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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

So site pass runs out in a few and after speaking to the missis we decided not to renew. A lot of superior, snobby attitudes from a lot of people which makes this swinging thing into a popularity contest..... If anyone wants to reach out before then drop us a line otherwise this will turn into a rant.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

See ya

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By *lmostthereMan  over a year ago

Southampton

I do love a good flounce.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We? Ur a single male profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I do love a good flounce. "
hahahahaa

I'm not that guy don't get it confused.

Stating a fact. Leaving.I'm good with it. It was for anyone that I know that I'm cool with that profile is gonna be gone so they can reach out. Not people I don't know or want to interact with

Clever words.

Thanks

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By *izzy RascallMan  over a year ago

Cardiff

One more month, One more month

At least then you can say you gave it year.

Thinking about it it probably is a year isn't it?

Anyway good luck, shame you feel pissed at the place and some of its members, even more or a pity you felt the need to suggest so.

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By *unky monkeyMan  over a year ago

in the night garden

All the best see you when you return.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

MYA OP

always funny to read the last desperate attempts of a dying profile.....

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"So site pass runs out in a few and after speaking to the missis we decided not to renew. A lot of superior, snobby attitudes from a lot of people which makes this swinging thing into a popularity contest..... If anyone wants to reach out before then drop us a line otherwise this will turn into a rant.

"

I don't get it, just be free member surely?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Maybe you'd have more success on a couples profile?

At the end of the day it's a fiver or free if you don't renew.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"MYA OP

always funny to read the last desperate attempts of a dying profile....."

Yea....... ok....

maybe you don't read to well.

I said why I put the post up.

No need for your attempts at trying to score points. I guess you one of those afore mentioned people that I don't know.

Like I said. Wrong guy. That's not me. I'm good with it. Why comment when it has no relavence ? Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"One more month, One more month

At least then you can say you gave it year.

Thinking about it it probably is a year isn't it?

Anyway good luck, shame you feel pissed at the place and some of its members, even more or a pity you felt the need to suggest so."

thanks jizzy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

See ya when the new profile arrives in a few weeks

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"All the best see you when you return. "

Hahahaha

I doubt it but cool man

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Maybe you'd have more success on a couples profile?

At the end of the day it's a fiver or free if you don't renew."

Don't play as a couple it's as a single so when meeting they don't excpect my wife to play ( which has happened before).

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"See ya when the new profile arrives in a few weeks "

Hahahaha I ain't going through all this nonsense again - getting veris and what not.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe you'd have more success on a couples profile?

At the end of the day it's a fiver or free if you don't renew.

Don't play as a couple it's as a single so when meeting they don't excpect my wife to play ( which has happened before)."

But you say she sometimes watches so for me that's not what I expect from a single mans profile.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By *radleywigginsMan  over a year ago

northwest

Adios. The fiver you save will change your life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Adios. The fiver you save will change your life."

You are so right

Whereas I'm so tight

#meantime

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So site pass runs out in a few and after speaking to the missis we decided not to renew. A lot of superior, snobby attitudes from a lot of people which makes this swinging thing into a popularity contest..... If anyone wants to reach out before then drop us a line otherwise this will turn into a rant.

"

you're 100% it's popularity contest this site is now days.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just stay for the forums if the meet/messaging side is doing your head in.

I'm not liking men at the moment so I'm sticking to the forums!

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By *eesideMan  over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"So site pass runs out in a few and after speaking to the missis we decided not to renew. A lot of superior, snobby attitudes from a lot of people which makes this swinging thing into a popularity contest..... If anyone wants to reach out before then drop us a line otherwise this will turn into a rant.

"

*in a Darth Vader voice*

Come with us.

join us on the free side

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just hide your profile OP. Give the place a break and see how you feel in a few weeks/months.

It's a faff having to restart a profile from new.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't know why people worry about those who regard the swing scene as a popularity context. Just ignore them. I've personally never noticed, as the people we mix with on the swing scene are just normal relaxed chilled people who know how to have a good time - certainly never been aware that anybody is competing in the popularity stakes. But for those who don't enjoy their experience of Fab, then fair play there's probably not much point in being here. We've stayed in contact with swingers who left Fab, so there is certainly plenty of fun still to be had without a profile.

Mrs

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By *uxom redCouple  over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Take care kings mead.

Maybe our paths will cross again.

It was a pleasure to meet you, your a charming intelligent and whitty young man.

All the best for whatever the future holds. X

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By *isaB45Woman  over a year ago

Fabville

Is this another long goodbye?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't see it as a popularity contest, yes sure some members are going to be more popular than others, that's how things are in the whole world. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Do what I do, avoid the Swingers and meet the normal people

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Has he gone yet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Is this another long goodbye? "

Nope

I said when it runs out which is in 5 days ....

read the post

It's easier

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Has he gone yet? "

Nooooo

*Sigh*

It's not a I'm leaving post boo hoo hoo.

Some people have already reached out as it's easier than messaging all the peeps I have met.

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By *isaB45Woman  over a year ago

Fabville


"Has he gone yet?

Nooooo

*Sigh*

It's not a I'm leaving post boo hoo hoo.

Some people have already reached out as it's easier than messaging all the peeps I have met.

"

...and that's going to take five days?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The forumites are out today, and proving you right OP....

Cliquey fuckers

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't do long goodbyes so I'll just get in quick and say TTFN....

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By *isaB45Woman  over a year ago

Fabville

No cliques here...

...just those that join in, enjoy the banter and have fun.

And then there are those whose sense of entitlement leave them sour...

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By *ancs MinxWoman  over a year ago

Burnley

All the best.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No cliques here...

...just those that join in, enjoy the banter and have fun.

And then there are those whose sense of entitlement leave them sour...

"

I wouldn't be part of any clique that would have me.....

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By *wisted999Man  over a year ago

North Bucks

All the best. Do you have an alternative game plan or you out the game altogether?

I rate this site to be fair. Disregard the Forum miserable types and it's good.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Has he gone yet?

Nooooo

*Sigh*

It's not a I'm leaving post boo hoo hoo.

Some people have already reached out as it's easier than messaging all the peeps I have met.

...and that's going to take five days? "

Could easily...some people aren't glued to fab...some only log in a few times a week so they might miss it.

I neve fathom why people have to be nasty on these posts. Guess it come too naturally for some and they can't help it.

OP I fully understand your feelings, as a single guy it can often feel that way and yes you're right about the popularity thing. Those who deny it have eyes closed or are the one involved themselves.

All the best and there's alot of fun to be had off fab with former fabbers. Less of a performance game.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No cliques here...

...just those that join in, enjoy the banter and have fun.

And then there are those whose sense of entitlement leave them sour...

"

It didnt come across to me as the the OP is being "entitled" and "sour" particularly, but yet still he gets jumped on by those that are often here trying to outscore other forum users in the "who can be the most sarcastic/visceral in the forum" competition....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

yes the most sarcastic person in the forums gets 2 gold stars and 100 fabs of their choice

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No cliques here...

...just those that join in, enjoy the banter and have fun.

And then there are those whose sense of entitlement leave them sour...

