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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me I've had it twice now where women turn up with their kids. WTF is wrong with people. Who turns up on a 1st date with their kids."
Why not?
I imagine she'd need them to like a prospective boyfriend. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"For me I've had it twice now where women turn up with their kids. WTF is wrong with people. Who turns up on a 1st date with their kids.
Why not?
I imagine she'd need them to like a prospective boyfriend."
Just not done on a 1st date. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I haven't been on many dates; I'm not the dateable kind it seems.
I remember a double date once with my best friend and two Italian men,where my friend's date spoke to me more than her. We gave each other the look and made our excuses. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"For me I've had it twice now where women turn up with their kids. WTF is wrong with people. Who turns up on a 1st date with their kids.
WTF!  "
My thoughts exactly. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I haven't been on many dates; I'm not the dateable kind it seems.
I remember a double date once with my best friend and two Italian men,where my friend's date spoke to me more than her. We gave each other the look and made our excuses. "
Everyone is the dateable type you just need to find the right 1. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"For me I've had it twice now where women turn up with their kids. WTF is wrong with people. Who turns up on a 1st date with their kids.
Speechless "
Me too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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with a very nice man, who was very recently separated,talked endlessly about his ex, then announced 'im sorry, i thought i was ready for this but i'm not'...then burst into tears and fled...wouldn't have been so bad if it hadn't also been my birthday! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"with a very nice man, who was very recently separated,talked endlessly about his ex, then announced 'im sorry, i thought i was ready for this but i'm not'...then burst into tears and fled...wouldn't have been so bad if it hadn't also been my birthday! "
Fuck that's rough!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I haven't been on many dates; I'm not the dateable kind it seems.
I remember a double date once with my best friend and two Italian men,where my friend's date spoke to me more than her. We gave each other the look and made our excuses.
Everyone is the dateable type you just need to find the right 1."
I think I'm past dating now. It's why I'm on here
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By (user no longer on site)
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I dont get how everyone finds it so weird. She probably wants her kid's opinion of you or wants to see how you react (I.e if you react with shock/disgust and weren't good with them, shed know the two of you wouldn't work)
I wouldn't find it weird at all if she let me know beforehand. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I dont get how everyone finds it so weird. She probably wants her kid's opinion of you or wants to see how you react (I.e if you react with shock/disgust and weren't good with them, shed know the two of you wouldn't work)
I wouldn't find it weird at all if she let me know beforehand."
I'm not sure if you are a parent or not but that's just not right at all. Plus I didn't know they were coming. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"with a very nice man, who was very recently separated,talked endlessly about his ex, then announced 'im sorry, i thought i was ready for this but i'm not'...then burst into tears and fled...wouldn't have been so bad if it hadn't also been my birthday! "
I had that a few years ago with someone from here. We had just had sex and he blurted it all out, then cried. I felt very sad for him and said he probably wasn't in the right frame of mind for casual sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone who couldn't get a sitter?
If that's the case just cancel I'd fully understand as a parent myself."
So she didn't even ask you if it was okay to bring the kids, she just turned up with them? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I dont get how everyone finds it so weird. She probably wants her kid's opinion of you or wants to see how you react (I.e if you react with shock/disgust and weren't good with them, shed know the two of you wouldn't work)
I wouldn't find it weird at all if she let me know beforehand."
In this case, they obviously didn't.
Also, first date? Seriously? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me I've had it twice now where women turn up with their kids. WTF is wrong with people. Who turns up on a 1st date with their kids."
On here or proper date |
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By *ornbugCouple
over a year ago
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"Seriously fucking weird. Surely a safeguarding issue too
Amen sister."
Why would it he a safeguarding ussue? Not like she's leaving then in the foyer to go fuck someone is it?
Maybe she didnt want to let anyone down...
Seems abit far fetched to happen twice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"with a very nice man, who was very recently separated,talked endlessly about his ex, then announced 'im sorry, i thought i was ready for this but i'm not'...then burst into tears and fled...wouldn't have been so bad if it hadn't also been my birthday!
