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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Hi im a guy on the large side. I what to know is there any woman like a guy like me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm sure there are

theres threads about women who like chunky men..have a search OP

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By *airymagicWoman  over a year ago

goblin city

I have no body preferences but you wouldn't be for me, for other reasons kid

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm sure there are

theres threads about women who like chunky men..have a search OP "

thanks i will have a look.

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By *emini ManMan  over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Maybe take some of the advice given when you posted virtually the same thing 5 days ago OP

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi im a guy on the large side. I what to know is there any woman like a guy like me."

Don't allow one facet of your being define you're fab experience. It generally doesn't bring success.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Hi im a guy on the large side. I what to know is there any woman like a guy like me.

Don't allow one facet of your being define you're fab experience. It generally doesn't bring success."

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By *dam1971Man  over a year ago

Bedford


"Don't allow one facet of your being define you're fab experience. It generally doesn't bring success."

That's right. I'm so good at shagging that my last partner stopped afterwards to give me a standing ovation, but I don't let it be the main thing about me

ps. My inbox is available, ladies.

pps. I am dangerously sarcastic so please don't take the above as serious

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

You did this same thread 5 days ago, and was last answered two days ago? Did you not get your answers there?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe take some of the advice given when you posted virtually the same thing 5 days ago OP "

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You did this same thread 5 days ago, and was last answered two days ago? Did you not get your answers there? "
yes i did 5 days a go but i am learning so i looking for tips and trying to get my profile out there.

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"You did this same thread 5 days ago, and was last answered two days ago? Did you not get your answers there? yes i did 5 days a go but i am learning so i looking for tips and trying to get my profile out there."

So why not just bump that one? Easy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You did this same thread 5 days ago, and was last answered two days ago? Did you not get your answers there? yes i did 5 days a go but i am learning so i looking for tips and trying to get my profile out there.

So why not just bump that one? Easy! "

i don't know i forgot about it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You did this same thread 5 days ago, and was last answered two days ago? Did you not get your answers there? yes i did 5 days a go but i am learning so i looking for tips and trying to get my profile out there.

So why not just bump that one? Easy! i don't know i forgot about it."

It you want the advice so surely going back to refer to it will be benficial rather than forgetting about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You did this same thread 5 days ago, and was last answered two days ago? Did you not get your answers there? yes i did 5 days a go but i am learning so i looking for tips and trying to get my profile out there.

So why not just bump that one? Easy! i don't know i forgot about it.

It you want the advice so surely going back to refer to it will be benficial rather than forgetting about it. "

sorry ment i forgot about thread not the info. The info u nice people gave me has made my profile so much better. In this thread i was seeing if liked woman liked fat guys.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There are some serious advantages of being with a fat guy, I for one will not stop eating until told to stop

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"There are some serious advantages of being with a fat guy, I for one will not stop eating until told to stop "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I believe that fat people get looked down in life and online due to their looks so why are there so many sad evil people out there when like can be short when seeking fun.

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I've got a bit of a thing for big hairy guys with large beer bellies at the moment, don't know why

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You did this same thread 5 days ago, and was last answered two days ago? Did you not get your answers there? "

We have nearly 300 chat threads for guys who like fat women to meet them in.

But this guy starts one about women who like fat men and all hes gotten is told to use the search, change his approach, or not to repost the same thread.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You did this same thread 5 days ago, and was last answered two days ago? Did you not get your answers there?

We have nearly 300 chat threads for guys who like fat women to meet them in.

But this guy starts one about women who like fat men and all hes gotten is told to use the search, change his approach, or not to repost the same thread.

"

We are supposed to have equality. Not much shown here.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I hope so 'cos I ain't giving up cake for nobody!

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By *icassolifelikeMan  over a year ago

Luton

Say you're a prop!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I hope so 'cos I ain't giving up cake for nobody! "

I'll share a cake with you

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By *dam1971Man  over a year ago

Bedford


"I hope so 'cos I ain't giving up cake for nobody!

I'll share a cake with you "

Does it have to be equal shares?

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By *amissCouple  over a year ago

chelmsford


"Hi im a guy on the large side. I what to know is there any woman like a guy like me."

There is someone for everyone

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By *ucyfur77Woman  over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"You did this same thread 5 days ago, and was last answered two days ago? Did you not get your answers there?

We have nearly 300 chat threads for guys who like fat women to meet them in.

But this guy starts one about women who like fat men and all hes gotten is told to use the search, change his approach, or not to repost the same thread.

"

Yup

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I hope so 'cos I ain't giving up cake for nobody!

I'll share a cake with you

Does it have to be equal shares? "

You get half a cake! How much do you want??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Wish woman on Fab would make their minds up, just approaching 4 stone loss, oh yeah, smug mode!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

suggestion op maybe put a meet up on your profile

in search can be difficult

i wish you well good luck

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

oh i forgot .. offer cake op seem to bring in a lot of interest

and pictures of nice bathroom tiles they are popular too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

While this bloke gets slated for repeating a thread about women who like fat blokes...

...there are 311 BBW threads but that's OK

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"While this bloke gets slated for repeating a thread about women who like fat blokes...

...there are 311 BBW threads but that's OK "

dont forget the look at me threads

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"While this bloke gets slated for repeating a thread about women who like fat blokes...

...there are 311 BBW threads but that's OK "

That's Fab demographics for you!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"While this bloke gets slated for repeating a thread about women who like fat blokes...

...there are 311 BBW threads but that's OK

That's Fab demographics for you!"

Ain't it just!

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By *orum TrollWoman  over a year ago

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"While this bloke gets slated for repeating a thread about women who like fat blokes...

...there are 311 BBW threads but that's OK "

difference is when a BBW thread is full then another topic is started.

it's not hypocrisy, i do think most people get pissed off when any forumite makes the same topics just to get attention and not because they're interested in answers. but these people could just not comment and report the topic for spam or something.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury

Speaks volumes about the difference between the 2 sexes.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I do sometimes read people's comments and think they're unnecessarily harsh. The guy's relatively new to the forums - cut him some slack maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

yes and like it is whem one profile user posts a negative in a thread they sit about loving to jump on the bandwaggon, thats why so many leave the site

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I do sometimes read people's comments and think they're unnecessarily harsh. The guy's relatively new to the forums - cut him some slack maybe. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Speaks volumes about the difference between the 2 sexes."

I think it just shows because there's significantly more men than women on Fab men behave more aquiescently.

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By *laymateMJMan  over a year ago

CENTRAL LONDON

Just be honest about who you are and your body type and give a good intro message. You might shag like a god but for some people they won't be interested unless you look a certain way, even if that compromises on the experience, some people are attracted to different people ..simple; others couldn't give a damn about what you look like.

Seen plenty of profiles of women and couples who state that they prefer a bigger guy so hey are definitely our there.

As with everything on this site when it comes to men, you have to put in the effort to capture attention regardless of how you look in reflection a woman can have no profile pics and next to nothing on their own profile and still get too much attention, just the way it is so adapt and overcome my friend.

I don't mind a bigger woman as long as they are healthy and reasonably active, but if it's a bigger woman who's a couch potato type and clearly not capable of providing the physical effort I require then I won't be interested, us humans are all different with varying syandards and desires, there's someone on here for everyone, just finding them and being noticed that matters.

