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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

a friend has let me know thats shes finally become pregnant from a gangbang

is a female on female in relationship, they are both overjoyed, they dont want father involvement, and were excluded from nhs ivf/donor due her being only

so my question what would you do to get pregnant if the normal route was not available

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

being only 36 that should be

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

Think that's wrong.

They don't want father involvement, but maybe the father does. Or maybe the kid will, sorry son no idea who your dad is, could be one of six blokes.

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I'd probably look at adoption as my first choice, but I know some people have a strong desire that their child should be "theirs"

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

im happy for them x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'd probably look at adoption as my first choice, but I know some people have a strong desire that their child should be "theirs" "
they tried adoption route for nearly 5 years they do foster and have foster over 20 kids on short term in the past

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By *odkaredbull23Man over a year ago

some where central

Surely it's the dads right to know.... what if he's been wanting a child as bad as her....

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By *ob198XaMan over a year ago

teleford

Call me judgemental but to me that is fucked up. There are already too many messed up kids

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By *urntAngelicMan over a year ago

Runcorn

whether they want the father involved or not its tough shit unless he agrees to forgo his paternal rights

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If the normal route wasn't available I don't think I could trick a guy into impregnating me.

Gang bang pregnancy = fucking irresponsible behaviour, end of.

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By *yldstyleWoman over a year ago

A world of my own

If I had the stability and the desire for a child, I possibly would have gone down the one night stand route. However a gangbang seems a bit extreme. I'd have also thought not a great experience for her or her partner!

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"whether they want the father involved or not its tough shit unless he agrees to forgo his paternal rights "

I presume the father does not know and will not find out, so his parental rights mean diddly squat

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Surely it's the dads right to know.... what if he's been wanting a child as bad as her.... "
t5hey let them know before gangbang hence no father would no its truly his and they were all happy to partcipate it took 4 gangbangs with the same guys

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

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By *urntAngelicMan over a year ago

Runcorn

I think its a bit fucked but hey ho... everyone's moral compass points to i slightly different north

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

And what if the guy has something wrong with his genetics.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Surely it's the dads right to know.... what if he's been wanting a child as bad as her.... t5hey let them know before gangbang hence no father would no its truly his and they were all happy to partcipate it took 4 gangbangs with the same guys"

What was the selection criteria for the guys attending?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bring on the asteroid.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

I'll break rules as appropriate but respect other people, above all else. Laws are important and laws and rules often get implemented wrongly - they can deserve to be broken. I'm uncomfortable though that a child could be deprived of their genetic parent, including information for health reasons.

Obviously birth control isn't 100% effective, so any casual shag could make a pregnancy if all are fertile appropriately.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"And what if the guy has something wrong with his genetics."
that could happen in a normal so called relationship and they used the same guys that have all fathered they took over a year to work it all out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Irresponsible behaviour all round.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

not asking if you think its right or wrong the deed has been done what i am asking what lengths you would go to if adoption and nhs treatment was not there or you were classed as too old for them

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By *odkaredbull23Man over a year ago

some where central

What do you tell the child when they're older and ask about their dad? Mummy had 4 men do her twice...kids head would be fucked..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

What was the selection criteria for the guys attending? "
they decided the guys should be in good health have fathered children and were all std free ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"not asking if you think its right or wrong the deed has been done what i am asking what lengths you would go to if adoption and nhs treatment was not there or you were classed as too old for them"

This is one of those typical "if you got yourself into an impossible situation, how would you get out of it?" questions. Personally we plan our lives years in advance and never get into them, but either way the answer would never be a bareback gangbang.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

What was the selection criteria for the guys attending? they decided the guys should be in good health have fathered children and were all std free .. "

Any questions on personality, intelligence, education or careers?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What do you tell the child when they're older and ask about their dad? Mummy had 4 men do her twice...kids head would be fucked.."

lets be honest we all only know our daDS as mam said.. show me a family without a cowboy in its linage

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

What was the selection criteria for the guys attending? they decided the guys should be in good health have fathered children and were all std free ..

Any questions on personality, intelligence, education or careers? "
they were not fussed on education as that can always grow they were more concerened with dna tests and std tsts they wanted dark haired men only

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"not asking if you think its right or wrong the deed has been done what i am asking what lengths you would go to if adoption and nhs treatment was not there or you were classed as too old for them

If all else failed and I was desperate .... i would ring the mcanns....

is whT THAT RESPONSE IS

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

What was the selection criteria for the guys attending? they decided the guys should be in good health have fathered children and were all std free ..

Any questions on personality, intelligence, education or careers? they were not fussed on education as that can always grow they were more concerened with dna tests and std tsts they wanted dark haired men only"

Keep that number, just in case. Poor kid.

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By *ob198XaMan over a year ago

teleford

"And what if the guy has something wrong with his genetics."