Fuck that's rough!!"
i know, i felt so bad for him..poor sod! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont get how everyone finds it so weird. She probably wants her kid's opinion of you or wants to see how you react (I.e if you react with shock/disgust and weren't good with them, shed know the two of you wouldn't work)
I wouldn't find it weird at all if she let me know beforehand."
It's not really the way to go when you have children. It's different if you're just meeting a friend, but not possible boyfriends. It's not fair on the children. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Seriously fucking weird. Surely a safeguarding issue too
Amen sister.
Why would it he a safeguarding ussue? Not like she's leaving then in the foyer to go fuck someone is it?
Maybe she didnt want to let anyone down...
Seems abit far fetched to happen twice."
Wasn't the same person just in my dating life its happened twice. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"For me I've had it twice now where women turn up with their kids. WTF is wrong with people. Who turns up on a 1st date with their kids.
On here or proper date"
And proper date but they were years apart and not the same person. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Someone who couldn't get a sitter?
If that's the case just cancel I'd fully understand as a parent myself.
So she didn't even ask you if it was okay to bring the kids, she just turned up with them? "
Just turned up. I don't mind kids but 1st date is just a massive no no. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think strangest date was when I picked the lady up in my car was on the way to the pub and she wanted to stop at the grave yard on the way to show me where her ex was buried then broke down in tears in my car. Turned out he had only died 3 months before and her friends had told her to start dating again. she definitely wasn't ready and had a lot of grieving left to do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I dont get how everyone finds it so weird. She probably wants her kid's opinion of you or wants to see how you react (I.e if you react with shock/disgust and weren't good with them, shed know the two of you wouldn't work)
I wouldn't find it weird at all if she let me know beforehand.
In this case, they obviously didn't.
Also, first date? Seriously? "
Might be a generational thing, my"first dates" have always been extremely casual, like a daytime coffee/something to eat or whatever, if she turned up with a kid I'd just think "oh well, I'm obviously not going to be shagging her tonight" - beyond that, I wouldn't feel the shock expressed in this thread. Can see how it would be different for a formal romantic date. |
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"I think strangest date was when I picked the lady up in my car was on the way to the pub and she wanted to stop at the grave yard on the way to show me where her ex was buried then broke down in tears in my car. Turned out he had only died 3 months before and her friends had told her to start dating again. she definitely wasn't ready and had a lot of grieving left to do. "
That's a tough situation it's at that we have to stop seeing it as a date and be a good person. Friends pushing her when she wasnt ready. |
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There's no way I'd have ever turned up on a first date - with a guy I didn't know - with my children. No offence to you OP but they could have turned out to be all sorts of peculiar, who'd want to expose their kids to that, or to have them confused by the 'relationship' between their mum and thus strange man?
In a weird parallel, I once had a first (and only) date with a man who told me in all seriousness (I laughed - he set me straight) that he'd like more kids and that he could see me as their mother. We'd literally only just met |
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"There's no way I'd have ever turned up on a first date - with a guy I didn't know - with my children. No offence to you OP but they could have turned out to be all sorts of peculiar, who'd want to expose their kids to that, or to have them confused by the 'relationship' between their mum and thus strange man?
In a weird parallel, I once had a first (and only) date with a man who told me in all seriousness (I laughed - he set me straight) that he'd like more kids and that he could see me as their mother. We'd literally only just met "
Totally agree. I've no issue talking about my kids but to meet on a 1st date for me is just an odd thing and to cap it off the 1st one wanted a kiss off me in front of her kids. We didn't go on a 2nd date. |
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"I dont get how everyone finds it so weird. She probably wants her kid's opinion of you or wants to see how you react (I.e if you react with shock/disgust and weren't good with them, shed know the two of you wouldn't work)
I wouldn't find it weird at all if she let me know beforehand.
In this case, they obviously didn't.
Also, first date? Seriously?
Might be a generational thing, my"first dates" have always been extremely casual, like a daytime coffee/something to eat or whatever, if she turned up with a kid I'd just think "oh well, I'm obviously not going to be shagging her tonight" - beyond that, I wouldn't feel the shock expressed in this thread. Can see how it would be different for a formal romantic date."