It didnt come across to me as the the OP is being "entitled" and "sour" particularly, but yet still he gets jumped on by those that are often here trying to outscore other forum users in the "who can be the most sarcastic/visceral in the forum" competition...."

I've noticed a few seem to take delight in belittling others on here.

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By *isaB45Woman  over a year ago

Fabville


"No cliques here...

...just those that join in, enjoy the banter and have fun.

And then there are those whose sense of entitlement leave them sour...

It didnt come across to me as the the OP is being "entitled" and "sour" particularly, but yet still he gets jumped on by those that are often here trying to outscore other forum users in the "who can be the most sarcastic/visceral in the forum" competition...."

Not at all. I just don't see the point in making such a big fuss. Either go, or stay. If you are going, just get on with it. It isn't sarcasm.

If the site isn't working for you, then perhaps you need to change what you are doing. Complaining won't achieve anything...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No cliques here...

...just those that join in, enjoy the banter and have fun.

And then there are those whose sense of entitlement leave them sour...

It didnt come across to me as the the OP is being "entitled" and "sour" particularly, but yet still he gets jumped on by those that are often here trying to outscore other forum users in the "who can be the most sarcastic/visceral in the forum" competition....

I've noticed a few seem to take delight in belittling others on here."

best to ignore them ones

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No cliques here...

...just those that join in, enjoy the banter and have fun.

And then there are those whose sense of entitlement leave them sour...

It didnt come across to me as the the OP is being "entitled" and "sour" particularly, but yet still he gets jumped on by those that are often here trying to outscore other forum users in the "who can be the most sarcastic/visceral in the forum" competition....

I've noticed a few seem to take delight in belittling others on here. best to ignore them ones "

I do hun

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By *izzy RascallMan  over a year ago

Cardiff

Maybe not a click but some people are selective to who they reply to and who they don't.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Au revoir

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By *ungBlackTopMan  over a year ago

salford

Bye, all the best

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe not a click but some people are selective to who they reply to and who they don't. "

a lot of guys will completely ignore everyone and only reply to women in the forum on the hope a fuck

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By *isaB45Woman  over a year ago

Fabville


"Maybe not a click but some people are selective to who they reply to and who they don't. "

Everyone can select who they reply to.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe not a click but some people are selective to who they reply to and who they don't.

a lot of guys will completely ignore everyone and only reply to women in the forum on the hope a fuck "

That will be me then

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By *isaB45Woman  over a year ago

Fabville


"Maybe not a click but some people are selective to who they reply to and who they don't.

a lot of guys will completely ignore everyone and only reply to women in the forum on the hope a fuck

That will be me then "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No cliques here...

...just those that join in, enjoy the banter and have fun.

And then there are those whose sense of entitlement leave them sour...

It didnt come across to me as the the OP is being "entitled" and "sour" particularly, but yet still he gets jumped on by those that are often here trying to outscore other forum users in the "who can be the most sarcastic/visceral in the forum" competition...."

Think they have vindicated his orginal sentiments of how fab is going again. Too much bitch n angst around with some just plain nasty characters on here. Strange thing when we're all in this together trying to make it work for ourselves and each other. When some go why do some feel that they need kicking? If it happened outside in the street or playground they'd be charged with harassment of worst gbh. This posts always reflect the inner self of people on here.

Stay happy OP and surround and enjoy with similar minded happier people.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No cliques here...

...just those that join in, enjoy the banter and have fun.

And then there are those whose sense of entitlement leave them sour...

It didnt come across to me as the the OP is being "entitled" and "sour" particularly, but yet still he gets jumped on by those that are often here trying to outscore other forum users in the "who can be the most sarcastic/visceral in the forum" competition....

Think they have vindicated his orginal sentiments of how fab is going again. Too much bitch n angst around with some just plain nasty characters on here. Strange thing when we're all in this together trying to make it work for ourselves and each other. When some go why do some feel that they need kicking? If it happened outside in the street or playground they'd be charged with harassment of worst gbh. This posts always reflect the inner self of people on here.

Stay happy OP and surround and enjoy with similar minded happier people."

very true there, some message just to get a negative reaction and shit stir...

all the best op and good luck in what you decide

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No cliques here...

...just those that join in, enjoy the banter and have fun.

And then there are those whose sense of entitlement leave them sour...

It didnt come across to me as the the OP is being "entitled" and "sour" particularly, but yet still he gets jumped on by those that are often here trying to outscore other forum users in the "who can be the most sarcastic/visceral in the forum" competition....

Think they have vindicated his orginal sentiments of how fab is going again. Too much bitch n angst around with some just plain nasty characters on here. Strange thing when we're all in this together trying to make it work for ourselves and each other. When some go why do some feel that they need kicking? If it happened outside in the street or playground they'd be charged with harassment of worst gbh. This posts always reflect the inner self of people on here.

Stay happy OP and surround and enjoy with similar minded happier people."

This

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Never realised so many swingers were psychoanalysts.....

Serious stuff all this telling other people what to think ......

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've not seen so much drama over a goodbye since i last watched Eastenders.

Fab : where the drama happens.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i am often called a filthy bitch so i may as well be one

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No cliques here...

...just those that join in, enjoy the banter and have fun.

And then there are those whose sense of entitlement leave them sour...

It didnt come across to me as the the OP is being "entitled" and "sour" particularly, but yet still he gets jumped on by those that are often here trying to outscore other forum users in the "who can be the most sarcastic/visceral in the forum" competition....

I've noticed a few seem to take delight in belittling others on here."

I genuinely feel sorry for them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Never realised so many swingers were psychoanalysts.....

Serious stuff all this telling other people what to think ...... "

Come and lay on my couch and tell me about your mother...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe not a click but some people are selective to who they reply to and who they don't.

a lot of guys will completely ignore everyone and only reply to women in the forum on the hope a fuck

That will be me then "

I thought you were just being nice to me

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By *anielpiercedMan  over a year ago

by the seaside


"So site pass runs out in a few and after speaking to the missis we decided not to renew. A lot of superior, snobby attitudes from a lot of people which makes this swinging thing into a popularity contest..... If anyone wants to reach out before then drop us a line otherwise this will turn into a rant.

"

You've go to do what's best for you. As someone said why not just hide profile for a bit and take a break. I regret deleting my old profile tbh

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Just hide your profile OP. Give the place a break and see how you feel in a few weeks/months.

It's a faff having to restart a profile from new. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"MYA OP

always funny to read the last desperate attempts of a dying profile.....

Yea....... ok....

maybe you don't read to well.

I said why I put the post up.

No need for your attempts at trying to score points. I guess you one of those afore mentioned people that I don't know.

Like I said. Wrong guy. That's not me. I'm good with it. Why comment when it has no relavence ? Good luck "

I commented because you’re either too tight to pay another fiver or you haven’t had much luck on here and are just giving a shout out to all those who will miss an opportunity ....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"MYA OP

always funny to read the last desperate attempts of a dying profile.....

Yea....... ok....

maybe you don't read to well.

I said why I put the post up.

No need for your attempts at trying to score points. I guess you one of those afore mentioned people that I don't know.

