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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all fabbers,
I have a meet planned with a guy the week after next that has been a long time in the planning/build up.
We've been communicating for months as he has been working out of the UK... we have had a social meet previously but it was short.
This meet will be a full meet with us spending the eve together.
This guy is extremely special and I am really keen to make a good impression.
With all of the build-up, I am so nervous and worried that I won't live-up to expectations or something.
Any tips for dealing with extreme nerves prior to/during the meet?
If I am nervous, I tend to be jumpy and awkward and my stomach gets a little bad (mostly nausea!)
Any help would be appreciated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just do all the things you've been wanting to do. Take some clean pants, toothbrush, tooth paste, mouth wash and some snacks and drinks, deodrant, perfume and some mints. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do what I do. Panic and decide you should just be friends.   "
Lol..... I fancy the pants off him (literally!!!!) and neither of us want to be just friends!!
I worry that I will be so nervous that I will be crap or something though!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all fabbers,
I have a meet planned with a guy the week after next that has been a long time in the planning/build up.
We've been communicating for months as he has been working out of the UK... we have had a social meet previously but it was short.
This meet will be a full meet with us spending the eve together.
This guy is extremely special and I am really keen to make a good impression.
With all of the build-up, I am so nervous and worried that I won't live-up to expectations or something.
Any tips for dealing with extreme nerves prior to/during the meet?
If I am nervous, I tend to be jumpy and awkward and my stomach gets a little bad (mostly nausea!)
Any help would be appreciated. "
Imagine how he is feeling. For me just enjoy the evening and each others company. If you become intimate then so be it but it's not what your both after its obvious it's more then just carnal pleasure. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just do all the things you've been wanting to do. Take some clean pants, toothbrush, tooth paste, mouth wash and some snacks and drinks, deodrant, perfume and some mints. "
He is coming to my house!!!! |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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Stop thinking about it.
Get a jigsaw puzzle or colouring book and do those instead.
Then just remember you are seeing someone you have already met socially and this is just another social. Nothing is set in stone and nothing happens until you are both ready.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do what I do. Panic and decide you should just be friends.
Lol..... I fancy the pants off him (literally!!!!) and neither of us want to be just friends!!
I worry that I will be so nervous that I will be crap or something though!! "
Mine is a first meet so I don't have the security of knowing if we fancy each other in person.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just don't show him your sex tape thats been passed around work.
But seriously you're be fine and you never know something more might come of it so good luck OP and fingers crossed it goes well. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do what I do. Panic and decide you should just be friends.
Lol..... I fancy the pants off him (literally!!!!) and neither of us want to be just friends!!
I worry that I will be so nervous that I will be crap or something though!!
Mine is a first meet so I don't have the security of knowing if we fancy each other in person. "
Awww I am sure that you will have tons of chemistry and if there isn't, like you say, You have made a great new friend.
Whatever happens it's win-win! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just do all the things you've been wanting to do. Take some clean pants, toothbrush, tooth paste, mouth wash and some snacks and drinks, deodrant, perfume and some mints.
He is coming to my house!!!! "
If he's coming to your house that's even easier. Don't drink anything fizzy the day before or on the day. Drink lots of water, eat some fresh fruits the day before and on the day. Get all your farts out before he comes over. Have something baking in the oven, just chuck some of those part bakes rolls in the oven for that nice bready smell. Clean bedding, wash all your woodwork down, doors, skirting boards. Mop your floors with zaflora and add a tiny bit of fabric softener.
Watch a DVD so it's nice and chilled. Put some shorts on and some knee high socks and bend over in front of him a lot. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just don't show him your sex tape thats been passed around work.
But seriously you're be fine and you never know something more might come of it so good luck OP and fingers crossed it goes well. "
He knows everything, we have no secrets.
I don't think the video is any of your business or your place to refer to it in a separate thread however.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just do all the things you've been wanting to do. Take some clean pants, toothbrush, tooth paste, mouth wash and some snacks and drinks, deodrant, perfume and some mints.
He is coming to my house!!!!
If he's coming to your house that's even easier. Don't drink anything fizzy the day before or on the day. Drink lots of water, eat some fresh fruits the day before and on the day. Get all your farts out before he comes over. Have something baking in the oven, just chuck some of those part bakes rolls in the oven for that nice bready smell. Clean bedding, wash all your woodwork down, doors, skirting boards. Mop your floors with zaflora and add a tiny bit of fabric softener.
Watch a DVD so it's nice and chilled. Put some shorts on and some knee high socks and bend over in front of him a lot. "
Great advice....thank you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just don't show him your sex tape thats been passed around work.
But seriously you're be fine and you never know something more might come of it so good luck OP and fingers crossed it goes well.
He knows everything, we have no secrets.
I don't think the video is any of your business or your place to refer to it in a separate thread however.
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Still no more humble i see.
I didn't make it.
I leave you to your thread and wish you well. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just don't show him your sex tape thats been passed around work.
But seriously you're be fine and you never know something more might come of it so good luck OP and fingers crossed it goes well.
He knows everything, we have no secrets.
I don't think the video is any of your business or your place to refer to it in a separate thread however.
Still no more humble i see.
I didn't make it.
I leave you to your thread and wish you well. "
Still no less obtuse.
No you didn't....never get the opportunity no matter how much you wish you could.
The guy I am meeting is a gorgeous, genuine person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just don't show him your sex tape thats been passed around work.
But seriously you're be fine and you never know something more might come of it so good luck OP and fingers crossed it goes well.
He knows everything, we have no secrets.
I don't think the video is any of your business or your place to refer to it in a separate thread however.
Still no more humble i see.
I didn't make it.
I leave you to your thread and wish you well.
Still no less obtuse.
No you didn't....never get the opportunity no matter how much you wish you could.
The guy I am meeting is a gorgeous, genuine person. "
I'm sure he have a lot of fun with you. |
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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago
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do you see those things in the distance? all the way over there.... the hills.... run fast, where takes care of itself, the important part is run!
all joking aside, dont stress about it. when you start getting ready for him, just focus on getting ready and having a chilled evening, if anything happens its an added bonus. stop putting pressure on yourself, because I can tell you now he is having the same worries and concerns you are having
just focus on enjoying the night and everything else will just fall into place as and when it does |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Rip his clothes off when he gets to the door - no more nerves lol! xx"
I am really hoping that this will be the case and we'll want one another so much that we won't want to wait!!
