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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

At 34 do you think I'd know by now if multiple people was gonna be one of my kinks? Is it one of those things that if I don't try I'll never know if I like it?

Have no interest or sexual thoughts about DP or more than one man at a time.

I'm happy just with one guy and servicing him and him doing things to me, does it mean I'm not as filthy as people who do more than 2sums?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not at all. If it's not for you, then it's not for you. I'm sure there's things that you enjoy that others just don't have any interest in.

Just have fun your way

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Of course not,but 3sums can be damn good!

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By *uckOfTheBayMan over a year ago

Mold

Reading some of your other posts your kink level is already pretty high

Moresomes can be great fun, but are not the be all and end all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i didnt start any of this until i was 45 and then not properly until 6 years ago - and still doing things id thought i wouldnt -

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No, we all have our preferences. You might change but it doesn't matter if you don't. We all can't like the same things. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I suppose it depends on your definition of 'filthy', you've definitely got some kinks that I think fit into that category

3 Sums may not be on your radar now but who knows how you may feel in the future.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No that just means you know what you want and like thats all some people like more others like to concentrate on just 1 which i think makes you a better lover x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm more of a one on one type of guy. I've got a few kinks I suppose, and I know a few things draw me in when I think of them. If I was to enjoy a sexy time with a couple/few woman I like at the same time, wow. Maybe if I'm

Lucky.

But I think my biggest kink is getting intense and seriously sexy with just the one woman who has my complete attention. That can be a kink can't it?

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By *dam1971Man over a year ago

Bedford

As Woody Allen said, sex is a beautiful thing between two people. Between five it's fantastic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As Woody Allen said, sex is a beautiful thing between two people. Between five it's fantastic

Well said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Try dvp

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The trouble with having sex with multiple people at the same time, you have to all be on the same page.

I had a threesome but the guy who joined us was intimidated by my then FWB, so the experience wasn't as passionate and energetic as i would have liked.

I also have a fear of feeling left out and i get cock possessive, so i'd never have sex where another woman joins in.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman over a year ago

Limbo

Thing is, this isn't a competition. Are we here simply to be 'filthy' (which is very subjective) or just to have a good time? I'd suggest the latter, in whatever form that takes.

Moresomes can be very enjoyable - because of the different physical sensations, the extra opportunities with multiple people, the sheer abandonment of it all .... but the downside *can* be that it's extra hard to find a multi-way chemistry between you all, and it's something I can't relax into quite as much as a one to one because I'm always worrying about everyone being included, and not monopolising an individual etc.

If you don't have any particular urge or curiosity to try, then why bother? Just do what makes you feel good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The trouble with having sex with multiple people at the same time, you have to all be on the same page.

I had a threesome but the guy who joined us was intimidated by my then FWB, so the experience wasn't as passionate and energetic as i would have liked.

I also have a fear of feeling left out and i get cock possessive, so i'd never have sex where another woman joins in.

No another bird there would be like my worst nightmares being played out in front of my face!

I still think you and I should have a social though, we've probably passed each other in Asda and never known!

Like a social where we have a take away and a chat, I'm only by porthcawl!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had my first threesome during my first year on fab - i've been here 4 years

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The trouble with having sex with multiple people at the same time, you have to all be on the same page.

I had a threesome but the guy who joined us was intimidated by my then FWB, so the experience wasn't as passionate and energetic as i would have liked.

I also have a fear of feeling left out and i get cock possessive, so i'd never have sex where another woman joins in.

No another bird there would be like my worst nightmares being played out in front of my face!

I still think you and I should have a social though, we've probably passed each other in Asda and never known!

Like a social where we have a take away and a chat, I'm only by porthcawl!"

I'm near Maesteg, if it's Bridgend Asda we might well have! I'm always up for a natter!

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By *wcwCouple over a year ago

cheshire

"At 34 do you think I'd know by now if multiple people was gonna be one of my kinks? Is it one of those things that if I don't try I'll never know if I like it?

Have no interest or sexual thoughts about DP or more than one man at a time.