Like I said. Wrong guy. That's not me. I'm good with it. Why comment when it has no relavence ? Good luck "

I commented because you’re either too tight to pay another fiver or you haven’t had much luck on here and are just giving a shout out to all those who will miss an opportunity ....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"MYA OP

always funny to read the last desperate attempts of a dying profile.....

Yea....... ok....

maybe you don't read to well.

I said why I put the post up.

No need for your attempts at trying to score points. I guess you one of those afore mentioned people that I don't know.

Like I said. Wrong guy. That's not me. I'm good with it. Why comment when it has no relavence ? Good luck

I commented because you’re either too tight to pay another fiver or you haven’t had much luck on here and are just giving a shout out to all those who will miss an opportunity .... "

That's two assumptions you have made there. Why do you say that?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"See ya when the new profile arrives in a few weeks

Hahahaha I ain't going through all this nonsense again - getting veris and what not.

"

That's what everyone says

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"No cliques here...

...just those that join in, enjoy the banter and have fun.

And then there are those whose sense of entitlement leave them sour...

It didnt come across to me as the the OP is being "entitled" and "sour" particularly, but yet still he gets jumped on by those that are often here trying to outscore other forum users in the "who can be the most sarcastic/visceral in the forum" competition....

Not at all. I just don't see the point in making such a big fuss. Either go, or stay. If you are going, just get on with it. It isn't sarcasm.

If the site isn't working for you, then perhaps you need to change what you are doing. Complaining won't achieve anything..."

Ffs I'll ask once more because it seems like I keep repeating myself

Can you read the original post. I included in it how I see things but not a complaint. If you don't like it don't comment. If you saw me in the street or f2f I gaurentee you wouldn't say jack like this to me. I keep saying I'm not that guy so it's best of people relax and realise when they are being a keyboard warrior. To the rest of people that are just replying thanks for the messages and no I'm not done compleatly I'll still go some clubs and that so if you are leaving sarcastic and childish comments please feel free to write them down and come give them to me when you see me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"MYA OP

always funny to read the last desperate attempts of a dying profile.....

Yea....... ok....

maybe you don't read to well.

I said why I put the post up.

No need for your attempts at trying to score points. I guess you one of those afore mentioned people that I don't know.

Like I said. Wrong guy. That's not me. I'm good with it. Why comment when it has no relavence ? Good luck

I commented because you’re either too tight to pay another fiver or you haven’t had much luck on here and are just giving a shout out to all those who will miss an opportunity .... "

heres a lass giving a honest none nasty opinion and those that have been calling others for it jump in and call her... double standards me thinks

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

All the best.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No cliques here...

...just those that join in, enjoy the banter and have fun.

And then there are those whose sense of entitlement leave them sour...

It didnt come across to me as the the OP is being "entitled" and "sour" particularly, but yet still he gets jumped on by those that are often here trying to outscore other forum users in the "who can be the most sarcastic/visceral in the forum" competition....

Not at all. I just don't see the point in making such a big fuss. Either go, or stay. If you are going, just get on with it. It isn't sarcasm.

If the site isn't working for you, then perhaps you need to change what you are doing. Complaining won't achieve anything...

Ffs I'll ask once more because it seems like I keep repeating myself

Can you read the original post. I included in it how I see things but not a complaint. If you don't like it don't comment. If you saw me in the street or f2f I gaurentee you wouldn't say jack like this to me. I keep saying I'm not that guy so it's best of people relax and realise when they are being a keyboard warrior. To the rest of people that are just replying thanks for the messages and no I'm not done compleatly I'll still go some clubs and that so if you are leaving sarcastic and childish comments please feel free to write them down and come give them to me when you see me "

good luck in all your ventures OP

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Never realised so many swingers were psychoanalysts.....

Serious stuff all this telling other people what to think ......

Come and lay on my couch and tell me about your mother..."

Mum decorated my bedroom with posters of Liberace and Danny La-rue .....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No cliques here...

...just those that join in, enjoy the banter and have fun.

And then there are those whose sense of entitlement leave them sour...

It didnt come across to me as the the OP is being "entitled" and "sour" particularly, but yet still he gets jumped on by those that are often here trying to outscore other forum users in the "who can be the most sarcastic/visceral in the forum" competition....

Not at all. I just don't see the point in making such a big fuss. Either go, or stay. If you are going, just get on with it. It isn't sarcasm.

If the site isn't working for you, then perhaps you need to change what you are doing. Complaining won't achieve anything...

Ffs I'll ask once more because it seems like I keep repeating myself

Can you read the original post. I included in it how I see things but not a complaint. If you don't like it don't comment. If you saw me in the street or f2f I gaurentee you wouldn't say jack like this to me. I keep saying I'm not that guy so it's best of people relax and realise when they are being a keyboard warrior. To the rest of people that are just replying thanks for the messages and no I'm not done compleatly I'll still go some clubs and that so if you are leaving sarcastic and childish comments please feel free to write them down and come give them to me when you see me "

Well said OP. Cliquey cretins just proving your point, and guaranteed they wouldnt be such dicks/twats face to face.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"MYA OP

always funny to read the last desperate attempts of a dying profile.....

Yea....... ok....

maybe you don't read to well.

I said why I put the post up.

No need for your attempts at trying to score points. I guess you one of those afore mentioned people that I don't know.

Like I said. Wrong guy. That's not me. I'm good with it. Why comment when it has no relavence ? Good luck

I commented because you’re either too tight to pay another fiver or you haven’t had much luck on here and are just giving a shout out to all those who will miss an opportunity .... "

Wow

I said I've had responses from people I've met to reach out if they want to keep in touch...

I don't care about people missing an opportunity ?! That's big headed and I'm not.

" oh look I'm gods gift and I'm leaving "

No

Those that know me or we've spoken

Simples

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By *ot40sCouple  over a year ago

birmingham


"MYA OP

always funny to read the last desperate attempts of a dying profile....."

Well said young lady my thoughts exactly ! Anna

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"MYA OP

always funny to read the last desperate attempts of a dying profile.....

Yea....... ok....

maybe you don't read to well.

I said why I put the post up.

No need for your attempts at trying to score points. I guess you one of those afore mentioned people that I don't know.

Like I said. Wrong guy. That's not me. I'm good with it. Why comment when it has no relavence ? Good luck

I commented because you’re either too tight to pay another fiver or you haven’t had much luck on here and are just giving a shout out to all those who will miss an opportunity ....

That's two assumptions you have made there. Why do you say that?"

I see 3 assumptions...

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By *isaB45Woman  over a year ago

Fabville

Ok...good luck with...whatever...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"MYA OP

always funny to read the last desperate attempts of a dying profile.....

Yea....... ok....

maybe you don't read to well.

I said why I put the post up.

No need for your attempts at trying to score points. I guess you one of those afore mentioned people that I don't know.

Like I said. Wrong guy. That's not me. I'm good with it. Why comment when it has no relavence ? Good luck

I commented because you’re either too tight to pay another fiver or you haven’t had much luck on here and are just giving a shout out to all those who will miss an opportunity ....