The biggest prob with this is he will have been traveling for almost 24 hours, 3 flights from the other side of the world and he will be exhausted and want to freshen up? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sounds like another anti climax thread then.
Why not have a date when his jet lag has worn off and he at least knows whats going on fully.?"
Inclined to agree, and regardless, don't bother washing down your doors  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sounds like another anti climax thread then.
Why not have a date when his jet lag has worn off and he at least knows whats going on fully.?"
Oh I can assure you that he is incredibly astute, intelligent and articulate and he knows exactly what is happening!
I think that it's you that is a little confused.....anti-climax....i don't think so! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sounds like another anti climax thread then.
Why not have a date when his jet lag has worn off and he at least knows whats going on fully.?
Oh I can assure you that he is incredibly astute, intelligent and articulate and he knows exactly what is happening!
I think that it's you that is a little confused.....anti-climax....i don't think so! "
He wasn't having a dig he was saying that he will be a bit disorientated from travelling for 24 hours. Jet lag has nothing to do with how intelligent a person is.
My advice if he's gonna be all sleepy and sweaty from travelling. Give him a nice bath and a coffee, if you don't have a machine the nicest instant coffee I find is Nescafé Alta Rica. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sounds like another anti climax thread then.
Why not have a date when his jet lag has worn off and he at least knows whats going on fully.?
Inclined to agree, and regardless, don't bother washing down your doors "
My doors are clean lol....all of them!!!!
It's just convenient and we've waited long enough to meet. I am on his way home from the airport so it seems like a good time and we don't want to wait any longer. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sounds like another anti climax thread then.
Why not have a date when his jet lag has worn off and he at least knows whats going on fully.?
Oh I can assure you that he is incredibly astute, intelligent and articulate and he knows exactly what is happening!
I think that it's you that is a little confused.....anti-climax....i don't think so!
He wasn't having a dig he was saying that he will be a bit disorientated from travelling for 24 hours. Jet lag has nothing to do with how intelligent a person is.
My advice if he's gonna be all sleepy and sweaty from travelling. Give him a nice bath and a coffee, if you don't have a machine the nicest instant coffee I find is Nescafé Alta Rica. "
The poster is always having a dig. He is a nuisance to myself and other forum users as evidenced by a post just the other day.
Great advice though thank you. He is a big fan of coffee so I'll get some good quality filter coffee or some pods for the machine. |
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"Just do all the things you've been wanting to do. Take some clean pants, toothbrush, tooth paste, mouth wash and some snacks and drinks, deodrant, perfume and some mints.
He is coming to my house!!!!
If he's coming to your house that's even easier. Don't drink anything fizzy the day before or on the day. Drink lots of water, eat some fresh fruits the day before and on the day. Get all your farts out before he comes over. Have something baking in the oven, just chuck some of those part bakes rolls in the oven for that nice bready smell. Clean bedding, wash all your woodwork down, doors, skirting boards. Mop your floors with zaflora and add a tiny bit of fabric softener.
Watch a DVD so it's nice and chilled. Put some shorts on and some knee high socks and bend over in front of him a lot. "
'Get all your farts out before he comes' - hhmmm that's so ladylike.....let them rip lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Rip his clothes off when he gets to the door - no more nerves lol! xx
I am really hoping that this will be the case and we'll want one another so much that we won't want to wait!!
The biggest prob with this is he will have been traveling for almost 24 hours, 3 flights from the other side of the world and he will be exhausted and want to freshen up? "
I would rip your clothes off if I were him xx |
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"Sounds like another anti climax thread then.
Why not have a date when his jet lag has worn off and he at least knows whats going on fully.?"
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Dude! Do you have to be like that? You can come across as a bit of a dick all the time with OP, if you have issues or history, grow a pair and get over it or keep it off her posts! Really no need for it!
Good luck OP I'm sure you'll be fine on the night!
AJ  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sounds like another anti climax thread then.
Why not have a date when his jet lag has worn off and he at least knows whats going on fully.?.
Dude! Do you have to be like that? You can come across as a bit of a dick all the time with OP, if you have issues or history, grow a pair and get over it or keep it off her posts! Really no need for it!
Good luck OP I'm sure you'll be fine on the night!
AJ "
Please enlighten me you seem to know more then me.?
OP has issue with me i have none with her and hope it works out and she get's over her paranoia of my banter and lightens up.
Its been fun. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sounds like another anti climax thread then.
Why not have a date when his jet lag has worn off and he at least knows whats going on fully.?.
Dude! Do you have to be like that? You can come across as a bit of a dick all the time with OP, if you have issues or history, grow a pair and get over it or keep it off her posts! Really no need for it!
Good luck OP I'm sure you'll be fine on the night!
AJ "
Thank you so much AJ
Your support is appreciated.
A few other people complained about him on a thread the other day. It was taken down unfortunately.
I think that he is a little sad and likes to stir to be honest! |
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"Sounds like another anti climax thread then.
Why not have a date when his jet lag has worn off and he at least knows whats going on fully.?.
Dude! Do you have to be like that? You can come across as a bit of a dick all the time with OP, if you have issues or history, grow a pair and get over it or keep it off her posts! Really no need for it!
Good luck OP I'm sure you'll be fine on the night!
AJ
Please enlighten me you seem to know more then me.?
OP has issue with me i have none with her and hope it works out and she get's over her paranoia of my banter and lightens up.
Its been fun. "
I don't know hence I said "if you have issues or history" just I've seen a few of your posts on her threads and it don't read as 'Banter' she obviously doesn't like it if it is so why carry it on?
Aj |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Tip for extreme nerves? Work out where the issue is and change it. I always have nerves but nothing major. I'd be worried if I felt really nervous. That's a warning sign for me that things aren't right. If you're the nervous type though, you must have developed strategies for dealing with nerves? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Tip for extreme nerves? Work out where the issue is and change it. I always have nerves but nothing major. I'd be worried if I felt really nervous. That's a warning sign for me that things aren't right. If you're the nervous type though, you must have developed strategies for dealing with nerves? "
I think that on this occasion it's because I really like the guy and I am keen to impress!!