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By *radleywigginsMan  over a year ago

northwest

This forum glamourises obesity.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This forum glamourises obesity. "

your point?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I just go for the I'm a rugby player type .. could have got away with that as a way of saying you carry a few extra pounds as an old style rugby player....well it works sometimes for me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This forum glamourises obesity. "

I think you'll find it just highlights that some of us see past the outer shell of someone.

I'd much rather meet someone I engage with intellectually than someone I find attractive just from how they look.

If I'm loving the person who you are, I don't see how size can matter!

Skinny, curvy, chubby whatever. I like you, not the bit extra you may carry.

That's up to them to decide if they want to change that about themselves.

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By *orum TrollWoman  over a year ago

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"This forum glamourises obesity. "

not obese men though, don't think i've seen a direct comment aimed at the OP saying yes they do.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i just like cock n pussy i do not look at the mantle when poking the fire

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi im a guy on the large side. I what to know is there any woman like a guy like me."
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There are women on here who like all different types of physique OP. Perhaps the 'athletic' type is more popular amongst the males. But please don't let it put you off. Even they struggle to get meets. Just try and be yourself in your messages and I'm sure some will respond, given time. I genuinely wish you the best of luck on here OP .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This forum glamourises obesity. "

No, it's just open-minded and realises that people are on different journeys with their bodies. Maybe you should take a leaf out of those books.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This forum glamourises obesity.

No, it's just open-minded and realises that people are on different journeys with their bodies. Maybe you should take a leaf out of those books."

you write some sensible things

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This forum glamourises obesity.

No, it's just open-minded and realises that people are on different journeys with their bodies. Maybe you should take a leaf out of those books.

you write some sensible things "

I try!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This forum glamourises obesity.

No, it's just open-minded and realises that people are on different journeys with their bodies. Maybe you should take a leaf out of those books."

Bodies change shape.

Personalities seldom change

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This forum glamourises obesity.

No, it's just open-minded and realises that people are on different journeys with their bodies. Maybe you should take a leaf out of those books.

Bodies change shape.

Personalities seldom change "

So very true

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This forum glamourises obesity.

No, it's just open-minded and realises that people are on different journeys with their bodies. Maybe you should take a leaf out of those books.

Bodies change shape.

Personalities seldom change

So very true "

Thsts all very nice along with all the other offended replies to that comment but you all miss one vital point.

Obesity is a personality problem, not a physical problem.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This forum glamourises obesity.

not obese men though, don't think i've seen a direct comment aimed at the OP saying yes they do.

"

Obviously.

A study showed when asked 94% of the population find fat people physically unattractive.

This is played out very clearly in fat men threads.

As we've seen no one has said yes they've attacked the op at worst and at best said "I'm not but somoen else might be"

However its the polar oposite in fat women threads (what's be chat to now 300?) Where there are masses of suitors.

So the question is, does fab attract a disproportionate amount of male obesity admirers and a fraction as many women who admire obesity?

Or is this related to the imbalance in male/female numbers on here and a sort of "any port ina storm" situation?

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By *airymagicWoman  over a year ago

goblin city

I like some padding ou on a man, but as I work hard at my weight(unsuccessfully) I dont fancy a obese chap who doesn't do anything about it

Its a mental thing, I like proactive types

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By *orum TrollWoman  over a year ago

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"This forum glamourises obesity.

not obese men though, don't think i've seen a direct comment aimed at the OP saying yes they do.

Obviously.

A study showed when asked 94% of the population find fat people physically unattractive.

This is played out very clearly in fat men threads.

As we've seen no one has said yes they've attacked the op at worst and at best said "I'm not but somoen else might be"

However its the polar oposite in fat women threads (what's be chat to now 300?) Where there are masses of suitors.

So the question is, does fab attract a disproportionate amount of male obesity admirers and a fraction as many women who admire obesity?

Or is this related to the imbalance in male/female numbers on here and a sort of "any port ina storm" situation?"

women haven't fetishised men. so we kind of go for average but the best average we can get that is gonna fulfil our fantasies.

i do think the forums attracts a disproportionate amount of male fat admirers. probably because the majority of the population is now obese. so that's the norm.

i also think it attracts men who think women in general on here will fuck anything and we're all sex mad having orgies, lesbian sex, and gangbangs at every opportunity.

i think some men will think every single porn stereotype that exists applies to all the women.

i do think it attracts sex addicts who will fuck anything.

i do think it attracts cheats who are desperate for s fuck coz of time restraints so they will fuck almost anyone.

i don't think it matters too much. most of us women are not naive enough to believe most the compliments in our inbox mean anything more than i want to fuck you. so long as we feel the guy is gonna give us a good time and respects us then we're happy enough (but which is why i don't meet any more, coz i feel the respect is mostly lacking).

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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For what it's worth, the 'fat threads' aren't filled with hundreds of posts flirting and wanting to fuck each other - it's generally filled with banal crap and friends chatting and the odd bit of bitching. Rarely do you get new posters in there.

I hate it being rolled out as an example of the double standards on here. It's not. I'm not saying they don't exist but stop holding the BBW threads up as an exanple of them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You did this same thread 5 days ago, and was last answered two days ago? Did you not get your answers there? yes i did 5 days a go but i am learning so i looking for tips and trying to get my profile out there.

So why not just bump that one? Easy! i don't know i forgot about it."

Next week's title could be:-

Woman who like fat guys with amnesia

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"This forum glamourises obesity.

I think you'll find it just highlights that some of us see past the outer shell of someone.

I'd much rather meet someone I engage with intellectually than someone I find attractive just from how they look.

If I'm loving the person who you are, I don't see how size can matter!

Skinny, curvy, chubby whatever. I like you, not the bit extra you may carry.

That's up to them to decide if they want to change that about themselves. "

True many men do seem to be able to see through the shell. Maybe one day women will join us.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"This forum glamourises obesity.

not obese men though, don't think i've seen a direct comment aimed at the OP saying yes they do.

Obviously.

A study showed when asked 94% of the population find fat people physically unattractive.

This is played out very clearly in fat men threads.

As we've seen no one has said yes they've attacked the op at worst and at best said "I'm not but somoen else might be"

However its the polar oposite in fat women threads (what's be chat to now 300?) Where there are masses of suitors.

So the question is, does fab attract a disproportionate amount of male obesity admirers and a fraction as many women who admire obesity?

Or is this related to the imbalance in male/female numbers on here and a sort of "any port ina storm" situation?"

Essentially "Going ugly early" ?

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By *orum TrollWoman  over a year ago

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"This forum glamourises obesity.

I think you'll find it just highlights that some of us see past the outer shell of someone.

I'd much rather meet someone I engage with intellectually than someone I find attractive just from how they look.

If I'm loving the person who you are, I don't see how size can matter!

Skinny, curvy, chubby whatever. I like you, not the bit extra you may carry.

That's up to them to decide if they want to change that about themselves.

True many men do seem to be able to see through the shell. Maybe one day women will join us."

i met a morbidly obese guy off here but he wasn't fit enough to have sex so it wasn't a good meet really.

he was nice to chat to so i met him.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"For what it's worth, the 'fat threads' aren't filled with hundreds of posts flirting and wanting to fuck each other - it's generally filled with banal crap and friends chatting and the odd bit of bitching. Rarely do you get new posters in there.

