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By *uzie69x OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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Am I falling for my "fuck buddy" and will it last...???
Yeah, I've known him for years! We've been in and out of relationships (separately) and currently we find ourselves single again and spending lots of time together. We recently went to Ibiza and we had a stonking time together.
Both his and my friends say we're good together and should become an item.
Since Ibiza, I've missed him when we're not together but...
I've come out of a seven year relationship with what I thought was the perfect guy for me... he was kind, considerate, seven-inch cock and can fuck for England...
My fuck buddy isn't anywhere as marvellous so I *think* I would get bored with him... but on the other hand if I allow myself to fall for him, he could be the one for me...? |
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By *uzie69x OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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"Umm just depends where his heads at I suppose? No point falling for him if he doesn't want the same thing.
Just enjoy each other's company. "
Haha... I tried to broach the subject by asking him how he feels about our situation... I got the bloke sock response... "I'm a bloke, I don't do feelings..." (roll eyes)... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Umm just depends where his heads at I suppose? No point falling for him if he doesn't want the same thing.
Just enjoy each other's company.
Haha... I tried to broach the subject by asking him how he feels about our situation... I got the bloke sock response... "I'm a bloke, I don't do feelings..." (roll eyes)..."
I don't buy into that. Just cos he's a bloke doesn't mean he can't have feelings.
You can't have a boring bloke either anything he won't do whilst he's awake you just do to him when he's sleeping. |
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By *uzie69x OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Maidstone |
"If he isnt *anywhere as marvelous as the previous bloke he isnt the one is he?
Best not go into it with feelings of negatiity.  "
Not "negativity" as such, but we've all had the love-of
our-life and lost him/her. How do you get over that? |
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By *uzie69x OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Maidstone |
"You've already said you think you'd get bored with him so that's probably not a good start "
Believe me hun, I've even done a "pros" and "cons" list for him...and while "potential" to get bored with him, he has many, many other great qualities...
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By *uzie69x OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Maidstone |
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I don't buy into that. Just cos he's a bloke doesn't mean he can't have feelings.
You can't have a boring bloke either anything he won't do whilst he's awake you just do to him when he's sleeping. "
Yeah... I went shopping with one of his friend (wife of a good couple friend of his)... she said.. "fuck that, if it were my husband who said that, I'd slap him..!" ... lol...
Mmmm... what would I do to him whilst he is sleeping??? |
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By *uzie69x OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Maidstone |
"I give it 2 weeks max."
Yeah... I've know couples who have co-habitated for years...and the minute they got married, the relationship broke down...
So why do you think our friendship would break-down if we were to be an item??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't buy into that. Just cos he's a bloke doesn't mean he can't have feelings.
You can't have a boring bloke either anything he won't do whilst he's awake you just do to him when he's sleeping.
Yeah... I went shopping with one of his friend (wife of a good couple friend of his)... she said.. "fuck that, if it were my husband who said that, I'd slap him..!" ... lol...
Mmmm... what would I do to him whilst he is sleeping???"
You suck him off, stick your tongue up his arse, sit on his face and put your count kver his mouth so you can look down and watch him struggling to breath and then when he wakes up really sleepy and disorientated he'll fuck your differently. It's more intense, like his brain isn't awake yet but his willy just wants to be in you and they're more grunty! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't buy into that. Just cos he's a bloke doesn't mean he can't have feelings.
You can't have a boring bloke either anything he won't do whilst he's awake you just do to him when he's sleeping.
Yeah... I went shopping with one of his friend (wife of a good couple friend of his)... she said.. "fuck that, if it were my husband who said that, I'd slap him..!" ... lol...
Mmmm... what would I do to him whilst he is sleeping???
You suck him off, stick your tongue up his arse, sit on his face and put your count kver his mouth so you can look down and watch him struggling to breath and then when he wakes up really sleepy and disorientated he'll fuck your differently. It's more intense, like his brain isn't awake yet but his willy just wants to be in you and they're more grunty! "
Ha a bit to much info there.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't buy into that. Just cos he's a bloke doesn't mean he can't have feelings.
You can't have a boring bloke either anything he won't do whilst he's awake you just do to him when he's sleeping.
Yeah... I went shopping with one of his friend (wife of a good couple friend of his)... she said.. "fuck that, if it were my husband who said that, I'd slap him..!" ... lol...
Mmmm... what would I do to him whilst he is sleeping???
You suck him off, stick your tongue up his arse, sit on his face and put your count kver his mouth so you can look down and watch him struggling to breath and then when he wakes up really sleepy and disorientated he'll fuck your differently. It's more intense, like his brain isn't awake yet but his willy just wants to be in you and they're more grunty! "
Say it agen ya filthy cow |
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By *uzie69x OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Maidstone |
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I don't buy into that. Just cos he's a bloke doesn't mean he can't have feelings.
You can't have a boring bloke either anything he won't do whilst he's awake you just do to him when he's sleeping.
Yeah... I went shopping with one of his friend (wife of a good couple friend of his)... she said.. "fuck that, if it were my husband who said that, I'd slap him..!" ... lol...
Mmmm... what would I do to him whilst he is sleeping???
You suck him off, stick your tongue up his arse, sit on his face and put your count kver his mouth so you can look down and watch him struggling to breath and then when he wakes up really sleepy and disorientated he'll fuck your differently. It's more intense, like his brain isn't awake yet but his willy just wants to be in you and they're more grunty! "
FUCK ME WOMAN!
I mean that literally...