That's two assumptions you have made there. Why do you say that?

I see 3 assumptions... "

i see 4

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"MYA OP

always funny to read the last desperate attempts of a dying profile.....

Yea....... ok....

maybe you don't read to well.

I said why I put the post up.

No need for your attempts at trying to score points. I guess you one of those afore mentioned people that I don't know.

Like I said. Wrong guy. That's not me. I'm good with it. Why comment when it has no relavence ? Good luck

I commented because you’re either too tight to pay another fiver or you haven’t had much luck on here and are just giving a shout out to all those who will miss an opportunity ....

That's two assumptions you have made there. Why do you say that?

I see 3 assumptions...

i see 4 "

touché...

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By *isaB45Woman  over a year ago

Fabville

Can we have a mid-thread interval, please? I fancy a cup of tea...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"MYA OP

always funny to read the last desperate attempts of a dying profile.....

Yea....... ok....

maybe you don't read to well.

I said why I put the post up.

No need for your attempts at trying to score points. I guess you one of those afore mentioned people that I don't know.

Like I said. Wrong guy. That's not me. I'm good with it. Why comment when it has no relavence ? Good luck

I commented because you’re either too tight to pay another fiver or you haven’t had much luck on here and are just giving a shout out to all those who will miss an opportunity .... "

Wow

I said I've had responses from people I've met to reach out if they want to keep in touch...

I don't care about people missing an opportunity ?! That's big headed and I'm not.

" oh look I'm gods gift and I'm leaving "

No

Those that know me or we've spoken

Simples

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"MYA OP

always funny to read the last desperate attempts of a dying profile.....

Yea....... ok....

maybe you don't read to well.

I said why I put the post up.

No need for your attempts at trying to score points. I guess you one of those afore mentioned people that I don't know.

Like I said. Wrong guy. That's not me. I'm good with it. Why comment when it has no relavence ? Good luck

I commented because you’re either too tight to pay another fiver or you haven’t had much luck on here and are just giving a shout out to all those who will miss an opportunity ....

Wow

I said I've had responses from people I've met to reach out if they want to keep in touch...

I don't care about people missing an opportunity ?! That's big headed and I'm not.

" oh look I'm gods gift and I'm leaving "

No

Those that know me or we've spoken

Simples"

are you having a leaving party i could bring nibbles

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By *isaB45Woman  over a year ago

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"MYA OP

always funny to read the last desperate attempts of a dying profile.....

Yea....... ok....

maybe you don't read to well.

I said why I put the post up.

No need for your attempts at trying to score points. I guess you one of those afore mentioned people that I don't know.

Like I said. Wrong guy. That's not me. I'm good with it. Why comment when it has no relavence ? Good luck

I commented because you’re either too tight to pay another fiver or you haven’t had much luck on here and are just giving a shout out to all those who will miss an opportunity ....

Wow

I said I've had responses from people I've met to reach out if they want to keep in touch...

I don't care about people missing an opportunity ?! That's big headed and I'm not.

" oh look I'm gods gift and I'm leaving "

No

Those that know me or we've spoken

Simples are you having a leaving party i could bring nibbles "

You could be the nibbles

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"MYA OP

always funny to read the last desperate attempts of a dying profile.....

Well said young lady my thoughts exactly ! Anna "

Seriously give it a rest. I could give maybe one actually no I give 0 fecks that you two both think that ...

I've explained my self enough.

Say summat sensible like the rest or give it one. In fact someone said about a tea break

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"MYA OP

always funny to read the last desperate attempts of a dying profile.....

Yea....... ok....

maybe you don't read to well.

I said why I put the post up.

No need for your attempts at trying to score points. I guess you one of those afore mentioned people that I don't know.

Like I said. Wrong guy. That's not me. I'm good with it. Why comment when it has no relavence ? Good luck

I commented because you’re either too tight to pay another fiver or you haven’t had much luck on here and are just giving a shout out to all those who will miss an opportunity ....

Wow

I said I've had responses from people I've met to reach out if they want to keep in touch...

I don't care about people missing an opportunity ?! That's big headed and I'm not.

" oh look I'm gods gift and I'm leaving "

No

Those that know me or we've spoken

Simples are you having a leaving party i could bring nibbles

You could be the nibbles "

yes i never thought of that

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Never realised so many swingers were psychoanalysts.....

Serious stuff all this telling other people what to think ......

Come and lay on my couch and tell me about your mother...

Mum decorated my bedroom with posters of Liberace and Danny La-rue ..... "

Do you sing and play piano?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Never realised so many swingers were psychoanalysts.....

Serious stuff all this telling other people what to think ......

Come and lay on my couch and tell me about your mother...

Mum decorated my bedroom with posters of Liberace and Danny La-rue .....

Do you sing and play piano?

"

no but you can get a good tune out of an old fiddle

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Why don't people just go quietly???

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why don't people just go quietly???"

Some people do, some don't. He's more than entitled to post on here that he's going.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why don't people just go quietly???

Some people do, some don't. He's more than entitled to post on here that he's going. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why don't people just go quietly???"

Why don't some people ignore threads they don't like reading?

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By *isaB45Woman  over a year ago

Fabville


"MYA OP

always funny to read the last desperate attempts of a dying profile.....

Well said young lady my thoughts exactly ! Anna

Seriously give it a rest. I could give maybe one actually no I give 0 fecks that you two both think that ...

I've explained my self enough.

Say summat sensible like the rest or give it one. In fact someone said about a tea break

"

Sugar?!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"MYA OP

always funny to read the last desperate attempts of a dying profile.....

Well said young lady my thoughts exactly ! Anna

Seriously give it a rest. I could give maybe one actually no I give 0 fecks that you two both think that ...

I've explained my self enough.

Say summat sensible like the rest or give it one. In fact someone said about a tea break

Sugar?!"

no thanks i am sweet enough

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By *isaB45Woman  over a year ago

Fabville


"MYA OP

always funny to read the last desperate attempts of a dying profile.....

Well said young lady my thoughts exactly ! Anna

Seriously give it a rest. I could give maybe one actually no I give 0 fecks that you two both think that ...

I've explained my self enough.

Say summat sensible like the rest or give it one. In fact someone said about a tea break

Sugar?! no thanks i am sweet enough"

What about a chocolate hobnob?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"MYA OP

always funny to read the last desperate attempts of a dying profile.....

Well said young lady my thoughts exactly ! Anna

Seriously give it a rest. I could give maybe one actually no I give 0 fecks that you two both think that ...

I've explained my self enough.

Say summat sensible like the rest or give it one. In fact someone said about a tea break

Sugar?! no thanks i am sweet enough

What about a chocolate hobnob?"

deal

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Why don't people just go quietly???

Why don't some people ignore threads they don't like reading?"

Thaaaaaank you

Wtf tho I've said it but maybe people don't like reading my post - will someone else please explain it to them ?????

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why don't people just go quietly???

Why don't some people ignore threads they don't like reading?

Thaaaaaank you

Wtf tho I've said it but maybe people don't like reading my post - will someone else please explain it to them ?????"

