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Not your usual "struggling to get 1st meet"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I promise this isnt the usual " what am i doing wrong" post. Believe it or not ive had quite a few offers from various different people on here, some tempting, some not so much and some just plain gag!
I really want to lose my Fab cherry but its just not quite working out. Yet! I dont even have a type but somethings stopping me. Maybe that stunner is just around the corner. Who knows. I dont even know what this post is! Haha. Maybe a whinge, i hope not though. Its more of a come and check me out, im actually a decent guy, own set of teeth, decent body and i can hold a conversation with the right company. Thanks for reading! Have a great day, and let the offers come pouring in  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't get the problem here, so... You actually don't have any problem to meet someone, but you want to meet the right person, and so you make a post, so maybe that right person contact you ?
Is that it ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why mention the offers that make you gag mate? People can't be to everybody's taste.
At least it's an offer. "
Dont be wet. My decision on whether something repulses me or not, and i dont think i said someone made me gag. You dont know what the offer was do you? |
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"Why mention the offers that make you gag mate? People can't be to everybody's taste.
At least it's an offer.
Dont be wet. My decision on whether something repulses me or not, and i dont think i said someone made me gag. You dont know what the offer was do you? "
You know the answer to that I think. |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
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"I promise this isnt the usual " what am i doing wrong" post. Believe it or not ive had quite a few offers from various different people on here, some tempting, some not so much and some just plain gag!
I really want to lose my Fab cherry but its just not quite working out. Yet! I dont even have a type but somethings stopping me. Maybe that stunner is just around the corner. Who knows. I dont even know what this post is! Haha. Maybe a whinge, i hope not though. Its more of a come and check me out, im actually a decent guy, own set of teeth, decent body and i can hold a conversation with the right company. Thanks for reading! Have a great day, and let the offers come pouring in "
good luck op 
t5here are a few good eggs on here although you would mot think so if you took the forums as a example of your average fab user . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I promise this isnt the usual " what am i doing wrong" post. Believe it or not ive had quite a few offers from various different people on here, some tempting, some not so much and some just plain gag!
I really want to lose my Fab cherry but its just not quite working out. Yet! I dont even have a type but somethings stopping me. Maybe that stunner is just around the corner. Who knows. I dont even know what this post is! Haha. Maybe a whinge, i hope not though. Its more of a come and check me out, im actually a decent guy, own set of teeth, decent body and i can hold a conversation with the right company. Thanks for reading! Have a great day, and let the offers come pouring in "
There's no rush it'll happen |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I promise this isnt the usual " what am i doing wrong" post. Believe it or not ive had quite a few offers from various different people on here, some tempting, some not so much and some just plain gag!
I really want to lose my Fab cherry but its just not quite working out. Yet! I dont even have a type but somethings stopping me. Maybe that stunner is just around the corner. Who knows. I dont even know what this post is! Haha. Maybe a whinge, i hope not though. Its more of a come and check me out, im actually a decent guy, own set of teeth, decent body and i can hold a conversation with the right company. Thanks for reading! Have a great day, and let the offers come pouring in
good luck op
t5here are a few good eggs on here although you would mot think so if you took the forums as a example of your average fab user ."
Cheers mate |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I promise this isnt the usual " what am i doing wrong" post. Believe it or not ive had quite a few offers from various different people on here, some tempting, some not so much and some just plain gag!
I really want to lose my Fab cherry but its just not quite working out. Yet! I dont even have a type but somethings stopping me. Maybe that stunner is just around the corner. Who knows. I dont even know what this post is! Haha. Maybe a whinge, i hope not though. Its more of a come and check me out, im actually a decent guy, own set of teeth, decent body and i can hold a conversation with the right company. Thanks for reading! Have a great day, and let the offers come pouring in
There's no rush it'll happen "
Thank you and fingers crossed. Just hope the right lady doesnt pass me by due to lack of veris. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would it be too much of a pain if you didn't meet who you're looking for, on here?
If it doesn't feel right, don't do it. Wait for the right person and get on with life while you wait. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Would it be too much of a pain if you didn't meet who you're looking for, on here?
If it doesn't feel right, don't do it. Wait for the right person and get on with life while you wait. "
No i agree with you actually, its just the case of so near yet so far. I think for gents on here theres alot more effort required just to even get a response from someone you like the look of. Women have the luxury of having their pick pretty much. Agree? |
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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago
in the eye of the storm |
"I promise this isnt the usual " what am i doing wrong" post. Believe it or not ive had quite a few offers from various different people on here, some tempting, some not so much and some just plain gag!