I hate it being rolled out as an example of the double standards on here. It's not. I'm not saying they don't exist but stop holding the BBW threads up as an exanple of them. "

Ok cool then you go start a thread with the op

"Hi im a woman on the large side. I what to know is there any men like a woman like me."

(Feel free to correct the grammar)

And see if you get the slating the up does or an avalanche of offers.

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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"I hate it being rolled out as an example of the double standards on here. It's not. I'm not saying they don't exist but stop holding the BBW threads up as an exanple of them.

Ok cool then you go start a thread with the op

"Hi im a woman on the large side. I what to know is there any men like a woman like me."

(Feel free to correct the grammar)

And see if you get the slating the up does or an avalanche of offers."

You've missed my point entirely. I even typed that double standards exist. Have you even looked at the BBW threads recently? They are nothing like this one or the one you suggested I start - I don't think they should be used as an inaccurate example in a thread like this.

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By *imetoexplore69Couple  over a year ago

Aberdeen


"I believe that fat people get looked down in life and online due to their looks so why are there so many sad evil people out there when like can be short when seeking fun. "
are you really trying to say hot guys/women should just pitty fuck fat people .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I believe that fat people get looked down in life and online due to their looks so why are there so many sad evil people out there when like can be short when seeking fun. are you really trying to say hot guys/women should just pitty fuck fat people ."
no i not just saying what i think that's all

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By *northernsoulMan  over a year ago

Manchester

Jeez, give this guy a break.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I hate it being rolled out as an example of the double standards on here. It's not. I'm not saying they don't exist but stop holding the BBW threads up as an exanple of them.

Ok cool then you go start a thread with the op

"Hi im a woman on the large side. I what to know is there any men like a woman like me."

(Feel free to correct the grammar)

And see if you get the slating the up does or an avalanche of offers.

You've missed my point entirely. I even typed that double standards exist. Have you even looked at the BBW threads recently? They are nothing like this one or the one you suggested I start - I don't think they should be used as an inaccurate example in a thread like this. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This forum glamourises obesity.

I think you'll find it just highlights that some of us see past the outer shell of someone.

I'd much rather meet someone I engage with intellectually than someone I find attractive just from how they look.

If I'm loving the person who you are, I don't see how size can matter!

Skinny, curvy, chubby whatever. I like you, not the bit extra you may carry.

That's up to them to decide if they want to change that about themselves.

"

may I say, that's a reallysweet thing to say. I still have hope!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By *radleywigginsMan  over a year ago

northwest


"This forum glamourises obesity.

I think you'll find it just highlights that some of us see past the outer shell of someone.

I'd much rather meet someone I engage with intellectually than someone I find attractive just from how they look.

If I'm loving the person who you are, I don't see how size can matter!

Skinny, curvy, chubby whatever. I like you, not the bit extra you may carry.

That's up to them to decide if they want to change that about themselves.

True many men do seem to be able to see through the shell. Maybe one day women will join us."

The women of this website (in particular the forum) won't. I can't remember having looked at the profile of a woman who describes herself as athletic and seeing a picture of her in action with a huge bloke. The women seem to display them as a badge of honour, as evidence of what they can still get.

I'm amazed by the responses. Firstly I have never considered obesity to be something you just accept, like height. It's not something that isn't completely controllable by the individual. I have never struggled with my weight, but that's because I've never struggled to control how much food I put in, or struggled to motivate myself to do some exercise.

That's the struggle, as long as people continue to have a 'I'm fat, that's just me' attitude, then despite people saying bodies change, they never will.

A 'changed' body is not something to aspire to, congratulations on proving your motivation but what I feel is needed are people who are prepared to change lifestyles, not weights. Otherwise cycles of binge and crash diet continue. (This is what the industry wans)

It hardly needs stating that obesity causes medical problems. I'm amazed by the lack of responsibility towards their own health taken by members of the forum. Curvy, chubby, plus size, whatever you call it, is just a precursor for diabetes, hypertension, strokes, heart attacks.

Fucking a load of thin people prepared to say this doesn't matter to them is not goin to negate that risk.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"I hate it being rolled out as an example of the double standards on here. It's not. I'm not saying they don't exist but stop holding the BBW threads up as an exanple of them.

Ok cool then you go start a thread with the op

"Hi im a woman on the large side. I what to know is there any men like a woman like me."

(Feel free to correct the grammar)

And see if you get the slating the up does or an avalanche of offers.

You've missed my point entirely. I even typed that double standards exist. Have you even looked at the BBW threads recently? They are nothing like this one or the one you suggested I start - I don't think they should be used as an inaccurate example in a thread like this. "

Why would anyone who didn't want to fuck large women look at the bbw threads? The most exclusive ( And not in a good way) thread on fab.

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"While this bloke gets slated for repeating a thread about women who like fat blokes...

...there are 311 BBW threads but that's OK "

Amazing isn't it?

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"This forum glamourises obesity.

not obese men though, don't think i've seen a direct comment aimed at the OP saying yes they do.

Obviously.

A study showed when asked 94% of the population find fat people physically unattractive.

This is played out very clearly in fat men threads.

As we've seen no one has said yes they've attacked the op at worst and at best said "I'm not but somoen else might be"

However its the polar oposite in fat women threads (what's be chat to now 300?) Where there are masses of suitors.

So the question is, does fab attract a disproportionate amount of male obesity admirers and a fraction as many women who admire obesity?

Or is this related to the imbalance in male/female numbers on here and a sort of "any port ina storm" situation?"

I think you're very perceptive.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Before I joined Fab I had no idea what any of the men looked like, how old they were or where they lived. Unless Fab advertised that it has a large proportion of fat women I don't know how it can attract men who like obese women.

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"This forum glamourises obesity.

I think you'll find it just highlights that some of us see past the outer shell of someone.

I'd much rather meet someone I engage with intellectually than someone I find attractive just from how they look.

If I'm loving the person who you are, I don't see how size can matter!

Skinny, curvy, chubby whatever. I like you, not the bit extra you may carry.

That's up to them to decide if they want to change that about themselves.

True many men do seem to be able to see through the shell. Maybe one day women will join us.

The women of this website (in particular the forum) won't. I can't remember having looked at the profile of a woman who describes herself as athletic and seeing a picture of her in action with a huge bloke. The women seem to display them as a badge of honour, as evidence of what they can still get.

I'm amazed by the responses. Firstly I have never considered obesity to be something you just accept, like height. It's not something that isn't completely controllable by the individual. I have never struggled with my weight, but that's because I've never struggled to control how much food I put in, or struggled to motivate myself to do some exercise.

That's the struggle, as long as people continue to have a 'I'm fat, that's just me' attitude, then despite people saying bodies change, they never will.

A 'changed' body is not something to aspire to, congratulations on proving your motivation but what I feel is needed are people who are prepared to change lifestyles, not weights. Otherwise cycles of binge and crash diet continue. (This is what the industry wans)

It hardly needs stating that obesity causes medical problems. I'm amazed by the lack of responsibility towards their own health taken by members of the forum. Curvy, chubby, plus size, whatever you call it, is just a precursor for diabetes, hypertension, strokes, heart attacks.

Fucking a load of thin people prepared to say this doesn't matter to them is not goin to negate that risk."

We're on a website seeking strangers to fuck, use a condom to justify how safe we are, yet post, without any sense of irony that people lack responsibility.