Well one could question his intelligence genes if he is willing to take part in a bareback gangbang....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"a friend has let me know thats shes finally become pregnant from a gangbang

is a female on female in relationship, they are both overjoyed, they dont want father involvement, and were excluded from nhs ivf/donor due her being only

so my question what would you do to get pregnant if the normal route was not available"

Christ knows how they'll explain this to an inquisitive teenager

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By *odkaredbull23Man over a year ago

some where central

"Christ knows how they'll explain this to an inquisitive teenager

This

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"And what if the guy has something wrong with his genetics.

Well one could question his intelligence genes if he is willing to take part in a bareback gangbang...."

One did question it. Intelligence wasn't part of the equation. Hair colour was deemed more important, because you know you wouldn't want people thinking the other mother wasn't the father.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"And what if the guy has something wrong with his genetics.

Well one could question his intelligence genes if he is willing to take part in a bareback gangbang...."
they were all from well to do backgrounds as i have been told and all fathered children

lets be honest in a normal relationship in this world look around you and open your eyes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"not asking if you think its right or wrong the deed has been done what i am asking what lengths you would go to if adoption and nhs treatment was not there or you were classed as too old for them"

Sometimes it is what it is, people are childless for all sorts of reasons, it's life. Maybe they weren't destined to have kids...

Maybe at a push I'd go down the turkey baster route or ask a good male mate to supply the sperm.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"And what if the guy has something wrong with his genetics.

Well one could question his intelligence genes if he is willing to take part in a bareback gangbang....

One did question it. Intelligence wasn't part of the equation. Hair colour was deemed more important, because you know you wouldn't want people thinking the other mother wasn't the father. "
they chose the gangbang from well to do professionals and this would say intelegent i guess

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"And what if the guy has something wrong with his genetics.

Well one could question his intelligence genes if he is willing to take part in a bareback gangbang....

One did question it. Intelligence wasn't part of the equation. Hair colour was deemed more important, because you know you wouldn't want people thinking the other mother wasn't the father. they chose the gangbang from well to do professionals and this would say intelegent i guess"

I asked what the selection criteria was an you didn't say anything about professionals. Just out of interest, why couldn't they use a sperm bank?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And what if the guy has something wrong with his genetics.

Well one could question his intelligence genes if he is willing to take part in a bareback gangbang....

One did question it. Intelligence wasn't part of the equation. Hair colour was deemed more important, because you know you wouldn't want people thinking the other mother wasn't the father. they chose the gangbang from well to do professionals and this would say intelegent i guess

I asked what the selection criteria was an you didn't say anything about professionals. Just out of interest, why couldn't they use a sperm bank? "

Money?

Did they pay for the GB?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"And what if the guy has something wrong with his genetics.

Well one could question his intelligence genes if he is willing to take part in a bareback gangbang....

One did question it. Intelligence wasn't part of the equation. Hair colour was deemed more important, because you know you wouldn't want people thinking the other mother wasn't the father. they chose the gangbang from well to do professionals and this would say intelegent i guess

I asked what the selection criteria was an you didn't say anything about professionals. Just out of interest, why couldn't they use a sperm bank? "
they looked at private sperm bank but she had not had sex with a guy and wanted to try natural route so engaged a male friend but after a a year trying on and off no success

when she did the gangbang she closed here eyes although had met the guys prior to the sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"And what if the guy has something wrong with his genetics.

Well one could question his intelligence genes if he is willing to take part in a bareback gangbang....

One did question it. Intelligence wasn't part of the equation. Hair colour was deemed more important, because you know you wouldn't want people thinking the other mother wasn't the father. they chose the gangbang from well to do professionals and this would say intelegent i guess

I asked what the selection criteria was an you didn't say anything about professionals. Just out of interest, why couldn't they use a sperm bank?

Money?

Did they pay for the GB?"
no money was exchanged

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"And what if the guy has something wrong with his genetics.

Well one could question his intelligence genes if he is willing to take part in a bareback gangbang....

One did question it. Intelligence wasn't part of the equation. Hair colour was deemed more important, because you know you wouldn't want people thinking the other mother wasn't the father. they chose the gangbang from well to do professionals and this would say intelegent i guess

I asked what the selection criteria was an you didn't say anything about professionals. Just out of interest, why couldn't they use a sperm bank? they looked at private sperm bank but she had not had sex with a guy and wanted to try natural route so engaged a male friend but after a a year trying on and off no success

when she did the gangbang she closed here eyes although had met the guys prior to the sex

So she didn't factor in that a kid might find life a bit easier knowing he came from a sperm bank where they can make an informed decision whether they want to trace the father one day? Your friends sounds very selfish to me but then i don't expect you to agree. I just hope they lie to the kid when they ask who their dad is.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"And what if the guy has something wrong with his genetics.

Well one could question his intelligence genes if he is willing to take part in a bareback gangbang....

One did question it. Intelligence wasn't part of the equation. Hair colour was deemed more important, because you know you wouldn't want people thinking the other mother wasn't the father. they chose the gangbang from well to do professionals and this would say intelegent i guess

I asked what the selection criteria was an you didn't say anything about professionals. Just out of interest, why couldn't they use a sperm bank?

Money?