Some people never get it. I wouldn't bother explaining anything.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why don't people just go quietly???

Why don't some people ignore threads they don't like reading?

Thaaaaaank you

Wtf tho I've said it but maybe people don't like reading my post - will someone else please explain it to them ?????"

There's no explaining anything to a significant number of the forumites. These culprits are either trolls looking for a reaction, or too thick to understand. Sad really...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's like being back at school

I was going to say I'm glad you're going as its one less single male to compete with, but this place is like fucking hydra and two more men will take your place

Good luck for the future lad

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Good luck

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By *istress Pillow PrincessWoman  over a year ago

Edinburgh

ciao

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It doesn't justify people being nasty to you OP, but you have made a big criticism that Fab is all about popularity contests. Whereas I'm sure there are plenty of shallow people on Fab, there are also plenty of very nice people who just like to have a good time. So sweeping statements that brand the Fab experience as a being all about popularity will get people's back up, resulting in a backlash. Also, I think people find it a bit strange that you want to announce your departure. It sounds like you are trying to make a point about how unpleasant you find people on Fab. You say the reason you are announcing your departure is to encourage certain people who you respect to reach out to you before you go. Are you sure that's the reason? Surely you know who your valued friends are and can message or text them yourselves. Just saying why people maybe a bit cynical and have jumped to conclusions. On the other hand there is nothing wrong with having a forum discussion about perceived inadequacies of Fab. But anyway, there's plenty of fun to be had without Fab, so enjoy!

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It doesn't justify people being nasty to you OP, but you have made a big criticism that Fab is all about popularity contests. Whereas I'm sure there are plenty of shallow people on Fab, there are also plenty of very nice people who just like to have a good time. So sweeping statements that brand the Fab experience as a being all about popularity will get people's back up, resulting in a backlash. Also, I think people find it a bit strange that you want to announce your departure. It sounds like you are trying to make a point about how unpleasant you find people on Fab. You say the reason you are announcing your departure is to encourage certain people who you respect to reach out to you before you go. Are you sure that's the reason? Surely you know who your valued friends are and can message or text them yourselves. Just saying why people maybe a bit cynical and have jumped to conclusions. On the other hand there is nothing wrong with having a forum discussion about perceived inadequacies of Fab. But anyway, there's plenty of fun to be had without Fab, so enjoy!

Mrs"

I find the forums to be a bit of a popularity contest amongst the single men to tell the truth. I think that's why the word "clique" is brought up so much.

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By *ady LickWoman  over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It was nice to meet you KM, you're genuinely a great guy

I do agree with Roxis comments about having a couples profile as as you know I found it all rather misleading. Maybe it would work better for you like that.

Either way take care and good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It doesn't justify people being nasty to you OP, but you have made a big criticism that Fab is all about popularity contests. Whereas I'm sure there are plenty of shallow people on Fab, there are also plenty of very nice people who just like to have a good time. So sweeping statements that brand the Fab experience as a being all about popularity will get people's back up, resulting in a backlash. Also, I think people find it a bit strange that you want to announce your departure. It sounds like you are trying to make a point about how unpleasant you find people on Fab. You say the reason you are announcing your departure is to encourage certain people who you respect to reach out to you before you go. Are you sure that's the reason? Surely you know who your valued friends are and can message or text them yourselves. Just saying why people maybe a bit cynical and have jumped to conclusions. On the other hand there is nothing wrong with having a forum discussion about perceived inadequacies of Fab. But anyway, there's plenty of fun to be had without Fab, so enjoy!

Mrs

I find the forums to be a bit of a popularity contest amongst the single men to tell the truth. I think that's why the word "clique" is brought up so much."

Gosh yeah, and I'd understand if someone decided to stop using the forums. But surely the forums are just a side show to the real reason most people use Fab, and certainly not reflective of the whole Fab experience?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It doesn't justify people being nasty to you OP, but you have made a big criticism that Fab is all about popularity contests. Whereas I'm sure there are plenty of shallow people on Fab, there are also plenty of very nice people who just like to have a good time. So sweeping statements that brand the Fab experience as a being all about popularity will get people's back up, resulting in a backlash. Also, I think people find it a bit strange that you want to announce your departure. It sounds like you are trying to make a point about how unpleasant you find people on Fab. You say the reason you are announcing your departure is to encourage certain people who you respect to reach out to you before you go. Are you sure that's the reason? Surely you know who your valued friends are and can message or text them yourselves. Just saying why people maybe a bit cynical and have jumped to conclusions. On the other hand there is nothing wrong with having a forum discussion about perceived inadequacies of Fab. But anyway, there's plenty of fun to be had without Fab, so enjoy!

Mrs

I find the forums to be a bit of a popularity contest amongst the single men to tell the truth. I think that's why the word "clique" is brought up so much.

Gosh yeah, and I'd understand if someone decided to stop using the forums. But surely the forums are just a side show to the real reason most people use Fab, and certainly not reflective of the whole Fab experience? "

Exactly, but the forums are a much easier way of getting people to meet you so there is a popularity contest to get noticed

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It doesn't justify people being nasty to you OP, but you have made a big criticism that Fab is all about popularity contests. Whereas I'm sure there are plenty of shallow people on Fab, there are also plenty of very nice people who just like to have a good time. So sweeping statements that brand the Fab experience as a being all about popularity will get people's back up, resulting in a backlash. Also, I think people find it a bit strange that you want to announce your departure. It sounds like you are trying to make a point about how unpleasant you find people on Fab. You say the reason you are announcing your departure is to encourage certain people who you respect to reach out to you before you go. Are you sure that's the reason? Surely you know who your valued friends are and can message or text them yourselves. Just saying why people maybe a bit cynical and have jumped to conclusions. On the other hand there is nothing wrong with having a forum discussion about perceived inadequacies of Fab. But anyway, there's plenty of fun to be had without Fab, so enjoy!

Mrs

I find the forums to be a bit of a popularity contest amongst the single men to tell the truth. I think that's why the word "clique" is brought up so much.

Gosh yeah, and I'd understand if someone decided to stop using the forums. But surely the forums are just a side show to the real reason most people use Fab, and certainly not reflective of the whole Fab experience?

Exactly, but the forums are a much easier way of getting people to meet you so there is a popularity contest to get noticed"

I didn't know that. We've never used the forums for that purpose.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It doesn't justify people being nasty to you OP, but you have made a big criticism that Fab is all about popularity contests. Whereas I'm sure there are plenty of shallow people on Fab, there are also plenty of very nice people who just like to have a good time. So sweeping statements that brand the Fab experience as a being all about popularity will get people's back up, resulting in a backlash. Also, I think people find it a bit strange that you want to announce your departure. It sounds like you are trying to make a point about how unpleasant you find people on Fab. You say the reason you are announcing your departure is to encourage certain people who you respect to reach out to you before you go. Are you sure that's the reason? Surely you know who your valued friends are and can message or text them yourselves. Just saying why people maybe a bit cynical and have jumped to conclusions. On the other hand there is nothing wrong with having a forum discussion about perceived inadequacies of Fab. But anyway, there's plenty of fun to be had without Fab, so enjoy!