...okie dokie then!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As a woman who is over weight I wonder why so many people worry about my health and care about who fucks me, or who are fuck. I'm not interested in who slim or average people fuck. Should I be applauding the slim/average men who won't fuck a fat woman and the slim/average women who will fuck a fat man?

I've been all sizes from under weight to average to over weight. I fucked fat/average/slim men regardless of my size.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The guy just asked a simple question. Why some of the comments have had to be like this is beyond me. He wasn't asking for anyone to critique his weight. Just asking if any women fancied big guys. Reading some of the comments actually really saddened me. Way to go. Some of you probably made someone with low self esteem feel even more shit about themselves. Standing ovaction to you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ovation*

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This forum glamourises obesity.

I think you'll find it just highlights that some of us see past the outer shell of someone.

I'd much rather meet someone I engage with intellectually than someone I find attractive just from how they look.

If I'm loving the person who you are, I don't see how size can matter!

Skinny, curvy, chubby whatever. I like you, not the bit extra you may carry.

That's up to them to decide if they want to change that about themselves.

True many men do seem to be able to see through the shell. Maybe one day women will join us.

The women of this website (in particular the forum) won't. I can't remember having looked at the profile of a woman who describes herself as athletic and seeing a picture of her in action with a huge bloke. The women seem to display them as a badge of honour, as evidence of what they can still get.

I'm amazed by the responses. Firstly I have never considered obesity to be something you just accept, like height. It's not something that isn't completely controllable by the individual. I have never struggled with my weight, but that's because I've never struggled to control how much food I put in, or struggled to motivate myself to do some exercise.

That's the struggle, as long as people continue to have a 'I'm fat, that's just me' attitude, then despite people saying bodies change, they never will.

A 'changed' body is not something to aspire to, congratulations on proving your motivation but what I feel is needed are people who are prepared to change lifestyles, not weights. Otherwise cycles of binge and crash diet continue. (This is what the industry wans)

It hardly needs stating that obesity causes medical problems. I'm amazed by the lack of responsibility towards their own health taken by members of the forum. Curvy, chubby, plus size, whatever you call it, is just a precursor for diabetes, hypertension, strokes, heart attacks.

Fucking a load of thin people prepared to say this doesn't matter to them is not goin to negate that risk."

If you read my quote that you so kindly refer to, you will see that I refer to how 'I' see the subject matter.

On the other hand you have spent the whole statement referring to the women on here as a whole.

You are generalising about what 'women on this site' want or are willing to accept.

Putting women into a group as a whole without accepting that we are all different, and have very personal preferences is so blinkered and naive.

As for weight I'm pleased you find it so easy to stay a healthy weight.

How responsible you must be for your own health (I'm using your words here, not my own)

So people with weight issues go out, eat whatever they like and then sit back and say 'I'm fat, that's just me' because they don't care what they look like?

Maybe if you spent time talking to a few overweight people and really found out why they eat what they do, how they feel about their bodies and how they would actually like to look you'd see below the surface occasionally lots of insecurities, iccasionally emotional problems and often a want to change but no idea how to even begin.

Again, you expect everyone to be the same as you. In fact, well done for having all your shit together. Unfortunately some of us don't have that luxury.

Men and women who generalise about genders or body size really piss me off and need to inform themselves of the true reasons behind any weight issues.

Sorry for rambling on.

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By *radleywigginsMan  over a year ago

northwest


"As a woman who is over weight I wonder why so many people worry about my health and care about who fucks me, or who are fuck. I'm not interested in who slim or average people fuck. Should I be applauding the slim/average men who won't fuck a fat woman and the slim/average women who will fuck a fat man?

I've been all sizes from under weight to average to over weight. I fucked fat/average/slim men regardless of my size. "

Seriously? Who cares about your health. Maybe the people that are about you.

And maybe the people you expect to look after you..

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By *radleywigginsMan  over a year ago

northwest


"This forum glamourises obesity.

I think you'll find it just highlights that some of us see past the outer shell of someone.

I'd much rather meet someone I engage with intellectually than someone I find attractive just from how they look.

If I'm loving the person who you are, I don't see how size can matter!

Skinny, curvy, chubby whatever. I like you, not the bit extra you may carry.

That's up to them to decide if they want to change that about themselves.

True many men do seem to be able to see through the shell. Maybe one day women will join us.

The women of this website (in particular the forum) won't. I can't remember having looked at the profile of a woman who describes herself as athletic and seeing a picture of her in action with a huge bloke. The women seem to display them as a badge of honour, as evidence of what they can still get.

I'm amazed by the responses. Firstly I have never considered obesity to be something you just accept, like height. It's not something that isn't completely controllable by the individual. I have never struggled with my weight, but that's because I've never struggled to control how much food I put in, or struggled to motivate myself to do some exercise.

That's the struggle, as long as people continue to have a 'I'm fat, that's just me' attitude, then despite people saying bodies change, they never will.

A 'changed' body is not something to aspire to, congratulations on proving your motivation but what I feel is needed are people who are prepared to change lifestyles, not weights. Otherwise cycles of binge and crash diet continue. (This is what the industry wans)

It hardly needs stating that obesity causes medical problems. I'm amazed by the lack of responsibility towards their own health taken by members of the forum. Curvy, chubby, plus size, whatever you call it, is just a precursor for diabetes, hypertension, strokes, heart attacks.

Fucking a load of thin people prepared to say this doesn't matter to them is not goin to negate that risk.

If you read my quote that you so kindly refer to, you will see that I refer to how 'I' see the subject matter.

On the other hand you have spent the whole statement referring to the women on here as a whole.

You are generalising about what 'women on this site' want or are willing to accept.

Putting women into a group as a whole without accepting that we are all different, and have very personal preferences is so blinkered and naive.

As for weight I'm pleased you find it so easy to stay a healthy weight.

How responsible you must be for your own health (I'm using your words here, not my own)

So people with weight issues go out, eat whatever they like and then sit back and say 'I'm fat, that's just me' because they don't care what they look like?

Maybe if you spent time talking to a few overweight people and really found out why they eat what they do, how they feel about their bodies and how they would actually like to look you'd see below the surface occasionally lots of insecurities, iccasionally emotional problems and often a want to change but no idea how to even begin.

Again, you expect everyone to be the same as you. In fact, well done for having all your shit together. Unfortunately some of us don't have that luxury.

Men and women who generalise about genders or body size really piss me off and need to inform themselves of the true reasons behind any weight issues.

Sorry for rambling on.

"

It's not because the don't care what they look like. It's because they don't care about the implications.

Separating the appearance of being an unhealthy weight, from actually being unhealthy is the key to understanding, and then dealing with the problem.

Unless you don't think it's a problem.

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By *radleywigginsMan  over a year ago

northwest


"This forum glamourises obesity. "

This forum justifies obesity and refuses to acknowledge it as a health issue.

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By *eauhoMan  over a year ago

City Centre

Take a few pics of yourself in Rugby gear, a lot of ladies like the 'rugger bugger' look. Btw, you're a big lad, but calling yourself fat doesn't really sound great, not just on here, I think it's a pretty unhelpful way to think about yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This forum glamourises obesity.

I think you'll find it just highlights that some of us see past the outer shell of someone.

I'd much rather meet someone I engage with intellectually than someone I find attractive just from how they look.

If I'm loving the person who you are, I don't see how size can matter!