Did they pay for the GB?"

No they are financially well off

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"And what if the guy has something wrong with his genetics.

Well one could question his intelligence genes if he is willing to take part in a bareback gangbang....

One did question it. Intelligence wasn't part of the equation. Hair colour was deemed more important, because you know you wouldn't want people thinking the other mother wasn't the father. they chose the gangbang from well to do professionals and this would say intelegent i guess

when she did the gangbang she closed here eyes although had met the guys prior to the sex

so a lie is a lie how many people go about in life thinking hes the dad when he really is not

a do not know how they will deal with that tbh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And what if the guy has something wrong with his genetics.

Well one could question his intelligence genes if he is willing to take part in a bareback gangbang....

One did question it. Intelligence wasn't part of the equation. Hair colour was deemed more important, because you know you wouldn't want people thinking the other mother wasn't the father. they chose the gangbang from well to do professionals and this would say intelegent i guess

when she did the gangbang she closed here eyes although had met the guys prior to the sex

Omg that's just sounds so sad, closing her eyes and just getting on with the job in hand.

Well all I hope is that the little one is born into a loving family unit, is loved & taken care of.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know a man who was tricked into a relationship by a lesbian who left him when she got pregnant. He's still paying maintenance but never sees the child. Sometimes I think people can be selfish and nasty.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As long as they are happy. Nobody needs to judge them how they got the baby, I'm sure either way they will love and cherish the little boy/girl. Plus who says the child needs to know the truth of conception.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Non of my business. Great "friend" you are gossiping about them

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I know a man who was tricked into a relationship by a lesbian who left him when she got pregnant. He's still paying maintenance but never sees the child. Sometimes I think people can be selfish and nasty.

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answering the above post as best i can here well the love is there for sure annd finacial security so thats good

for involvement from fasther they do not need or want it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I want to know why it had to be a gang bang and not different men at different times. I know about ovulation etc but you get more than one go at it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Non of my business. Great "friend" you are gossiping about them

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they know i am on here so not gossiping as they will read thread when they visit saturday

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

answering the above post as best i can here well the love is there for sure annd finacial security so thats good

for involvement from fasther they do not need or want it"

I think every child has a right to know it's biological parent and keeping it from a child is selfish. Some time in the future the child could find out with devastating effects.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I want to know why it had to be a gang bang and not different men at different times. I know about ovulation etc but you get more than one go at it. "
i think i cannot answer but when they visit will ask them, they tried a guy friend for best part of year timed cycles and nothing happended

they have been trying to have a child since they were 22 and are same age now being 36

well trying a should say always wanted

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The men could ask for DNA tests to be done to determine who the father is and request contact.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As long as they are happy. Nobody needs to judge them how they got the baby, I'm sure either way they will love and cherish the little boy/girl. Plus who says the child needs to know the truth of conception. "

Wouldn't you want to know the truth about your conception?

Sometimes as an adult you do need to answer questions about your heritage, medical springs to mind.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

answering the above post as best i can here well the love is there for sure annd finacial security so thats good

for involvement from fasther they do not need or want it

I think every child has a right to know it's biological parent and keeping it from a child is selfish. Some time in the future the child could find out with devastating effects. "
i would agree there, but thats a bridge to cross

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

I'm sure they will grow up thrilled knowing that their mum got fucked by several people and their real father could be any one of a group of random strangers. What a healthy relationship that will be

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Wouldn't you want to know the truth about your conception?

like earlier i stated they did all dna tests and std tests available and all fathers had children healthy and full permission of their partners wifes

one guy travelled from germany on each occassion

Sometimes as an adult you do need to answer questions about your heritage, medical springs to mind."

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm sure they will grow up thrilled knowing that their mum got fucked by several people and their real father could be any one of a group of random strangers. What a healthy relationship that will be"
so here who is your dad ??? are you sure now

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By *rwolfMan over a year ago

bristol

This opens up a whole world of problems down the line.

Kid grows up and wants to know who is dad is.. Sorry son but it could be one of 4... Jokes aside but its almost as if i can hear Jeremy kyle booking this one in 16 years time.

One of the blokes thinks it over and actually wants a part in the kids life....dna test says no after being supportive of the pregnancy and kicks off.

Lets not forget kids are evil, imagine the torment this kid is going to get at school if things get found out? The internet doesnt forget so any evidence of first contact can be found.

Kids falls ill, needs a transplant of blood or liver and mum isnt compatible, next choice is dad....do they all get contacted again? How do the men explain that to a wife/partner?

Dont get me wrong, glad they have got what they have wanted but the plan hasnt really been thought through long term.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I want to know why it had to be a gang bang and not different men at different times. I know about ovulation etc but you get more than one go at it. i think i cannot answer but when they visit will ask them, they tried a guy friend for best part of year timed cycles and nothing happended

they have been trying to have a child since they were 22 and are same age now being 36

well trying a should say always wanted"

There are plenty of couples, singles that have been trying & are childless.