Nope not a generation thing at all. It's normal in India and Afghanistan though, they bring the whole family to meet you - grandpa and all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think strangest date was when I picked the lady up in my car was on the way to the pub and she wanted to stop at the grave yard on the way to show me where her ex was buried then broke down in tears in my car. Turned out he had only died 3 months before and her friends had told her to start dating again. she definitely wasn't ready and had a lot of grieving left to do.
That's a tough situation it's at that we have to stop seeing it as a date and be a good person. Friends pushing her when she wasnt ready."
Yeah her freinds were been way to pushy i was a gentleman took her back to her mums and i had a brew with her mum still see her mum from time to time out shopping and she always comes and says hello. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I dont get how everyone finds it so weird. She probably wants her kid's opinion of you or wants to see how you react (I.e if you react with shock/disgust and weren't good with them, shed know the two of you wouldn't work)
I wouldn't find it weird at all if she let me know beforehand.
In this case, they obviously didn't.
Also, first date? Seriously?
Might be a generational thing, my"first dates" have always been extremely casual, like a daytime coffee/something to eat or whatever, if she turned up with a kid I'd just think "oh well, I'm obviously not going to be shagging her tonight" - beyond that, I wouldn't feel the shock expressed in this thread. Can see how it would be different for a formal romantic date.
Nope not a generation thing at all. It's normal in India and Afghanistan though, they bring the whole family to meet you - grandpa and all"
Maybe a cultural thing then. That would freak me out though if granny turned up. |
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"There's no way I'd have ever turned up on a first date - with a guy I didn't know - with my children. No offence to you OP but they could have turned out to be all sorts of peculiar, who'd want to expose their kids to that, or to have them confused by the 'relationship' between their mum and thus strange man?
In a weird parallel, I once had a first (and only) date with a man who told me in all seriousness (I laughed - he set me straight) that he'd like more kids and that he could see me as their mother. We'd literally only just met
Totally agree. I've no issue talking about my kids but to meet on a 1st date for me is just an odd thing and to cap it off the 1st one wanted a kiss off me in front of her kids. We didn't go on a 2nd date."
Guarantee she'd be talking about her next baby by date 3. Bitches be crazy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's no way I'd have ever turned up on a first date - with a guy I didn't know - with my children. No offence to you OP but they could have turned out to be all sorts of peculiar, who'd want to expose their kids to that, or to have them confused by the 'relationship' between their mum and thus strange man?
In a weird parallel, I once had a first (and only) date with a man who told me in all seriousness (I laughed - he set me straight) that he'd like more kids and that he could see me as their mother. We'd literally only just met "
I dated someone a lot younger than me who chose me because he wanted blonde haired, blue eyed children. After telling him I wasn't capable of carrying another baby he asked if I still had eggs. |
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"I dont get how everyone finds it so weird. She probably wants her kid's opinion of you or wants to see how you react (I.e if you react with shock/disgust and weren't good with them, shed know the two of you wouldn't work)
I wouldn't find it weird at all if she let me know beforehand.
In this case, they obviously didn't.
Also, first date? Seriously?
Might be a generational thing, my"first dates" have always been extremely casual, like a daytime coffee/something to eat or whatever, if she turned up with a kid I'd just think "oh well, I'm obviously not going to be shagging her tonight" - beyond that, I wouldn't feel the shock expressed in this thread. Can see how it would be different for a formal romantic date.
Nope not a generation thing at all. It's normal in India and Afghanistan though, they bring the whole family to meet you - grandpa and all
Maybe a cultural thing then. That would freak me out though if granny turned up."
To be fair, granny probably has a more informed opinion on your suitability than a little kid! How old were these kids? |
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"There's no way I'd have ever turned up on a first date - with a guy I didn't know - with my children. No offence to you OP but they could have turned out to be all sorts of peculiar, who'd want to expose their kids to that, or to have them confused by the 'relationship' between their mum and thus strange man?