Mrs

I find the forums to be a bit of a popularity contest amongst the single men to tell the truth. I think that's why the word "clique" is brought up so much.

Gosh yeah, and I'd understand if someone decided to stop using the forums. But surely the forums are just a side show to the real reason most people use Fab, and certainly not reflective of the whole Fab experience?

Exactly, but the forums are a much easier way of getting people to meet you so there is a popularity contest to get noticed

I didn't know that. We've never used the forums for that purpose. "

A lot of people don't, including me. But in my personal experience, women are much more likely to chat to me privately after seeing me in the forums rather than a message in their inbox from a search. Forums are just easier to put your personality across

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It doesn't justify people being nasty to you OP, but you have made a big criticism that Fab is all about popularity contests. Whereas I'm sure there are plenty of shallow people on Fab, there are also plenty of very nice people who just like to have a good time. So sweeping statements that brand the Fab experience as a being all about popularity will get people's back up, resulting in a backlash. Also, I think people find it a bit strange that you want to announce your departure. It sounds like you are trying to make a point about how unpleasant you find people on Fab. You say the reason you are announcing your departure is to encourage certain people who you respect to reach out to you before you go. Are you sure that's the reason? Surely you know who your valued friends are and can message or text them yourselves. Just saying why people maybe a bit cynical and have jumped to conclusions. On the other hand there is nothing wrong with having a forum discussion about perceived inadequacies of Fab. But anyway, there's plenty of fun to be had without Fab, so enjoy!

Mrs

I find the forums to be a bit of a popularity contest amongst the single men to tell the truth. I think that's why the word "clique" is brought up so much.

Gosh yeah, and I'd understand if someone decided to stop using the forums. But surely the forums are just a side show to the real reason most people use Fab, and certainly not reflective of the whole Fab experience?

Exactly, but the forums are a much easier way of getting people to meet you so there is a popularity contest to get noticed

I didn't know that. We've never used the forums for that purpose.

A lot of people don't, including me. But in my personal experience, women are much more likely to chat to me privately after seeing me in the forums rather than a message in their inbox from a search. Forums are just easier to put your personality across "

Yep I get that's a good idea. There have been a few people I took interest in as a result of the forums, who we may not have noticed otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It doesn't justify people being nasty to you OP, but you have made a big criticism that Fab is all about popularity contests. Whereas I'm sure there are plenty of shallow people on Fab, there are also plenty of very nice people who just like to have a good time. So sweeping statements that brand the Fab experience as a being all about popularity will get people's back up, resulting in a backlash. Also, I think people find it a bit strange that you want to announce your departure. It sounds like you are trying to make a point about how unpleasant you find people on Fab. You say the reason you are announcing your departure is to encourage certain people who you respect to reach out to you before you go. Are you sure that's the reason? Surely you know who your valued friends are and can message or text them yourselves. Just saying why people maybe a bit cynical and have jumped to conclusions. On the other hand there is nothing wrong with having a forum discussion about perceived inadequacies of Fab. But anyway, there's plenty of fun to be had without Fab, so enjoy!

Mrs

I find the forums to be a bit of a popularity contest amongst the single men to tell the truth. I think that's why the word "clique" is brought up so much.

Gosh yeah, and I'd understand if someone decided to stop using the forums. But surely the forums are just a side show to the real reason most people use Fab, and certainly not reflective of the whole Fab experience?

Exactly, but the forums are a much easier way of getting people to meet you so there is a popularity contest to get noticed

I didn't know that. We've never used the forums for that purpose.

A lot of people don't, including me. But in my personal experience, women are much more likely to chat to me privately after seeing me in the forums rather than a message in their inbox from a search. Forums are just easier to put your personality across

Yep I get that's a good idea. There have been a few people I took interest in as a result of the forums, who we may not have noticed otherwise. "

That's how you ended up on my hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It doesn't justify people being nasty to you OP, but you have made a big criticism that Fab is all about popularity contests. Whereas I'm sure there are plenty of shallow people on Fab, there are also plenty of very nice people who just like to have a good time. So sweeping statements that brand the Fab experience as a being all about popularity will get people's back up, resulting in a backlash. Also, I think people find it a bit strange that you want to announce your departure. It sounds like you are trying to make a point about how unpleasant you find people on Fab. You say the reason you are announcing your departure is to encourage certain people who you respect to reach out to you before you go. Are you sure that's the reason? Surely you know who your valued friends are and can message or text them yourselves. Just saying why people maybe a bit cynical and have jumped to conclusions. On the other hand there is nothing wrong with having a forum discussion about perceived inadequacies of Fab. But anyway, there's plenty of fun to be had without Fab, so enjoy!

Mrs

I find the forums to be a bit of a popularity contest amongst the single men to tell the truth. I think that's why the word "clique" is brought up so much.

Gosh yeah, and I'd understand if someone decided to stop using the forums. But surely the forums are just a side show to the real reason most people use Fab, and certainly not reflective of the whole Fab experience?

Exactly, but the forums are a much easier way of getting people to meet you so there is a popularity contest to get noticed

I didn't know that. We've never used the forums for that purpose.

A lot of people don't, including me. But in my personal experience, women are much more likely to chat to me privately after seeing me in the forums rather than a message in their inbox from a search. Forums are just easier to put your personality across

Yep I get that's a good idea. There have been a few people I took interest in as a result of the forums, who we may not have noticed otherwise.

That's how you ended up on my hotlist "

Wow, that's cool. I think last time a man reacted to my forum discussion our profile got blocked. Being hotlisted is much nicer

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It doesn't justify people being nasty to you OP, but you have made a big criticism that Fab is all about popularity contests. Whereas I'm sure there are plenty of shallow people on Fab, there are also plenty of very nice people who just like to have a good time. So sweeping statements that brand the Fab experience as a being all about popularity will get people's back up, resulting in a backlash. Also, I think people find it a bit strange that you want to announce your departure. It sounds like you are trying to make a point about how unpleasant you find people on Fab. You say the reason you are announcing your departure is to encourage certain people who you respect to reach out to you before you go. Are you sure that's the reason? Surely you know who your valued friends are and can message or text them yourselves. Just saying why people maybe a bit cynical and have jumped to conclusions. On the other hand there is nothing wrong with having a forum discussion about perceived inadequacies of Fab. But anyway, there's plenty of fun to be had without Fab, so enjoy!

Mrs

I find the forums to be a bit of a popularity contest amongst the single men to tell the truth. I think that's why the word "clique" is brought up so much.

Gosh yeah, and I'd understand if someone decided to stop using the forums. But surely the forums are just a side show to the real reason most people use Fab, and certainly not reflective of the whole Fab experience?

Exactly, but the forums are a much easier way of getting people to meet you so there is a popularity contest to get noticed

I didn't know that. We've never used the forums for that purpose.

A lot of people don't, including me. But in my personal experience, women are much more likely to chat to me privately after seeing me in the forums rather than a message in their inbox from a search. Forums are just easier to put your personality across

Yep I get that's a good idea. There have been a few people I took interest in as a result of the forums, who we may not have noticed otherwise.