With the best will in the world it doesn't always work out that you get what you want.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

answering the above post as best i can here well the love is there for sure annd finacial security so thats good

for involvement from fasther they do not need or want it"

It's not what the mother wants that's the priority but what the child deserves and if that's her attitude before the child is born, God help them once they are born. How bloody selfish she is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

answering the above post as best i can here well the love is there for sure annd finacial security so thats good as the post is what lengths you would go to to haqve children

for involvement from fasther they do not need or want it

It's not what the mother wants that's the priority but what the child deserves and if that's her attitude before the child is born, God help them once they are born. How bloody selfish she is."

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

so here who is your dad ??? are you sure now"

.....what?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is progress, kids!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

at the end of the day its their choice

lets be honest look at society now and the parents of the ones that have one wrong

hang on thats fine as it was the so called normal route

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

they have been trying to have a child since they were 22 and are same age now being 36

well trying a should say always wanted"

I suppose with more people they gave themselves more chance of getting pregnant. And it worked.

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By *ieman300Man over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

"Bring on the asteroid."

Damn straight!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think I would have called it a gang bang..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not sure why people think the parents are going to openly admit to the child that they were conceived via a gangbang!? I'm sure they aren't going to. In which case, it shouldn't matter where they were conceived.

That said, it's not something I'd want to do and I don't necessarily agree with a man unknowingly becoming a father and not being given the chance to partake in their life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I suppose with more people they gave themselves more chance of getting pregnant. And it worked.

at the end of the day they vetted undertook helath and lifestyle checks/tests with all those involved

we cannot say the same about the skanks that run about the streets now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"at the end of the day its their choice

lets be honest look at society now and the parents of the ones that have one wrong

hang on thats fine as it was the so called normal route"

Yes it is their choice but it ain't the baby's.

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By *aralewisCouple over a year ago

South Yorkshire

I think it's a selfish act

Their only thinking or their own needs and not the child...

Their sperm banks they could use..my point being the child has a right to know his father

And what happens when he grows up and ask about his dad and wanting to trace him..some people don't look at bigger picture

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm not sure why people think the parents are going to openly admit to the child that they were conceived via a gangbang!? I'm sure they aren't going to. In which case, it shouldn't matter where they were conceived.

That said, it's not something I'd want to do and I don't necessarily agree with a man unknowingly becoming a father and not being given the chance to partake in their life. "
the fathers were all knew about it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That said, it's not something I'd want to do and I don't necessarily agree with a man unknowingly becoming a father and not being given the chance to partake in their life. the fathers were all knew about it"

The guys taking part in it knew they were trying to get pregnant?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think it's a selfish act

Their only thinking or their own needs and not the child...

Their sperm banks they could use..my point being the child has a right to know his father

And what happens when he grows up and ask about his dad and wanting to trace him..some people don't look at bigger picture "
like ive said no one knows who the dad is only the mother, and they can make up what ever story they want

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's a selfish act

Their only thinking or their own needs and not the child...

Their sperm banks they could use..my point being the child has a right to know his father

And what happens when he grows up and ask about his dad and wanting to trace him..some people don't look at bigger picture like ive said no one knows who the dad is only the mother, and they can make up what ever story they want"

They can but that ain't right, is it..??!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

all these ranting on about who the dad is,,, do you really really no whho your dad is oh hang on you were just told hes your dad silly m e i forget in hetro relationships everyone knows there dad

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

thankyou for what thoughts you have on what lengths you would go to to have a child as no one answered that

same old fab bandwaggon lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"all these ranting on about who the dad is,,, do you really really no whho your dad is oh hang on you were just told hes your dad silly m e i forget in hetro relationships everyone knows there dad"

I look just like my dad....coincidence? Naaaa hes my dad,no DNA test needed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"all these ranting on about who the dad is,,, do you really really no whho your dad is oh hang on you were just told hes your dad silly m e i forget in hetro relationships everyone knows there dad"

You don't appear to grasp genetics very well. Yes, most know that the man they have been told their father is, due to appearance, personality traits etc, shared between father and son/daughter.

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

But at least they'll have good hair...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"all these ranting on about who the dad is,,, do you really really no whho your dad is oh hang on you were just told hes your dad silly m e i forget in hetro relationships everyone knows there dad

I look just like my dad....coincidence? Naaaa hes my dad,no DNA test needed"
that might be so but how many dont

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

I don't know what lengths I would go to in order to have a child because I've never been in that position. I do know that it can drive people to desperate measures.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But at least they'll have good hair..."

Na, it's male gays that are good with fashion, grooming, etc... Lesbians tend to be unkempt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't know what lengths I would go to in order to have a child because I've never been in that position. I do know that it can drive people to desperate measures."
the first answer / reply to the post

they had tried all avenues from aged 22

now they are both 36 and as they put the clcok is ticking desperate measure i would agree,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it's a selfish act

Their only thinking or their own needs and not the child...