In a weird parallel, I once had a first (and only) date with a man who told me in all seriousness (I laughed - he set me straight) that he'd like more kids and that he could see me as their mother. We'd literally only just met
I dated someone a lot younger than me who chose me because he wanted blonde haired, blue eyed children. After telling him I wasn't capable of carrying another baby he asked if I still had eggs. "
When he left did he say "goodbye" or "sieg heil"? |
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
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I can't ever imagine doing that! In fact, I think it'd take some considerable time to be actually dating someone and for me to be fairly sure it was actually going somewhere before introducing the kids to anyone. Two and a half years single and I still can't even picture that in my head!  |
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They were maybe used to it
When I did dating sites, I was honest that I struggle for childcare to meet and almost every guy would say "well it's only a coffee just bring the kids along" or words to that effect |
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mine was flying over to Malta (no I'm not a ho)after speaking with someone for a few months online to find the weekend was spent on his Yacht even though I was terrified of open water. Spent all weekend below deck with my head near a toilet...not a good look for a 1st date. |
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I met a recently divorced guy 3 times; he spent all the time moaning about his ex, talking about his ex and was late twice. He also told me how his mum had left dinners in the freezer whilst she was away, and how his Auntie had offered to do his washing ! I thought fuck it, you are boring and so not sexy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I turned up to a date with my dogs 
Great idea, dogs are an excellent judge of character!  "
Exactly! People who don't like my dogs are not my sort of people |
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"I met a recently divorced guy 3 times; he spent all the time moaning about his ex, talking about his ex and was late twice. He also told me how his mum had left dinners in the freezer whilst she was away, and how his Auntie had offered to do his washing ! I thought fuck it, you are boring and so not sexy."
Not a fan of people being late, for me shows lack of respect. |
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"I met a recently divorced guy 3 times; he spent all the time moaning about his ex, talking about his ex and was late twice. He also told me how his mum had left dinners in the freezer whilst she was away, and how his Auntie had offered to do his washing ! I thought fuck it, you are boring and so not sexy."
Yet you met him 3 times... |
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"I met a recently divorced guy 3 times; he spent all the time moaning about his ex, talking about his ex and was late twice. He also told me how his mum had left dinners in the freezer whilst she was away, and how his Auntie had offered to do his washing ! I thought fuck it, you are boring and so not sexy.
Yet you met him 3 times... "
I gave him a chance ! It got worse |
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"I met a recently divorced guy 3 times; he spent all the time moaning about his ex, talking about his ex and was late twice. He also told me how his mum had left dinners in the freezer whilst she was away, and how his Auntie had offered to do his washing ! I thought fuck it, you are boring and so not sexy.
Yet you met him 3 times...
I gave him a chance ! It got worse "
One chance me |
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By *orum TrollWoman
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i had a guy cry about his ex on a date, that wasn't the worst date though.
it was boring little man who just sat there (just as bored as me) while i prattled on for over an hour making all the effort and still expected me to be horny by the end of that.
nope. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have never really "dated" i kind of fell into my relationship with my husband and then when we separated i think i would freak out over the idea of a date |
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"I met a recently divorced guy 3 times; he spent all the time moaning about his ex, talking about his ex and was late twice. He also told me how his mum had left dinners in the freezer whilst she was away, and how his Auntie had offered to do his washing ! I thought fuck it, you are boring and so not sexy.
Yet you met him 3 times...
I gave him a chance ! It got worse
One chance me"
Yup, there's only one oppprtunity to make a good first impression. And it ain't done pushing a pram |
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Dating, still can't get my head round it really. The couple of relationships I've had, I've just fallen into.
Worst date? Guy turning up wearing a tracksuit and carrying a woman's handbag! |
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"Dating, still can't get my head round it really. The couple of relationships I've had, I've just fallen into.
Worst date? Guy turning up wearing a tracksuit and carrying a woman's handbag! "
To be fair, tracksuits aren't great at holding your wallet and keys. Or eye liner |
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"There's no way I'd have ever turned up on a first date - with a guy I didn't know - with my children. No offence to you OP but they could have turned out to be all sorts of peculiar, who'd want to expose their kids to that, or to have them confused by the 'relationship' between their mum and thus strange man?
In a weird parallel, I once had a first (and only) date with a man who told me in all seriousness (I laughed - he set me straight) that he'd like more kids and that he could see me as their mother. We'd literally only just met
I dated someone a lot younger than me who chose me because he wanted blonde haired, blue eyed children. After telling him I wasn't capable of carrying another baby he asked if I still had eggs.