FUCK ME WOMAN...! |
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By *uzie69x OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Maidstone |
"I wouldn't say anything if I didn't think they would reciprocate, that just makes things embarrassing and awkward for all involved."
Whilst that would be the case with someone I don't really know... we do talk about most things in life. He's even invited me to his daughter's graduation dinner - which is pretty amazing!!! He's a man whose not afraid to be seen with a "tranny" .... |
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By *uzie69x OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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"Why do you think you're falling for him? "
After our fantastic week in Ibiza I've started to miss him when we're not together... :o(
Feelings... they just make a mess of a perfectly workable situation (just stay a fuck buddies)
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By *uzie69x OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Maidstone |
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Say it agen ya filthy cow"
Haha... I'm no lesbian but I was very aroused too... here, let me copy and paste for you... lol
You suck him off, stick your tongue up his arse, sit on his face and put your count kver his mouth so you can look down and watch him struggling to breath and then when he wakes up really sleepy and disorientated he'll fuck your differently. It's more intense, like his brain isn't awake yet but his willy just wants to be in you and they're more grunty! " |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do you think you're falling for him?
After our fantastic week in Ibiza I've started to miss him when we're not together... :o(
Feelings... they just make a mess of a perfectly workable situation (just stay a fuck buddies)
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I would let things carry on as normal and see if your feelings stay the same.
My long term partner recently told me he loves me. That doesn't mean anything will change about our relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Say it agen ya filthy cow
Haha... I'm no lesbian but I was very aroused too... here, let me copy and paste for you... lol
You suck him off, stick your tongue up his arse, sit on his face and put your cunt over his mouth so you can look down and watch him struggling to breath and then when he wakes up really sleepy and disorientated he'll fuck you differently. It's more intense, like his brain isn't awake yet but his willy just wants to be in you and they're more grunty! ""
Just need to add you need consent off the guy before he goes to sleep!
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By *uzie69x OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Maidstone |
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Just need to add you need consent off the guy before he goes to sleep!
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Yeah... I know... consent works both ways, but pity...
That's like letting him know he's got a surprise birthday party coming... lol...! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Say it agen ya filthy cow
Haha... I'm no lesbian but I was very aroused too... here, let me copy and paste for you... lol
You suck him off, stick your tongue up his arse, sit on his face and put your cunt over his mouth so you can look down and watch him struggling to breath and then when he wakes up really sleepy and disorientated he'll fuck you differently. It's more intense, like his brain isn't awake yet but his willy just wants to be in you and they're more grunty! "
Just need to add you need consent off the guy before he goes to sleep!
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Do it to me anyday |
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By *uzie69x OP TV/TS
over a year ago
Maidstone |
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I would let things carry on as normal and see if your feelings stay the same.
My long term partner recently told me he loves me. That doesn't mean anything will change about our relationship. "
Yeah... that's pretty much what's happening now anyway...
Well, maybe I miss being in love but if someone told me they loved me... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would let things carry on as normal and see if your feelings stay the same.
My long term partner recently told me he loves me. That doesn't mean anything will change about our relationship.
Yeah... that's pretty much what's happening now anyway...
Well, maybe I miss being in love but if someone told me they loved me..."
I  your bum if that helps? |
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By *uzie69x OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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"If it's going to happen, it will. Just enjoy it for what it is in the meantime. "
Yeah, that's true... I might meet someone, he likewise, then out of the relationships... onward as usual... BUT
None of us getting any younger and this dating malarky can wear a bit thin sometimes... cocoa and slippers rather than cock and slurping any day...! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't rock the boat. If it ain't broke....
But... nothing ventured, nothing gained?
I don't think you'll gain much. I think you know that as well. "
Yeah sounds like their flogging a dead horse.
But hey if it makes them happy.  |
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"If it's going to happen, it will. Just enjoy it for what it is in the meantime.
Yeah, that's true... I might meet someone, he likewise, then out of the relationships... onward as usual... BUT
None of us getting any younger and this dating malarky can wear a bit thin sometimes... cocoa and slippers rather than cock and slurping any day...! lol"
sounds as though hes the easy option for a relationship. You already seem negative. If youve been on holiday you must be pretty close. What will you gain from calling it a relationship |
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By *uzie69x OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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"lolsounds as though hes the easy option for a relationship. You already seem negative. If youve been on holiday you must be pretty close. What will you gain from calling it a relationship"
Are all relationships based on earth-shattering togetherness? Or can people drift into being in love? My feelings for him is not earth shattering but I am starting to have feelings for him... |
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"lolsounds as though hes the easy option for a relationship. You already seem negative. If youve been on holiday you must be pretty close. What will you gain from calling it a relationship
Are all relationships based on earth-shattering togetherness? Or can people drift into being in love? My feelings for him is not earth shattering but I am starting to have feelings for him..."
some people are slow burners. Im one. But it seems like your comparing him to your ex which doesnt seem a very good basis to build a relationship on |
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By *uzie69x OP TV/TS
over a year ago
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"some people are slow burners. Im one. But it seems like your comparing him to your ex which doesnt seem a very good basis to build a relationship on"
Yeah, baggage handling... tiresome!
It has been nine months since my relationship split - about time to get over it and I think I'm getting there...
If I don't compare, then he's pretty amazing on his own right. |
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"If you have to ask us I'd say answer is no but wtf do I know?
Haha.. thanks for that ...!
May I say tho... typical blokey response...!
:o)"
Sorry about that. But I am sure we all wish you good luck and pray that you will find happiness. |
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