I really want to lose my Fab cherry but its just not quite working out. Yet! I dont even have a type but somethings stopping me. Maybe that stunner is just around the corner. Who knows. I dont even know what this post is! Haha. Maybe a whinge, i hope not though. Its more of a come and check me out, im actually a decent guy, own set of teeth, decent body and i can hold a conversation with the right company. Thanks for reading! Have a great day, and let the offers come pouring in
There's no rush it'll happen
Thank you and fingers crossed. Just hope the right lady doesnt pass me by due to lack of veris. "
I only have the odd veri op as I don't believe in the system I see it as nothing more than a failed system based around mutual back slapping and when I was meeting my lack off and refusal to give out veries never stopped me getting meets so I very much doubt your lack off will be a factor . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What are you looking for?
A social meet, a gf, a fwb, future wife?
Have a coffee and get verified. "
Looking for a FWB falcon. Tbh i dont want to get coffee with someone i dont see myself in bed with. I have plenty of friends for that. Sorry if thats crude. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What are you looking for?
A social meet, a gf, a fwb, future wife?
Have a coffee and get verified.
Looking for a FWB falcon. Tbh i dont want to get coffee with someone i dont see myself in bed with. I have plenty of friends for that. Sorry if thats crude. "
So it’s non social meets?
Just get down to business?
Not many women up for that tbh |
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"What are you looking for?
A social meet, a gf, a fwb, future wife?
Have a coffee and get verified.
Looking for a FWB falcon. Tbh i dont want to get coffee with someone i dont see myself in bed with. I have plenty of friends for that. Sorry if thats crude. "
Aah so basically you just want someone to service you regularly.
FWB is friends with benefits. That means you do stuff like go for a coffee  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What are you looking for?
A social meet, a gf, a fwb, future wife?
Have a coffee and get verified.
Looking for a FWB falcon. Tbh i dont want to get coffee with someone i dont see myself in bed with. I have plenty of friends for that. Sorry if thats crude.
So it’s non social meets?
Just get down to business?
Not many women up for that tbh "
Noooo missing my point, if i talk with someone here and feel like its going somewhere, then id be happy to meet for social first. Just saying i wouldnt meet for a social for the purpose of gaining a veri. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I haven't been here long but from the conversations I've had with guys it's really hard for them here. I admit....if I look at a profile of someone who has messaged me and they have no verifications I probably wont even reply. The longer they've been here without verifications the less likely i am to respond. If I see "over a year" I'm seeing a red flag. But then I realise that some of these guys MAY be genuine.. ..i just don't want to take that chance.
And you have every right to be picky and fussy. That shows you have good character. So you're walking an unfortunate line between waiting for the right one and looking like you're just here for a bit of knuckle action.
It'll happen.. .. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I haven't been here long but from the conversations I've had with guys it's really hard for them here. I admit....if I look at a profile of someone who has messaged me and they have no verifications I probably wont even reply. The longer they've been here without verifications the less likely i am to respond. If I see "over a year" I'm seeing a red flag. But then I realise that some of these guys MAY be genuine.. ..i just don't want to take that chance.
And you have every right to be picky and fussy. That shows you have good character. So you're walking an unfortunate line between waiting for the right one and looking like you're just here for a bit of knuckle action.
It'll happen.. .."
Couldnt agree more Brooke, and why would you bother taking a risk when you dont need to. I probably wouldnt if i were female on here.
I guess my saving grace is im not desperate, not yet anyway. Haha.
Normally i would just head into town on a night out but this feels more of a challenge and we all know what each other is doing here too.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I promise this isnt the usual " what am i doing wrong" post. Believe it or not ive had quite a few offers from various different people on here, some tempting, some not so much and some just plain gag!
I really want to lose my Fab cherry but its just not quite working out. Yet! I dont even have a type but somethings stopping me. Maybe that stunner is just around the corner. Who knows. I dont even know what this post is! Haha. Maybe a whinge, i hope not though. Its more of a come and check me out, im actually a decent guy, own set of teeth, decent body and i can hold a conversation with the right company. Thanks for reading! Have a great day, and let the offers come pouring in
There's no rush it'll happen
Thank you and fingers crossed. Just hope the right lady doesnt pass me by due to lack of veris. "
I think veris help but not the be all and end all. Maybe just a quick cuppa with someone you like you don't necessarily have to want to rip their clothes off but it might be a good start x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"have to say physically you are v appealing so visit a club and get mingling "
Thank you and likewise. Thats on the agenda but 1 step at a time i think haha |
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