When he left did he say "goodbye" or "sieg heil"? "
You jest, but after a while he told me he wasn't racist, he hated everyone (except Polish girls who were all beautiful to him-he was Polish), and then asked me if I'd had sex with a black man, because he wouldn't have sex with a woman who had. This confirmed to me that having a Masters degree doesn't equate to being intelligent. |
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"Dating, still can't get my head round it really. The couple of relationships I've had, I've just fallen into.
Worst date? Guy turning up wearing a tracksuit and carrying a woman's handbag!
To be fair, tracksuits aren't great at holding your wallet and keys. Or eye liner "
Nearly died and I'm far too nice to say jog on! Although the opening line of "I was expecting to see a fat bird but there isn't one here" really clinched it for me! |
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"There's no way I'd have ever turned up on a first date - with a guy I didn't know - with my children. No offence to you OP but they could have turned out to be all sorts of peculiar, who'd want to expose their kids to that, or to have them confused by the 'relationship' between their mum and thus strange man?
In a weird parallel, I once had a first (and only) date with a man who told me in all seriousness (I laughed - he set me straight) that he'd like more kids and that he could see me as their mother. We'd literally only just met
I dated someone a lot younger than me who chose me because he wanted blonde haired, blue eyed children. After telling him I wasn't capable of carrying another baby he asked if I still had eggs.
When he left did he say "goodbye" or "sieg heil"?
You jest, but after a while he told me he wasn't racist, he hated everyone (except Polish girls who were all beautiful to him-he was Polish), and then asked me if I'd had sex with a black man, because he wouldn't have sex with a woman who had. This confirmed to me that having a Masters degree doesn't equate to being intelligent. "
To be honest the dumbest people i know have PhDs. The problem with education is it makes people more confident in their prejudices. |
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"Dating, still can't get my head round it really. The couple of relationships I've had, I've just fallen into.
Worst date? Guy turning up wearing a tracksuit and carrying a woman's handbag!
To be fair, tracksuits aren't great at holding your wallet and keys. Or eye liner
Nearly died and I'm far too nice to say jog on! Although the opening line of "I was expecting to see a fat bird but there isn't one here" really clinched it for me! "
I like his style - high risk / high rewards. He's got balls. |
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You jest, but after a while he told me he wasn't racist, he hated everyone (except Polish girls who were all beautiful to him-he was Polish), and then asked me if I'd had sex with a black man, because he wouldn't have sex with a woman who had. This confirmed to me that having a Masters degree doesn't equate to being intelligent. "
How does a preference for women who don't race mix equate to being thick?
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"Dating, still can't get my head round it really. The couple of relationships I've had, I've just fallen into.
Worst date? Guy turning up wearing a tracksuit and carrying a woman's handbag!
To be fair, tracksuits aren't great at holding your wallet and keys. Or eye liner
Nearly died and I'm far too nice to say jog on! Although the opening line of "I was expecting to see a fat bird but there isn't one here" really clinched it for me!
I like his style - high risk / high rewards. He's got balls. "
Lol!! Fortunately I never saw them! |
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You jest, but after a while he told me he wasn't racist, he hated everyone (except Polish girls who were all beautiful to him-he was Polish), and then asked me if I'd had sex with a black man, because he wouldn't have sex with a woman who had. This confirmed to me that having a Masters degree doesn't equate to being intelligent.
How does a preference for women who don't race mix equate to being thick?
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Because it's a prejudice not a preference and prejudice is based in ignorance |
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You jest, but after a while he told me he wasn't racist, he hated everyone (except Polish girls who were all beautiful to him-he was Polish), and then asked me if I'd had sex with a black man, because he wouldn't have sex with a woman who had. This confirmed to me that having a Masters degree doesn't equate to being intelligent.
How does a preference for women who don't race mix equate to being thick?
Because it's a prejudice not a preference and prejudice is based in ignorance "
So, do you think Princess Charlotte will be allowed to sleep with a black man when she grows up? If not, is this due to the royal family being uneducated?
