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It puts people off  my being a bit ditsy and jokey 
You see the thing is I (Mrs blue eyes) I like to have a giggle and I can be a bit ditsy, it can get worse when I'm nervous 
We don't meet as such, we club, and we always go with a kind of see what happens and have fun regardless attitude 
We have lots of friends and we have shared a few dalliances with them
We always chat and are never short of someone to chat with at clubs, whilst I have played with ladies and love this, I've never played with guys, some of this is nerves and I'm starting to wonder if some of it is my being ditsy
You see mr plays and I love watching him, I find it amazingly horny, he's approached often or I'm approached to see if he wants to play but I'm not approached and he's never been asked if I want to play, now whilst I'm not particularly worried or needing to play, I'm wondering why???
I'm starting to think it's because I'm driving them mad with my ditsy giggling and it's putting them off, but I am who I am, should i change or just carry on being me, would it put you off??
Oh btw, I'm not being so self obsessed to believe that it couldn't possibly be my looks, I still am open to this option, it's just mr says I look sexy and he does get people saying this to him about me, are they just being kind, maybe it's that, maybe there just being kind
Oh feck I don't know, but it would be good to know what you think, thanks Mrs blue eyes |
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Rule one in my book : never EVER change who you are in pursuit of a shag!
You are who you are and I honestly don't believe people would be put off a bit of slap of tickle with you due to your giggle - happy smiley giggly people are far more desirable to miserable sour ones surely!?
From what I can see it's not a physical thing as you seem to have a desirable body (I can't comment on your face as not seen it) so maybe it's just a confidence thing with you?
Never change - always be yourself x |
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I wouldn't worry, if they are being put off, then they're not who you should play with.
Dont change yourself to make someone else happy. Personally i like it when people show themselves.   |
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No idea. I always think couples on here have it perfect but it's interesting to read that's not always the case.
Don't change yourself but you could change what you do. Giggling during sex is off putting but I'm used to it now it's just when it becomes hysterical that I start to think 'she's enjoying this' |
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"Rule one in my book : never EVER change who you are in pursuit of a shag!
You are who you are and I honestly don't believe people would be put off a bit of slap of tickle with you due to your giggle - happy smiley giggly people are far more desirable to miserable sour ones surely!?
From what I can see it's not a physical thing as you seem to have a desirable body (I can't comment on your face as not seen it) so maybe it's just a confidence thing with you?
Never change - always be yourself x "
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"No idea. I always think couples on here have it perfect but it's interesting to read that's not always the case.
Don't change yourself but you could change what you do. Giggling during sex is off putting but I'm used to it now it's just when it becomes hysterical that I start to think 'she's enjoying this' "
. Tee hee, it's more that I'm a bit giggly and ditsy when chatting before even getting naked
I don't take myself too seriously when we play in groups and I'm playing with the ladies,but I do try not to giggle as I don't want to put everyone off, it's more that I've/ we've never been asked for me to play but Mr gets called over often to play 
It's equally as horny for me to watch and play with Mr after, it's just like I say a niggle, maybe it's the way I look,maybe it's my personality, who knows,like I say, just wondering Mrs blue eyes |
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