Their sperm banks they could use..my point being the child has a right to know his father

And what happens when he grows up and ask about his dad and wanting to trace him..some people don't look at bigger picture "

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

a) from a legal standpoint.... regardless of what the father said in the past.... he is always liable for stuff like child support

he is also entitled to access whether the "couple" like it or not....

b) from a health/genetic point of view, god forbid there way anything wrong with the child......

how do you find out these sorts of things from a gangbang ffs......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's no different to having a sperm donor or a surrogate for a gays couple x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"thankyou for what thoughts you have on what lengths you would go to to have a child as no one answered that

same old fab bandwaggon lol"

I did but you chose to ignore me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"thankyou for what thoughts you have on what lengths you would go to to have a child as no one answered that

same old fab bandwaggon lol

I did but you chose to ignore me."
i did not see i do apologise

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"a) from a legal standpoint.... regardless of what the father said in the past.... he is always liable for stuff like child support

he is also entitled to access whether the "couple" like it or not....

b) from a health/genetic point of view, god forbid there way anything wrong with the child......

how do you find out these sorts of things from a gangbang ffs......"
in essence they are financially idependendant so will not need money

they tried a surrogate overseas spent thousands and got ripped off yes they did a 3 year research there opted for a clinic paid and lost out

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"thankyou for what thoughts you have on what lengths you would go to to have a child as no one answered that

same old fab bandwaggon lol

I did but you chose to ignore me."
yes i looked baCK you mentioned what the child will ask in adulthood answer thats for them to say tell whatever they choose, then you mention not evetyone gets what they want..

the question was what lengths you would go to .. to have children, you did not answer that

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's no different to having a sperm donor or a surrogate for a gays couple x"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"a) from a legal standpoint.... regardless of what the father said in the past.... he is always liable for stuff like child support

he is also entitled to access whether the "couple" like it or not....

b) from a health/genetic point of view, god forbid there way anything wrong with the child......

how do you find out these sorts of things from a gangbang ffs...... in essence they are financially idependendant so will not need money

they tried a surrogate overseas spent thousands and got ripped off yes they did a 3 year research there opted for a clinic paid and lost out"

Listen my friend,youre answers have been polite, and you have tried to explain the best you can,but alas you are on a public forum and the enevitable will happen,tell them good luck,wether its right or wrong

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"thankyou for what thoughts you have on what lengths you would go to to have a child as no one answered that

same old fab bandwaggon lol

I did but you chose to ignore me.yes i looked baCK you mentioned what the child will ask in adulthood answer thats for them to say tell whatever they choose, then you mention not evetyone gets what they want..

the question was what lengths you would go to .. to have children, you did not answer that "

Yes I did, I mentioned turkey baster & male friends sperm...:

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"thankyou for what thoughts you have on what lengths you would go to to have a child as no one answered that

same old fab bandwaggon lol

the question was what lengths you would go to .. to have children, you did not answer that

Yes I did, I mentioned turkey baster & male friends sperm...:"
THEY TRIED a male friend for best part of year and no success i think they just snapped

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"thankyou for what thoughts you have on what lengths you would go to to have a child as no one answered that

same old fab bandwaggon lol

the question was what lengths you would go to .. to have children, you did not answer that

Yes I did, I mentioned turkey baster & male friends sperm...: THEY TRIED a male friend for best part of year and no success i think they just snapped "

I just answered your question.

There's nowt you can tell me that makes me think they've made the right choice but at the end of the day it isn't me who is in their shoes & has to live with what's been done.

Like I've said I hope the little one is raised in a loving family environment.

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"It's no different to having a sperm donor or a surrogate for a gays couple x"

yes it is....

a) sperm is check for any abnormalites......

b) legal waivers are signed where the father is not liable... but the child can find out who their biological father is........

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By *all and ChainWoman over a year ago

Truro

"Bring on the asteroid."

lol.. or yellowstone, that's due to blow in august apparently...

it's not whether it is all fucked up, it is that people even ask the question is it all fucked up.

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"not asking if you think its right or wrong the deed has been done what i am asking what lengths you would go to if adoption and nhs treatment was not there or you were classed as too old for them"

I'd get a dog, I'm not entitled to a child.

I'd have loved to have green eyes and be 6ft...Life doesn't always give us what we want.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Call me judgemental but to me that is fucked up. There are already too many messed up kids"

Seriously fucked up, poor kid. At least go to a sperm bank.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why were they turned down for adoption?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is horrendous.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I actually read something like this a magazine at work.It was two older lady's in a civil relationship and they joked that they was going to do the celebrity thing and name the baby after how and where it was conceived.Just like Brooklyn and Paris but they was going to call there's milkshake x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Call me judgemental but to me that is fucked up. There are already too many messed up kids

Seriously fucked up, poor kid. At least go to a sperm bank.

I agree! This is messed up on soo many levels...

Wtf

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By *orkie321bWoman over a year ago

Nottingham

OP you say they are financially independent and tried every other route.

Does that include paying for ivf?

That's what most childless couples who are financially stable do

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By *iSTARessWoman over a year ago

London

This sounds too far fetched to be true.

If I'm wrong, I find it morally abhorrent.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thought I was tripping when I read the title to this thread..