The expectations are so high after such a long build up and loads of communication. I just want it to be perfect and I am putting too much pressure on myself! |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Tip for extreme nerves? Work out where the issue is and change it. I always have nerves but nothing major. I'd be worried if I felt really nervous. That's a warning sign for me that things aren't right. If you're the nervous type though, you must have developed strategies for dealing with nerves?
I think that on this occasion it's because I really like the guy and I am keen to impress!!
The expectations are so high after such a long build up and loads of communication. I just want it to be perfect and I am putting too much pressure on myself! "
I think you're putting too much pressure on yourself too, relax and enjoy when the time comes.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just seen this thread, now feel invested and want to know how it goes (not the ins and out as it were but whether it went well etc.)
Deep breath, go with the flow, remember he is probably just as nervous. Hope it goes well for you both, fingers crossed. |
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"Hi all fabbers,
I have a meet planned with a guy the week after next that has been a long time in the planning/build up.
We've been communicating for months as he has been working out of the UK... we have had a social meet previously but it was short.
This meet will be a full meet with us spending the eve together.
This guy is extremely special and I am really keen to make a good impression.
With all of the build-up, I am so nervous and worried that I won't live-up to expectations or something.
Any tips for dealing with extreme nerves prior to/during the meet?
If I am nervous, I tend to be jumpy and awkward and my stomach gets a little bad (mostly nausea!)
Any help would be appreciated. "
Damn it I want to feel like that again,when I feel like that I know I really like them . Chances are he's feeling the same,just go with it and enjoy! |
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I had a meet a while back where a woman broke all her own rules about staying overnight and committed herself to staying over..we had never met previously..It was evident she was nervous so we had a snack and just mellowed over a few drinks..as the evening went on and laughter flowed all the nerves she had evaporated and what came next was just so natural..
I would plan to cook a light meal, nothing too heavy with a nice bottle or two..after youve eaten and chatted hopefully you will be much more at ease and what follows will be without the nerves.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sounds like another anti climax thread then.
Why not have a date when his jet lag has worn off and he at least knows whats going on fully.?.
Dude! Do you have to be like that? You can come across as a bit of a dick all the time with OP, if you have issues or history, grow a pair and get over it or keep it off her posts! Really no need for it!
Good luck OP I'm sure you'll be fine on the night!
AJ
Thank you so much AJ
Your support is appreciated.
A few other people complained about him on a thread the other day. It was taken down unfortunately.
I think that he is a little sad and likes to stir to be honest!"
it best to ignore the comments that upset you, not ideal as it should not happen but if they are ignored eventually they may stop..
i wish you all the best with what you decide for the meet op and deep breaths all will go well |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I had a meet a while back where a woman broke all her own rules about staying overnight and committed herself to staying over..we had never met previously..It was evident she was nervous so we had a snack and just mellowed over a few drinks..as the evening went on and laughter flowed all the nerves she had evaporated and what came next was just so natural..
I would plan to cook a light meal, nothing too heavy with a nice bottle or two..after youve eaten and chatted hopefully you will be much more at ease and what follows will be without the nerves.."
Unfortunately he doesn't drink alcohol and he won't be arriving until late (11pm) due to flight times. |
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"Op maybe visit the place a day ot 2 before if thats possible if its a social meet it may help relax you more"
He is coming to my house. It is not a social meet, there has been a long build-up and we both want one another. |
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"Op maybe visit the place a day ot 2 before if thats possible if its a social meet it may help relax you more
He is coming to my house. It is not a social meet, there has been a long build-up and we both want one another."
maybe try some light music beforehand to help you relax, he will be nervous too but once you both get to enjoy each others company nerves will disapear, xx |
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Blimey,some advice sounds like a military campaign.
No false pretences,you are who you are. Just be yourself,then if you click (by the sound of it,fingers crossed you do) you have no false pretences to live up to. Therefore no let downs in the future.
Wishing you all the best OP |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Op maybe visit the place a day ot 2 before if thats possible if its a social meet it may help relax you more
He is coming to my house. It is not a social meet, there has been a long build-up and we both want one another."
It all sounds very exciting, especially as you both want each other. Sounds like you will be absolutely fine |
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"How does the idea of a mmf 3some with 2 guys 1 black and 1 white sound to you cuz we both have an insatiable appetite and uncontrollable urge to do unspeakable things to you girl Damn Grrrrrr "
Thank you so much for the offer, but I am afraid I have to decline on this occasion. Flattering though, thank you. X |
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"Just do all the things you've been wanting to do. Take some clean pants, toothbrush, tooth paste, mouth wash and some snacks and drinks, deodrant, perfume and some mints.
He is coming to my house!!!! "
Oh dear.. Your up shit creek then!  |
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"Hi all fabbers,
I have a meet planned with a guy the week after next that has been a long time in the planning/build up.
We've been communicating for months as he has been working out of the UK... we have had a social meet previously but it was short.
This meet will be a full meet with us spending the eve together.
This guy is extremely special and I am really keen to make a good impression.
With all of the build-up, I am so nervous and worried that I won't live-up to expectations or something.
Any tips for dealing with extreme nerves prior to/during the meet?
If I am nervous, I tend to be jumpy and awkward and my stomach gets a little bad (mostly nausea!)
Any help would be appreciated. "
Don't set your expectations of yourself to high and just relax and importantly be yourself |
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"Just do all the things you've been wanting to do. Take some clean pants, toothbrush, tooth paste, mouth wash and some snacks and drinks, deodrant, perfume and some mints.
He is coming to my house!!!!
Oh dear.. Your up shit creek then! "
Or go to a club and get gangbanged in the meantime.. Take your mind off the meet |
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"Hi all fabbers,
I have a meet planned with a guy the week after next that has been a long time in the planning/build up.
We've been communicating for months as he has been working out of the UK... we have had a social meet previously but it was short.
This meet will be a full meet with us spending the eve together.
This guy is extremely special and I am really keen to make a good impression.
With all of the build-up, I am so nervous and worried that I won't live-up to expectations or something.
Any tips for dealing with extreme nerves prior to/during the meet?
If I am nervous, I tend to be jumpy and awkward and my stomach gets a little bad (mostly nausea!)
Any help would be appreciated.
Don't set your expectations of yourself to high and just relax and importantly be yourself"
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"Just do all the things you've been wanting to do. Take some clean pants, toothbrush, tooth paste, mouth wash and some snacks and drinks, deodrant, perfume and some mints.
