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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We are a couple and looking fit a female to join us.. I would love this to be out first meet as just not clicking with no one else for some reason ... but we never get single females messaging or I can't find any to message ... where are we going wrong .. or do single females not like a couple to play with
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Extremely unlikely you'll get an out of the blue message from a single female, especially while new and before you are meet verified.
Get some more experience, maybe with couples and read the other forum posts on this same subject.
Good luck and have fun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are a couple and looking fit a female to join us.. I would love this to be out first meet as just not clicking with no one else for some reason ... but we never get single females messaging or I can't find any to message ... where are we going wrong .. or do single females not like a couple to play with
Any suggestions xx "
More chance at a club than on here, and at least then you can social veri's from folks you have met there. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks both ... I want to try a club (the Mrs) and he's not right into it not yet anyways haha ..
I know a girl probs would message us first but I don't even see any pool up yo message myself or chat too ...
Am I looking in wrong places x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Single bisexual ladies are probably the most sought after group on here, but probably the least represented.
Some single ladies do meet couples, but bear in mind that as a single lady, it's very difficult to find a couple to share a genuine, threeway attraction and chemistry with. (I only meet couples socially nowadays because I had that exact problem.) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Single bisexual ladies are probably the most sought after group on here, but probably the least represented.
Some single ladies do meet couples, but bear in mind that as a single lady, it's very difficult to find a couple to share a genuine, threeway attraction and chemistry with. (I only meet couples socially nowadays because I had that exact problem.)"
Okay so you look hot as fuck mind my language .. again the Mrs here ... we both love women.. I'm very bi sexual and encourage this in the bedroom but just not getting to experience what I want to do it him because can't find ... we want a regular that we can meet with and find chemistry with ...
I did try to message you actually but I know says I can't haha xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Single bisexual ladies are probably the most sought after group on here, but probably the least represented.
Some single ladies do meet couples, but bear in mind that as a single lady, it's very difficult to find a couple to share a genuine, threeway attraction and chemistry with. (I only meet couples socially nowadays because I had that exact problem.)"
This ^^^ so hard to find a couple which you are attracted to both and they both like you, and to feel comfortable with and have sexual chemistry otherwise it's just awkward  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Single bisexual ladies are probably the most sought after group on here, but probably the least represented.
Some single ladies do meet couples, but bear in mind that as a single lady, it's very difficult to find a couple to share a genuine, threeway attraction and chemistry with. (I only meet couples socially nowadays because I had that exact problem.)
Okay so you look hot as fuck mind my language .. again the Mrs here ... we both love women.. I'm very bi sexual and encourage this in the bedroom but just not getting to experience what I want to do it him because can't find ... we want a regular that we can meet with and find chemistry with ...
I did try to message you actually but I know says I can't haha xx"
Thank you. It's not personal, no one can message me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Single bisexual ladies are probably the most sought after group on here, but probably the least represented.
Some single ladies do meet couples, but bear in mind that as a single lady, it's very difficult to find a couple to share a genuine, threeway attraction and chemistry with. (I only meet couples socially nowadays because I had that exact problem.)
Okay so you look hot as fuck mind my language .. again the Mrs here ... we both love women.. I'm very bi sexual and encourage this in the bedroom but just not getting to experience what I want to do it him because can't find ... we want a regular that we can meet with and find chemistry with ...
I did try to message you actually but I know says I can't haha xx
Thank you. It's not personal, no one can message me "
Maybe consider messaging us sometime ... if you like ....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Single bisexual ladies are probably the most sought after group on here, but probably the least represented.
Some single ladies do meet couples, but bear in mind that as a single lady, it's very difficult to find a couple to share a genuine, threeway attraction and chemistry with. (I only meet couples socially nowadays because I had that exact problem.)
This ^^^ so hard to find a couple which you are attracted to both and they both like you, and to feel comfortable with and have sexual chemistry otherwise it's just awkward "
Exactly - early on in my fab career, I had socials where I found the female half attractive but not the male half. I've had ffms away from fab, but one was with two single friends and I think in future - unless I find an amazing couple - that's the way I'm going to do things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Single bisexual ladies are probably the most sought after group on here, but probably the least represented.
Some single ladies do meet couples, but bear in mind that as a single lady, it's very difficult to find a couple to share a genuine, threeway attraction and chemistry with. (I only meet couples socially nowadays because I had that exact problem.)
Okay so you look hot as fuck mind my language .. again the Mrs here ... we both love women.. I'm very bi sexual and encourage this in the bedroom but just not getting to experience what I want to do it him because can't find ... we want a regular that we can meet with and find chemistry with ...
