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Looking for a lady to chat? Is it really that hard?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know this is a specific website for sex. But some days "even" married men would like to chat. Only chat... Am I looking for the impossible?"
I dont find it hard maybe its your approach I dont know  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What's the point in just chatting if it's not gonna go anywhere? Normally people chat with the view to meeting.
There's too much admin on here as it is with regards to keeping your mailbox tidy without having to have mindless chat that's not going anywhere.
I keep my chat for the forums but don't really like one to one pointless chats unless I fancy the person and want to fuck them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's the point in just chatting if it's not gonna go anywhere? Normally people chat with the view to meeting.
There's too much admin on here as it is with regards to keeping your mailbox tidy without having to have mindless chat that's not going anywhere.
I keep my chat for the forums but don't really like one to one pointless chats unless I fancy the person and want to fuck them. "
but how often does that happen thought you yourself were struggling keeping up with messages ? |
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"I know this is a specific website for sex. But some days "even" married men would like to chat. Only chat... Am I looking for the impossible?"
You might be putting people off by saying you are happily married yet on here meeting others. |
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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago
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"I know this is a specific website for sex. But some days "even" married men would like to chat. Only chat... Am I looking for the impossible?I dont find it hard maybe its your approach I dont know "
You have to give me one lesson or 2 mate  |
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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago
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"I know this is a specific website for sex. But some days "even" married men would like to chat. Only chat... Am I looking for the impossible?
You might be putting people off by saying you are happily married yet on here meeting others."
I was trying to point this. "Even" happily married guys look for a conversation with another lady |
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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago
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"I'm happy to chat with people I might want to meet up with for sex at a later date.
I'm sure there are others who might want a chin wag with you OP "
Well we have tried to chat with you in the past |
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"I know this is a specific website for sex. But some days "even" married men would like to chat. Only chat... Am I looking for the impossible?
You might be putting people off by saying you are happily married yet on here meeting others.
I was trying to point this. "Even" happily married guys look for a conversation with another lady"
If you were happily married why would you be here? Your partner would fulfil all your needs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know this is a specific website for sex. But some days "even" married men would like to chat. Only chat... Am I looking for the impossible?"
Send them a proper message and start to converse. Not that difficult. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm happy to chat with people I might want to meet up with for sex at a later date.
I'm sure there are others who might want a chin wag with you OP
Well we have tried to chat with you in the past "
I know and like I said I only chat with people I might want to meet up with for sex  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm happy to chat with people I might want to meet up with for sex at a later date.
I'm sure there are others who might want a chin wag with you OP
Well we have tried to chat with you in the past
I know and like I said I only chat with people I might want to meet up with for sex "
Same here. Don't see the point in chatting to people I'll never meet. |
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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago
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"I'm happy to chat with people I might want to meet up with for sex at a later date.
I'm sure there are others who might want a chin wag with you OP
Well we have tried to chat with you in the past
I know and like I said I only chat with people I might want to meet up with for sex "
I know and I always respect that |
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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago
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"I'm happy to chat with people I might want to meet up with for sex at a later date.
I'm sure there are others who might want a chin wag with you OP
Well we have tried to chat with you in the past
I know and like I said I only chat with people I might want to meet up with for sex
Same here. Don't see the point in chatting to people I'll never meet."
Who said that I don't meet people? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm happy to chat with people I might want to meet up with for sex at a later date.
I'm sure there are others who might want a chin wag with you OP
Well we have tried to chat with you in the past
I know and like I said I only chat with people I might want to meet up with for sex
Same here. Don't see the point in chatting to people I'll never meet.
Who said that I don't meet people? "
I was on about me as I'll assume you don't meet for sex. |
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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago
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"I'm happy to chat with people I might want to meet up with for sex at a later date.
I'm sure there are others who might want a chin wag with you OP
Well we have tried to chat with you in the past
I know and like I said I only chat with people I might want to meet up with for sex
Same here. Don't see the point in chatting to people I'll never meet.
Who said that I don't meet people?
I was on about me as I'll assume you don't meet for sex. "
Oh ok. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know this is a specific website for sex. But some days "even" married men would like to chat. Only chat... Am I looking for the impossible?"
Yes...
Next!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know this is a specific website for sex. But some days "even" married men would like to chat. Only chat... Am I looking for the impossible?"
Not with some OP. I think some are only looking to chat. Personally, I tend to stick to the forums and use my messages as a way chat to old friends I've met on my old profile, as I'm taking a long break on meeting. If you keep plugging, I'm sure you'll find a lady looking to chat, with no sexual expectation |
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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago
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"I know this is a specific website for sex. But some days "even" married men would like to chat. Only chat... Am I looking for the impossible?
Not with some OP. I think some are only looking to chat. Personally, I tend to stick to the forums and use my messages as a way chat to old friends I've met on my old profile, as I'm taking a long break on meeting. If you keep plugging, I'm sure you'll find a lady looking to chat, with no sexual expectation "
I am motivated now ) |
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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago
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"I know this is a specific website for sex. But some days "even" married men would like to chat. Only chat... Am I looking for the impossible?
You might be putting people off by saying you are happily married yet on here meeting others.
I was trying to point this. "Even" happily married guys look for a conversation with another lady
If you were happily married why would you be here? Your partner would fulfil all your needs. "
Please don't get me wrong. You are married as well. Aren't you happily married? I was going to ask this by message but you like forum interactions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know this is a specific website for sex. But some days "even" married men would like to chat. Only chat... Am I looking for the impossible?"