He is coming to my house!!!!
Oh dear.. Your up shit creek then!
Or go to a club and get gangbanged in the meantime.. Take your mind off the meet "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just do all the things you've been wanting to do. Take some clean pants, toothbrush, tooth paste, mouth wash and some snacks and drinks, deodrant, perfume and some mints.
He is coming to my house!!!!
Oh dear.. Your up shit creek then!
Or go to a club and get gangbanged in the meantime.. Take your mind off the meet "
Never been to a club and definitely never been gangbanged.....not sure it's for me tbh. He is going to be enough for me I can assure you!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Aww bless. That's very sweet. I get really nervous too. I would just get prepared as best you can. Long scented bath. Then get ready slowly. Indulging yourself. It will make you feel like you are looking and feeling your best. Also tell him you are nervous. In my experience, men have found that endearing. It will also help him understand why you may be a little flighty when you meet him. My guess is, as soon as you meet him, everything will fall into place and you will have a truly lovely time. You have already formed a bond with each other, which is a great start. Keeping my fingers crossed that you have an amazing time OP . |
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"Aww bless. That's very sweet. I get really nervous too. I would just get prepared as best you can. Long scented bath. Then get ready slowly. Indulging yourself. It will make you feel like you are looking and feeling your best. Also tell him you are nervous. In my experience, men have found that endearing. It will also help him understand why you may be a little flighty when you meet him. My guess is, as soon as you meet him, everything will fall into place and you will have a truly lovely time. You have already formed a bond with each other, which is a great start. Keeping my fingers crossed that you have an amazing time OP ."
Awww what a lovely post DarkAngel, Thank you.
I have told him that I am nervous, he is too bless him.....i don't know why....i have told him that I don't bite.... just suck (hard!!!)
Ekkkkkkkk it's just over a week and at last we will be meeting.
Nervous, but also getting very excited now!!! 
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"Tip for extreme nerves? Work out where the issue is and change it. I always have nerves but nothing major. I'd be worried if I felt really nervous. That's a warning sign for me that things aren't right. If you're the nervous type though, you must have developed strategies for dealing with nerves?
I think that on this occasion it's because I really like the guy and I am keen to impress!!
The expectations are so high after such a long build up and loads of communication. I just want it to be perfect
and I am putting too much pressure on myself!
Excuse my confusion but I was under the impression that Fab is a sex site not a dating site. You meet, you have nsa fun of whatever variety suits everyone involved, you enjoy...
If he is on here too then hope he's not reading all this. He'll either be a no show or he'll propose!!
I do wish you all the best but it sounds like you're too obsessed with the whole thing to be able to relax and enjoy the moment for what it is.
Happy swinging!!
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"Tip for extreme nerves? Work out where the issue is and change it. I always have nerves but nothing major. I'd be worried if I felt really nervous. That's a warning sign for me that things aren't right. If you're the nervous type though, you must have developed strategies for dealing with nerves?
I think that on this occasion it's because I really like the guy and I am keen to impress!!
The expectations are so high after such a long build up and loads of communication. I just want it to be perfect
and I am putting too much pressure on myself!
Excuse my confusion but I was under the impression that Fab is a sex site not a dating site. You meet, you have nsa fun of whatever variety suits everyone involved, you enjoy...
If he is on here too then hope he's not reading all this. He'll either be a no show or he'll propose!!
I do wish you all the best but it sounds like you're too obsessed with the whole thing to be able to relax and enjoy the moment for what it is.
Happy swinging!!
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I think that you are confused to be honest. I think that people can take from the site whatever they want from it.
This site has never been about meaningless sex or hook ups for me. I find those sort of meets a little seedy to be honest.
I would also like to add that there are plenty of people/couples on here that have met on the website and been together years!!
We have been communicating a while and we have met briefly previously, so we know that we want one another. More importantly though, we've built and amazing connection and friendship. We trust one another,and we both know exactly where we stand.
He was on here, isn't any longer and as for a no show, no chance, he is driving straight from the airport!! As for proposing...... no chance (unfortunately!!!!) |
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"Ekkkkkkkkkkkkkkk..... only 6 days to go (And counting!) Nervous as hell and excited at the same time!! "
I have just read the thread and I am excited for you. I hope it goes well. I feel if he is nervous too you will both be fine. Just enjoy the time and good luck. |
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"Ekkkkkkkkkkkkkkk..... only 6 days to go (And counting!) Nervous as hell and excited at the same time!!
I have just read the thread and I am excited for you. I hope it goes well. I feel if he is nervous too you will both be fine. Just enjoy the time and good luck."
Yes he is nervous as well. Thank you for your kind comments. |
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"Tip for extreme nerves? Work out where the issue is and change it. I always have nerves but nothing major. I'd be worried if I felt really nervous. That's a warning sign for me that things aren't right. If you're the nervous type though, you must have developed strategies for dealing with nerves?
I think that on this occasion it's because I really like the guy and I am keen to impress!!
The expectations are so high after such a long build up and loads of communication. I just want it to be perfect
and I am putting too much pressure on myself!
Excuse my confusion but I was under the impression that Fab is a sex site not a dating site. You meet, you have nsa fun of whatever variety suits everyone involved, you enjoy...
If he is on here too then hope he's not reading all this. He'll either be a no show or he'll propose!!
I do wish you all the best but it sounds like you're too obsessed with the whole thing to be able to relax and enjoy the moment for what it is.
Happy swinging!!
I think that you are confused to be honest. I think that people can take from the site whatever they want from it.
This site has never been about meaningless sex or hook ups for me. I find those sort of meets a little seedy to be honest.
I would also like to add that there are plenty of people/couples on here that have met on the website and been together years!!
We have been communicating a while and we have met briefly previously, so we know that we want one another. More importantly though, we've built and amazing connection and friendship. We trust one another,and we both know exactly where we stand.
He was on here, isn't any longer and as for a no show, no chance, he is driving straight from the airport!! As for proposing...... no chance (unfortunately!!!!) "
Maybe neither of us is confused! It takes all sorts to make a world.
Sounds like you have nothing to be nervous of if you have such a solid relationship already.
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"Ekkkkkkkkkkkkkkk..... only 6 days to go (And counting!) Nervous as hell and excited at the same time!!
