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how to let a bloke down on here
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ok so i get loads of emails (as do most females on here) so whats the best way to let a guy down ... or is it best to be blunt
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First, Gorgeous profile! 
It depends on what you mean. Do you mean initial contact or you've played with them once, didn't enjoy and don't want to play with them again?
Depends on the situation...and the guy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Delete if no interest at all, tho if they,ve put effort into the message (not cut an paste) I will usually reply with, thanks but no thanks, trouble is some see that as half way there while others accept it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"ok so i get loads of emails (as do most females on here) so whats the best way to let a guy down ... or is it best to be blunt
First, Gorgeous profile!
It depends on what you mean. Do you mean initial contact or you've played with them once, didn't enjoy and don't want to play with them again?
Depends on the situation...and the guy!"
more for 1st email
thanks i do worry my profile might come off looking grumpy lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just dont reply if im not interested
unless they keep mailing me regardless of me not replying then i mail them to tell them to take a hint and stop mailing lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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a no reply speaks thousand words doesnt it ??? and why worry about giving someone the brush off its not a dating site ?sand id have thought you would be wanting guys to contact you with the telephone scam ??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i never mail anyone either
i used to go thro profiles and mail guys i was interested in but i hardly every got a reply and never got a meet from anyone i contacted first
so i now just go thro those who mail me and reply to the ones i like
saves time lol |
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my standard reply if I'm not interested is 'no thank you'. It's quite to the point so rarely got come back on it, if i do I delete once a second time I block.
Same goes for the copy n paste couples and guys who mail out everyone every few weeks. No thank you once, delete 2nd time, block if the don't get hint or remember me after that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ok so i get loads of emails (as do most females on here) so whats the best way to let a guy down ... or is it best to be blunt
simple way really
block"
blocking is for fuds...unless theres some persistancy or the guy/cpl/girls being an arsehole.a simple no thanks is enough and wish them good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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and to my above statement, ive said again and again, i like to meet people in the social aspects, so thats the same normally for parties or socials...really wouldnt like saying hi etc etc i blocked u...or likewise, there is NEVER any need to be rash, and of course blocking in my opinion is more like a last resort |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You mean we are allowed to turn people down 
Yep but watch out fa the small print lol xx
Omg small print as well, wheres me specs lol "
uve specs? mmmmmmmmmmmm...wanking at the thot hehe xxx |
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"You mean we are allowed to turn people down
Yep but watch out fa the small print lol xx
Omg small print as well, wheres me specs lol
uve specs? mmmmmmmmmmmm...wanking at the thot hehe xxx"
well more like sunglasses than specs lol |
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By *ing33Man
over a year ago
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i hate no replies, i put time and effort into my mails, so a polite no thx would be enough for me to hear, its only polite. and if he persist, just block them, but would like to add, i accept a ''no'' gracefully and reply with a "thx for replying, be lucky"...
but i hear not everyone can take a "no" and are not so polite!!!! |
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