Skinny, curvy, chubby whatever. I like you, not the bit extra you may carry.

That's up to them to decide if they want to change that about themselves.

True many men do seem to be able to see through the shell. Maybe one day women will join us.

The women of this website (in particular the forum) won't. I can't remember having looked at the profile of a woman who describes herself as athletic and seeing a picture of her in action with a huge bloke. The women seem to display them as a badge of honour, as evidence of what they can still get.

I'm amazed by the responses. Firstly I have never considered obesity to be something you just accept, like height. It's not something that isn't completely controllable by the individual. I have never struggled with my weight, but that's because I've never struggled to control how much food I put in, or struggled to motivate myself to do some exercise.

That's the struggle, as long as people continue to have a 'I'm fat, that's just me' attitude, then despite people saying bodies change, they never will.

A 'changed' body is not something to aspire to, congratulations on proving your motivation but what I feel is needed are people who are prepared to change lifestyles, not weights. Otherwise cycles of binge and crash diet continue. (This is what the industry wans)

It hardly needs stating that obesity causes medical problems. I'm amazed by the lack of responsibility towards their own health taken by members of the forum. Curvy, chubby, plus size, whatever you call it, is just a precursor for diabetes, hypertension, strokes, heart attacks.

Fucking a load of thin people prepared to say this doesn't matter to them is not goin to negate that risk.

If you read my quote that you so kindly refer to, you will see that I refer to how 'I' see the subject matter.

On the other hand you have spent the whole statement referring to the women on here as a whole.

You are generalising about what 'women on this site' want or are willing to accept.

Putting women into a group as a whole without accepting that we are all different, and have very personal preferences is so blinkered and naive.

As for weight I'm pleased you find it so easy to stay a healthy weight.

How responsible you must be for your own health (I'm using your words here, not my own)

So people with weight issues go out, eat whatever they like and then sit back and say 'I'm fat, that's just me' because they don't care what they look like?

Maybe if you spent time talking to a few overweight people and really found out why they eat what they do, how they feel about their bodies and how they would actually like to look you'd see below the surface occasionally lots of insecurities, iccasionally emotional problems and often a want to change but no idea how to even begin.

Again, you expect everyone to be the same as you. In fact, well done for having all your shit together. Unfortunately some of us don't have that luxury.

Men and women who generalise about genders or body size really piss me off and need to inform themselves of the true reasons behind any weight issues.

Sorry for rambling on.

It's not because the don't care what they look like. It's because they don't care about the implications.

Separating the appearance of being an unhealthy weight, from actually being unhealthy is the key to understanding, and then dealing with the problem.

Unless you don't think it's a problem."

You assume I don't care about my health. Why? And what does it have to do with who fucks me and who I fuck? I don't dismiss fat men because I'm not attracted to them and fucking anyone else has no bearing on how I feel about myself.

I have 4 stone to lose. When I do I still won't be fucking obese men, unless they are extremely strong and have stamina.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This forum glamourises obesity.

I think you'll find it just highlights that some of us see past the outer shell of someone.

I'd much rather meet someone I engage with intellectually than someone I find attractive just from how they look.

If I'm loving the person who you are, I don't see how size can matter!

Skinny, curvy, chubby whatever. I like you, not the bit extra you may carry.

That's up to them to decide if they want to change that about themselves.

True many men do seem to be able to see through the shell. Maybe one day women will join us.

The women of this website (in particular the forum) won't. I can't remember having looked at the profile of a woman who describes herself as athletic and seeing a picture of her in action with a huge bloke. The women seem to display them as a badge of honour, as evidence of what they can still get.

I'm amazed by the responses. Firstly I have never considered obesity to be something you just accept, like height. It's not something that isn't completely controllable by the individual. I have never struggled with my weight, but that's because I've never struggled to control how much food I put in, or struggled to motivate myself to do some exercise.

That's the struggle, as long as people continue to have a 'I'm fat, that's just me' attitude, then despite people saying bodies change, they never will.

A 'changed' body is not something to aspire to, congratulations on proving your motivation but what I feel is needed are people who are prepared to change lifestyles, not weights. Otherwise cycles of binge and crash diet continue. (This is what the industry wans)

It hardly needs stating that obesity causes medical problems. I'm amazed by the lack of responsibility towards their own health taken by members of the forum. Curvy, chubby, plus size, whatever you call it, is just a precursor for diabetes, hypertension, strokes, heart attacks.

Fucking a load of thin people prepared to say this doesn't matter to them is not goin to negate that risk.

If you read my quote that you so kindly refer to, you will see that I refer to how 'I' see the subject matter.

On the other hand you have spent the whole statement referring to the women on here as a whole.

You are generalising about what 'women on this site' want or are willing to accept.

Putting women into a group as a whole without accepting that we are all different, and have very personal preferences is so blinkered and naive.

As for weight I'm pleased you find it so easy to stay a healthy weight.

How responsible you must be for your own health (I'm using your words here, not my own)

So people with weight issues go out, eat whatever they like and then sit back and say 'I'm fat, that's just me' because they don't care what they look like?

Maybe if you spent time talking to a few overweight people and really found out why they eat what they do, how they feel about their bodies and how they would actually like to look you'd see below the surface occasionally lots of insecurities, iccasionally emotional problems and often a want to change but no idea how to even begin.

Again, you expect everyone to be the same as you. In fact, well done for having all your shit together. Unfortunately some of us don't have that luxury.

Men and women who generalise about genders or body size really piss me off and need to inform themselves of the true reasons behind any weight issues.

Sorry for rambling on.

It's not because the don't care what they look like. It's because they don't care about the implications.

Separating the appearance of being an unhealthy weight, from actually being unhealthy is the key to understanding, and then dealing with the problem.

Unless you don't think it's a problem."

Oh I'm sorry. I must have missed the post on here where this man asked for his physical wellbeing to be critiqued. He was merely asking if women liked larger men.... Or have I missed the point?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This forum glamourises obesity.

This forum justifies obesity and refuses to acknowledge it as a health issue."

Why should people preach to others on the forums? I don't tell people who do dangerous activities to stop.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This forum glamourises obesity.

I think you'll find it just highlights that some of us see past the outer shell of someone.

I'd much rather meet someone I engage with intellectually than someone I find attractive just from how they look.

If I'm loving the person who you are, I don't see how size can matter!

Skinny, curvy, chubby whatever. I like you, not the bit extra you may carry.

That's up to them to decide if they want to change that about themselves.

True many men do seem to be able to see through the shell. Maybe one day women will join us.

The women of this website (in particular the forum) won't. I can't remember having looked at the profile of a woman who describes herself as athletic and seeing a picture of her in action with a huge bloke. The women seem to display them as a badge of honour, as evidence of what they can still get.

I'm amazed by the responses. Firstly I have never considered obesity to be something you just accept, like height. It's not something that isn't completely controllable by the individual. I have never struggled with my weight, but that's because I've never struggled to control how much food I put in, or struggled to motivate myself to do some exercise.

That's the struggle, as long as people continue to have a 'I'm fat, that's just me' attitude, then despite people saying bodies change, they never will.

A 'changed' body is not something to aspire to, congratulations on proving your motivation but what I feel is needed are people who are prepared to change lifestyles, not weights. Otherwise cycles of binge and crash diet continue. (This is what the industry wans)

It hardly needs stating that obesity causes medical problems. I'm amazed by the lack of responsibility towards their own health taken by members of the forum. Curvy, chubby, plus size, whatever you call it, is just a precursor for diabetes, hypertension, strokes, heart attacks.