I have just read the thread and I am excited for you. I hope it goes well. I feel if he is nervous too you will both be fine. Just enjoy the time and good luck.
Yes he is nervous as well. Thank you for your kind comments. "
I am sure all will be fine. Enjoy it honey xx |
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"Hi all fabbers,
I have a meet planned with a guy the week after next that has been a long time in the planning/build up.
We've been communicating for months as he has been working out of the UK... we have had a social meet previously but it was short.
This meet will be a full meet with us spending the eve together.
This guy is extremely special and I am really keen to make a good impression.
With all of the build-up, I am so nervous and worried that I won't live-up to expectations or something.
Any tips for dealing with extreme nerves prior to/during the meet?
If I am nervous, I tend to be jumpy and awkward and my stomach gets a little bad (mostly nausea!)
Any help would be appreciated. "
just relax , after all if youve never met him you might not even fancy him , just be yourself x |
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"Hi all fabbers,
I have a meet planned with a guy the week after next that has been a long time in the planning/build up.
We've been communicating for months as he has been working out of the UK... we have had a social meet previously but it was short.
This meet will be a full meet with us spending the eve together.
This guy is extremely special and I am really keen to make a good impression.
With all of the build-up, I am so nervous and worried that I won't live-up to expectations or something.
Any tips for dealing with extreme nerves prior to/during the meet?
If I am nervous, I tend to be jumpy and awkward and my stomach gets a little bad (mostly nausea!)
Any help would be appreciated.
just relax , after all if youve never met him you might not even fancy him , just be yourself x "
I am sure OP said she has met him previously. |
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"Hi all fabbers,
I have a meet planned with a guy the week after next that has been a long time in the planning/build up.
We've been communicating for months as he has been working out of the UK... we have had a social meet previously but it was short.
This meet will be a full meet with us spending the eve together.
This guy is extremely special and I am really keen to make a good impression.
With all of the build-up, I am so nervous and worried that I won't live-up to expectations or something.
Any tips for dealing with extreme nerves prior to/during the meet?
If I am nervous, I tend to be jumpy and awkward and my stomach gets a little bad (mostly nausea!)
Any help would be appreciated.
just relax , after all if youve never met him you might not even fancy him , just be yourself x
I am sure OP said she has met him previously. "
Yes we have met previously and I seriously fancy the arse off him!!!
Hell.....i am not kidding.....wow he turns me on SO freaking much.
I get soaked just thinking about him!!!!
Thank you to all who have offered advice and best wishes |
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over a year ago
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"How many times have you met previously and is it more build up this time round than before?"
Yes definitely. We started taking just prior to him going to work away last time. We met for a quick social last time, just prior to him driving to the airport.
Hes been away ages and this is the first opportunity we've had to meet so extremely exciting.
We have been communicating for months. |
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2 bottles of rose or red wine and you's will be away with the fairies, then it wont matter you'll see. I used to get like that. The problem is the first girl i ever kissed and ended up being my gf after school, none of us ever made the first move we were both to shy, So we ended up just being friends.shes married to someone now. If only i came out my shell then it may have worked out. My point being just go with the flow and enjoy! |
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"2 bottles of rose or red wine and you's will be away with the fairies, then it wont matter you'll see. I used to get like that. The problem is the first girl i ever kissed and ended up being my gf after school, none of us ever made the first move we were both to shy, So we ended up just being friends.shes married to someone now. If only i came out my shell then it may have worked out. My point being just go with the flow and enjoy!"
The prob being is he doesn't drink alcohol.....and due to flight times he won't be arriving until late eve. Plus he will be very tired due to a long travelling time.
I dont want to drink too much because I want to be on 'top form' and not tipsey or silly!!
I want to make the most of it and totally enjoy without the need for booze.
Although I think I will have a small glass to take the edge off the nerves! |
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"2 bottles of rose or red wine and you's will be away with the fairies, then it wont matter you'll see. I used to get like that. The problem is the first girl i ever kissed and ended up being my gf after school, none of us ever made the first move we were both to shy, So we ended up just being friends.shes married to someone now. If only i came out my shell then it may have worked out. My point being just go with the flow and enjoy!
The prob being is he doesn't drink alcohol.....and due to flight times he won't be arriving until late eve. Plus he will be very tired due to a long travelling time.
I dont want to drink too much because I want to be on 'top form' and not tipsey or silly!!
I want to make the most of it and totally enjoy without the need for booze.
Although I think I will have a small glass to take the edge off the nerves! "
Just have a glass. Offer him a nice meal. A coffee perhaps and chill tv chat. Sleep. Wake up and i guarantee he will be on form too! |
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Tell him how nervous u r ! He probably feels the same then u can maybe both put each other at ease? Then if u both want to c each other again ur both on the same page? And genuinely the best of luck as theres nothing better in the world than love |
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"How many times have you met previously and is it more build up this time round than before?
Yes definitely. We started taking just prior to him going to work away last time. We met for a quick social last time, just prior to him driving to the airport.
Hes been away ages and this is the first opportunity we've had to meet so extremely exciting.
We have been communicating for months."
Aww good luck. You'll have a brill time! |
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"How many times have you met previously and is it more build up this time round than before?
Yes definitely. We started taking just prior to him going to work away last time. We met for a quick social last time, just prior to him driving to the airport.
Hes been away ages and this is the first opportunity we've had to meet so extremely exciting.
We have been communicating for months.
Aww good luck. You'll have a brill time!"
Yes me and ms Wilkes always get nervous dont we? Hahaha |
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OMG......now it's just two days and my stomach is already going a little crazy!! Nevermind butterflies, I think that I have a swarm of bees and locusts in there!!!!!
I am trying to keep busy today cleaning the house from top to bottom and food shopping etc!! (Not working in distracting me though!!!) |
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over a year ago
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"OMG......now it's just two days and my stomach is already going a little crazy!! Nevermind butterflies, I think that I have a swarm of bees and locusts in there!!!!!
I am trying to keep busy today cleaning the house from top to bottom and food shopping etc!! (Not working in distracting me though!!!) "
You'll have a fantastic time together! |
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"Yes stop stressing over it it's not worth it.
Ohhhhhhh he is SO worth It!!!! (Though it would be great if my damn stomach would calm a little!!!) "
Anyone happen to have a time machine handy please??!
