as they look around their empty houses, shaking with rage*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ooooooh just getting the popcorn out as this going to be a good watch now lol"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You look great! But replies like that do put us off replying no thx, it's easier to just delete unwanted messages

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your language is very telling poor ol single guys not getting sex from over sexed fems...

If you change your preconceived views of women, just wipe the slate clean and imagine fems/women are just like you, aka individuals who want to enjoy life and all the good stuff it has to offer.

Then start approaching them in the way you'd like to be and if someone doesn't respond the way you want them to, it means you're not meant to interact as it probably won't be fun... and move on to the next lovely person that takes your fancy... No one owes anyone anything in life, this is a good thing as everyone apart from subs want to be free

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude!

I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets.

They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete.

If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us.

But guys get bad rep for it.

I always reply to every msg. I even reply to the gay guys asking to suck my cock with a polite reply."

Do you get over 100 messages a day? I ain't got time to reply to them all

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By *rincess peachWoman over a year ago

shits creek

"Most of the guys on here don't have pics or just a dick pic and they mostly bother to read profiles and I've got patience for it

Quite clear about that in profile

I always read a profile before I msg. "

Ok, so you may do.

I lose messages every day as I've not managed to get down to them within the time frame before they just get binned by the site itself. So, instead of blaming the ladies for being ignorant, blame the pricks who don't read profiles and fill our inboxes full of "wuu2" messages

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That won't go down well.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Always one tosser

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is why my filters are now up high I would get loads and been here years and don't feel like doing mail everyday I don't like being rude so I put in my profile.

That some good advice. Thank you. I will see if I can up my filters!

Just take men off your 'looking for' list. It takes you off their searches and cuts the mail right down. Put men back on your looking for when you're happy to get mail.

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Sorry you feel that way, but for someone who says they've been on and off Fab for 7 years you seem not to understand how the site works.

No reply or a delete is accepted as a way to say no. Please refer to FAQS.

A timewaster to me is someone who actually arranges a meet but then doesn't turn up.

Not a problem we've had, but some are better at picking out the dodgy profiles than others.

Maybe you could just do clubs... no guarantee of a shag but no time wasters.

Nita

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan over a year ago

Coventry

That is just the nature of supply and demand sexual market on fab.

Although I am not sure about women being time wasters on Fab, at least not in terms once talking and meets. Out of many meets I have been let down once. She was someone I met before and basically stopped swinging and came off fab for personal reasons. Ones that as a working single parent I fully understood.

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By *antasycouple31Couple over a year ago

Between Pontarddulias and Gorseinon

So many people will message us clearly having not read our page. If they won't read that why should we read theirs!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude!

I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets.

They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete.

If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us.

"
Here we go again is their not the slightest possibility that some women are the cocks? I'm not saying they are I'm saying theirs the slightest possibility! From experience I know their are and loads and some really awful ones. There maybe a few blokes with fake profiles but not as high percentage as that. I know women get swamped with messages and some are genuinely lovely and worth being a part of your life but on the other hand just like men some aren't. Please don't reply, that's my opinion and it won't change.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm gonna blame men for this.

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By *essThePirateWoman over a year ago

Bristol

I don't regard this place as any different to match.com ,badoo, pof, guys wanting sex for free

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude!

I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets.

They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete.

If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us.

Here we go again is their not the slightest possibility that some women are the cocks? I'm not saying they are I'm saying theirs the slightest possibility! From experience I know their are and loads and some really awful ones. There maybe a few blokes with fake profiles but not as high percentage as that. I know women get swamped with messages and some are genuinely lovely and worth being a part of your life but on the other hand just like men some aren't. Please don't reply, that's my opinion and it won't change."

From what I have heard, and read, on here, cocks is putting it nicely.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't regard this place as any different to match.com ,badoo, pof, guys wanting sex for free"

I'm not paying for it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me all I want is chance to meet with a person because when I meet someone they get to meet the real me and from there it's never gone badly, it's very hard to tell what someones really like from here and that's really a problem here, it's just a shame I'm afraid but I just accept it for what it is, shit. It's shit mate get over it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think success on here comes down to temperament and attitude, how you conduct yourself and treat other people. I do often wonder why people who post stuff like this actually stay on here but hey ho.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What I'd do for a hoisin duck "wrap"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By * kiss like morphineMan over a year ago

The gravelly bit next to the shed

In between visits i have actually posed as a fake female profile with an outrageous clearly fake picture, just to see what its like from the other side and believe me its horrible just the worse feeding frenzy going.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude!

