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"I'm sure there are theres threads about women who like chunky men..have a search OP " thanks i will have a look. | |||
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"Hi im a guy on the large side. I what to know is there any woman like a guy like me. Don't allow one facet of your being define you're fab experience. It generally doesn't bring success." | |||
"Don't allow one facet of your being define you're fab experience. It generally doesn't bring success." That's right. I'm so good at shagging that my last partner stopped afterwards to give me a standing ovation, but I don't let it be the main thing about me ps. My inbox is available, ladies. pps. I am dangerously sarcastic so please don't take the above as serious | |||
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"Maybe take some of the advice given when you posted virtually the same thing 5 days ago OP " | |||
"You did this same thread 5 days ago, and was last answered two days ago? Did you not get your answers there? " yes i did 5 days a go but i am learning so i looking for tips and trying to get my profile out there. | |||
"You did this same thread 5 days ago, and was last answered two days ago? Did you not get your answers there? yes i did 5 days a go but i am learning so i looking for tips and trying to get my profile out there." So why not just bump that one? Easy! | |||
"You did this same thread 5 days ago, and was last answered two days ago? Did you not get your answers there? yes i did 5 days a go but i am learning so i looking for tips and trying to get my profile out there. So why not just bump that one? Easy! " i don't know i forgot about it. | |||
"You did this same thread 5 days ago, and was last answered two days ago? Did you not get your answers there? yes i did 5 days a go but i am learning so i looking for tips and trying to get my profile out there. So why not just bump that one? Easy! i don't know i forgot about it." It you want the advice so surely going back to refer to it will be benficial rather than forgetting about it. | |||
"You did this same thread 5 days ago, and was last answered two days ago? Did you not get your answers there? yes i did 5 days a go but i am learning so i looking for tips and trying to get my profile out there. So why not just bump that one? Easy! i don't know i forgot about it. It you want the advice so surely going back to refer to it will be benficial rather than forgetting about it. " sorry ment i forgot about thread not the info. The info u nice people gave me has made my profile so much better. In this thread i was seeing if liked woman liked fat guys. | |||
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"There are some serious advantages of being with a fat guy, I for one will not stop eating until told to stop " | |||
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"You did this same thread 5 days ago, and was last answered two days ago? Did you not get your answers there? " We have nearly 300 chat threads for guys who like fat women to meet them in. But this guy starts one about women who like fat men and all hes gotten is told to use the search, change his approach, or not to repost the same thread. | |||
"You did this same thread 5 days ago, and was last answered two days ago? Did you not get your answers there? We have nearly 300 chat threads for guys who like fat women to meet them in. But this guy starts one about women who like fat men and all hes gotten is told to use the search, change his approach, or not to repost the same thread. " We are supposed to have equality. Not much shown here. | |||
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"I hope so 'cos I ain't giving up cake for nobody! " I'll share a cake with you | |||
"I hope so 'cos I ain't giving up cake for nobody! I'll share a cake with you " Does it have to be equal shares? | |||
"Hi im a guy on the large side. I what to know is there any woman like a guy like me." There is someone for everyone | |||
"You did this same thread 5 days ago, and was last answered two days ago? Did you not get your answers there? We have nearly 300 chat threads for guys who like fat women to meet them in. But this guy starts one about women who like fat men and all hes gotten is told to use the search, change his approach, or not to repost the same thread. " Yup | |||
"I hope so 'cos I ain't giving up cake for nobody! I'll share a cake with you Does it have to be equal shares? " You get half a cake! How much do you want?? | |||
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"While this bloke gets slated for repeating a thread about women who like fat blokes... ...there are 311 BBW threads but that's OK " dont forget the look at me threads | |||
"While this bloke gets slated for repeating a thread about women who like fat blokes... ...there are 311 BBW threads but that's OK " That's Fab demographics for you! | |||
"While this bloke gets slated for repeating a thread about women who like fat blokes... ...there are 311 BBW threads but that's OK That's Fab demographics for you!" Ain't it just! | |||
"While this bloke gets slated for repeating a thread about women who like fat blokes... ...there are 311 BBW threads but that's OK " difference is when a BBW thread is full then another topic is started. it's not hypocrisy, i do think most people get pissed off when any forumite makes the same topics just to get attention and not because they're interested in answers. but these people could just not comment and report the topic for spam or something. | |||
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"I do sometimes read people's comments and think they're unnecessarily harsh. The guy's relatively new to the forums - cut him some slack maybe. " | |||
"Speaks volumes about the difference between the 2 sexes." I think it just shows because there's significantly more men than women on Fab men behave more aquiescently. | |||
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"This forum glamourises obesity. " your point? | |||
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"This forum glamourises obesity. " I think you'll find it just highlights that some of us see past the outer shell of someone. I'd much rather meet someone I engage with intellectually than someone I find attractive just from how they look. If I'm loving the person who you are, I don't see how size can matter! Skinny, curvy, chubby whatever. I like you, not the bit extra you may carry. That's up to them to decide if they want to change that about themselves. | |||
"This forum glamourises obesity. " not obese men though, don't think i've seen a direct comment aimed at the OP saying yes they do. | |||
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"Hi im a guy on the large side. I what to know is there any woman like a guy like me." . There are women on here who like all different types of physique OP. Perhaps the 'athletic' type is more popular amongst the males. But please don't let it put you off. Even they struggle to get meets. Just try and be yourself in your messages and I'm sure some will respond, given time. I genuinely wish you the best of luck on here OP . | |||
"This forum glamourises obesity. " No, it's just open-minded and realises that people are on different journeys with their bodies. Maybe you should take a leaf out of those books. | |||
"This forum glamourises obesity. No, it's just open-minded and realises that people are on different journeys with their bodies. Maybe you should take a leaf out of those books." you write some sensible things | |||
"This forum glamourises obesity. No, it's just open-minded and realises that people are on different journeys with their bodies. Maybe you should take a leaf out of those books. you write some sensible things " I try! | |||