Just because you find something offensive, it doesn't mean that it's the product of an inferior intellect to your own. We don't get to bend the rules of life to suite our own view of how it should be. |
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"I went on a date with the wrong guy once "
How??
My worst was last year... he swore a lot, was on his phone texting (to his Mum, he said when I challenged him, lol) and it transpired after I'd brought the first round that he'd come out without any money and was expecting me to pay for us to have food too (when I'd said earlier in the day I was broke so didn't want to get food). Bless him (or something like that he wasn't the brightest penny... he was confused by the concept of that it was possible to cook curry without chicken in it (I'm vegetarian). Needless to say I was back in my car within 15 minutes! I was most put out because didn't even get to finish my drink & I wasn't even that interested I only ended up agreeing because he'd worn me down!  |
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Worst date....
Used to be on Tinder, chatted to a guy for several weeks, really hit it off, and arranged for him to come visit for weekend.
He was a perfect gent & booked into local travelodge.
I'm 6', clearly stated on profile, I don't like short men.
This guy drove for nearly 2hrs to meet me, Sat in bar waiting... In walks a 5'6" midget, at least 15yrs older than his age or photos showed!
He moaned the first 20mins about what a horrible drive he'd had to get there, then told me he didn't like children, and he'd chosen not to have any with his ex wife, he knew I had 3 boys, then ordered himself a drink without offering to buy me one.
I went to the loo, and left out the side door!
Blocked him on phone & WhatsApp soon as I got to my car. |
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I've not been on a proper date in years, just because i thought it wasn't really my thing! Reading some of the horror stories on this thread has just been conformation that it's definitely not my thing |
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I've had the kids brought as well as parents on dates with different people. Some people aren't particularly good with boundaries.
Someone brought their parents in to the bedroom to introduce me - but that wasn't the worst aspect of the meet - it was the uncomfortable bed! |
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You jest, but after a while he told me he wasn't racist, he hated everyone (except Polish girls who were all beautiful to him-he was Polish), and then asked me if I'd had sex with a black man, because he wouldn't have sex with a woman who had. This confirmed to me that having a Masters degree doesn't equate to being intelligent.
How does a preference for women who don't race mix equate to being thick?
Because it's a prejudice not a preference and prejudice is based in ignorance
So, do you think Princess Charlotte will be allowed to sleep with a black man when she grows up? If not, is this due to the royal family being uneducated?
Just because you find something offensive, it doesn't mean that it's the product of an inferior intellect to your own. We don't get to bend the rules of life to suite our own view of how it should be."
I didn't follow any of your logic there. Give me some examples of why a rational, reasonably intelligent man would refuse to date a woman who had shagged a black guy? |
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You jest, but after a while he told me he wasn't racist, he hated everyone (except Polish girls who were all beautiful to him-he was Polish), and then asked me if I'd had sex with a black man, because he wouldn't have sex with a woman who had. This confirmed to me that having a Masters degree doesn't equate to being intelligent.
How does a preference for women who don't race mix equate to being thick?
Because it's a prejudice not a preference and prejudice is based in ignorance
So, do you think Princess Charlotte will be allowed to sleep with a black man when she grows up? If not, is this due to the royal family being uneducated?
Just because you find something offensive, it doesn't mean that it's the product of an inferior intellect to your own. We don't get to bend the rules of life to suite our own view of how it should be.
I didn't follow any of your logic there. Give me some examples of why a rational, reasonably intelligent man would refuse to date a woman who had shagged a black guy? "
I don't think people's preferences have anything to do with intelligence! Wrongly or rightly it's usually down to past experience that puts them off a certain race, type etc ......... |
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You jest, but after a while he told me he wasn't racist, he hated everyone (except Polish girls who were all beautiful to him-he was Polish), and then asked me if I'd had sex with a black man, because he wouldn't have sex with a woman who had. This confirmed to me that having a Masters degree doesn't equate to being intelligent.
How does a preference for women who don't race mix equate to being thick?
Because it's a prejudice not a preference and prejudice is based in ignorance
So, do you think Princess Charlotte will be allowed to sleep with a black man when she grows up? If not, is this due to the royal family being uneducated?