I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets.

They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete.

If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us.

From what I have heard, and read, on here, cocks is putting it nicely. "
Thank you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Guys do not get bad wrap its just that the women married or single are very picky people which is the downside because there are lot of nice guys out there wanting to have fun and friendship

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think there's good and bad everywhere regardless of gender it's how we deal with it is that matters !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't regard this place as any different to match.com ,badoo, pof, guys wanting sex for free

I'm not paying for it.

"
Lol I didn't even get the gist of that are they implying prostitution is the norm?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That won't go down well.

It made me spit my wine out with a chortle

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"I learnt very quickly after i joined OP that women on here are swamped with messages after seeing it for myself via a female friend.

I since stopped messaging first and now wait for them to find me, at least i know their actually interested and its doing me ok on here and plus gets rid of stressing out over it.

Chill buddy its not worth it.

High Fives that man

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

a small few spoil it for the majority

same in the forums

i find i get meets with men and women easily, not all from here

i find the time wasters are the couples where only the guy can meet and they have verifications

or the single guy who has lost out and thinks i will jump at the chance of a meet

best thing on this site is delete and block

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan over a year ago

Coventry

"What I'd do for a hoisin duck "wrap"

If only Tesco's would sell them singly. Not sure if I would be willing to go to the expense of buying a double or triple pack.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"a small few spoil it for the majority

same in the forums

i find i get meets with men and women easily, not all from here

i find the time wasters are the couples where only the guy can meet and they have verifications

or the single guy who has lost out and thinks i will jump at the chance of a meet

best thing on this site is delete and block"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I learnt very quickly after i joined OP that women on here are swamped with messages after seeing it for myself via a female friend.

I since stopped messaging first and now wait for them to find me, at least i know their actually interested and its doing me ok on here and plus gets rid of stressing out over it.

Chill buddy its not worth it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

#notallmen are sex crazed idiots that treat women like free prostitutes.

#notallwomen are egotistical bitches that tease men to boost their self confidence.

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

""Haha, that has no truth in it at all, it's actually YOUR situation!

*they type as they look around their empty houses, shaking with rage*"

I've got the arms of a lovely male forumutie wrapped around me that also lol when he read your comment

Best you stop with the assumptions

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"#notallmen are sex crazed idiots that treat women like free prostitutes.

#notallwomen are egotistical bitches that tease men to boost their self confidence. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"#notallmen are sex crazed idiots that treat women like free prostitutes.

#notallwomen are egotistical bitches that tease men to boost their self confidence. "

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I learnt very quickly after i joined OP that women on here are swamped with messages after seeing it for myself via a female friend.

I since stopped messaging first and now wait for them to find me, at least i know their actually interested and its doing me ok on here and plus gets rid of stressing out over it.

Chill buddy its not worth it.

Nicest thing I've seen you say without a snide remark

and I agree on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I may be part of a couple but the amount of single guys who have messaged and yet i've always replied - even if to politely say 'no thank you', i agree there are women who are ignorant, rude and timewasters as i've had the pleasure of these, if its good enough for a woman to do this- well they should'nt slate a male for doing the same. for doing the same. Loz.

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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"#notallmen are sex crazed idiots that treat women like free prostitutes.

#notallwomen are egotistical bitches that tease men to boost their self confidence. "

#crywankers

was actually surprised to see my catchphrase on the forums until i seen who posted it.

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

Ah but was that just your defensive attitude as a insecure woman speaking?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" ,,, said the same myself... totaly agree and i'm a woman

You are able to look at it objectively and recognise it as truth, because you have a partner/husband.

Notice all of the outraged responses came from single women?

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

" ,,, said the same myself... totaly agree and i'm a woman

You are able to look at it objectively and recognise it as truth, because you have a partner/husband.

Notice all of the outraged responses came from single women?