"This forum glamourises obesity. No, it's just open-minded and realises that people are on different journeys with their bodies. Maybe you should take a leaf out of those books." Bodies change shape. Personalities seldom change | |||
"This forum glamourises obesity. No, it's just open-minded and realises that people are on different journeys with their bodies. Maybe you should take a leaf out of those books. Bodies change shape. Personalities seldom change " So very true | |||
"This forum glamourises obesity. No, it's just open-minded and realises that people are on different journeys with their bodies. Maybe you should take a leaf out of those books. Bodies change shape. Personalities seldom change So very true " Thsts all very nice along with all the other offended replies to that comment but you all miss one vital point. Obesity is a personality problem, not a physical problem. | |||
"This forum glamourises obesity. not obese men though, don't think i've seen a direct comment aimed at the OP saying yes they do. " Obviously. A study showed when asked 94% of the population find fat people physically unattractive. This is played out very clearly in fat men threads. As we've seen no one has said yes they've attacked the op at worst and at best said "I'm not but somoen else might be" However its the polar oposite in fat women threads (what's be chat to now 300?) Where there are masses of suitors. So the question is, does fab attract a disproportionate amount of male obesity admirers and a fraction as many women who admire obesity? Or is this related to the imbalance in male/female numbers on here and a sort of "any port ina storm" situation? | |||
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"This forum glamourises obesity. not obese men though, don't think i've seen a direct comment aimed at the OP saying yes they do. Obviously. A study showed when asked 94% of the population find fat people physically unattractive. This is played out very clearly in fat men threads. As we've seen no one has said yes they've attacked the op at worst and at best said "I'm not but somoen else might be" However its the polar oposite in fat women threads (what's be chat to now 300?) Where there are masses of suitors. So the question is, does fab attract a disproportionate amount of male obesity admirers and a fraction as many women who admire obesity? Or is this related to the imbalance in male/female numbers on here and a sort of "any port ina storm" situation?" women haven't fetishised men. so we kind of go for average but the best average we can get that is gonna fulfil our fantasies. i do think the forums attracts a disproportionate amount of male fat admirers. probably because the majority of the population is now obese. so that's the norm. i also think it attracts men who think women in general on here will fuck anything and we're all sex mad having orgies, lesbian sex, and gangbangs at every opportunity. i think some men will think every single porn stereotype that exists applies to all the women. i do think it attracts sex addicts who will fuck anything. i do think it attracts cheats who are desperate for s fuck coz of time restraints so they will fuck almost anyone. i don't think it matters too much. most of us women are not naive enough to believe most the compliments in our inbox mean anything more than i want to fuck you. so long as we feel the guy is gonna give us a good time and respects us then we're happy enough (but which is why i don't meet any more, coz i feel the respect is mostly lacking). | |||
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"You did this same thread 5 days ago, and was last answered two days ago? Did you not get your answers there? yes i did 5 days a go but i am learning so i looking for tips and trying to get my profile out there. So why not just bump that one? Easy! i don't know i forgot about it." Next week's title could be:- Woman who like fat guys with amnesia | |||
"This forum glamourises obesity. I think you'll find it just highlights that some of us see past the outer shell of someone. I'd much rather meet someone I engage with intellectually than someone I find attractive just from how they look. If I'm loving the person who you are, I don't see how size can matter! Skinny, curvy, chubby whatever. I like you, not the bit extra you may carry. That's up to them to decide if they want to change that about themselves. " True many men do seem to be able to see through the shell. Maybe one day women will join us. | |||
"This forum glamourises obesity. not obese men though, don't think i've seen a direct comment aimed at the OP saying yes they do. Obviously. A study showed when asked 94% of the population find fat people physically unattractive. This is played out very clearly in fat men threads. As we've seen no one has said yes they've attacked the op at worst and at best said "I'm not but somoen else might be" However its the polar oposite in fat women threads (what's be chat to now 300?) Where there are masses of suitors. So the question is, does fab attract a disproportionate amount of male obesity admirers and a fraction as many women who admire obesity? Or is this related to the imbalance in male/female numbers on here and a sort of "any port ina storm" situation?" Essentially "Going ugly early" ? | |||
"This forum glamourises obesity. I think you'll find it just highlights that some of us see past the outer shell of someone. I'd much rather meet someone I engage with intellectually than someone I find attractive just from how they look. If I'm loving the person who you are, I don't see how size can matter! Skinny, curvy, chubby whatever. I like you, not the bit extra you may carry. That's up to them to decide if they want to change that about themselves. True many men do seem to be able to see through the shell. Maybe one day women will join us." i met a morbidly obese guy off here but he wasn't fit enough to have sex so it wasn't a good meet really. he was nice to chat to so i met him. | |||
"For what it's worth, the 'fat threads' aren't filled with hundreds of posts flirting and wanting to fuck each other - it's generally filled with banal crap and friends chatting and the odd bit of bitching. Rarely do you get new posters in there. I hate it being rolled out as an example of the double standards on here. It's not. I'm not saying they don't exist but stop holding the BBW threads up as an exanple of them. " Ok cool then you go start a thread with the op "Hi im a woman on the large side. I what to know is there any men like a woman like me." (Feel free to correct the grammar) And see if you get the slating the up does or an avalanche of offers. | |||
"I hate it being rolled out as an example of the double standards on here. It's not. I'm not saying they don't exist but stop holding the BBW threads up as an exanple of them. Ok cool then you go start a thread with the op "Hi im a woman on the large side. I what to know is there any men like a woman like me." (Feel free to correct the grammar) And see if you get the slating the up does or an avalanche of offers." You've missed my point entirely. I even typed that double standards exist. Have you even looked at the BBW threads recently? They are nothing like this one or the one you suggested I start - I don't think they should be used as an inaccurate example in a thread like this. | |||
"I believe that fat people get looked down in life and online due to their looks so why are there so many sad evil people out there when like can be short when seeking fun. " are you really trying to say hot guys/women should just pitty fuck fat people . | |||
"I believe that fat people get looked down in life and online due to their looks so why are there so many sad evil people out there when like can be short when seeking fun. are you really trying to say hot guys/women should just pitty fuck fat people ." no i not just saying what i think that's all | |||