Fucking a load of thin people prepared to say this doesn't matter to them is not goin to negate that risk.

If you read my quote that you so kindly refer to, you will see that I refer to how 'I' see the subject matter.

On the other hand you have spent the whole statement referring to the women on here as a whole.

You are generalising about what 'women on this site' want or are willing to accept.

Putting women into a group as a whole without accepting that we are all different, and have very personal preferences is so blinkered and naive.

As for weight I'm pleased you find it so easy to stay a healthy weight.

How responsible you must be for your own health (I'm using your words here, not my own)

So people with weight issues go out, eat whatever they like and then sit back and say 'I'm fat, that's just me' because they don't care what they look like?

Maybe if you spent time talking to a few overweight people and really found out why they eat what they do, how they feel about their bodies and how they would actually like to look you'd see below the surface occasionally lots of insecurities, iccasionally emotional problems and often a want to change but no idea how to even begin.

Again, you expect everyone to be the same as you. In fact, well done for having all your shit together. Unfortunately some of us don't have that luxury.

Men and women who generalise about genders or body size really piss me off and need to inform themselves of the true reasons behind any weight issues.

Sorry for rambling on.

It's not because the don't care what they look like. It's because they don't care about the implications.

Separating the appearance of being an unhealthy weight, from actually being unhealthy is the key to understanding, and then dealing with the problem.

Unless you don't think it's a problem.

Oh I'm sorry. I must have missed the post on here where this man asked for his physical wellbeing to be critiqued. He was merely asking if women liked larger men.... Or have I missed the point? "

I have, in the past, had sex with large men, because I found them attractive. My reason for not meeting them now is my problem, not because they aren't attractive to me. We aren't all "delusional".

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This forum glamourises obesity.

I think you'll find it just highlights that some of us see past the outer shell of someone.

I'd much rather meet someone I engage with intellectually than someone I find attractive just from how they look.

If I'm loving the person who you are, I don't see how size can matter!

Skinny, curvy, chubby whatever. I like you, not the bit extra you may carry.

That's up to them to decide if they want to change that about themselves.

True many men do seem to be able to see through the shell. Maybe one day women will join us.

The women of this website (in particular the forum) won't. I can't remember having looked at the profile of a woman who describes herself as athletic and seeing a picture of her in action with a huge bloke. The women seem to display them as a badge of honour, as evidence of what they can still get.

I'm amazed by the responses. Firstly I have never considered obesity to be something you just accept, like height. It's not something that isn't completely controllable by the individual. I have never struggled with my weight, but that's because I've never struggled to control how much food I put in, or struggled to motivate myself to do some exercise.

That's the struggle, as long as people continue to have a 'I'm fat, that's just me' attitude, then despite people saying bodies change, they never will.

A 'changed' body is not something to aspire to, congratulations on proving your motivation but what I feel is needed are people who are prepared to change lifestyles, not weights. Otherwise cycles of binge and crash diet continue. (This is what the industry wans)

It hardly needs stating that obesity causes medical problems. I'm amazed by the lack of responsibility towards their own health taken by members of the forum. Curvy, chubby, plus size, whatever you call it, is just a precursor for diabetes, hypertension, strokes, heart attacks.

Fucking a load of thin people prepared to say this doesn't matter to them is not goin to negate that risk.

If you read my quote that you so kindly refer to, you will see that I refer to how 'I' see the subject matter.

On the other hand you have spent the whole statement referring to the women on here as a whole.

You are generalising about what 'women on this site' want or are willing to accept.

Putting women into a group as a whole without accepting that we are all different, and have very personal preferences is so blinkered and naive.

As for weight I'm pleased you find it so easy to stay a healthy weight.

How responsible you must be for your own health (I'm using your words here, not my own)

So people with weight issues go out, eat whatever they like and then sit back and say 'I'm fat, that's just me' because they don't care what they look like?

Maybe if you spent time talking to a few overweight people and really found out why they eat what they do, how they feel about their bodies and how they would actually like to look you'd see below the surface occasionally lots of insecurities, iccasionally emotional problems and often a want to change but no idea how to even begin.

Again, you expect everyone to be the same as you. In fact, well done for having all your shit together. Unfortunately some of us don't have that luxury.

Men and women who generalise about genders or body size really piss me off and need to inform themselves of the true reasons behind any weight issues.

Sorry for rambling on.

It's not because the don't care what they look like. It's because they don't care about the implications.

Separating the appearance of being an unhealthy weight, from actually being unhealthy is the key to understanding, and then dealing with the problem.

Unless you don't think it's a problem."

And there you go again!!

"It's not because the don't care what they look like. It's because they don't care about the implications"

You really like taking a group of people and putting them in a group together and assuming they all act the same.

Wake up, actually talk to people instead of being critical and comparing them to what you clearly see as your perfect self.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Thanks goodness...! x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There are some serious advantages of being with a fat guy, I for one will not stop eating until told to stop "

mmmm should we fatties have 'feeders ' as our fetish/likes sure some ladies would help us out

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I find it ironic that a doctor I was seeing said I should put on half a stone to make my bum bigger; because he likes big girls.

When you're fucking someone it seems their health isn't an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There are some serious advantages of being with a fat guy, I for one will not stop eating until told to stop

mmmm should we fatties have 'feeders ' as our fetish/likes sure some ladies would help us out"

Someone told me I had nice feeders but they were referring to my boobs!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Anyone what to chat. X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Anyone what to chat. X"

That made me giggle.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well done OP for bringing us all back in line and focusing on what the original post was about

So much better than reading some of the waffle above Ive read today

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Anyone what to chat. X

That made me giggle.

"

i just what to chat and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Anyone what to chat. X

That made me giggle.

i just what to chat and have fun. "

That's what it's all about

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Well done OP for bringing us all back in line and focusing on what the original post was about

So much better than reading some of the waffle above Ive read today "

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Anyone what to chat. X

That made me giggle.

i just what to chat and have fun.

That's what it's all about "

wow i have to say u are very sexy i hope im not being rude.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Anyone what to chat. X

That made me giggle.

i just what to chat and have fun.

That's what it's all about wow i have to say u are very sexy i hope im not being rude."

If you need a definition of rudeness....

Anyway let's not go there again.

That's very sweet of you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well done OP for bringing us all back in line and focusing on what the original post was about

So much better than reading some of the waffle above Ive read today "

I agree haha. Some going off on tangents, completely forgetting bloody question that was asked

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By *ubSirVient-DefinitionCouple  over a year ago

dukinfield

As Richard Rawlings says "there an ass for every seat" well there's a pussy for every cock! Granted there's a lot mor cocks than pussies around here meaning the pussies can afford to be a 'little picky' shall we say! But hey, be yourself and not be a dick and who knows you may get to know someone well enough to get that pussy!

Good luck OP!

AJ

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well done OP for bringing us all back in line and focusing on what the original post was about

So much better than reading some of the waffle above Ive read today

I agree haha. Some going off on tangents, completely forgetting bloody question that was asked "

I know

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury

So, will any women meet the OP for sex?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"As Richard Rawlings says "there an ass for every seat" well there's a pussy for every cock! Granted there's a lot mor cocks than pussies around here meaning the pussies can afford to be a 'little picky' shall we say! But hey, be yourself and not be a dick and who knows you may get to know someone well enough to get that pussy!