I,m not into just chat, too time consuming, although I can be persuaded by a good conversationalist XXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm happy to chat with people I might want to meet up with for sex at a later date.
I'm sure there are others who might want a chin wag with you OP
Well we have tried to chat with you in the past
I know and like I said I only chat with people I might want to meet up with for sex "
same here its all about the meets |
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"I know this is a specific website for sex. But some days "even" married men would like to chat. Only chat... Am I looking for the impossible?
You might be putting people off by saying you are happily married yet on here meeting others.
I was trying to point this. "Even" happily married guys look for a conversation with another lady
If you were happily married why would you be here? Your partner would fulfil all your needs.
Please don't get me wrong. You are married as well. Aren't you happily married? I was going to ask this by message but you like forum interactions. "
No not especially! think I no longer expect happiness from my relationship But im not here to meet either. I would understand if you had been in a relationship with one person for 45 odd years.
For the first 20 I would not have looked at another man nor interacted in any way as I /we were in love.
If I were happy ( or when I was Happy ) I would want to spend time with them not waste it interacting with strangers.
You say you want to chat but if sex were offered would you take it up ? Even though you are happily married.
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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago
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"I know this is a specific website for sex. But some days "even" married men would like to chat. Only chat... Am I looking for the impossible?
You might be putting people off by saying you are happily married yet on here meeting others.
I was trying to point this. "Even" happily married guys look for a conversation with another lady
If you were happily married why would you be here? Your partner would fulfil all your needs.
Please don't get me wrong. You are married as well. Aren't you happily married? I was going to ask this by message but you like forum interactions.
No not especially! think I no longer expect happiness from my relationship But im not here to meet either. I would understand if you had been in a relationship with one person for 45 odd years.
For the first 20 I would not have looked at another man nor interacted in any way as I /we were in love.
If I were happy ( or when I was Happy ) I would want to spend time with them not waste it interacting with strangers.
You say you want to chat but if sex were offered would you take it up ? Even though you are happily married.
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The basic and short answer is yes. The longer answer is... You have started to look for another man after 20 years, I've done that after 8 years. I assume that there was no internet, no this kind of sex messages all around the walls, no chance to find a way to get in contact with others "secretly" or no Ashley Madison when you were happily married for the first 20 years. Possibilities are wider now as you know and that makes people like me to start to look around 12 years shorter than you
By the way I would be so happy to chat with you about this topic. Either here or by messages |
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"I know this is a specific website for sex. But some days "even" married men would like to chat. Only chat... Am I looking for the impossible?
You might be putting people off by saying you are happily married yet on here meeting others.
I was trying to point this. "Even" happily married guys look for a conversation with another lady
If you were happily married why would you be here? Your partner would fulfil all your needs.
Please don't get me wrong. You are married as well. Aren't you happily married? I was going to ask this by message but you like forum interactions.
No not especially! think I no longer expect happiness from my relationship But im not here to meet either. I would understand if you had been in a relationship with one person for 45 odd years.
For the first 20 I would not have looked at another man nor interacted in any way as I /we were in love.
If I were happy ( or when I was Happy ) I would want to spend time with them not waste it interacting with strangers.
You say you want to chat but if sex were offered would you take it up ? Even though you are happily married.
The basic and short answer is yes. The longer answer is... You have started to look for another man after 20 years, I've done that after 8 years. I assume that there was no internet, no this kind of sex messages all around the walls, no chance to find a way to get in contact with others "secretly" or no Ashley Madison when you were happily married for the first 20 years. Possibilities are wider now as you know and that makes people like me to start to look around 12 years shorter than you
By the way I would be so happy to chat with you about this topic. Either here or by messages "
No At 20 years I became a depressed wreck of a person I became totally depressed and just disappeared into a black hole for a further 10 years. I didnt surface until 2004 .
Thank God that is over and I have made it to 2017 in one piece. |
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By *rbrandon OP Man
over a year ago
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"I know this is a specific website for sex. But some days "even" married men would like to chat. Only chat... Am I looking for the impossible?
You might be putting people off by saying you are happily married yet on here meeting others.
I was trying to point this. "Even" happily married guys look for a conversation with another lady
If you were happily married why would you be here? Your partner would fulfil all your needs.
Please don't get me wrong. You are married as well. Aren't you happily married? I was going to ask this by message but you like forum interactions.
No not especially! think I no longer expect happiness from my relationship But im not here to meet either. I would understand if you had been in a relationship with one person for 45 odd years.
For the first 20 I would not have looked at another man nor interacted in any way as I /we were in love.
If I were happy ( or when I was Happy ) I would want to spend time with them not waste it interacting with strangers.
You say you want to chat but if sex were offered would you take it up ? Even though you are happily married.
The basic and short answer is yes. The longer answer is... You have started to look for another man after 20 years, I've done that after 8 years. I assume that there was no internet, no this kind of sex messages all around the walls, no chance to find a way to get in contact with others "secretly" or no Ashley Madison when you were happily married for the first 20 years. Possibilities are wider now as you know and that makes people like me to start to look around 12 years shorter than you
By the way I would be so happy to chat with you about this topic. Either here or by messages
No At 20 years I became a depressed wreck of a person I became totally depressed and just disappeared into a black hole for a further 10 years. I didnt surface until 2004 .
Thank God that is over and I have made it to 2017 in one piece."
It is good to hear that you are back |
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