Just because you find something offensive, it doesn't mean that it's the product of an inferior intellect to your own. We don't get to bend the rules of life to suite our own view of how it should be.
I didn't follow any of your logic there. Give me some examples of why a rational, reasonably intelligent man would refuse to date a woman who had shagged a black guy?
I don't think people's preferences have anything to do with intelligence! Wrongly or rightly it's usually down to past experience that puts them off a certain race, type etc ......... "
Preference would be "i don't want to fuck a black person". "I won't fuck you because you fucked a black person" is pure prejudice. |
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Preference would be "i don't want to fuck a black person". "I won't fuck you because you fucked a black person" is pure prejudice. "
Yes and most Poles are prejudiced towards black people, it still has absolutely zero to do with intelligence.
You are more intelligent than Adolf Hitler was, are you? He was quite prejudiced. |
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You jest, but after a while he told me he wasn't racist, he hated everyone (except Polish girls who were all beautiful to him-he was Polish), and then asked me if I'd had sex with a black man, because he wouldn't have sex with a woman who had. This confirmed to me that having a Masters degree doesn't equate to being intelligent.
How does a preference for women who don't race mix equate to being thick?
Because it's a prejudice not a preference and prejudice is based in ignorance
So, do you think Princess Charlotte will be allowed to sleep with a black man when she grows up? If not, is this due to the royal family being uneducated?
Just because you find something offensive, it doesn't mean that it's the product of an inferior intellect to your own. We don't get to bend the rules of life to suite our own view of how it should be.
I didn't follow any of your logic there. Give me some examples of why a rational, reasonably intelligent man would refuse to date a woman who had shagged a black guy?
I don't think people's preferences have anything to do with intelligence! Wrongly or rightly it's usually down to past experience that puts them off a certain race, type etc .........
Preference would be "i don't want to fuck a black person". "I won't fuck you because you fucked a black person" is pure prejudice. "
Some women prefer black men and as a result can be quite negative towards white men, maybe he has experienced some of these women and doesn't want to play any part of it. I'm not saying being prejudice is right but if he was really that harsh there must be a reason for it! X |
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Preference would be "i don't want to fuck a black person". "I won't fuck you because you fucked a black person" is pure prejudice.
Yes and most Poles are prejudiced towards black people, it still has absolutely zero to do with intelligence.
You are more intelligent than Adolf Hitler was, are you? He was quite prejudiced."
I notice you keep dodging my question. Adolf Hitler was not an intelligent man. Good speaker, risk taker - but not intelligent. |
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Preference would be "i don't want to fuck a black person". "I won't fuck you because you fucked a black person" is pure prejudice.
Yes and most Poles are prejudiced towards black people, it still has absolutely zero to do with intelligence.
You are more intelligent than Adolf Hitler was, are you? He was quite prejudiced.
I notice you keep dodging my question. Adolf Hitler was not an intelligent man. Good speaker, risk taker - but not intelligent. "
What question have I dodged?
You claim that prejudice equates to a lack of intelligence, I've told you it doesn't (I could write a long list of extremely prejudiced people who are infinitely more intelligent than you)
As for being more intelligent than Hitler... - Go to bed, mate. |
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Preference would be "i don't want to fuck a black person". "I won't fuck you because you fucked a black person" is pure prejudice.
Yes and most Poles are prejudiced towards black people, it still has absolutely zero to do with intelligence.
You are more intelligent than Adolf Hitler was, are you? He was quite prejudiced.
I notice you keep dodging my question. Adolf Hitler was not an intelligent man. Good speaker, risk taker - but not intelligent.
What question have I dodged?
You claim that prejudice equates to a lack of intelligence, I've told you it doesn't (I could write a long list of extremely prejudiced people who are infinitely more intelligent than you)
As for being more intelligent than Hitler... - Go to bed, mate."
Maybe learn a bit about WW2 and the volumes of decisions where Hitler overrode military commanders to the detriment of the war effort.
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Preference would be "i don't want to fuck a black person". "I won't fuck you because you fucked a black person" is pure prejudice.
Yes and most Poles are prejudiced towards black people, it still has absolutely zero to do with intelligence.