Fast forward to 28th July....... |
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"Rip his clothes off when he gets to the door - no more nerves lol! xx
I am really hoping that this will be the case and we'll want one another so much that we won't want to wait!!
The biggest prob with this is he will have been traveling for almost 24 hours, 3 flights from the other side of the world and he will be exhausted and want to freshen up? "
Shower together!? |
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"Rip his clothes off when he gets to the door - no more nerves lol! xx
I am really hoping that this will be the case and we'll want one another so much that we won't want to wait!!
The biggest prob with this is he will have been traveling for almost 24 hours, 3 flights from the other side of the world and he will be exhausted and want to freshen up?
Shower together!?"
That's what I am planning.....in fact I thought I would offer him a shower, show him the bathroom and then sneak in and take him in my mouth!!!!!! |
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"What you gonna wear? "
That's the difficulty that I am having at the moment!! I thought that I would either open the door in peephole leather effect suspender Basque with stockings and heels (all black) and nothing else or my nice deep purple dress with a low neckline (With beads around) which is to the knee...with the above Basque underneath. I usually wear this dress with black heels. It is sleeveless and is a sort of fine chiffon material.
I also thought that maybe I would change into my sexy Secretary look at some point (he has had photos and loves this look) This is a very short pencil type skirt and a white blouse which I leave undone
...along with the fake black glasses!!
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"What you gonna wear?
That's the difficulty that I am having at the moment!! I thought that I would either open the door in peephole leather effect suspender Basque with stockings and heels (all black) and nothing else or my nice deep purple dress with a low neckline (With beads around) which is to the knee...with the above Basque underneath. I usually wear this dress with black heels. It is sleeveless and is a sort of fine chiffon material.
I also thought that maybe I would change into my sexy Secretary look at some point (he has had photos and loves this look) This is a very short pencil type skirt and a white blouse which I leave undone
...along with the fake black glasses!!
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I dunno I'm gonna be in the same situation as you a week Saturday had one meet which was short due to time but this would be a full night at his.
I don't have any sexy outfits or underwear or nothing!
I think for you, anything you wear is going to turn him on if he's been away for ages and not had sex. Try loads of stuff on in the mirror and go with whatever you feel best in.
Do a sexiest female outfit thread and see what the male concensus is (I can take a read as well!) |
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"I dunno I'm gonna be in the same situation as you a week Saturday had one meet which was short due to time but this would be a full night at his.
I don't have any sexy outfits or underwear or nothing!
I think for you, anything you wear is going to turn him on if he's been away for ages and not had sex. Try loads of stuff on in the mirror and go with whatever you feel best in.
Do a sexiest female outfit thread and see what the male concensus is (I can take a read as well!)"
That is such a good idea!!!!
I am sure that you will have an amazing time with your guy too.
There are some gorgeous sexy stuff on eBay or lovehoney..... if on eBay though don't buy anything from China or Hong Kong because it is cheap, flimsy and sized wrong.
Primark also do some lovely suspender and bodies or bra sets which are lovely and not expensive.
Hope that you have a great time.
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"I dunno I'm gonna be in the same situation as you a week Saturday had one meet which was short due to time but this would be a full night at his.
I don't have any sexy outfits or underwear or nothing!
I think for you, anything you wear is going to turn him on if he's been away for ages and not had sex. Try loads of stuff on in the mirror and go with whatever you feel best in.
Do a sexiest female outfit thread and see what the male concensus is (I can take a read as well!)
That is such a good idea!!!!
I am sure that you will have an amazing time with your guy too.
There are some gorgeous sexy stuff on eBay or lovehoney..... if on eBay though don't buy anything from China or Hong Kong because it is cheap, flimsy and sized wrong.
Primark also do some lovely suspender and bodies or bra sets which are lovely and not expensive.
Hope that you have a great time.
Thank you"
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"Just do all the things you've been wanting to do. Take some clean pants, toothbrush, tooth paste, mouth wash and some snacks and drinks, deodrant, perfume and some mints.
He is coming to my house!!!!
If he's coming to your house that's even easier. Don't drink anything fizzy the day before or on the day. Drink lots of water, eat some fresh fruits the day before and on the day. Get all your farts out before he comes over. Have something baking in the oven, just chuck some of those part bakes rolls in the oven for that nice bready smell. Clean bedding, wash all your woodwork down, doors, skirting boards. Mop your floors with zaflora and add a tiny bit of fabric softener.
Watch a DVD so it's nice and chilled. Put some shorts on and some knee high socks and bend over in front of him a lot.
'Get all your farts out before he comes' - hhmmm that's so ladylike.....let them rip lol. "
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"Hi all fabbers,
I have a meet planned with a guy the week after next that has been a long time in the planning/build up.
We've been communicating for months as he has been working out of the UK... we have had a social meet previously but it was short.
This meet will be a full meet with us spending the eve together.
This guy is extremely special and I am really keen to make a good impression.
With all of the build-up, I am so nervous and worried that I won't live-up to expectations or something.
Any tips for dealing with extreme nerves prior to/during the meet?
If I am nervous, I tend to be jumpy and awkward and my stomach gets a little bad (mostly nausea!)
Any help would be appreciated. "
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"Thing's go to plan?"
Ohhh they sooooooo much more than went to plan.....WOW, FUCK WOW!
He turned up a little late due to a hold up at the airport, but when he arrived, hell he grabbed me and kissed and kissed for ages.
I thought that I had died and gone to heaven....
Things this special don't happen to me!
The kisses alone blew me away, but trust me when I say that was the least of it..... He was amazing, so tactile, romantic and loving..... previously sex has been about the 'physical' or the mechanics if you know what I mean...... get it in, result, finish with a bit of foreplay thrown in...... this was a much, much deeper connection. Sort of hard to explain!!
Suffice to say that I think I have fallen for him big time!!
He just sent me a message saying thank you for a wonderful night, looking forward to the next!!!
Wow.....i am on cloud 9!!! |
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"Thing's go to plan?
Ohhh they sooooooo much more than went to plan.....WOW, FUCK WOW!
He turned up a little late due to a hold up at the airport, but when he arrived, hell he grabbed me and kissed and kissed for ages.
I thought that I had died and gone to heaven....
Things this special don't happen to me!