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"I hate it being rolled out as an example of the double standards on here. It's not. I'm not saying they don't exist but stop holding the BBW threads up as an exanple of them. Ok cool then you go start a thread with the op "Hi im a woman on the large side. I what to know is there any men like a woman like me." (Feel free to correct the grammar) And see if you get the slating the up does or an avalanche of offers. You've missed my point entirely. I even typed that double standards exist. Have you even looked at the BBW threads recently? They are nothing like this one or the one you suggested I start - I don't think they should be used as an inaccurate example in a thread like this. " | |||
"This forum glamourises obesity. I think you'll find it just highlights that some of us see past the outer shell of someone. I'd much rather meet someone I engage with intellectually than someone I find attractive just from how they look. If I'm loving the person who you are, I don't see how size can matter! Skinny, curvy, chubby whatever. I like you, not the bit extra you may carry. That's up to them to decide if they want to change that about themselves. " may I say, that's a reallysweet thing to say. I still have hope! | |||
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"This forum glamourises obesity. I think you'll find it just highlights that some of us see past the outer shell of someone. I'd much rather meet someone I engage with intellectually than someone I find attractive just from how they look. If I'm loving the person who you are, I don't see how size can matter! Skinny, curvy, chubby whatever. I like you, not the bit extra you may carry. That's up to them to decide if they want to change that about themselves. True many men do seem to be able to see through the shell. Maybe one day women will join us." The women of this website (in particular the forum) won't. I can't remember having looked at the profile of a woman who describes herself as athletic and seeing a picture of her in action with a huge bloke. The women seem to display them as a badge of honour, as evidence of what they can still get. I'm amazed by the responses. Firstly I have never considered obesity to be something you just accept, like height. It's not something that isn't completely controllable by the individual. I have never struggled with my weight, but that's because I've never struggled to control how much food I put in, or struggled to motivate myself to do some exercise. That's the struggle, as long as people continue to have a 'I'm fat, that's just me' attitude, then despite people saying bodies change, they never will. A 'changed' body is not something to aspire to, congratulations on proving your motivation but what I feel is needed are people who are prepared to change lifestyles, not weights. Otherwise cycles of binge and crash diet continue. (This is what the industry wans) It hardly needs stating that obesity causes medical problems. I'm amazed by the lack of responsibility towards their own health taken by members of the forum. Curvy, chubby, plus size, whatever you call it, is just a precursor for diabetes, hypertension, strokes, heart attacks. Fucking a load of thin people prepared to say this doesn't matter to them is not goin to negate that risk. | |||
"I hate it being rolled out as an example of the double standards on here. It's not. I'm not saying they don't exist but stop holding the BBW threads up as an exanple of them. Ok cool then you go start a thread with the op "Hi im a woman on the large side. I what to know is there any men like a woman like me." (Feel free to correct the grammar) And see if you get the slating the up does or an avalanche of offers. You've missed my point entirely. I even typed that double standards exist. Have you even looked at the BBW threads recently? They are nothing like this one or the one you suggested I start - I don't think they should be used as an inaccurate example in a thread like this. " Why would anyone who didn't want to fuck large women look at the bbw threads? The most exclusive ( And not in a good way) thread on fab. | |||
"While this bloke gets slated for repeating a thread about women who like fat blokes... ...there are 311 BBW threads but that's OK " Amazing isn't it? | |||
"This forum glamourises obesity. not obese men though, don't think i've seen a direct comment aimed at the OP saying yes they do. Obviously. A study showed when asked 94% of the population find fat people physically unattractive. This is played out very clearly in fat men threads. As we've seen no one has said yes they've attacked the op at worst and at best said "I'm not but somoen else might be" However its the polar oposite in fat women threads (what's be chat to now 300?) Where there are masses of suitors. So the question is, does fab attract a disproportionate amount of male obesity admirers and a fraction as many women who admire obesity? Or is this related to the imbalance in male/female numbers on here and a sort of "any port ina storm" situation?" I think you're very perceptive. | |||
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"This forum glamourises obesity. I think you'll find it just highlights that some of us see past the outer shell of someone. I'd much rather meet someone I engage with intellectually than someone I find attractive just from how they look. If I'm loving the person who you are, I don't see how size can matter! Skinny, curvy, chubby whatever. I like you, not the bit extra you may carry. That's up to them to decide if they want to change that about themselves. True many men do seem to be able to see through the shell. Maybe one day women will join us. The women of this website (in particular the forum) won't. I can't remember having looked at the profile of a woman who describes herself as athletic and seeing a picture of her in action with a huge bloke. The women seem to display them as a badge of honour, as evidence of what they can still get. I'm amazed by the responses. Firstly I have never considered obesity to be something you just accept, like height. It's not something that isn't completely controllable by the individual. I have never struggled with my weight, but that's because I've never struggled to control how much food I put in, or struggled to motivate myself to do some exercise. That's the struggle, as long as people continue to have a 'I'm fat, that's just me' attitude, then despite people saying bodies change, they never will. A 'changed' body is not something to aspire to, congratulations on proving your motivation but what I feel is needed are people who are prepared to change lifestyles, not weights. Otherwise cycles of binge and crash diet continue. (This is what the industry wans) It hardly needs stating that obesity causes medical problems. I'm amazed by the lack of responsibility towards their own health taken by members of the forum. Curvy, chubby, plus size, whatever you call it, is just a precursor for diabetes, hypertension, strokes, heart attacks. Fucking a load of thin people prepared to say this doesn't matter to them is not goin to negate that risk." We're on a website seeking strangers to fuck, use a condom to justify how safe we are, yet post, without any sense of irony that people lack responsibility. ...okie dokie then! | |||