You are more intelligent than Adolf Hitler was, are you? He was quite prejudiced.
I notice you keep dodging my question. Adolf Hitler was not an intelligent man. Good speaker, risk taker - but not intelligent.
What question have I dodged?
You claim that prejudice equates to a lack of intelligence, I've told you it doesn't (I could write a long list of extremely prejudiced people who are infinitely more intelligent than you)
As for being more intelligent than Hitler... - Go to bed, mate.
Maybe learn a bit about WW2 and the volumes of decisions where Hitler overrode military commanders to the detriment of the war effort.
Question: Give me some examples of why a rational, reasonably intelligent man would refuse to date a woman who had shagged a black guy?"
Talented artist (would certainly be professional by today's standards), wrote a 900 page semi-autobiographical novel as a teenager, led a nation that conquered half of Europe... Less intelligent than some guy on Fabswingers, because the guy on Fabswingers likes black people.
Rational to some people is different to our rational... In Poland, it's entirely rational to be racist, as it's a right-wing nationalist country. Does the fact that it is a right-wing, Nationalist country mean that there isn't a Pole more intelligent than you? The Queen wouldnt allow her grandaughter to sleep with a black guy due to lineage, are you more intelligent than the queen? The list goes on..
Please tell me where "intelligence" comes in to it? What if you are extremely well read on the plight of black people but don't care? That makes you cruel, not stupid.
In conclusion, for the 10th time, prejudice has no inverse correlation whatsoever to intelligence. You don't appear to be racist and you don't seem at all bright, which hammers home the point. |
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Well if they turn up with the kids shows they are not just looking for fun in back of car but just be greatful is wasn't the mother and father they turned up with and the vicor |
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Preference would be "i don't want to fuck a black person". "I won't fuck you because you fucked a black person" is pure prejudice.
Yes and most Poles are prejudiced towards black people, it still has absolutely zero to do with intelligence.
You are more intelligent than Adolf Hitler was, are you? He was quite prejudiced.
I notice you keep dodging my question. Adolf Hitler was not an intelligent man. Good speaker, risk taker - but not intelligent.
What question have I dodged?
You claim that prejudice equates to a lack of intelligence, I've told you it doesn't (I could write a long list of extremely prejudiced people who are infinitely more intelligent than you)
As for being more intelligent than Hitler... - Go to bed, mate.
Maybe learn a bit about WW2 and the volumes of decisions where Hitler overrode military commanders to the detriment of the war effort.
Question: Give me some examples of why a rational, reasonably intelligent man would refuse to date a woman who had shagged a black guy?
Talented artist (would certainly be professional by today's standards), wrote a 900 page semi-autobiographical novel as a teenager, led a nation that conquered half of Europe... Less intelligent than some guy on Fabswingers, because the guy on Fabswingers likes black people.
Rational to some people is different to our rational... In Poland, it's entirely rational to be racist, as it's a right-wing nationalist country. Does the fact that it is a right-wing, Nationalist country mean that there isn't a Pole more intelligent than you? The Queen wouldnt allow her grandaughter to sleep with a black guy due to lineage, are you more intelligent than the queen? The list goes on..
Please tell me where "intelligence" comes in to it? What if you are extremely well read on the plight of black people but don't care? That makes you cruel, not stupid.
In conclusion, for the 10th time, prejudice has no inverse correlation whatsoever to intelligence. You don't appear to be racist and you don't seem at all bright, which hammers home the point."
Well you stick to your ill conceived anecdotal stories and i'll stick with the scientific method for my evidence.
Here's a few of the many studies showing the correlation between racism and low intelligence:
Are Smart People Less Racist? Verbal Ability, Anti-Black Prejudice, and the Principle-Policy Paradox
Geoffrey T. Wodtke (2016)
Bright Minds and Dark Attitudes. Lower Cognitive Ability Predicts Greater Prejudice Through Right-Wing Ideology and Low Intergroup Contact
Gordon Hodson, Michael A. Busseri (2012)
Does Lower Cognitive Ability Predict Greater Prejudice?
Kristof Dhont, Gordon Hodson (2014) |
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