The kisses alone blew me away, but trust me when I say that was the least of it..... He was amazing, so tactile, romantic and loving..... previously sex has been about the 'physical' or the mechanics if you know what I mean...... get it in, result, finish with a bit of foreplay thrown in...... this was a much, much deeper connection. Sort of hard to explain!!
Suffice to say that I think I have fallen for him big time!!
He just sent me a message saying thank you for a wonderful night, looking forward to the next!!!
Wow.....i am on cloud 9!!! "
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"Sounds awesome babe i'm well jel.
So will be leaving fab now you bagged the man of your dreams and starting a relationship.?"
It was totally amazing. We'll see, undecided. |
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"Thing's go to plan?
Ohhh they sooooooo much more than went to plan.....WOW, FUCK WOW!
He turned up a little late due to a hold up at the airport, but when he arrived, hell he grabbed me and kissed and kissed for ages.
I thought that I had died and gone to heaven....
Things this special don't happen to me!
The kisses alone blew me away, but trust me when I say that was the least of it..... He was amazing, so tactile, romantic and loving..... previously sex has been about the 'physical' or the mechanics if you know what I mean...... get it in, result, finish with a bit of foreplay thrown in...... this was a much, much deeper connection. Sort of hard to explain!!
Suffice to say that I think I have fallen for him big time!!
He just sent me a message saying thank you for a wonderful night, looking forward to the next!!!
Wow.....i am on cloud 9!!! "
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over a year ago
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"Thing's go to plan?
Ohhh they sooooooo much more than went to plan.....WOW, FUCK WOW!
He turned up a little late due to a hold up at the airport, but when he arrived, hell he grabbed me and kissed and kissed for ages.
I thought that I had died and gone to heaven....
Things this special don't happen to me!
The kisses alone blew me away, but trust me when I say that was the least of it..... He was amazing, so tactile, romantic and loving..... previously sex has been about the 'physical' or the mechanics if you know what I mean...... get it in, result, finish with a bit of foreplay thrown in...... this was a much, much deeper connection. Sort of hard to explain
Suffice to say that I think I have fallen for him big time!!
He just sent me a message saying thank you for a wonderful night, looking forward to the next!!!
Wow.....i am on cloud 9!!! "
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"Sounds awesome babe i'm well jel.
So will be leaving fab now you bagged the man of your dreams and starting a relationship.?
It was totally amazing. We'll see, undecided. "
Well I guess if you're not about in a few weeks we know you are serious about him and wasn't just another flash in the pan.
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Right count to 10 and take a deep breath. Stop panicking!! Nerves are good as shows the type of person you are, you give a damn!
It's not just you who will be nervous, he will be too. Just be true to yourself and have fun. Don't do things you don't want to just to try and please him! Your home, your rules!!
Put all those nerves into getting your house cleaned and furniture arranged etc. Give yourself a good few hours to dress up and make a good impression, the wow factor where his jaw will drop haha. Cook something easy that you both like or get a takeaway in and have some bottles of wine ready or beer, whatever you both drink but not too much so can't enjoy or remember the evening hehe. Go girl! Have fun and have a fantastic night! Lucy xx |
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"Right count to 10 and take a deep breath. Stop panicking!! Nerves are good as shows the type of person you are, you give a damn!
It's not just you who will be nervous, he will be too. Just be true to yourself and have fun. Don't do things you don't want to just to try and please him! Your home, your rules!!
Put all those nerves into getting your house cleaned and furniture arranged etc. Give yourself a good few hours to dress up and make a good impression, the wow factor where his jaw will drop haha. Cook something easy that you both like or get a takeaway in and have some bottles of wine ready or beer, whatever you both drink but not too much so can't enjoy or remember the evening hehe. Go girl! Have fun and have a fantastic night! Lucy xx"
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"Right count to 10 and take a deep breath. Stop panicking!! Nerves are good as shows the type of person you are, you give a damn!
It's not just you who will be nervous, he will be too. Just be true to yourself and have fun. Don't do things you don't want to just to try and please him! Your home, your rules!!
Put all those nerves into getting your house cleaned and furniture arranged etc. Give yourself a good few hours to dress up and make a good impression, the wow factor where his jaw will drop haha. Cook something easy that you both like or get a takeaway in and have some bottles of wine ready or beer, whatever you both drink but not too much so can't enjoy or remember the evening hehe. Go girl! Have fun and have a fantastic night! Lucy xx"
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"Thing's go to plan?
Ohhh they sooooooo much more than went to plan.....WOW, FUCK WOW!
He turned up a little late due to a hold up at the airport, but when he arrived, hell he grabbed me and kissed and kissed for ages.
I thought that I had died and gone to heaven....
Things this special don't happen to me!
The kisses alone blew me away, but trust me when I say that was the least of it..... He was amazing, so tactile, romantic and loving..... previously sex has been about the 'physical' or the mechanics if you know what I mean...... get it in, result, finish with a bit of foreplay thrown in...... this was a much, much deeper connection. Sort of hard to explain!!
Suffice to say that I think I have fallen for him big time!!
He just sent me a message saying thank you for a wonderful night, looking forward to the next!!!
Wow.....i am on cloud 9!!! "
This is so full of win. I am delighted for you |
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"Hi all fabbers,
I have a meet planned with a guy the week after next that has been a long time in the planning/build up.
We've been communicating for months as he has been working out of the UK... we have had a social meet previously but it was short.
This meet will be a full meet with us spending the eve together.
This guy is extremely special and I am really keen to make a good impression.
With all of the build-up, I am so nervous and worried that I won't live-up to expectations or something.
Any tips for dealing with extreme nerves prior to/during the meet?
If I am nervous, I tend to be jumpy and awkward and my stomach gets a little bad (mostly nausea!)
Any help would be appreciated. "
Us guys don't pick up on a lot of things and a lot of us actually think a nervous shy acting girl is a good thing
No way will you not live up to his expectations as I don't think he'll have a list
You've met before and now you're meeting again so it's not a blind date
Relax, breath and enjoy |
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By *amissCouple
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"Hi all fabbers,
I have a meet planned with a guy the week after next that has been a long time in the planning/build up.
We've been communicating for months as he has been working out of the UK... we have had a social meet previously but it was short.
This meet will be a full meet with us spending the eve together.
This guy is extremely special and I am really keen to make a good impression.
With all of the build-up, I am so nervous and worried that I won't live-up to expectations or something.