That's how you ended up on my hotlist

Wow, that's cool. I think last time a man reacted to my forum discussion our profile got blocked. Being hotlisted is much nicer "

A pleasure to be of a service. I have been blocked by someone posting on a thread I started, which is fair play, everybody's choice but it does make the bottom lip quiver a little.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It doesn't justify people being nasty to you OP, but you have made a big criticism that Fab is all about popularity contests. Whereas I'm sure there are plenty of shallow people on Fab, there are also plenty of very nice people who just like to have a good time. So sweeping statements that brand the Fab experience as a being all about popularity will get people's back up, resulting in a backlash. Also, I think people find it a bit strange that you want to announce your departure. It sounds like you are trying to make a point about how unpleasant you find people on Fab. You say the reason you are announcing your departure is to encourage certain people who you respect to reach out to you before you go. Are you sure that's the reason? Surely you know who your valued friends are and can message or text them yourselves. Just saying why people maybe a bit cynical and have jumped to conclusions. On the other hand there is nothing wrong with having a forum discussion about perceived inadequacies of Fab. But anyway, there's plenty of fun to be had without Fab, so enjoy!

Mrs

I find the forums to be a bit of a popularity contest amongst the single men to tell the truth. I think that's why the word "clique" is brought up so much.

Gosh yeah, and I'd understand if someone decided to stop using the forums. But surely the forums are just a side show to the real reason most people use Fab, and certainly not reflective of the whole Fab experience?

Exactly, but the forums are a much easier way of getting people to meet you so there is a popularity contest to get noticed

I didn't know that. We've never used the forums for that purpose.

A lot of people don't, including me. But in my personal experience, women are much more likely to chat to me privately after seeing me in the forums rather than a message in their inbox from a search. Forums are just easier to put your personality across

Yep I get that's a good idea. There have been a few people I took interest in as a result of the forums, who we may not have noticed otherwise.

That's how you ended up on my hotlist

Wow, that's cool. I think last time a man reacted to my forum discussion our profile got blocked. Being hotlisted is much nicer

A pleasure to be of a service. I have been blocked by someone posting on a thread I started, which is fair play, everybody's choice but it does make the bottom lip quiver a little. "

I have checked and your not on my block list

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don't know what or why. I hope you don't think I was having a dig or anything or fishing even, I wasn't. Thank you for looking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"It doesn't justify people being nasty to you OP, but you have made a big criticism that Fab is all about popularity contests. Whereas I'm sure there are plenty of shallow people on Fab, there are also plenty of very nice people who just like to have a good time. So sweeping statements that brand the Fab experience as a being all about popularity will get people's back up, resulting in a backlash. Also, I think people find it a bit strange that you want to announce your departure. It sounds like you are trying to make a point about how unpleasant you find people on Fab. You say the reason you are announcing your departure is to encourage certain people who you respect to reach out to you before you go. Are you sure that's the reason? Surely you know who your valued friends are and can message or text them yourselves. Just saying why people maybe a bit cynical and have jumped to conclusions. On the other hand there is nothing wrong with having a forum discussion about perceived inadequacies of Fab. But anyway, there's plenty of fun to be had without Fab, so enjoy!

Mrs"

Understood but I've met a lot of people that aren't friends yet and this was a way to go here I am if you want to keep in touch- plus I didn't say everyone cus that's not true. I said a lot as a lot of the guys and gals I've met are sound.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It doesn't justify people being nasty to you OP, but you have made a big criticism that Fab is all about popularity contests. Whereas I'm sure there are plenty of shallow people on Fab, there are also plenty of very nice people who just like to have a good time. So sweeping statements that brand the Fab experience as a being all about popularity will get people's back up, resulting in a backlash. Also, I think people find it a bit strange that you want to announce your departure. It sounds like you are trying to make a point about how unpleasant you find people on Fab. You say the reason you are announcing your departure is to encourage certain people who you respect to reach out to you before you go. Are you sure that's the reason? Surely you know who your valued friends are and can message or text them yourselves. Just saying why people maybe a bit cynical and have jumped to conclusions. On the other hand there is nothing wrong with having a forum discussion about perceived inadequacies of Fab. But anyway, there's plenty of fun to be had without Fab, so enjoy!

Mrs

Understood but I've met a lot of people that aren't friends yet and this was a way to go here I am if you want to keep in touch- plus I didn't say everyone cus that's not true. I said a lot as a lot of the guys and gals I've met are sound. "

But the unpleasant people are sufficient to drive you away?

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By *izzy RascallMan  over a year ago

Cardiff

Crikey OP your gonna leave us with a hell of a mess to clear up.

If you see Kofe Annan on your way out send him over here please.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You still here op, Jeez our troops left Afghanistan quicker than your leaving here

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By *thwalescplCouple  over a year ago

brecon


"It doesn't justify people being nasty to you OP, but you have made a big criticism that Fab is all about popularity contests. Whereas I'm sure there are plenty of shallow people on Fab, there are also plenty of very nice people who just like to have a good time. So sweeping statements that brand the Fab experience as a being all about popularity will get people's back up, resulting in a backlash. Also, I think people find it a bit strange that you want to announce your departure. It sounds like you are trying to make a point about how unpleasant you find people on Fab. You say the reason you are announcing your departure is to encourage certain people who you respect to reach out to you before you go. Are you sure that's the reason? Surely you know who your valued friends are and can message or text them yourselves. Just saying why people maybe a bit cynical and have jumped to conclusions. On the other hand there is nothing wrong with having a forum discussion about perceived inadequacies of Fab. But anyway, there's plenty of fun to be had without Fab, so enjoy!

Mrs

I find the forums to be a bit of a popularity contest amongst the single men to tell the truth. I think that's why the word "clique" is brought up so much.

Gosh yeah, and I'd understand if someone decided to stop using the forums. But surely the forums are just a side show to the real reason most people use Fab, and certainly not reflective of the whole Fab experience?

Exactly, but the forums are a much easier way of getting people to meet you so there is a popularity contest to get noticed"

Wuh?

You are shitting me, right?

About 1% of fabbers use the forums (Fabs own statistic), so I would say its a pretty poor way of getting meets.

Although, I dunno if it counts as the same, but we go to a lot of organised socials that are advertised in the forums... but then we meet there f2f, chat, network, and interact.

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By *thwalescplCouple  over a year ago

brecon


"Why don't people just go quietly???

Why don't some people ignore threads they don't like reading?

Thaaaaaank you

Wtf tho I've said it but maybe people don't like reading my post - will someone else please explain it to them ?????

There's no explaining anything to a significant number of the forumites. These culprits are either trolls looking for a reaction, or too thick to understand. Sad really..."

