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What does swinging means to you
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Chatting with sexy people (after the mess was cleaned  ) we realised that swinging and bicurious, bisexual, nsa, fwb, fb, and so on means different things for everyone.
And that's the problem with labels . You can find a definition for it, but everyone approach is a bit different.
I am not saying one view is better or more right than another. I would like to hear what is your take on this subject.
Please be respectful and no whining. Anyone that crosses the line will be reported.
So, what does swinging means to you?
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over a year ago
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As I've said many times. I personally view 'my Swinging' as sharing my body and a sexy time with people I like.
And I don't mean liking the look of people, I mean liking them as a person, and that means getting to know them. And I think different levels of swinging too. Soft swinging maybe? Playing and snogging to full complete naked sex.
Hopefully this all makes sense.
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over a year ago
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Alot of people say they are genuinly into swinging and that personality means more while looks still play a factor in deciding who to play with but from what i keep seeing again and again and again and over and over and more and more and more is people saying personality is key for them..but then only seem to be meeting extremely good looking people who have no personality, are clearly on here behind a partners back or whos profiles are just vile or stuck up. Meanwhile im told my profile is shit and arrogant even though its honest and humble and because im a single male im not considered a swinger..if i was better looking my profile would rarely get criticised and i would he considered a genuine swinger. So many times i have messaged people whos profile almost described me perfectly as their perfect match when it comes to personality and interests but i have been turned down for a guy with nothing on his profile who hides his verifications and doesnt even have facepics and is just looking for a quick shag behind their misses back..and thats consistantly not just here and there. So your right swinging means different things to different people but mostly atleast in the east midlands it seems to just be an excuse to meet fittest people they can whether or not they are genuinly into swinging. The worst part is when people complain how hard it is to get meets with suitable people then turn down every person who messages because none of them were as fit as the person you met 2 weeks ago although it is hilarious when couples make light of how hard it is to meet women on here but as soon as the female half of a couple isnt playing and the guy has permission to play solo suddenly no women are messaging to play haha for me..its a favourite part of my life and i would love to get more involved in the lifestyle but unfortunatly being an average looking male with no female partner this lifestyle or atleast lifestyle through fabswingers has been nothing but an eye opening confidence shattering bring down with 4 or 5 really good experiences mixed in, it showed me that people are shameless in their lies and hypocrisy and in that sense has given me more confidence than ever in a wierd way because its taught me to recognise when i see someone whos full of shit and whos not, it made me have a greater respect for women and those who are into wierd or abnormal actovities, its opened my eyes and good or bad im thankful for it. |
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"Alot of people say they are genuinly into swinging and that personality means more while looks still play a factor in deciding who to play with but from what i keep seeing again and again and again and over and over and more and more and more is people saying personality is key for them..but then only seem to be meeting extremely good looking people who have no personality, are clearly on here behind a partners back or whos profiles are just vile or stuck up. Meanwhile im told my profile is shit and arrogant even though its honest and humble and because im a single male im not considered a swinger..if i was better looking my profile would rarely get criticised and i would he considered a genuine swinger. So many times i have messaged people whos profile almost described me perfectly as their perfect match when it comes to personality and interests but i have been turned down for a guy with nothing on his profile who hides his verifications and doesnt even have facepics and is just looking for a quick shag behind their misses back..and thats consistantly not just here and there. So your right swinging means different things to different people but mostly atleast in the east midlands it seems to just be an excuse to meet fittest people they can whether or not they are genuinly into swinging. The worst part is when people complain how hard it is to get meets with suitable people then turn down every person who messages because none of them were as fit as the person you met 2 weeks ago although it is hilarious when couples make light of how hard it is to meet women on here but as soon as the female half of a couple isnt playing and the guy has permission to play solo suddenly no women are messaging to play haha for me..its a favourite part of my life and i would love to get more involved in the lifestyle but unfortunatly being an average looking male with no female partner this lifestyle or atleast lifestyle through fabswingers has been nothing but an eye opening confidence shattering bring down with 4 or 5 really good experiences mixed in, it showed me that people are shameless in their lies and hypocrisy and in that sense has given me more confidence than ever in a wierd way because its taught me to recognise when i see someone whos full of shit and whos not, it made me have a greater respect for women and those who are into wierd or abnormal actovities, its opened my eyes and good or bad im thankful for it. "
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over a year ago
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I think swinging is more for couples...
I didn’t join fab to swing, I joined fab because I had a high sex drive and the site (or the people on it) helped m scratch an itch ... I joined up for sexy fun and sex, and I have been well rewarded |
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"Chatting with sexy people (after the mess was cleaned ) we realised that swinging and bicurious, bisexual, nsa, fwb, fb, and so on means different things for everyone.
And that's the problem with labels . You can find a definition for it, but everyone approach is a bit different.
I am not saying one view is better or more right than another. I would like to hear what is your take on this subject.
Please be respectful and no whining. Anyone that crosses the line will be reported.
So, what does swinging means to you?
MrsSB "
for me its just a meeting of minds that hopefully are on a similar level ,its social and sexy  |
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I prefer to call it playing. To me it means having chats with like minded people, using the forum. Being educated as I learn new things all the time from forum threads. I have learnt that some people are just fantasists and dreamers but a lot are not. I have learnt not to be mean to others in my posts (most of the time). I have made friends on Fab.
Swinging also means new experiences, being adventurous, experimenting, being open minded, not being judgmental (although I admit I can be on occasions) I like giving pleasure to men, as well as receiving it. It means having great sex, not so great sex and sometimes mind blowing sex. |
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For me there are two aspects: mindset and behaviour.
Mindset. Valuing and believing in respectfully expressing one's sexuality with multiple partners both in one-to-one and group settings, in an environment of mutuality and trust.
Behaviour: Expessing the above.
I have a swinging mindset, but due to my personal circumstances don't participate in swinging behaviour. |
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"For me there are two aspects: mindset and behaviour.
Mindset. Valuing and believing in respectfully expressing one's sexuality with multiple partners both in one-to-one and group settings, in an environment of mutuality and trust.
Behaviour: Expessing the above.
I have a swinging mindset, but due to my personal circumstances don't participate in swinging behaviour. "
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Swinging for me has meant that I can be my horny flirty self with other like-minded people without judgement, as a couple it's about sharing and watching each other being pleasured, such a turn on for us both 
And we've made some amazing friends
Peach x |
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"Swinging for me has meant that I can be my horny flirty self with other like-minded people without judgement, as a couple it's about sharing and watching each other being pleasured, such a turn on for us both
And we've made some amazing friends
Peach x "
We couldn't have put it any better |
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