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"This forum glamourises obesity. I think you'll find it just highlights that some of us see past the outer shell of someone. I'd much rather meet someone I engage with intellectually than someone I find attractive just from how they look. If I'm loving the person who you are, I don't see how size can matter! Skinny, curvy, chubby whatever. I like you, not the bit extra you may carry. That's up to them to decide if they want to change that about themselves. True many men do seem to be able to see through the shell. Maybe one day women will join us. The women of this website (in particular the forum) won't. I can't remember having looked at the profile of a woman who describes herself as athletic and seeing a picture of her in action with a huge bloke. The women seem to display them as a badge of honour, as evidence of what they can still get. I'm amazed by the responses. Firstly I have never considered obesity to be something you just accept, like height. It's not something that isn't completely controllable by the individual. I have never struggled with my weight, but that's because I've never struggled to control how much food I put in, or struggled to motivate myself to do some exercise. That's the struggle, as long as people continue to have a 'I'm fat, that's just me' attitude, then despite people saying bodies change, they never will. A 'changed' body is not something to aspire to, congratulations on proving your motivation but what I feel is needed are people who are prepared to change lifestyles, not weights. Otherwise cycles of binge and crash diet continue. (This is what the industry wans) It hardly needs stating that obesity causes medical problems. I'm amazed by the lack of responsibility towards their own health taken by members of the forum. Curvy, chubby, plus size, whatever you call it, is just a precursor for diabetes, hypertension, strokes, heart attacks. Fucking a load of thin people prepared to say this doesn't matter to them is not goin to negate that risk." If you read my quote that you so kindly refer to, you will see that I refer to how 'I' see the subject matter. On the other hand you have spent the whole statement referring to the women on here as a whole. You are generalising about what 'women on this site' want or are willing to accept. Putting women into a group as a whole without accepting that we are all different, and have very personal preferences is so blinkered and naive. As for weight I'm pleased you find it so easy to stay a healthy weight. How responsible you must be for your own health (I'm using your words here, not my own) So people with weight issues go out, eat whatever they like and then sit back and say 'I'm fat, that's just me' because they don't care what they look like? Maybe if you spent time talking to a few overweight people and really found out why they eat what they do, how they feel about their bodies and how they would actually like to look you'd see below the surface occasionally lots of insecurities, iccasionally emotional problems and often a want to change but no idea how to even begin. Again, you expect everyone to be the same as you. In fact, well done for having all your shit together. Unfortunately some of us don't have that luxury. Men and women who generalise about genders or body size really piss me off and need to inform themselves of the true reasons behind any weight issues. Sorry for rambling on. | |||
"As a woman who is over weight I wonder why so many people worry about my health and care about who fucks me, or who are fuck. I'm not interested in who slim or average people fuck. Should I be applauding the slim/average men who won't fuck a fat woman and the slim/average women who will fuck a fat man? I've been all sizes from under weight to average to over weight. I fucked fat/average/slim men regardless of my size. " Seriously? Who cares about your health. Maybe the people that are about you. And maybe the people you expect to look after you.. | |||
"This forum glamourises obesity. I think you'll find it just highlights that some of us see past the outer shell of someone. I'd much rather meet someone I engage with intellectually than someone I find attractive just from how they look. If I'm loving the person who you are, I don't see how size can matter! Skinny, curvy, chubby whatever. I like you, not the bit extra you may carry. That's up to them to decide if they want to change that about themselves. True many men do seem to be able to see through the shell. Maybe one day women will join us. The women of this website (in particular the forum) won't. I can't remember having looked at the profile of a woman who describes herself as athletic and seeing a picture of her in action with a huge bloke. The women seem to display them as a badge of honour, as evidence of what they can still get. I'm amazed by the responses. Firstly I have never considered obesity to be something you just accept, like height. It's not something that isn't completely controllable by the individual. I have never struggled with my weight, but that's because I've never struggled to control how much food I put in, or struggled to motivate myself to do some exercise. That's the struggle, as long as people continue to have a 'I'm fat, that's just me' attitude, then despite people saying bodies change, they never will. A 'changed' body is not something to aspire to, congratulations on proving your motivation but what I feel is needed are people who are prepared to change lifestyles, not weights. Otherwise cycles of binge and crash diet continue. (This is what the industry wans) It hardly needs stating that obesity causes medical problems. I'm amazed by the lack of responsibility towards their own health taken by members of the forum. Curvy, chubby, plus size, whatever you call it, is just a precursor for diabetes, hypertension, strokes, heart attacks. Fucking a load of thin people prepared to say this doesn't matter to them is not goin to negate that risk. If you read my quote that you so kindly refer to, you will see that I refer to how 'I' see the subject matter. On the other hand you have spent the whole statement referring to the women on here as a whole. You are generalising about what 'women on this site' want or are willing to accept. Putting women into a group as a whole without accepting that we are all different, and have very personal preferences is so blinkered and naive. As for weight I'm pleased you find it so easy to stay a healthy weight. How responsible you must be for your own health (I'm using your words here, not my own) So people with weight issues go out, eat whatever they like and then sit back and say 'I'm fat, that's just me' because they don't care what they look like? Maybe if you spent time talking to a few overweight people and really found out why they eat what they do, how they feel about their bodies and how they would actually like to look you'd see below the surface occasionally lots of insecurities, iccasionally emotional problems and often a want to change but no idea how to even begin. Again, you expect everyone to be the same as you. In fact, well done for having all your shit together. Unfortunately some of us don't have that luxury. Men and women who generalise about genders or body size really piss me off and need to inform themselves of the true reasons behind any weight issues. Sorry for rambling on. " It's not because the don't care what they look like. It's because they don't care about the implications. Separating the appearance of being an unhealthy weight, from actually being unhealthy is the key to understanding, and then dealing with the problem. Unless you don't think it's a problem. | |||
"This forum glamourises obesity. " This forum justifies obesity and refuses to acknowledge it as a health issue. | |||
