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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It says you're 44 on your profile OP  "
As others have said, you can ask if she'd like to go for a coffee. She can either say yes or no. If she says 'thanks but no thanks' respect her decision and leave it at that! 
Good luck! I hope she says yes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If you have been chatting to her and she thought that you were 44, she was obviously ok with your age. I would make sure she is aware that you are a little older as this could change things possibly. I would ask her though but as mentioned before, if she says no thanks, just respect her wishes. Xx |
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"Only if you are clear of your intentions as I have been put in this situation before thinking he was just being friendly, bloody awkward and creepy when you find out otherwise  "
Yup, at that age a 50 yr old approaching me would have totally creeped me out. I would say ask clean or not at all. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Only if you are clear of your intentions as I have been put in this situation before thinking he was just being friendly, bloody awkward and creepy when you find out otherwise
Yup, at that age a 50 yr old approaching me would have totally creeped me out. I would say ask clean or not at all."
Exactly! Happened to me in real life and was a work colleague, was sorting out a new mortgage deal and he tried to help even though I had it all in hand, I was 33 and he was 60+ and married so I never thought for one minute he was after anything else and I am not naïve! I had to spend the next 5 years trying to avoid him, not a nice position to be put in!  |
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"Only if you are clear of your intentions as I have been put in this situation before thinking he was just being friendly, bloody awkward and creepy when you find out otherwise
Yup, at that age a 50 yr old approaching me would have totally creeped me out. I would say ask clean or not at all.
Exactly! Happened to me in real life and was a work colleague, was sorting out a new mortgage deal and he tried to help even though I had it all in hand, I was 33 and he was 60+ and married so I never thought for one minute he was after anything else and I am not naïve! I had to spend the next 5 years trying to avoid him, not a nice position to be put in! "
Yup, we should never forget that fab represents a fairly skewed version of reality. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Only if you are clear of your intentions as I have been put in this situation before thinking he was just being friendly, bloody awkward and creepy when you find out otherwise
Yup, at that age a 50 yr old approaching me would have totally creeped me out. I would say ask clean or not at all.
Exactly! Happened to me in real life and was a work colleague, was sorting out a new mortgage deal and he tried to help even though I had it all in hand, I was 33 and he was 60+ and married so I never thought for one minute he was after anything else and I am not naïve! I had to spend the next 5 years trying to avoid him, not a nice position to be put in!
Yup, we should never forget that fab represents a fairly skewed version of reality."
And it's not just fab where a guy thinks 'well, she spoke to me, so she must want to fuck me'
So men be fucking realistic and don't turn an innocent conversation into your seedy fantasy land |
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"Only if you are clear of your intentions as I have been put in this situation before thinking he was just being friendly, bloody awkward and creepy when you find out otherwise
Yup, at that age a 50 yr old approaching me would have totally creeped me out. I would say ask clean or not at all.
Exactly! Happened to me in real life and was a work colleague, was sorting out a new mortgage deal and he tried to help even though I had it all in hand, I was 33 and he was 60+ and married so I never thought for one minute he was after anything else and I am not naïve! I had to spend the next 5 years trying to avoid him, not a nice position to be put in!
Yup, we should never forget that fab represents a fairly skewed version of reality.
And it's not just fab where a guy thinks 'well, she spoke to me, so she must want to fuck me'
So men be fucking realistic and don't turn an innocent conversation into your seedy fantasy land "
It beggars belief to be honest.... |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Only if you are clear of your intentions as I have been put in this situation before thinking he was just being friendly, bloody awkward and creepy when you find out otherwise
Yup, at that age a 50 yr old approaching me would have totally creeped me out. I would say ask clean or not at all.
Exactly! Happened to me in real life and was a work colleague, was sorting out a new mortgage deal and he tried to help even though I had it all in hand, I was 33 and he was 60+ and married so I never thought for one minute he was after anything else and I am not naïve! I had to spend the next 5 years trying to avoid him, not a nice position to be put in!
Yup, we should never forget that fab represents a fairly skewed version of reality.
And it's not just fab where a guy thinks 'well, she spoke to me, so she must want to fuck me'
So men be fucking realistic and don't turn an innocent conversation into your seedy fantasy land
It beggars belief to be honest...."
And it now has me watching my P's and Q's and not being as polite as I normally would be in real life which goes against my grain, but hey I would rather that than go through that again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whatever your age is . Go for it. I've found I've got loads in common and can relate to younger women and older woman. She is a reference to when you were born and nothing else. |
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