Good luck OP!

AJ "

thanks i hope there is happy fabbing.

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By *lueWonderMan  over a year ago

Preston.....ish

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"So, will any women meet the OP for sex? "
dont be shy

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By *lueWonderMan  over a year ago

Preston.....ish

Wow, what a debate!!

OP ignore the idiots they have nothing better to do than piss everyone else off! And as for this Bradley character all I have to say is, on yer bike sunshine

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 19/07/17 12:50:47]"
thanks man i don't take it to heart its a bit of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This forum glamourises obesity.

No, it's just open-minded and realises that people are on different journeys with their bodies. Maybe you should take a leaf out of those books.

Bodies change shape.

Personalities seldom change

So very true

Thsts all very nice along with all the other offended replies to that comment but you all miss one vital point.

Obesity is a personality problem, not a physical problem.

"

It can be both.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"This forum glamourises obesity.

No, it's just open-minded and realises that people are on different journeys with their bodies. Maybe you should take a leaf out of those books.

Bodies change shape.

Personalities seldom change

So very true

Thsts all very nice along with all the other offended replies to that comment but you all miss one vital point.

Obesity is a personality problem, not a physical problem.

It can be both. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This forum glamourises obesity.

I think you'll find it just highlights that some of us see past the outer shell of someone.

I'd much rather meet someone I engage with intellectually than someone I find attractive just from how they look.

If I'm loving the person who you are, I don't see how size can matter!

Skinny, curvy, chubby whatever. I like you, not the bit extra you may carry.

That's up to them to decide if they want to change that about themselves.

True many men do seem to be able to see through the shell. Maybe one day women will join us.

The women of this website (in particular the forum) won't. I can't remember having looked at the profile of a woman who describes herself as athletic and seeing a picture of her in action with a huge bloke. The women seem to display them as a badge of honour, as evidence of what they can still get.

I'm amazed by the responses. Firstly I have never considered obesity to be something you just accept, like height. It's not something that isn't completely controllable by the individual. I have never struggled with my weight, but that's because I've never struggled to control how much food I put in, or struggled to motivate myself to do some exercise.

That's the struggle, as long as people continue to have a 'I'm fat, that's just me' attitude, then despite people saying bodies change, they never will.

A 'changed' body is not something to aspire to, congratulations on proving your motivation but what I feel is needed are people who are prepared to change lifestyles, not weights. Otherwise cycles of binge and crash diet continue. (This is what the industry wans)

It hardly needs stating that obesity causes medical problems. I'm amazed by the lack of responsibility towards their own health taken by members of the forum. Curvy, chubby, plus size, whatever you call it, is just a precursor for diabetes, hypertension, strokes, heart attacks.

Fucking a load of thin people prepared to say this doesn't matter to them is not goin to negate that risk."

Yes, obesity causes medical problems. As does smoking, drinking too much, taking too many drugs, having an unhealthy lifestyle. Yet, if someone is physically overweight, people like yourself feel the need to comment on our health. All of those medical conditions that you speak of, are easily taken on by slim people who make unhealthy lifestyle choices too.

I'm not sure why you're generalising about the women on this forum, but what I will tell you is that you have zero idea what everyone's personal battles are. You have no idea why they've put weight on or if they're attempting to lose weight or if they've lost 10 stone and are near their goal.

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By *icassolifelikeMan  over a year ago

Luton

Hater's gonna hate

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This forum glamourises obesity. "

Or fetishises it?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So, will any women meet the OP for sex? "

Would you?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This forum glamourises obesity.

Or fetishises it?"

I don't think it does either. There were/are some women on here who are obese, who don't advertise it, and became popular.

I'm fat, yet no one blows smoke up my arse.

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By *radleywigginsMan  over a year ago

northwest


"Wow, what a debate!!

OP ignore the idiots they have nothing better to do than piss everyone else off! And as for this Bradley character all I have to say is, on yer bike sunshine "

Seriously mate? The ones that should hop on a bike are the fat ones.

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By *laymateMJMan  over a year ago

CENTRAL LONDON

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By *laymateMJMan  over a year ago

CENTRAL LONDON


"I'm fat, yet no one blows smoke up my arse. "

That's a hole (misspelling on purpose) different topic and a bit off topic!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You did this same thread 5 days ago, and was last answered two days ago? Did you not get your answers there?

We have nearly 300 chat threads for guys who like fat women to meet them in.

But this guy starts one about women who like fat men and all hes gotten is told to use the search, change his approach, or not to repost the same thread.

"

Fair point

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"So, will any women meet the OP for sex?

Would you?"

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Wow, what a debate!!

OP ignore the idiots they have nothing better to do than piss everyone else off! And as for this Bradley character all I have to say is, on yer bike sunshine

Seriously mate? The ones that should hop on a bike are the fat ones. "

If you weren't so rude and stereotype every woman on here then maybe people wouldn't have to white knight in here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Wow, what a debate!!

OP ignore the idiots they have nothing better to do than piss everyone else off! And as for this Bradley character all I have to say is, on yer bike sunshine

Seriously mate? The ones that should hop on a bike are the fat ones. "

I can't ride a bike, my knees won't allow it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ive slimmed down seen to get more offers lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Op i am sure you will someday.. as for me it's bee long long time ago...

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By *radleywigginsMan  over a year ago

northwest


"Wow, what a debate!!

OP ignore the idiots they have nothing better to do than piss everyone else off! And as for this Bradley character all I have to say is, on yer bike sunshine

Seriously mate? The ones that should hop on a bike are the fat ones.

If you weren't so rude and stereotype every woman on here then maybe people wouldn't have to white knight in here "

Not true. They'll come clippetty-clopping in to every forum.

They love a damsel in dis(plus-sized)dress

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Wow, what a debate!!

OP ignore the idiots they have nothing better to do than piss everyone else off! And as for this Bradley character all I have to say is, on yer bike sunshine

Seriously mate? The ones that should hop on a bike are the fat ones.

If you weren't so rude and stereotype every woman on here then maybe people wouldn't have to white knight in here

Not true. They'll come clippetty-clopping in to every forum.

They love a damsel in dis(plus-sized)dress"

I may be plus size but at least I'm never rude.

I bet the women flock to you after seeing how charming you really are

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Wow, what a debate!!

OP ignore the idiots they have nothing better to do than piss everyone else off! And as for this Bradley character all I have to say is, on yer bike sunshine

Seriously mate? The ones that should hop on a bike are the fat ones.

If you weren't so rude and stereotype every woman on here then maybe people wouldn't have to white knight in here

Not true. They'll come clippetty-clopping in to every forum.

They love a damsel in dis(plus-sized)dress

I may be plus size but at least I'm never rude.

I bet the women flock to you after seeing how charming you really are "

You're not that far away. I wonder if you'd be that rude and tactless to my face?

I doubt it. It's easy to sit behind your keyboard and take the Mick out of others isn't it

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By *radleywigginsMan  over a year ago

northwest

Rude to who?

It's the World Health Organisation that tells people whether they're overweight or obese, not me.

I've said don't deny it, and seize the opportunity to do something about it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Rude to who?

It's the World Health Organisation that tells people whether they're overweight or obese, not me.