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"This forum glamourises obesity. I think you'll find it just highlights that some of us see past the outer shell of someone. I'd much rather meet someone I engage with intellectually than someone I find attractive just from how they look. If I'm loving the person who you are, I don't see how size can matter! Skinny, curvy, chubby whatever. I like you, not the bit extra you may carry. That's up to them to decide if they want to change that about themselves. True many men do seem to be able to see through the shell. Maybe one day women will join us. The women of this website (in particular the forum) won't. I can't remember having looked at the profile of a woman who describes herself as athletic and seeing a picture of her in action with a huge bloke. The women seem to display them as a badge of honour, as evidence of what they can still get. I'm amazed by the responses. Firstly I have never considered obesity to be something you just accept, like height. It's not something that isn't completely controllable by the individual. I have never struggled with my weight, but that's because I've never struggled to control how much food I put in, or struggled to motivate myself to do some exercise. That's the struggle, as long as people continue to have a 'I'm fat, that's just me' attitude, then despite people saying bodies change, they never will. A 'changed' body is not something to aspire to, congratulations on proving your motivation but what I feel is needed are people who are prepared to change lifestyles, not weights. Otherwise cycles of binge and crash diet continue. (This is what the industry wans) It hardly needs stating that obesity causes medical problems. I'm amazed by the lack of responsibility towards their own health taken by members of the forum. Curvy, chubby, plus size, whatever you call it, is just a precursor for diabetes, hypertension, strokes, heart attacks. Fucking a load of thin people prepared to say this doesn't matter to them is not goin to negate that risk. If you read my quote that you so kindly refer to, you will see that I refer to how 'I' see the subject matter. On the other hand you have spent the whole statement referring to the women on here as a whole. You are generalising about what 'women on this site' want or are willing to accept. Putting women into a group as a whole without accepting that we are all different, and have very personal preferences is so blinkered and naive. As for weight I'm pleased you find it so easy to stay a healthy weight. How responsible you must be for your own health (I'm using your words here, not my own) So people with weight issues go out, eat whatever they like and then sit back and say 'I'm fat, that's just me' because they don't care what they look like? Maybe if you spent time talking to a few overweight people and really found out why they eat what they do, how they feel about their bodies and how they would actually like to look you'd see below the surface occasionally lots of insecurities, iccasionally emotional problems and often a want to change but no idea how to even begin. Again, you expect everyone to be the same as you. In fact, well done for having all your shit together. Unfortunately some of us don't have that luxury. Men and women who generalise about genders or body size really piss me off and need to inform themselves of the true reasons behind any weight issues. Sorry for rambling on. It's not because the don't care what they look like. It's because they don't care about the implications. Separating the appearance of being an unhealthy weight, from actually being unhealthy is the key to understanding, and then dealing with the problem. Unless you don't think it's a problem." You assume I don't care about my health. Why? And what does it have to do with who fucks me and who I fuck? I don't dismiss fat men because I'm not attracted to them and fucking anyone else has no bearing on how I feel about myself. I have 4 stone to lose. When I do I still won't be fucking obese men, unless they are extremely strong and have stamina. | |||
"This forum glamourises obesity. I think you'll find it just highlights that some of us see past the outer shell of someone. I'd much rather meet someone I engage with intellectually than someone I find attractive just from how they look. If I'm loving the person who you are, I don't see how size can matter! Skinny, curvy, chubby whatever. I like you, not the bit extra you may carry. That's up to them to decide if they want to change that about themselves. True many men do seem to be able to see through the shell. Maybe one day women will join us. The women of this website (in particular the forum) won't. I can't remember having looked at the profile of a woman who describes herself as athletic and seeing a picture of her in action with a huge bloke. The women seem to display them as a badge of honour, as evidence of what they can still get. I'm amazed by the responses. Firstly I have never considered obesity to be something you just accept, like height. It's not something that isn't completely controllable by the individual. I have never struggled with my weight, but that's because I've never struggled to control how much food I put in, or struggled to motivate myself to do some exercise. That's the struggle, as long as people continue to have a 'I'm fat, that's just me' attitude, then despite people saying bodies change, they never will. A 'changed' body is not something to aspire to, congratulations on proving your motivation but what I feel is needed are people who are prepared to change lifestyles, not weights. Otherwise cycles of binge and crash diet continue. (This is what the industry wans) It hardly needs stating that obesity causes medical problems. I'm amazed by the lack of responsibility towards their own health taken by members of the forum. Curvy, chubby, plus size, whatever you call it, is just a precursor for diabetes, hypertension, strokes, heart attacks. Fucking a load of thin people prepared to say this doesn't matter to them is not goin to negate that risk. If you read my quote that you so kindly refer to, you will see that I refer to how 'I' see the subject matter. On the other hand you have spent the whole statement referring to the women on here as a whole. You are generalising about what 'women on this site' want or are willing to accept. Putting women into a group as a whole without accepting that we are all different, and have very personal preferences is so blinkered and naive. As for weight I'm pleased you find it so easy to stay a healthy weight. How responsible you must be for your own health (I'm using your words here, not my own) So people with weight issues go out, eat whatever they like and then sit back and say 'I'm fat, that's just me' because they don't care what they look like? Maybe if you spent time talking to a few overweight people and really found out why they eat what they do, how they feel about their bodies and how they would actually like to look you'd see below the surface occasionally lots of insecurities, iccasionally emotional problems and often a want to change but no idea how to even begin. Again, you expect everyone to be the same as you. In fact, well done for having all your shit together. Unfortunately some of us don't have that luxury. Men and women who generalise about genders or body size really piss me off and need to inform themselves of the true reasons behind any weight issues. Sorry for rambling on. It's not because the don't care what they look like. It's because they don't care about the implications. Separating the appearance of being an unhealthy weight, from actually being unhealthy is the key to understanding, and then dealing with the problem. Unless you don't think it's a problem." Oh I'm sorry. I must have missed the post on here where this man asked for his physical wellbeing to be critiqued. He was merely asking if women liked larger men.... Or have I missed the point? | |||
"This forum glamourises obesity. This forum justifies obesity and refuses to acknowledge it as a health issue." Why should people preach to others on the forums? I don't tell people who do dangerous activities to stop. | |||
