I haven't had 'nice' sex in a long time. To me that conjures up images of just satisfactory, bit of kissing and a bit of in and out. Dull really. Nice to me is boring and lacklustre and without true spark. Enough of a spark to get me a bit wet but not enough to cause a clit throb. So yeah - that's nice sex to me.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

All the guys ive met on here have been lovely, respectful, nice. Never had even the tiny bit of problem . While there with me its all about "us". The minute they leave then back to normal AND majority of guys i meet stay in touch. Ive never been made to feel.used

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By *ild_oatsMan over a year ago

the land of saints & sinners

"I could lie and talk of emotional attachment and connection etc etc

But sometimes a man just needs his oats!!

As long as it's not my oats you are after....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What do you mean by nice?

whatever you want it to mean, i'm asking you.

for me personally, i think a guy approaching me to stick his willie in me cannottheoretically be nice. no matter how respectful he is."

Oh I don't know, I think there are men who know how to say what they want to do to you without being crude. That is nice x

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By *orum Troll OP Woman over a year ago

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interesting. i wasn't expecting the 'dull' comparison from a few of you, although nice is quite a bland word.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"All the guys ive met on here have been lovely, respectful, nice. Never had even the tiny bit of problem . While there with me its all about "us". The minute they leave then back to normal AND majority of guys i meet stay in touch. Ive never been made to feel.used"

I think the word "used" is out of context in consensual sex, neither party is using the other. If one party feels "used" afterwards, could it be that they viewed the sex as a manipulative tool which failed to achieve whatever their real objective was?

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By *orum Troll OP Woman over a year ago

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"What do you mean by nice?

whatever you want it to mean, i'm asking you.

for me personally, i think a guy approaching me to stick his willie in me cannottheoretically be nice. no matter how respectful he is.

Oh I don't know, I think there are men who know how to say what they want to do to you without being crude. That is nice x "

yes, i was expecting this answer mainly. and not only you have given it but yours has more clarity so i'm quoting for that reason.

this topic has come off the back of another one from last night. where a few comments were made about a guy not approaching a women for sex is seen as respectful and a gent. just wondered what that made the guys who do approach women for sex?

and seeing as i'm already of the opinion that a guy approaching someone for sex is not nice in the first place i thought i'd get some interesting answers, and have done. i have some more thinking to do about my own opinion also.

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By *orum Troll OP Woman over a year ago

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oh, and i don't always think nice is good either. although disrespectful never is.

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