What a state of affairs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Christ knows how they'll explain this to an inquisitive teenager

This

Quite simple, was a one night stand, there must be 100s of children born who's father is unknown every year, let alone those who's father is uncertain. And almost none who know what precise sexual act as in position, location etc. got them conceived.

If all parties were agreeable, there is no real harm with this extreme method. Wouldn't be my route, but whatever works is cool.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Christ knows how they'll explain this to an inquisitive teenager

This

If all parties were agreeable, there is no real harm with this extreme method. Wouldn't be my route, but whatever works is cool.

I was going to say the exact same thing. What's the difference between this and some girl fucking a few guys over a week in Ibiza without any protection and getting knocked up? These ladies want a baby and are in a position to care and look after the baby.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Christ knows how they'll explain this to an inquisitive teenager

This

If all parties were agreeable, there is no real harm with this extreme method. Wouldn't be my route, but whatever works is cool.

Wouldn't be my route either, but desperate folk do desperate things.

So long as baby is loved and looked after is now the main thing, it's too late to close the barn door after the horse has bolted.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Think that's wrong.

They don't want father involvement, but maybe the father does. Or maybe the kid will, sorry son no idea who your dad is, could be one of six blokes.

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

It's a tough one , but given how long they'd waited and the failure of other methods , I'm delighted for them .

If we were desperate , and couldn't have kids then yeah , after 14 years of trying we would consider this method .

Seems like they would make good parents , and it was planned , so good luck to them and the new baby

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"It's a tough one , but given how long they'd waited and the failure of other methods , I'm delighted for them .

If we were desperate , and couldn't have kids then yeah , after 14 years of trying we would consider this method .

Seems like they would make good parents , and it was planned , so good luck to them and the new baby

Yeah it's great for them,I just feel for the baby never knowing who their biological father will be. How do people deal with not knowing who made them,I don't know I know where I came from,but do some people find it hard?

How are they going to feel telling the child that they don't know who the father is and how they were conceived? How is the child going to feel when other kids ask who their their dad is?

Op have they kept contact details for all the men concerned if they really need to know for health issues and so on? I'm forever being asked about family health issues there may be in my girl's birth family which I can't answer.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Why did it need to be a gangbang,why not just one person. At least then you'd know who the man was,it somehow seems selfish to me.

So many questions...

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By *inkySlinkyCouple over a year ago

Leeds

If one of them didn't get pregnant after years why didn't the other one try?

Sally

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Weirdos

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Weirdos

No they're not weirdos. I don't agree with how they went about it,but I know the devastation of trying for a family of your own it's soul destroying.

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By *airymagicWoman over a year ago

goblin city

Congratulations to them, I hope their baby grows up knowing how loved it is

Personally I wouldn't do it, but I have no qualms over it

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By *iscreetmrnickMan over a year ago

windsor

I see a future episode of jeremy kyle..lol

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

This one will take some working out when the little one grows up and tries to make there own family tree for a school project

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Weirdos

No they're not weirdos. I don't agree with how they went about it,but I know the devastation of trying for a family of your own it's soul destroying."
of course its weird its not rational. Drs ect would say its some kind of mental illness. If said perzon was sane they would know thid is a bad idea. Oh btw son you were conceived in a gnag bang because we were to selfish and uneducated to go through the proper route

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Weirdos

No they're not weirdos. I don't agree with how they went about it,but I know the devastation of trying for a family of your own it's soul destroying."
easily adopt

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"a friend has let me know thats shes finally become pregnant from a gangbang

is a female on female in relationship, they are both overjoyed, they dont want father involvement, and were excluded from nhs ivf/donor due her being only

so my question what would you do to get pregnant if the normal route was not available"

So gay relationship and gets pregnant by a male gangbang. So i assume she's bi

But no i don't agree

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Having been in the position where we thought we would not be able to have children, I can say categorically that this route would never have been an option.

We agreed that we would possibly use Clomid, and if that failed we would look at adoption or fostering.

Having a child is not a right, sometimes you just have to accept that it's not meant to be.

Ginger

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If in a same sex relationship I'd only consider sperm bank donation. Both of us involved and on the same page regarding the child.

Bit strange to choose to be gang fucked. To me it would be a traumatic start to bringing a new life into the world with a partner.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If in a same sex relationship I'd only consider sperm bank donation. Both of us involved and on the same page regarding the child.

Bit strange to choose to be gang fucked. To me it would be a traumatic start to bringing a new life into the world with a partner."

thanks i was trying to say this but couldnt think straight LOL

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Growing up without a father figure fucks you up.... but then again being a human being living in this kind of society fucks you up to varying degrees too so I guess you can't win?!.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

"not asking if you think its right or wrong the deed has been done what i am asking what lengths you would go to if adoption and nhs treatment was not there or you were classed as too old for them"

Not the one you describe thats for sure

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"If in a same sex relationship I'd only consider sperm bank donation. Both of us involved and on the same page regarding the child.