"This forum glamourises obesity. I think you'll find it just highlights that some of us see past the outer shell of someone. I'd much rather meet someone I engage with intellectually than someone I find attractive just from how they look. If I'm loving the person who you are, I don't see how size can matter! Skinny, curvy, chubby whatever. I like you, not the bit extra you may carry. That's up to them to decide if they want to change that about themselves. True many men do seem to be able to see through the shell. Maybe one day women will join us. The women of this website (in particular the forum) won't. I can't remember having looked at the profile of a woman who describes herself as athletic and seeing a picture of her in action with a huge bloke. The women seem to display them as a badge of honour, as evidence of what they can still get. I'm amazed by the responses. Firstly I have never considered obesity to be something you just accept, like height. It's not something that isn't completely controllable by the individual. I have never struggled with my weight, but that's because I've never struggled to control how much food I put in, or struggled to motivate myself to do some exercise. That's the struggle, as long as people continue to have a 'I'm fat, that's just me' attitude, then despite people saying bodies change, they never will. A 'changed' body is not something to aspire to, congratulations on proving your motivation but what I feel is needed are people who are prepared to change lifestyles, not weights. Otherwise cycles of binge and crash diet continue. (This is what the industry wans) It hardly needs stating that obesity causes medical problems. I'm amazed by the lack of responsibility towards their own health taken by members of the forum. Curvy, chubby, plus size, whatever you call it, is just a precursor for diabetes, hypertension, strokes, heart attacks. Fucking a load of thin people prepared to say this doesn't matter to them is not goin to negate that risk. If you read my quote that you so kindly refer to, you will see that I refer to how 'I' see the subject matter. On the other hand you have spent the whole statement referring to the women on here as a whole. You are generalising about what 'women on this site' want or are willing to accept. Putting women into a group as a whole without accepting that we are all different, and have very personal preferences is so blinkered and naive. As for weight I'm pleased you find it so easy to stay a healthy weight. How responsible you must be for your own health (I'm using your words here, not my own) So people with weight issues go out, eat whatever they like and then sit back and say 'I'm fat, that's just me' because they don't care what they look like? Maybe if you spent time talking to a few overweight people and really found out why they eat what they do, how they feel about their bodies and how they would actually like to look you'd see below the surface occasionally lots of insecurities, iccasionally emotional problems and often a want to change but no idea how to even begin. Again, you expect everyone to be the same as you. In fact, well done for having all your shit together. Unfortunately some of us don't have that luxury. Men and women who generalise about genders or body size really piss me off and need to inform themselves of the true reasons behind any weight issues. Sorry for rambling on. It's not because the don't care what they look like. It's because they don't care about the implications. Separating the appearance of being an unhealthy weight, from actually being unhealthy is the key to understanding, and then dealing with the problem. Unless you don't think it's a problem. Oh I'm sorry. I must have missed the post on here where this man asked for his physical wellbeing to be critiqued. He was merely asking if women liked larger men.... Or have I missed the point? " I have, in the past, had sex with large men, because I found them attractive. My reason for not meeting them now is my problem, not because they aren't attractive to me. We aren't all "delusional". | |||
"This forum glamourises obesity. I think you'll find it just highlights that some of us see past the outer shell of someone. I'd much rather meet someone I engage with intellectually than someone I find attractive just from how they look. If I'm loving the person who you are, I don't see how size can matter! Skinny, curvy, chubby whatever. I like you, not the bit extra you may carry. That's up to them to decide if they want to change that about themselves. True many men do seem to be able to see through the shell. Maybe one day women will join us. The women of this website (in particular the forum) won't. I can't remember having looked at the profile of a woman who describes herself as athletic and seeing a picture of her in action with a huge bloke. The women seem to display them as a badge of honour, as evidence of what they can still get. I'm amazed by the responses. Firstly I have never considered obesity to be something you just accept, like height. It's not something that isn't completely controllable by the individual. I have never struggled with my weight, but that's because I've never struggled to control how much food I put in, or struggled to motivate myself to do some exercise. That's the struggle, as long as people continue to have a 'I'm fat, that's just me' attitude, then despite people saying bodies change, they never will. A 'changed' body is not something to aspire to, congratulations on proving your motivation but what I feel is needed are people who are prepared to change lifestyles, not weights. Otherwise cycles of binge and crash diet continue. (This is what the industry wans) It hardly needs stating that obesity causes medical problems. I'm amazed by the lack of responsibility towards their own health taken by members of the forum. Curvy, chubby, plus size, whatever you call it, is just a precursor for diabetes, hypertension, strokes, heart attacks. Fucking a load of thin people prepared to say this doesn't matter to them is not goin to negate that risk. If you read my quote that you so kindly refer to, you will see that I refer to how 'I' see the subject matter. On the other hand you have spent the whole statement referring to the women on here as a whole. You are generalising about what 'women on this site' want or are willing to accept. Putting women into a group as a whole without accepting that we are all different, and have very personal preferences is so blinkered and naive. As for weight I'm pleased you find it so easy to stay a healthy weight. How responsible you must be for your own health (I'm using your words here, not my own) So people with weight issues go out, eat whatever they like and then sit back and say 'I'm fat, that's just me' because they don't care what they look like? Maybe if you spent time talking to a few overweight people and really found out why they eat what they do, how they feel about their bodies and how they would actually like to look you'd see below the surface occasionally lots of insecurities, iccasionally emotional problems and often a want to change but no idea how to even begin. Again, you expect everyone to be the same as you. In fact, well done for having all your shit together. Unfortunately some of us don't have that luxury. Men and women who generalise about genders or body size really piss me off and need to inform themselves of the true reasons behind any weight issues. Sorry for rambling on. It's not because the don't care what they look like. It's because they don't care about the implications. Separating the appearance of being an unhealthy weight, from actually being unhealthy is the key to understanding, and then dealing with the problem. Unless you don't think it's a problem." And there you go again!! "It's not because the don't care what they look like. It's because they don't care about the implications" You really like taking a group of people and putting them in a group together and assuming they all act the same. Wake up, actually talk to people instead of being critical and comparing them to what you clearly see as your perfect self. | |||