Any tips for dealing with extreme nerves prior to/during the meet?
If I am nervous, I tend to be jumpy and awkward and my stomach gets a little bad (mostly nausea!)
Any help would be appreciated.
Us guys don't pick up on a lot of things and a lot of us actually think a nervous shy acting girl is a good thing
No way will you not live up to his expectations as I don't think he'll have a list
You've met before and now you're meeting again so it's not a blind date
Relax, breath and enjoy "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Right count to 10 and take a deep breath. Stop panicking!! Nerves are good as shows the type of person you are, you give a damn!
It's not just you who will be nervous, he will be too. Just be true to yourself and have fun. Don't do things you don't want to just to try and please him! Your home, your rules!!
Put all those nerves into getting your house cleaned and furniture arranged etc. Give yourself a good few hours to dress up and make a good impression, the wow factor where his jaw will drop haha. Cook something easy that you both like or get a takeaway in and have some bottles of wine ready or beer, whatever you both drink but not too much so can't enjoy or remember the evening hehe. Go girl! Have fun and have a fantastic night! Lucy xx
Hey please catch up.
Haven't you read the latest updates hes fucked her. "
No he didn't "fuck" me.....he made love to me passionately and lovingly!! |
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By *wcwCouple
over a year ago
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"Sounds like another anti climax thread then.
Why not have a date when his jet lag has worn off and he at least knows whats going on fully.?
Oh I can assure you that he is incredibly astute, intelligent and articulate and he knows exactly what is happening!????????
I think that it's you that is a little confused.....anti-climax....i don't think so! "
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
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"Thing's go to plan?
Ohhh they sooooooo much more than went to plan.....WOW, FUCK WOW!
He turned up a little late due to a hold up at the airport, but when he arrived, hell he grabbed me and kissed and kissed for ages.
I thought that I had died and gone to heaven....
Things this special don't happen to me!
The kisses alone blew me away, but trust me when I say that was the least of it..... He was amazing, so tactile, romantic and loving..... previously sex has been about the 'physical' or the mechanics if you know what I mean...... get it in, result, finish with a bit of foreplay thrown in...... this was a much, much deeper connection. Sort of hard to explain!!
Suffice to say that I think I have fallen for him big time!!
He just sent me a message saying thank you for a wonderful night, looking forward to the next!!!
Wow.....i am on cloud 9!!! "
Sounds fantastic! I'm glad it went as well as you hoped |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Right count to 10 and take a deep breath. Stop panicking!! Nerves are good as shows the type of person you are, you give a damn!
It's not just you who will be nervous, he will be too. Just be true to yourself and have fun. Don't do things you don't want to just to try and please him! Your home, your rules!!
Put all those nerves into getting your house cleaned and furniture arranged etc. Give yourself a good few hours to dress up and make a good impression, the wow factor where his jaw will drop haha. Cook something easy that you both like or get a takeaway in and have some bottles of wine ready or beer, whatever you both drink but not too much so can't enjoy or remember the evening hehe. Go girl! Have fun and have a fantastic night! Lucy xx
Hey please catch up.
Haven't you read the latest updates hes fucked her.
No he didn't "fuck" me.....he made love to me passionately and lovingly!! "
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"Thing's go to plan?
Ohhh they sooooooo much more than went to plan.....WOW, FUCK WOW!
He turned up a little late due to a hold up at the airport, but when he arrived, hell he grabbed me and kissed and kissed for ages.
I thought that I had died and gone to heaven....
Things this special don't happen to me!
The kisses alone blew me away, but trust me when I say that was the least of it..... He was amazing, so tactile, romantic and loving..... previously sex has been about the 'physical' or the mechanics if you know what I mean...... get it in, result, finish with a bit of foreplay thrown in...... this was a much, much deeper connection. Sort of hard to explain!!
Suffice to say that I think I have fallen for him big time!!
He just sent me a message saying thank you for a wonderful night, looking forward to the next!!!
Wow.....i am on cloud 9!!! "
It's great when things go so good glad everything went well for you so good to see your happy on cloud 9 have many more happy times |
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"Just do all the things you've been wanting to do. Take some clean pants, toothbrush, tooth paste, mouth wash and some snacks and drinks, deodrant, perfume and some mints.
He is coming to my house!!!!
If he's coming to your house that's even easier. Don't drink anything fizzy the day before or on the day. Drink lots of water, eat some fresh fruits the day before and on the day. Get all your farts out before he comes over. Have something baking in the oven, just chuck some of those part bakes rolls in the oven for that nice bready smell. Clean bedding, wash all your woodwork down, doors, skirting boards. Mop your floors with zaflora and add a tiny bit of fabric softener.
Watch a DVD so it's nice and chilled. Put some shorts on and some knee high socks and bend over in front of him a lot. "
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"Just do all the things you've been wanting to do. Take some clean pants, toothbrush, tooth paste, mouth wash and some snacks and drinks, deodrant, perfume and some mints.
He is coming to my house!!!!
If he's coming to your house that's even easier. Don't drink anything fizzy the day before or on the day. Drink lots of water, eat some fresh fruits the day before and on the day. Get all your farts out before he comes over. Have something baking in the oven, just chuck some of those part bakes rolls in the oven for that nice bready smell. Clean bedding, wash all your woodwork down, doors, skirting boards. Mop your floors with zaflora and add a tiny bit of fabric softener.
Watch a DVD so it's nice and chilled. Put some shorts on and some knee high socks and bend over in front of him a lot.
my kinda woman "
Was it the talk of cleaning?
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"Just do all the things you've been wanting to do. Take some clean pants, toothbrush, tooth paste, mouth wash and some snacks and drinks, deodrant, perfume and some mints.
He is coming to my house!!!!
If he's coming to your house that's even easier. Don't drink anything fizzy the day before or on the day. Drink lots of water, eat some fresh fruits the day before and on the day. Get all your farts out before he comes over. Have something baking in the oven, just chuck some of those part bakes rolls in the oven for that nice bready smell. Clean bedding, wash all your woodwork down, doors, skirting boards. Mop your floors with zaflora and add a tiny bit of fabric softener.
Watch a DVD so it's nice and chilled. Put some shorts on and some knee high socks and bend over in front of him a lot.
my kinda woman
Was it the talk of cleaning?
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You had me at Zoflora... |
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