Bit strange to choose to be gang fucked. To me it would be a traumatic start to bringing a new life into the world with a partner."

Because they don't want the father involved so this arrangement means they don't know I suppose.

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By *alcon43Woman over a year ago

Paisley

A gangbang certainly wouldn't be any of my choices to become pregnant.

Whilst it is difficult for many to conceive it's probably mother natures way of balancing the population. Nowadays we are finding ways to assist getting pregnant but those are not without their own problems.

Personally if I couldn't have my own I'd either adopt or accept a childless life.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What I don't understand is you say that they've been wanting a baby since aged 22? And act like they've been desperate! If that were true! Why didn't they have fertility treatment from that age?! The cut off in most areas is 35! Why wait that long? If they tried all methods available to them and with no result I guess, I could partially understand there rationalisation, although, IUI would have been better!!! This, it just doesn't sit right.. not only for the child, but the gang bang itself sounds terrible "She'd not been with a guy before and closed her eyes"!!! To me, you'd question the morals of any guy getting involved in that, sounds almost abusive, fucking someone who hates it!!?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Weirdos

No they're not weirdos. I don't agree with how they went about it,but I know the devastation of trying for a family of your own it's soul destroying. easily adopt"

You have no idea do you!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I had the stability and the desire for a child, I possibly would have gone down the one night stand route. However a gangbang seems a bit extreme. I'd have also thought not a great experience for her or her partner!"
i guess the idea of a gangbang was so even they didnt know.

I think as long as the child is cared for and loved whats the issue. Children are concieved in all manner of ways. And I am sure a small white lie wont hurt that they met a guy and it was a one night thing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Surely it's the dads right to know.... what if he's been wanting a child as bad as her.... "

If he has I don't thing a random gang bang is the way he plans to do it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh I totally didn't answer the question lol.

as a single parent Lesbian raised child I will only have a kid with someone else present... If I was in a lesbian relationship I'd make sure there was a father figure for the child's balanced psychological health.

I find people selfish mostly and they generally do not take into consideration the complete well being of other humans, whether they're blood relatives or strangers... Just because we have the capabilities of creating life, doesn't mean we should imo.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Whilst it is difficult for many to conceive it's probably mother natures way of balancing the population. "

That's just a plain cruel and nasty nasty thing to say,what kind of mind would say something like that!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I hope they told the guys involved their intentions. Intentionally making someone a father without their consent is shitty no matter the circumstances.

I'd also advise her to get checked for STIs if she's been having bareback sex with multiple people as some can cause problems during pregnancy. She also doesn't know whether the father has any genetic conditions that he could have passed on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Pity the rights of the child have been completely ignored, but there you go.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Pity the rights of the child have been completely ignored, but there you go."

hey mom whos my dad

actually could be one of a few as i let someone fuck me bb on a gangbang

I feel for the child

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

I doubt the mothers in this situation will tell their child the truth. There are a number of possible answers they could give but problems will arise if the child ever wants to trace their father.

I've seen life long anguish suffered by people who have no idea who or where one parent is. However it's done now let's hope for a happy, healthy child. They certainly won't be alone in not knowing their father.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I hope they told the guys involved their intentions. Intentionally making someone a father without their consent is shitty no matter the circumstances.

Exactly!

Logic & common sense doesn't seem to have been applied here....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't believe a group of supposedly semi intelligent people would be so stupid simultaneously.

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By *.1079Man over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Well Jeremy Kyle will keep his job for a few more years.

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

" She also doesn't know whether the father has any genetic conditions that he could have passed on. "

and THIS is the one thing that all of the "well don't worry go off and have your baby!" people have not and probably wont answer...

medical history

if god forbid by some chance the child has major health issues that require surgery the best donors are always either the Mother OR the father......

i have empathy for the couple... but the way they went about the solution was incredibly selfish and only thought of themselves and not any welfare issues of the child.......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

congratulations to your friends, sure a gang bang wouldn't have been my first choice, but it sounds like having a child is something they have wanted for a long time and it's not a spur of the moment type thing.

From what you've put the child will be loved and looked after

For a bunch of people browsing the internet looking for meaningless sex with strangers, fabbers can be a very righteous group

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By *ornbugCouple over a year ago

somewhere

What if she has twins or triplets by different dad's...

This just cements that fact that bareback is irresponsible

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"congratulations to your friends, sure a gang bang wouldn't have been my first choice, but it sounds like having a child is something they have wanted for a long time and it's not a spur of the moment type thing.

From what you've put the child will be loved and looked after

For a bunch of people browsing the internet looking for meaningless sex with strangers, fabbers can be a very righteous group"

It's not quite the same thing. What about the rights of the child to know who their father is?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

From what you've put the child will be loved and looked after

For a bunch of people browsing the internet looking for meaningless sex with strangers, fabbers can be a very righteous group"

We all have our own moral code, I'm sure as hell judged for mine on a daily basis on here. The same applies when I read something that doesn't fit it in with mine.