Again with the assumptions

How do you know we're all actually single

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ah but was that just your defensive attitude as a insecure woman speaking? "
Why would i be insecure when in a great relationship?? And no im not being defensive- i actualy tbink some women use the fact they are female and just like to give males bad press when don't get their own way,, if a woman just wants chit chat then go on facebook,,.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" ,,, said the same myself... totaly agree and i'm a woman

You are able to look at it objectively and recognise it as truth, because you have a partner/husband.

Notice all of the outraged responses came from single women?

Again with the assumptions

How do you know we're all actually single

In real life I have an extremely sexy bedroom partner. He found me and we are still doing our thing, 7 years later.

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

Ah but was that just your defensive attitude as a insecure woman speaking? Why would i be insecure when in a great relationship?? And no im not being defensive- i actualy tbink some women use the fact they are female and just like to give males bad press when don't get their own way,, if a woman just wants chit chat then go on facebook,,."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" ,,, said the same myself... totaly agree and i'm a woman

You are able to look at it objectively and recognise it as truth, because you have a partner/husband.

Notice all of the outraged responses came from single women?

"
not all the single female profiles and not all the single male profiles are single in away from fab

it would be rather naive to assume so

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"#notallmen are sex crazed idiots that treat women like free prostitutes.

#notallwomen are egotistical bitches that tease men to boost their self confidence.

#crywankers

was actually surprised to see my catchphrase on the forums until i seen who posted it.

I should've credited it to you.

#crywanking

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a rude girl

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple over a year ago

London

"#notallmen are sex crazed idiots that treat women like free prostitutes.

#notallwomen are egotistical bitches that tease men to boost their self confidence. "

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple over a year ago

London

#peoplewhowhinearenotsexy

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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"#notallmen are sex crazed idiots that treat women like free prostitutes.

#notallwomen are egotistical bitches that tease men to boost their self confidence.

#crywankers

was actually surprised to see my catchphrase on the forums until i seen who posted it.

I should've credited it to you.

#crywanking"

lol, just i liked seeing it in the forums and not me posting it for a change.

#gonnacrywanklater

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Funny as that last sentence actually sounded quite defensive, afterall who are you to tell people that they belong on Facebook? Smacks of the stereotypical ego he was referring too as well as the superiority complex that generally stops bi fems from interacting with couples "
I said if they just want chit chat then go on facebook- not they belong? And i've not mentioned bi-fems, i'm speaking of women in general, plus lets just sit back and think tbis is about women not replying/wasting time etc- single women say their biggest reason for not replying etc is no time, but yet you all have time to respond here?? Thats a little contradiction don't you think??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You are able to look at it objectively and recognise it as truth, because you have a partner/husband.

Notice all of the outraged responses came from single women?

Where's the outrage??!!! Lol... people get very dramatic when they become frustrated

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

Funny as that last sentence actually sounded quite defensive, afterall who are you to tell people that they belong on Facebook? Smacks of the stereotypical ego he was referring too as well as the superiority complex that generally stops bi fems from interacting with couples I said if they just want chit chat then go on facebook- not they belong? And i've not mentioned bi-fems, i'm speaking of women in general, plus lets just sit back and think tbis is about women not replying/wasting time etc- single women say their biggest reason for not replying etc is no time, but yet you all have time to respond here?? Thats a little contradiction don't you think?? "

Congratulations on not getting defensive again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" ,,, said the same myself... totaly agree and i'm a woman

You are able to look at it objectively and recognise it as truth, because you have a partner/husband.

Notice all of the outraged responses came from single women?

I'm sure if I did a post lumping all single men on here as sad fucks who have no idea how to talk to women in the real world and who think their cock is the best thing about them that I'd get mainly outraged responses from single men and rightly so.

If you attack a particular group it's pretty obvious they are going to be the ones to respond the most

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Funny as that last sentence actually sounded quite defensive, afterall who are you to tell people that they belong on Facebook? Smacks of the stereotypical ego he was referring too as well as the superiority complex that generally stops bi fems from interacting with couples I said if they just want chit chat then go on facebook- not they belong? And i've not mentioned bi-fems, i'm speaking of women in general, plus lets just sit back and think tbis is about women not replying/wasting time etc- single women say their biggest reason for not replying etc is no time, but yet you all have time to respond here?? Thats a little contradiction don't you think?? "

None of us are fucking or looking to shag men or are replying to messages from single guys atm so we're free to do what we want lol

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

" ,,, said the same myself... totaly agree and i'm a woman

You are able to look at it objectively and recognise it as truth, because you have a partner/husband.