I've said don't deny it, and seize the opportunity to do something about it. "

You really have no idea do you?

And hang on, you decided I'm plus size.

Backtrack all you like. It's all there for all to read.

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By *orum TrollWoman  over a year ago

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"Rude to who?

It's the World Health Organisation that tells people whether they're overweight or obese, not me.

I've said don't deny it, and seize the opportunity to do something about it. "

it's their body, they never asked for medical advice. so therefore you are rude.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"This forum glamourises obesity.

No, it's just open-minded and realises that people are on different journeys with their bodies. Maybe you should take a leaf out of those books.

Bodies change shape.

Personalities seldom change "

This is my favourite post of the day

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Who fancies a hobnob?

I've got the chocolate ones ...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Who fancies a hobnob?

I've got the chocolate ones ... "

No cake? I thought we were sharing one

And a nice cup of tea

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Rude to who?

It's the World Health Organisation that tells people whether they're overweight or obese, not me.

I've said don't deny it, and seize the opportunity to do something about it.

it's their body, they never asked for medical advice. so therefore you are rude."

i am doing something about it i have lost 5 stone in a year.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Rude to who?

It's the World Health Organisation that tells people whether they're overweight or obese, not me.

I've said don't deny it, and seize the opportunity to do something about it.

it's their body, they never asked for medical advice. so therefore you are rude.i am doing something about it i have lost 5 stone in a year."

Well done, that's brilliant

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By *amissCouple  over a year ago

chelmsford


"Rude to who?

It's the World Health Organisation that tells people whether they're overweight or obese, not me.

I've said don't deny it, and seize the opportunity to do something about it.

it's their body, they never asked for medical advice. so therefore you are rude.i am doing something about it i have lost 5 stone in a year."

That's excellent, well done!

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By *inky-MinxWoman  over a year ago

Grantham

Avoid

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Rude to who?

It's the World Health Organisation that tells people whether they're overweight or obese, not me.

I've said don't deny it, and seize the opportunity to do something about it.

it's their body, they never asked for medical advice. so therefore you are rude.i am doing something about it i have lost 5 stone in a year.

Well done, that's brilliant "

thanks for nice words.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Body fat isn't all about individual lifestyle choices. The biggest factors are genetics and GMOs in the food chain. Other factors like water and air pollution play apart too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

So 144 posts later have we actually had one "yes I have a thing for fat guys" post yet?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So 144 posts later have we actually had one "yes I have a thing for fat guys" post yet?"

If you scroll through you will find that I have indeed fucked a few fat men. I don't have a thing for them, I find many sizes arousing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So 144 posts later have we actually had one "yes I have a thing for fat guys" post yet?

If you scroll through you will find that I have indeed fucked a few fat men. I don't have a thing for them, I find many sizes arousing."

So no then?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So 144 posts later have we actually had one "yes I have a thing for fat guys" post yet?

If you scroll through you will find that I have indeed fucked a few fat men. I don't have a thing for them, I find many sizes arousing.

So no then?

"

Explain what having a thing for something is. I like hairy chests, but not every hairy chest I see. Would having a thing for them mean I like them all, regardless?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So 144 posts later have we actually had one "yes I have a thing for fat guys" post yet?

If you scroll through you will find that I have indeed fucked a few fat men. I don't have a thing for them, I find many sizes arousing.

So no then?

Explain what having a thing for something is. I like hairy chests, but not every hairy chest I see. Would having a thing for them mean I like them all, regardless?

"

Well in this context it would be somone with a fetish* for fat men, much like the BBC fan club threads.

*I'm not sure fetish is the correct, term maybe kink, as strictly speaking if you have a fetish for something its a requirement for your enjoyment/orgasm.

Weather you want to take that to the absurd extreme "must fancy all X phenotype" is up to you.

I think at its most realistic extreme its a "requirement" as one fetish. They must be xyz but just because they have xyz doesnt mean you want them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So 144 posts later have we actually had one "yes I have a thing for fat guys" post yet?

If you scroll through you will find that I have indeed fucked a few fat men. I don't have a thing for them, I find many sizes arousing.

So no then?

Explain what having a thing for something is. I like hairy chests, but not every hairy chest I see. Would having a thing for them mean I like them all, regardless?

Well in this context it would be somone with a fetish* for fat men, much like the BBC fan club threads.

*I'm not sure fetish is the correct, term maybe kink, as strictly speaking if you have a fetish for something its a requirement for your enjoyment/orgasm.

Weather you want to take that to the absurd extreme "must fancy all X phenotype" is up to you.

I think at its most realistic extreme its a "requirement" as one fetish. They must be xyz but just because they have xyz doesnt mean you want them.

"

I thought he was just asking a general question, not if we fetished or have a thing for them. Same as threads asking if we like shaved pubes or hairy chests. I don't fetish anyone or anything, but I have a thing for some physical attributes.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm on the chubby side too. And in my experience there are a ton of girls that prefer that over the atheltic types.

Well done OP for the weightloss. Keep it up dude

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By *mber GamblerCouple  over a year ago

rugby


"I do sometimes read people's comments and think they're unnecessarily harsh. The guy's relatively new to the forums - cut him some slack maybe. "

I was thinking the same. Why are people being so mean to him. Just give him advice or piss off.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I do sometimes read people's comments and think they're unnecessarily harsh. The guy's relatively new to the forums - cut him some slack maybe.

I was thinking the same. Why are people being so mean to him. Just give him advice or piss off."

Why would you give him advice when he hasnt asked for any?

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By *mber GamblerCouple  over a year ago

rugby


"I do sometimes read people's comments and think they're unnecessarily harsh. The guy's relatively new to the forums - cut him some slack maybe.

I was thinking the same. Why are people being so mean to him. Just give him advice or piss off.

Why would you give him advice when he hasnt asked for any?"

You know what i mean

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I do sometimes read people's comments and think they're unnecessarily harsh. The guy's relatively new to the forums - cut him some slack maybe.

I was thinking the same. Why are people being so mean to him. Just give him advice or piss off.

Why would you give him advice when he hasnt asked for any?

You know what i mean"

Does that mean you're going to take your own advice and piss off as you've not answered his question?

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By *mber GamblerCouple  over a year ago

rugby


"I do sometimes read people's comments and think they're unnecessarily harsh. The guy's relatively new to the forums - cut him some slack maybe.

I was thinking the same. Why are people being so mean to him. Just give him advice or piss off.

Why would you give him advice when he hasnt asked for any?

You know what i mean

Does that mean you're going to take your own advice and piss off as you've not answered his question?

"

I don't think anyone has to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I do sometimes read people's comments and think they're unnecessarily harsh. The guy's relatively new to the forums - cut him some slack maybe.

I was thinking the same. Why are people being so mean to him. Just give him advice or piss off.

Why would you give him advice when he hasnt asked for any?"

No, but he did ask a question.

You're being very pedantic.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury

Is there a fetish for big guys in the straight scene like BBW?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Is there a fetish for big guys in the straight scene like BBW? "

BBM? I think there is. Probably not as much as there is for women.

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple  over a year ago

East Mids

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"Is there a fetish for big guys in the straight scene like BBW?

BBM? I think there is. Probably not as much as there is for women."

I've often fantasized about a BIG black guy fucking my Mrs. Tanned flab is ok by me!

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