The actual OP was asking a question of what would you do to have children ~ I answered that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's highly worrying how many people in this thread are in no way perturbed by this, it's the type of thing that makes fire rain from the sky.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

For a bunch of people browsing the internet looking for meaningless sex with strangers, fabbers can be a very righteous group"

Being a swinger doesn't mean your morals go flying out of the window

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What if she has twins or triplets by different dad's...

This just cements that fact that bareback is irresponsible

Not sure that is actually possible

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"It's highly worrying how many people in this thread are in no way perturbed by this, it's the type of thing that makes fire rain from the sky."
hahaha. if i was young now and wanting children i would have a preconceptual agreement drawn up before getting pregnant..this was safe, sane and consensual, the kid was wanted, the parents not teenagers, other routes to achieve failed..quite honestly with all the drama of parents bickering over kids these days, i feel the child will have a stable upbringing..there are worse things in life...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

From what you've put the child will be loved and looked after

For a bunch of people browsing the internet looking for meaningless sex with strangers, fabbers can be a very righteous group

It's not quite the same thing. What about the rights of the child to know who their father is?"

Unfortunatly not everyone gets that right. I never knew who my biological father was and I was conceived in a long term relationship

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No, I would never stoop that low and not care about my health nor that of my baby

- Mrs. J -

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By *.nottsbloke..Man over a year ago

the vale

What if the fathers family have a history of heart disease or something the child is at risk

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What if she has twins or triplets by different dad's...

This just cements that fact that bareback is irresponsible

Not sure that is actually possible

Actually, it is, fraternal(non-identical) twins are the result of an egg being released by both ovaries at the same time, if fertilised by sperm from different men, it results in twins who do not share the same bio father.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

From what you've put the child will be loved and looked after

For a bunch of people browsing the internet looking for meaningless sex with strangers, fabbers can be a very righteous group

It's not quite the same thing. What about the rights of the child to know who their father is?

Unfortunatly not everyone gets that right. I never knew who my biological father was and I was conceived in a long term relationship "

I assume your mother knows who the father is and you know how you were conceived.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

To be honest i cant understand why someone would put "friends" intimate business up on a swingers site.

Whatever the rights and wrongs i wouldnt want someone to be discussing my business

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

From what you've put the child will be loved and looked after

For a bunch of people browsing the internet looking for meaningless sex with strangers, fabbers can be a very righteous group

It's not quite the same thing. What about the rights of the child to know who their father is?

Unfortunatly not everyone gets that right. I never knew who my biological father was and I was conceived in a long term relationship

I assume your mother knows who the father is and you know how you were conceived."

I highly doubt she would, but should could have lied about it. Like the couple the OP is talking about, they don't have to tell the child the truth

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To be honest i cant understand why someone would put "friends" intimate business up on a swingers site.

Whatever the rights and wrongs i wouldnt want someone to be discussing my business"

He hasn't given *any* details about their identity

- Mrs. J -

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By *orwegian BlueMan over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

I started reading this last night, and like most, was a little shocked by the idea but probably more shocked by some of the very negative comments being made.

However, this got me thinking, this is quite a natural way to become pregnant, it happens in nature all the time.

The positive that can be taken from this is that the alpha male, the most virile of the group would most likely have fathered the child, thus potentially ensuring a healthier child..

The only drawback would be that should the father decide he wishes to see the child, it would be a very simple test to prove or disprove whether he was the father, after all 25% is quite a high percentage.

Personally, I say good luck to them and I hope that their child brings them as much happiness as my children have brought me.

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

Agree with above, if it's true

, posting it here is wrong.

If it were true, I think it is ethically wrong. A man has been deceived into getting a woman pregnant. He has a right to be involved in his childs life.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

From what you've put the child will be loved and looked after

For a bunch of people browsing the internet looking for meaningless sex with strangers, fabbers can be a very righteous group

It's not quite the same thing. What about the rights of the child to know who their father is?

Unfortunatly not everyone gets that right. I never knew who my biological father was and I was conceived in a long term relationship

I assume your mother knows who the father is and you know how you were conceived.

I highly doubt she would, but should could have lied about it. Like the couple the OP is talking about, they don't have to tell the child the truth"

So you were conceived in a long term relationship and your mum doesn't know who the dad is...hmmmm confusing.

Being a parent is about being responsible or at least it should be, does this method of conception tick that box....I don't think so.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

From what you've put the child will be loved and looked after

For a bunch of people browsing the internet looking for meaningless sex with strangers, fabbers can be a very righteous group

It's not quite the same thing. What about the rights of the child to know who their father is?

Unfortunatly not everyone gets that right. I never knew who my biological father was and I was conceived in a long term relationship

I assume your mother knows who the father is and you know how you were conceived.

I highly doubt she would, but should could have lied about it. Like the couple the OP is talking about, they don't have to tell the child the truth

So you were conceived in a long term relationship and your mum doesn't know who the dad is...hmmmm confusing.

Being a parent is about being responsible or at least it should be, does this method of conception tick that box....I don't think so."

I think you're confused, I never said she didn't know who my father was