Notice all of the outraged responses came from single women?

If you attack a particular group it's pretty obvious they are going to be the ones to respond the most

And hypocritically enough he does just that on every thread about a guy being a knob

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" ,,, said the same myself... totaly agree and i'm a woman

You are able to look at it objectively and recognise it as truth, because you have a partner/husband.

Notice all of the outraged responses came from single women?

If you attack a particular group it's pretty obvious they are going to be the ones to respond the most

Spot on!... Also personally I've read all the female comments and 99% are helpful imo, they're not outraged, or rude.. they're informative and show that people on fab are more than willing to give advice.

If a woman in a club/pub/the street doesn't want to talk to you why the heck should she be obliged to on a digital platform when it's obvious you're not exactly want to be friends first before popping your cock inside her?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Funny as that last sentence actually sounded quite defensive, afterall who are you to tell people that they belong on Facebook? Smacks of the stereotypical ego he was referring too as well as the superiority complex that generally stops bi fems from interacting with couples I said if they just want chit chat then go on facebook- not they belong? And i've not mentioned bi-fems, i'm speaking of women in general, plus lets just sit back and think tbis is about women not replying/wasting time etc- single women say their biggest reason for not replying etc is no time, but yet you all have time to respond here?? Thats a little contradiction don't you think??

Congratulations on not getting defensive again

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Defensive??? Oh i see thats because i've mentioned the no time to reply- but time to respond on here? Thats not defensive hun, i think its called stating a fact.

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

Funny as that last sentence actually sounded quite defensive, afterall who are you to tell people that they belong on Facebook? Smacks of the stereotypical ego he was referring too as well as the superiority complex that generally stops bi fems from interacting with couples I said if they just want chit chat then go on facebook- not they belong? And i've not mentioned bi-fems, i'm speaking of women in general, plus lets just sit back and think tbis is about women not replying/wasting time etc- single women say their biggest reason for not replying etc is no time, but yet you all have time to respond here?? Thats a little contradiction don't you think??

Congratulations on not getting defensive again

Defensive??? Oh i see thats because i've mentioned the no time to reply- but time to respond on here? Thats not defensive hun, i think its called stating a fact."

Ok if you say so

Congratulations again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" ,,, said the same myself... totaly agree and i'm a woman

You are able to look at it objectively and recognise it as truth, because you have a partner/husband.

Notice all of the outraged responses came from single women?

If you attack a particular group it's pretty obvious they are going to be the ones to respond the most

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" ,,, said the same myself... totaly agree and i'm a woman

You are able to look at it objectively and recognise it as truth, because you have a partner/husband.

Notice all of the outraged responses came from single women?

If you attack a particular group it's pretty obvious they are going to be the ones to respond the most

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Funny as that last sentence actually sounded quite defensive, afterall who are you to tell people that they belong on Facebook? Smacks of the stereotypical ego he was referring too as well as the superiority complex that generally stops bi fems from interacting with couples I said if they just want chit chat then go on facebook- not they belong? And i've not mentioned bi-fems, i'm speaking of women in general, plus lets just sit back and think tbis is about women not replying/wasting time etc- single women say their biggest reason for not replying etc is no time, but yet you all have time to respond here?? Thats a little contradiction don't you think?? "

No, it's about how we choose to spend that time. Sending lots of rejections and dealing with that or choosing to be on the fora instead. One feels like drudgery and the other doesn't (all the time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Funny as that last sentence actually sounded quite defensive, afterall who are you to tell people that they belong on Facebook? Smacks of the stereotypical ego he was referring too as well as the superiority complex that generally stops bi fems from interacting with couples I said if they just want chit chat then go on facebook- not they belong? And i've not mentioned bi-fems, i'm speaking of women in general, plus lets just sit back and think tbis is about women not replying/wasting time etc- single women say their biggest reason for not replying etc is no time, but yet you all have time to respond here?? Thats a little contradiction don't you think??