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"There are some serious advantages of being with a fat guy, I for one will not stop eating until told to stop " mmmm should we fatties have 'feeders ' as our fetish/likes sure some ladies would help us out | |||
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"There are some serious advantages of being with a fat guy, I for one will not stop eating until told to stop mmmm should we fatties have 'feeders ' as our fetish/likes sure some ladies would help us out" Someone told me I had nice feeders but they were referring to my boobs! | |||
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"Anyone what to chat. X" That made me giggle. | |||
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"Anyone what to chat. X That made me giggle. " i just what to chat and have fun. | |||
"Anyone what to chat. X That made me giggle. i just what to chat and have fun. " That's what it's all about | |||
"Well done OP for bringing us all back in line and focusing on what the original post was about So much better than reading some of the waffle above Ive read today " | |||
"Anyone what to chat. X That made me giggle. i just what to chat and have fun. That's what it's all about " wow i have to say u are very sexy i hope im not being rude. | |||
"Anyone what to chat. X That made me giggle. i just what to chat and have fun. That's what it's all about wow i have to say u are very sexy i hope im not being rude." If you need a definition of rudeness.... Anyway let's not go there again. That's very sweet of you. | |||
"Well done OP for bringing us all back in line and focusing on what the original post was about So much better than reading some of the waffle above Ive read today " I agree haha. Some going off on tangents, completely forgetting bloody question that was asked | |||
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"Well done OP for bringing us all back in line and focusing on what the original post was about So much better than reading some of the waffle above Ive read today I agree haha. Some going off on tangents, completely forgetting bloody question that was asked " I know | |||
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"As Richard Rawlings says "there an ass for every seat" well there's a pussy for every cock! Granted there's a lot mor cocks than pussies around here meaning the pussies can afford to be a 'little picky' shall we say! But hey, be yourself and not be a dick and who knows you may get to know someone well enough to get that pussy! Good luck OP! AJ " thanks i hope there is happy fabbing. | |||
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"So, will any women meet the OP for sex? " dont be shy | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 19/07/17 12:50:47]" thanks man i don't take it to heart its a bit of fun. | |||
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"This forum glamourises obesity. No, it's just open-minded and realises that people are on different journeys with their bodies. Maybe you should take a leaf out of those books. Bodies change shape. Personalities seldom change So very true Thsts all very nice along with all the other offended replies to that comment but you all miss one vital point. Obesity is a personality problem, not a physical problem. " It can be both. | |||
"This forum glamourises obesity. No, it's just open-minded and realises that people are on different journeys with their bodies. Maybe you should take a leaf out of those books. Bodies change shape. Personalities seldom change So very true Thsts all very nice along with all the other offended replies to that comment but you all miss one vital point. Obesity is a personality problem, not a physical problem. It can be both. " | |||
"This forum glamourises obesity. I think you'll find it just highlights that some of us see past the outer shell of someone. I'd much rather meet someone I engage with intellectually than someone I find attractive just from how they look. If I'm loving the person who you are, I don't see how size can matter! Skinny, curvy, chubby whatever. I like you, not the bit extra you may carry. That's up to them to decide if they want to change that about themselves. True many men do seem to be able to see through the shell. Maybe one day women will join us. The women of this website (in particular the forum) won't. I can't remember having looked at the profile of a woman who describes herself as athletic and seeing a picture of her in action with a huge bloke. The women seem to display them as a badge of honour, as evidence of what they can still get. I'm amazed by the responses. Firstly I have never considered obesity to be something you just accept, like height. It's not something that isn't completely controllable by the individual. I have never struggled with my weight, but that's because I've never struggled to control how much food I put in, or struggled to motivate myself to do some exercise. That's the struggle, as long as people continue to have a 'I'm fat, that's just me' attitude, then despite people saying bodies change, they never will. A 'changed' body is not something to aspire to, congratulations on proving your motivation but what I feel is needed are people who are prepared to change lifestyles, not weights. Otherwise cycles of binge and crash diet continue. (This is what the industry wans) It hardly needs stating that obesity causes medical problems. I'm amazed by the lack of responsibility towards their own health taken by members of the forum. Curvy, chubby, plus size, whatever you call it, is just a precursor for diabetes, hypertension, strokes, heart attacks. Fucking a load of thin people prepared to say this doesn't matter to them is not goin to negate that risk." Yes, obesity causes medical problems. As does smoking, drinking too much, taking too many drugs, having an unhealthy lifestyle. Yet, if someone is physically overweight, people like yourself feel the need to comment on our health. All of those medical conditions that you speak of, are easily taken on by slim people who make unhealthy lifestyle choices too. I'm not sure why you're generalising about the women on this forum, but what I will tell you is that you have zero idea what everyone's personal battles are. You have no idea why they've put weight on or if they're attempting to lose weight or if they've lost 10 stone and are near their goal. | |||
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"This forum glamourises obesity. " Or fetishises it? | |||
"So, will any women meet the OP for sex? " Would you? | |||
"This forum glamourises obesity. Or fetishises it?" I don't think it does either. There were/are some women on here who are obese, who don't advertise it, and became popular. I'm fat, yet no one blows smoke up my arse. | |||
"Wow, what a debate!! OP ignore the idiots they have nothing better to do than piss everyone else off! And as for this Bradley character all I have to say is, on yer bike sunshine " Seriously mate? The ones that should hop on a bike are the fat ones. | |||
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"I'm fat, yet no one blows smoke up my arse. " That's a hole (misspelling on purpose) different topic and a bit off topic! | |||
"You did this same thread 5 days ago, and was last answered two days ago? Did you not get your answers there? We have nearly 300 chat threads for guys who like fat women to meet them in. But this guy starts one about women who like fat men and all hes gotten is told to use the search, change his approach, or not to repost the same thread. " Fair point | |||