I do notice that many of the posts citing the "clique" are from guys, many of whom aren't getting much... go figure.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It doesn't justify people being nasty to you OP, but you have made a big criticism that Fab is all about popularity contests. Whereas I'm sure there are plenty of shallow people on Fab, there are also plenty of very nice people who just like to have a good time. So sweeping statements that brand the Fab experience as a being all about popularity will get people's back up, resulting in a backlash. Also, I think people find it a bit strange that you want to announce your departure. It sounds like you are trying to make a point about how unpleasant you find people on Fab. You say the reason you are announcing your departure is to encourage certain people who you respect to reach out to you before you go. Are you sure that's the reason? Surely you know who your valued friends are and can message or text them yourselves. Just saying why people maybe a bit cynical and have jumped to conclusions. On the other hand there is nothing wrong with having a forum discussion about perceived inadequacies of Fab. But anyway, there's plenty of fun to be had without Fab, so enjoy!

Mrs

I find the forums to be a bit of a popularity contest amongst the single men to tell the truth. I think that's why the word "clique" is brought up so much.

Gosh yeah, and I'd understand if someone decided to stop using the forums. But surely the forums are just a side show to the real reason most people use Fab, and certainly not reflective of the whole Fab experience?

Exactly, but the forums are a much easier way of getting people to meet you so there is a popularity contest to get noticed"

The forums have so few people on them that my hymen would have grown back by now, waiting for a suitable person who is near enough to fuck.

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By *ieman300Man  over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"

About 1% of fabbers use the forums (Fabs own statistic), so I would say its a pretty poor way of getting meets.

"

And you would be wrong. Speaking from experience. Not everyones fab experience is the same nor does it work the same for all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Why don't people just go quietly???

Why don't some people ignore threads they don't like reading?

Thaaaaaank you

Wtf tho I've said it but maybe people don't like reading my post - will someone else please explain it to them ?????

There's no explaining anything to a significant number of the forumites. These culprits are either trolls looking for a reaction, or too thick to understand. Sad really...

I do notice that many of the posts citing the "clique" are from guys, many of whom aren't getting much... go figure."

for the umpteenth time WHEN my pass runs out .... that's why I'm still HERE!!!! Or perhaps because I have to keep explaining it ??? I don't think that the 1% is accurate at all but I get your point.

A lot of the time it's annoying when dick heads make comments on a post like this and then if I respond I get reported or gunned down. Like I said previously come find me and we can talk face to face

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Seems a bit narky in here think I'll back out!

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By *ady LickWoman  over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Seems a bit narky in here think I'll back out!"

Don't worry you'll probably get ignored anyway

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By *isaB45Woman  over a year ago

Fabville

I thought you were supposed to run out of the room after you throw a grenade?

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By *llNatural36FWoman  over a year ago

Denbighshire

All those waiting to board flight goodbye please go to check in and have your ticket ready. Sorry I couldn't help myself ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So site pass runs out in a few and after speaking to the missis we decided not to renew. A lot of superior, snobby attitudes from a lot of people which makes this swinging thing into a popularity contest..... If anyone wants to reach out before then drop us a line otherwise this will turn into a rant.

"

Great thread OP; I think it perfectly proves what you say here!!

Fact is, if you were one of the Chosen Ones this thread would have been full of crying and wailing, not bitching.

Good luck.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Seems a bit narky in here think I'll back out!

Don't worry you'll probably get ignored anyway "

Nothing new there then . Actually I haven't read it all so I'm not sure who's getting narky with who really.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So site pass runs out in a few and after speaking to the missis we decided not to renew. A lot of superior, snobby attitudes from a lot of people which makes this swinging thing into a popularity contest..... If anyone wants to reach out before then drop us a line otherwise this will turn into a rant.

Great thread OP; I think it perfectly proves what you say here!!

Fact is, if you were one of the Chosen Ones this thread would have been full of crying and wailing, not bitching.

Good luck. "

It's a shame some stoop to doing that. We'reall here for the same thing and nastiness iis a quality most fabbers look for in meeting yet some display it so openly on forums and get away with. ... wave your tits and even those who piss on lampost get meets.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So site pass runs out in a few and after speaking to the missis we decided not to renew. A lot of superior, snobby attitudes from a lot of people which makes this swinging thing into a popularity contest..... If anyone wants to reach out before then drop us a line otherwise this will turn into a rant.

Great thread OP; I think it perfectly proves what you say here!!

Fact is, if you were one of the Chosen Ones this thread would have been full of crying and wailing, not bitching.

Good luck. "

Psssst....who is one of the chosen ones?

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By *ngel n tedCouple  over a year ago

maidstone

Wow, you either have to be very very popular or extremely unpopular to get a farewell thread this long.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

9 hrs saying goodbye? Wow, last orders at your local must be a nightmare scenario for you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Some very shady people on this site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Wow, you either have to be very very popular or extremely unpopular to get a farewell thread this long. "

Prob neither. Just an opertunity for some to troll. I just wanted to let those that .... I can't even be bothered to say it again.

#whydidibother

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Wow, you either have to be very very popular or extremely unpopular to get a farewell thread this long.

Prob neither. Just an opertunity for some to troll. I just wanted to let those that .... I can't even be bothered to say it again.

#whydidibother "

Hahaha.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Please don't go. I am so sad, and will be for the next five days. I can't stand the suspense ! Sniff Sniff

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By *ot40sCouple  over a year ago

birmingham


"9 hrs saying goodbye? Wow, last orders at your local must be a nightmare scenario for you. "

This made me lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So site pass runs out in a few and after speaking to the missis we decided not to renew. A lot of superior, snobby attitudes from a lot of people which makes this swinging thing into a popularity contest..... If anyone wants to reach out before then drop us a line otherwise this will turn into a rant.

Great thread OP; I think it perfectly proves what you say here!!

Fact is, if you were one of the Chosen Ones this thread would have been full of crying and wailing, not bitching.

Good luck.

Psssst....who is one of the chosen ones?

"

Psssst.....not me

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By *rwolfMan  over a year ago

bristol

So long,

Fair well,

Auf wiedersein

Goodbye...

Come on peeps, the hillsssss are alive with the sound of orgasms..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Don't know what or why. I hope you don't think I was having a dig or anything or fishing even, I wasn't. Thank you for looking. "

No not at all. I just assumed it was you that blocked. How strange

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So site pass runs out in a few and after speaking to the missis we decided not to renew. A lot of superior, snobby attitudes from a lot of people which makes this swinging thing into a popularity contest..... If anyone wants to reach out before then drop us a line otherwise this will turn into a rant.

Great thread OP; I think it perfectly proves what you say here!!

Fact is, if you were one of the Chosen Ones this thread would have been full of crying and wailing, not bitching.

Good luck.

Psssst....who is one of the chosen ones?

"

I'm sure you can guess

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By *isaB45Woman  over a year ago

Fabville


"So long,

Fair well,

Auf wiedersein

Goodbye...

Come on peeps, the hillsssss are alive with the sound of orgasms.."

I'm now singing this in my brain!

Thank you very much...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why don't people just go quietly???

Why don't some people ignore threads they don't like reading?

Thaaaaaank you

Wtf tho I've said it but maybe people don't like reading my post - will someone else please explain it to them ?????

There's no explaining anything to a significant number of the forumites. These culprits are either trolls looking for a reaction, or too thick to understand. Sad really...

I do notice that many of the posts citing the "clique" are from guys, many of whom aren't getting much... go figure."

Thanks for, essentially, proving the point of the thread....

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