Congratulations on not getting defensive again

Defensive??? Oh i see thats because i've mentioned the no time to reply- but time to respond on here? Thats not defensive hun, i think its called stating a fact.

Ok if you say so

Congratulations again

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Thank you

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

omg men stop whinging about getting no replies, look at the shit that happens every time you do.

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

Funny as that last sentence actually sounded quite defensive, afterall who are you to tell people that they belong on Facebook? Smacks of the stereotypical ego he was referring too as well as the superiority complex that generally stops bi fems from interacting with couples I said if they just want chit chat then go on facebook- not they belong? And i've not mentioned bi-fems, i'm speaking of women in general, plus lets just sit back and think tbis is about women not replying/wasting time etc- single women say their biggest reason for not replying etc is no time, but yet you all have time to respond here?? Thats a little contradiction don't you think??

No, it's about how we choose to spend that time. Sending lots of rejections and dealing with that or choosing to be on the fora instead. One feels like drudgery and the other doesn't (all the time

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That and out of the 129 messages current in my inbox it's clear from the first line alone that 125 haven't even attempted to read my profile, 2 looked like they may have then on reading they clearly hadn't, then the other two had clearly read it and just choose to ignore the fact they're the type of person I've said I'd rather not meet with the phrase "I know I'm not what you looking/not you type but ......"

At least one the forums people read before engaging in conversations

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Unless the op is bisexual and communicating with men and women, he can't really make his own comparison.

With a sample size of one, if he was bisexual and able to compare how both men and women treat him, it would still be too small of a sample size to be meaningful.

If the site doesn't suit you with 7 years experience, it's surely madness to remain here and whine.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Unless the op is bisexual and communicating with men and women, he can't really make his own comparison.

With a sample size of one, if he was bisexual and able to compare how both men and women treat him, it would still be too small of a sample size to be meaningful.

If the site doesn't suit you with 7 years experience, it's surely madness to remain here and whine. "

Of course it's madness,but some people are just whiney f*cks and enjoy having a right good moan. It's what happens when some people can't get sex,they turn all bitter and nasty because women won't drop their knickers for them

On a side note it's clear that some men really despise woman. Not talking about the op.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Whats a "jesus fem"?

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By *ookingforlustMan over a year ago

northants

"Women get swamped with msgs so dont got time to reply lol."

That's no excuse!! I got swamped with messages yesterday but I found the time to reply to both of them.......

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Women get swamped with msgs so dont got time to reply lol.

That's no excuse!! I got swamped with messages yesterday but I found the time to reply to both of them......."

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By *ookingforlustMan over a year ago

northants

"Whats a "jesus fem"?

A female with a beard?

A female with a cross to bear?

Oooh got it! A female born on Christmas Day.....

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Whats a "jesus fem"?

A female with a beard?

A female with a cross to bear?

Oooh got it! A female born on Christmas Day....."

We need more men like you on here,you make up for the miserable moaning f*ckers!

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude!

I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets.

They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete.

If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us.

Wow. Just wow. I get what your saying pal, but in fairness, it they already are ignorant with you then, do you think they give a shite after that rant? "

Yup, this.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Whats a "jesus fem"?

A woman born out of lack of punctuation....

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

I reply to every message, even the cringe ones and if I'm going to block them I tell them I will and the reason why so they can learn from it.

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"Unless the op is bisexual and communicating with men and women, he can't really make his own comparison.

With a sample size of one, if he was bisexual and able to compare how both men and women treat him, it would still be too small of a sample size to be meaningful.

If the site doesn't suit you with 7 years experience, it's surely madness to remain here and whine. "

Haha and THIS!!

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By *ookingforlustMan over a year ago

northants

"Whats a "jesus fem"?

A female with a beard?

A female with a cross to bear?

Oooh got it! A female born on Christmas Day.....

We need more men like you on here,you make up for the miserable moaning f*ckers!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude!

I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets.

They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete.

If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us. "

Three possible reasons:

1. They aren't really female.

2. Like some males, they suddenly get nervous and back out.

3. They can do whatever they want.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The ones I talk to always seem to be really nice.

