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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So had my 1st meet yesterday and it didn't go well. The people were lovely and really open but I got so nervous I failed to function. I'm sure all the guys will say it never happens but is stage fright a common thing or am I not designed for the scene lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i wonder if they will read this thread??"
They may do but I want to make it clear nothing they did was wrong I just go so nervous and built it up in my head my todger was like nope not happening tonight pal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nerves can get the better of all of us.
It does not make you a failure fella."
 very true there, they may have caused the nerves without realising
maybe the next meet will be better  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Nerves can get the better of all of us.
It does not make you a failure fella. very true there, they may have caused the nerves without realising
maybe the next meet will be better "
It was down to me. Just built it up as some gargantuan sex fest was going to happen when in fact its just 2 people wanting to have a nice time. |
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yeah it's happened to me in the past, it happens, it can be a high pressure situation there as a guy, the mind ticks over and adds to it sometimes and as you say, it's nowt to do with the people your with, it's just one of those things but try not to let it linger too long in your head, i found having another try and not letting it occupy head space sorted it out soon enough =) |
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It happens to us all. Don't over think it. Build up with foreplay, if you find its happening just stick to kissing, I find a good snog, not initially leading to anything else, gets me going and ready.
Good luck OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It can and does happen OP. Sometimes nerves can get the better of you especially if doing something for the first time.
I'm pretty sure most experienced swingers on here would be very understanding about it too |
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"So had my 1st meet yesterday and it didn't go well. The people were lovely and really open but I got so nervous I failed to function. I'm sure all the guys will say it never happens but is stage fright a common thing or am I not designed for the scene lol."
Try buying calmer liquid from superdrug settles nerves |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So had my 1st meet yesterday and it didn't go well. The people were lovely and really open but I got so nervous I failed to function. I'm sure all the guys will say it never happens but is stage fright a common thing or am I not designed for the scene lol.
Try buying calmer liquid from superdrug settles nerves "
Lol he flopped once he don't need to be drugged up on tranquilizers. |
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"I had a guy fail and then he cried... just as long as you didnt cry
If I had cried I'd have deleted my profile out of shame lol."
If a guy cried in front of me I'd spontaneously combust, I fucking love crying guys and seeing them in distress, it's the biggest turn on.
I'd lay the guy on the sofa with his head in my lap, get him to talk to me whilst rubbing his head against my fanny and I'd stroke his dick.
Tell me something though, how can being excited about a meet result in failure? I thought it would just make the guy cum faster? |
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"I had a guy fail and then he cried... just as long as you didnt cry
If I had cried I'd have deleted my profile out of shame lol.
If a guy cried in front of me I'd spontaneously combust, I fucking love crying guys and seeing them in distress, it's the biggest turn on.
I'd lay the guy on the sofa with his head in my lap, get him to talk to me whilst rubbing his head against my fanny and I'd stroke his dick.
Tell me something though, how can being excited about a meet result in failure? I thought it would just make the guy cum faster?"
this is amazing
As guys we feel a lot of pressure to perform, well i know i do, that plus a bit of nervousness and anything else and you can get inside your own head.
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"So had my 1st meet yesterday and it didn't go well. The people were lovely and really open but I got so nervous I failed to function. I'm sure all the guys will say it never happens but is stage fright a common thing or am I not designed for the scene lol."
Was this the one with the Children in tow ??
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I had a guy fail and then he cried... just as long as you didnt cry
If I had cried I'd have deleted my profile out of shame lol.
If a guy cried in front of me I'd spontaneously combust, I fucking love crying guys and seeing them in distress, it's the biggest turn on.
I'd lay the guy on the sofa with his head in my lap, get him to talk to me whilst rubbing his head against my fanny and I'd stroke his dick.
Tell me something though, how can being excited about a meet result in failure? I thought it would just make the guy cum faster?"
It was my 1st ever meet. So didn't know what to expect or happen. Do I turn up with flowers, do I high five etc.... hopefully as I get more comfortable within the scene with a select few I won't have issue. |
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"So had my 1st meet yesterday and it didn't go well. The people were lovely and really open but I got so nervous I failed to function. I'm sure all the guys will say it never happens but is stage fright a common thing or am I not designed for the scene lol.
Was this the one with the Children in tow ??
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Lmao no that was an offline date. Still shuddering now at that lol. |
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