I'm happy just with one guy and servicing him and him doing things to me, does it mean I'm not as filthy as people who do more than 2sums?"
try a 3or more some. Once. To see what you think. You can always sat stop. Weve tried diff things. And found out we are not kean on some activeties.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like group stuff, it's what I miss most in not meeting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've tried them and yes it was fun but I still much prefer one to one meets.

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By *ieman300Man over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

I always like to push my own boundaries for fun and excitement. Try new things etc. Never had anything other than 1 to 1 either. The idea intrigues but wont lose sleep over it if it doesnt happen.

Just my view.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I consider myself very kinky, but have no interest in playing with more than one guy at a time - unless both are fully bi, but then I prefer to watch anyway. The thought of a gangbang turns me off, plus I'd never find enough men I was attacted to

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I much prefer one one ones. Better intimacy and kissing involved. Im too greedy aswell, as in dont wanna share!

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By *orum TrollWoman over a year ago

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i had my first one aged 17, and a few more with a casual guy i was seeing a couple of years later. i enjoyed them at the time, and even wanted a relationship with 2 guys at once but it never happened so i put it to the back of my mind.

i think you can like stuff at any age and not care if you have it again or not. or it can become an all consuming desire, where you know you def want it again. and the same for fantasies.

some things might never appeal, never be enjoyable, i do think it's easier to write stuff off as not sexy or uninteresting than it is to decide you'd love to try something out.

doesn't mean you're less dirty/naughty whatever you do. a lot of things others find kinky i think is boring or normal.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You'll never know for sure unless you try it. I love miltiple guys at the same time. The feeling of two or more men pleasuring my body is mind blowing.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman over a year ago

your imagination

Not at all... My preference is for 1-1 with someone I've great chemistry with, and whom I can lavish all my attention on. Having said that I did organise an MFF last Christmas with a good friend as a special treat for myself and a former fwb and it was great fun. I guess it just depends on the individuals involved. MMF is something I might try at some point, but its not a priority and if it doesn't happen I won't lose sleep over it...

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

I (miss) have never really been interested in sex with more than 1 person at a time.

Jack really enjoys group fun,so meets couples alone with my blessing.

Its something i might want to do in future ,but prefer straight swaps at min.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have found the more I try, the more I am into. Never imagined I would like half the stuff that I ended up loving. Still experimenting and it's all been great fun.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only ever had one foursome which was great. Would like to try more group play but it's not so easy to come by as a single guy unless you want to meet couples, which I'm not so keen on. I think one on one will always be my preference but a bit of variety occasionally would be nice.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"At 34 do you think I'd know by now if multiple people was gonna be one of my kinks? Is it one of those things that if I don't try I'll never know if I like it?

Have no interest or sexual thoughts about DP or more than one man at a time.

I'm happy just with one guy and servicing him and him doing things to me, does it mean I'm not as filthy as people who do more than 2sums?"

We were so unsure about 3 or more sums at first but going to a club soon changed that, we started watching others then playing while others watched, then eventually joining in and the best thing about it is if it's not for you just say no or leave the room xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

FM or FFM is my preference, I'm not looking to break records..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I just don't have the energy (and probably inclination )for more than 1-1 at the moment though never say never

That said, I would have to be the only female and no more than a 3some

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I could do a cock sucking line up if there were 4 or 5 guys I fancied with big willys in a line. I'd go up and down the line and then behind them for some bum hole attention.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I could do a cock sucking line up if there were 4 or 5 guys I fancied with big willys in a line. I'd go up and down the line and then behind them for some bum hole attention. "

Waiting in the post office is never going to be quite the same.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I could do a cock sucking line up if there were 4 or 5 guys I fancied with big willys in a line. I'd go up and down the line and then behind them for some bum hole attention. "

It's all about the arsehole with you isn't it. Have you ever thought about training as a proctologist?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I could do a cock sucking line up if there were 4 or 5 guys I fancied with big willys in a line. I'd go up and down the line and then behind them for some bum hole attention.

It's all about the arsehole with you isn't it. Have you ever thought about training as a proctologist?

I'd be struck off for inappropriate behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

group stuff tends to be more light hearted most of the time - good fun sexy playtimes - one to one is more intimate - both have their place

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

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