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By *im and her 2017Couple over a year ago

birmingham

Never had a problem meeting single guys but single women geez a law unto themselfs so think we are giving up on finding one that actually turns up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I must have been really lucky because in almost 5 years I've managed to avoid all the rude, ignorant timewasters.

*shrugs*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm an equal opportunities type person.

I think there are wankers of all gender, ethnicity, sexuality and disability statuses. Therefore I agree - yep some ladies can be just as bad as some fellas. But I prefer their boobies!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm in tears reading all this woe

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

"I'm in tears reading all this woe

If it helps to console you I have pics of boobies on my profile

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By *phroditeWoman over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I'm an equal opportunities type person.

I think there are wankers of all gender, ethnicity, sexuality and disability statuses. Therefore I agree - yep some ladies can be just as bad as some fellas. But I prefer their boobies! "

I concur (minus the boobies as I am straight

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This post is harsh. Maybe a little too harsh. But I definitely think there is some element of truth to it. I have noticed that a big part of Fab is about feeling wanted rather than simply sex. Of course you're going to be berated for it...but I have heard it from women on here actually quite a few times.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Been on and off here for 7yrs and single guys always get bad wrap on here but jesus fems are 10 times worse for being timewasters, ignorant and rude!

I've lost count over last few months how many fems have let me down for meets.

They don't even have the decency to reply to msgs with a "no thanks" or a simple hi. They just delete.

If a guy acts if these fems do, they want to stone us.

Indeed. I have always believed there is an intense amount of gynocentrism in the swinging/dating world. Its a shame because it doesnt do the men nor the women any good. I think its what happens when you have a male population bombarded with sexual imagery and yet never taught how to properly engage with the opposite sex...you get this bizarre sycophancy.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

Change "all" to "some" and it's a

from me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone keeps referring to 'single women' on this site, I think we all need reminding a large portion of those are men hiding behind a 'single women' profile! As a bi female that messages men and women I'd say it's quite a high percentage too x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Everyone keeps referring to 'single women' on this site, I think we all need reminding a large portion of those are men hiding behind a 'single women' profile! As a bi female that messages men and women I'd say it's quite a high percentage too x "

No. No they're not. Stop using this lame excuse. These days, one can spot a fake female profile a mile off. Besides many of this garbage attitudes have come from those with verified profiles too. Are those ones also part of the Fab conspiracy?? The fact that many of you cant contend with the fact that there are plenty of women here with terrible attitudes does nothing but further confirm that the OP is probably 100% correct. When people seem to take radically different approaches to identical topics made by different genders and then go on to play mental gymnastics...its easy to see why plenty on here get away with rubbish behavior.

But then I think this is the modern delusion that many (and by absolutely no means all) women have fallen for. Interestingly enough I think those on Fab forums suffer less from it...but there is definitely a strong pungent sense of entitlement due to the pressure place on each other to "spread their seed".

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fuck, you're good. I utterly agree with you. If I were still using fab for sex, I'd be having a long hard look at myself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" The fact that many of you cant contend with the fact that there are plenty of women here with terrible attitudes does nothing but further confirm that the OP is probably 100% correct. When people seem to take radically different approaches to identical topics made by different genders and then go on to play mental gymnastics...its easy to see why plenty on here get away with rubbish behavior.

I associate women's behaviour on here with the 'too much too soon' analogy that I use with young footballers...

As I mentioned in my previous post, the vast majority of single women on here are not used to male interest/attention - just as a working class 18 year old kid from a council estate is more vunerable to sudden millionaire status going to his head when he becomes a footballer, than say, an F1 driver who comes from a rich family anyway - a woman who has never experienced being desired suddenly getting 100's of compliments from men is also more vunerable to that going to her head than a woman who is used to receiving it in the outside world.

Just a theory.

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"I'm an equal opportunities type person.

I think there are wankers of all gender, ethnicity, sexuality and disability statuses. Therefore I agree - yep some ladies can be just as bad as some fellas."

I've experienced wankiness from all genders (you can read examples of it through out the thread!) but I really don't equate people being rude with not replying to messages - different opinions and all that.

If something is causing you so much irritation and you don't have to do it, stop doing it surely? That seems like the logical thing to do.

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