I did try to message you actually but I know says I can't haha xx
Thank you. It's not personal, no one can message me
Maybe consider messaging us sometime ... if you like .... "
I don't have sexual meets with couples, sorry.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Single bisexual ladies are probably the most sought after group on here, but probably the least represented.
Some single ladies do meet couples, but bear in mind that as a single lady, it's very difficult to find a couple to share a genuine, threeway attraction and chemistry with. (I only meet couples socially nowadays because I had that exact problem.)
Okay so you look hot as fuck mind my language .. again the Mrs here ... we both love women.. I'm very bi sexual and encourage this in the bedroom but just not getting to experience what I want to do it him because can't find ... we want a regular that we can meet with and find chemistry with ...
I did try to message you actually but I know says I can't haha xx
Thank you. It's not personal, no one can message me
Maybe consider messaging us sometime ... if you like ....
I don't have sexual meets with couples, sorry. "
Fair enough haha worth a try I guess ... tjmx for advice tho xx |
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Op, things single ladies in particular have to watch out for:
Single guys posing as a couple.
Male of of couple persuading female half to fulfil a fantasy of his.
female half of couple flipping out at the meet, when she actually sees it.
general awkwardness / feeling left out from the couple
liking one half of the couple only
Being used as a bucket list tick.
And a few more.
There are thousands of couples saying they want single ladies, some won't have these issues and lots will. As a new profile, unverified, it will be difficult to make a single lady comfortable that none of those are the case with you.
I'd say get meet verified and definitely head to some clubs. We've met lots of girls at clubs and it's worked for all of us.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like looking for a needle in a haystack 
Great boobs btw yep ill second that!  "
Like a well oiled haystack....dont hold your breath and get your self to a local club ......even then there will be loads of guys and no single females......????. |
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"Like looking for a needle in a haystack
Great boobs btw yep ill second that!
Like a well oiled haystack....dont hold your breath and get your self to a local club ......even then there will be loads of guys and no single females......????."
No. First, they can go on couples night, lots of couples and single girls on those nights. And mixed nights there are single girls too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A club would be your best bet with out a doubt. On a visit to a club not so long ago J had the company of four single ladies on of the play beds , you'll find it very difficult to have the same senario via "Fab " so suss out a club guys . All the best |
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"A club would be your best bet with out a doubt. On a visit to a club not so long ago J had the company of four single ladies on of the play beds , you'll find it very difficult to have the same senario via "Fab " so suss out a club guys . All the best "
This is the great thing with clubs. Some times it might be a great social type evening, just playing together and watching / being watched. Other nights ff, ffm, mmf, mfmf, mfmf, mfmfmf, fffmm, who knows, but that's part of the fun and excitement
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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They are about.
Most don't want to be treated like the main attraction, the couples play thing.
There has to be attraction all round and that's where it becomes tricky.
Clubs are great for meeting new people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A club would be your best bet with out a doubt. On a visit to a club not so long ago J had the company of four single ladies on of the play beds , you'll find it very difficult to have the same senario via "Fab " so suss out a club guys . All the best
This is the great thing with clubs. Some times it might be a great social type evening, just playing together and watching / being watched. Other nights ff, ffm, mmf, mfmf, mfmf, mfmfmf, fffmm, who knows, but that's part of the fun and excitement
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Oh absolutely, every visit is so different |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My self and my lover found a women who was willing to join us as a 3sum. Me and her have met up gone out had drinks and a giggle got on like a house on fire this friendship has blossomed so much so that we don't want to play together in case it fucks up out friendship. Still haven't got round to telling the lover though lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They call single bi females unicorns for a reason
They are as rare as the mythical creature
Luckily, not quite so rare "
this
Yep not as rare as everyone thinks |
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By *kultraCouple
over a year ago
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"We are a couple and looking fit a female to join us.. I would love this to be out first meet as just not clicking with no one else for some reason ... but we never get single females messaging or I can't find any to message ... where are we going wrong .. or do single females not like a couple to play with
Any suggestions xx "
We are not far from you and we are also looking for another couple or single female x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They call single bi females unicorns for a reason
They are as rare as the mythical creature
Luckily, not quite so rare "
By our sunny seaside location they are x |
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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago
harwich |
we had our first threesome in 85 then nothig till about 93 when that ended we started to go to swingers clubs and met another single gitl who had come along with her cousin and his wife just to see what it was like that also lasted about a year and since then weve played with maybe 20 single girls in fact we played with two singles at a party just two weeks ago so yes they are out there but you have to be there as well
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Very tricky to meet single females as a couple outside the club's / party scenario 