"So, will any women meet the OP for sex? Would you?" Nope. | |||
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"Wow, what a debate!! OP ignore the idiots they have nothing better to do than piss everyone else off! And as for this Bradley character all I have to say is, on yer bike sunshine Seriously mate? The ones that should hop on a bike are the fat ones. " If you weren't so rude and stereotype every woman on here then maybe people wouldn't have to white knight in here | |||
"Wow, what a debate!! OP ignore the idiots they have nothing better to do than piss everyone else off! And as for this Bradley character all I have to say is, on yer bike sunshine Seriously mate? The ones that should hop on a bike are the fat ones. " I can't ride a bike, my knees won't allow it | |||
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"Wow, what a debate!! OP ignore the idiots they have nothing better to do than piss everyone else off! And as for this Bradley character all I have to say is, on yer bike sunshine Seriously mate? The ones that should hop on a bike are the fat ones. If you weren't so rude and stereotype every woman on here then maybe people wouldn't have to white knight in here " Not true. They'll come clippetty-clopping in to every forum. They love a damsel in dis(plus-sized)dress | |||
"Wow, what a debate!! OP ignore the idiots they have nothing better to do than piss everyone else off! And as for this Bradley character all I have to say is, on yer bike sunshine Seriously mate? The ones that should hop on a bike are the fat ones. If you weren't so rude and stereotype every woman on here then maybe people wouldn't have to white knight in here Not true. They'll come clippetty-clopping in to every forum. They love a damsel in dis(plus-sized)dress" I may be plus size but at least I'm never rude. I bet the women flock to you after seeing how charming you really are | |||
"Wow, what a debate!! OP ignore the idiots they have nothing better to do than piss everyone else off! And as for this Bradley character all I have to say is, on yer bike sunshine Seriously mate? The ones that should hop on a bike are the fat ones. If you weren't so rude and stereotype every woman on here then maybe people wouldn't have to white knight in here Not true. They'll come clippetty-clopping in to every forum. They love a damsel in dis(plus-sized)dress I may be plus size but at least I'm never rude. I bet the women flock to you after seeing how charming you really are " You're not that far away. I wonder if you'd be that rude and tactless to my face? I doubt it. It's easy to sit behind your keyboard and take the Mick out of others isn't it | |||
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"Rude to who? It's the World Health Organisation that tells people whether they're overweight or obese, not me. I've said don't deny it, and seize the opportunity to do something about it. " You really have no idea do you? And hang on, you decided I'm plus size. Backtrack all you like. It's all there for all to read. | |||
"Rude to who? It's the World Health Organisation that tells people whether they're overweight or obese, not me. I've said don't deny it, and seize the opportunity to do something about it. " it's their body, they never asked for medical advice. so therefore you are rude. | |||
"This forum glamourises obesity. No, it's just open-minded and realises that people are on different journeys with their bodies. Maybe you should take a leaf out of those books. Bodies change shape. Personalities seldom change " This is my favourite post of the day | |||
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"Who fancies a hobnob? I've got the chocolate ones ... " No cake? I thought we were sharing one And a nice cup of tea | |||
"Rude to who? It's the World Health Organisation that tells people whether they're overweight or obese, not me. I've said don't deny it, and seize the opportunity to do something about it. it's their body, they never asked for medical advice. so therefore you are rude." i am doing something about it i have lost 5 stone in a year. | |||
"Rude to who? It's the World Health Organisation that tells people whether they're overweight or obese, not me. I've said don't deny it, and seize the opportunity to do something about it. it's their body, they never asked for medical advice. so therefore you are rude.i am doing something about it i have lost 5 stone in a year." Well done, that's brilliant | |||
"Rude to who? It's the World Health Organisation that tells people whether they're overweight or obese, not me. I've said don't deny it, and seize the opportunity to do something about it. it's their body, they never asked for medical advice. so therefore you are rude.i am doing something about it i have lost 5 stone in a year." That's excellent, well done! | |||
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"Rude to who? It's the World Health Organisation that tells people whether they're overweight or obese, not me. I've said don't deny it, and seize the opportunity to do something about it. it's their body, they never asked for medical advice. so therefore you are rude.i am doing something about it i have lost 5 stone in a year. Well done, that's brilliant " thanks for nice words. | |||
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"So 144 posts later have we actually had one "yes I have a thing for fat guys" post yet?" If you scroll through you will find that I have indeed fucked a few fat men. I don't have a thing for them, I find many sizes arousing. | |||
"So 144 posts later have we actually had one "yes I have a thing for fat guys" post yet? If you scroll through you will find that I have indeed fucked a few fat men. I don't have a thing for them, I find many sizes arousing." So no then? | |||
"So 144 posts later have we actually had one "yes I have a thing for fat guys" post yet? If you scroll through you will find that I have indeed fucked a few fat men. I don't have a thing for them, I find many sizes arousing. So no then? " Explain what having a thing for something is. I like hairy chests, but not every hairy chest I see. Would having a thing for them mean I like them all, regardless? | |||
"So 144 posts later have we actually had one "yes I have a thing for fat guys" post yet? If you scroll through you will find that I have indeed fucked a few fat men. I don't have a thing for them, I find many sizes arousing. So no then? Explain what having a thing for something is. I like hairy chests, but not every hairy chest I see. Would having a thing for them mean I like them all, regardless? " Well in this context it would be somone with a fetish* for fat men, much like the BBC fan club threads. *I'm not sure fetish is the correct, term maybe kink, as strictly speaking if you have a fetish for something its a requirement for your enjoyment/orgasm. Weather you want to take that to the absurd extreme "must fancy all X phenotype" is up to you. I think at its most realistic extreme its a "requirement" as one fetish. They must be xyz but just because they have xyz doesnt mean you want them. | |||
"So 144 posts later have we actually had one "yes I have a thing for fat guys" post yet? If you scroll through you will find that I have indeed fucked a few fat men. I don't have a thing for them, I find many sizes arousing. So no then? Explain what having a thing for something is. I like hairy chests, but not every hairy chest I see. Would having a thing for them mean I like them all, regardless? Well in this context it would be somone with a fetish* for fat men, much like the BBC fan club threads. *I'm not sure fetish is the correct, term maybe kink, as strictly speaking if you have a fetish for something its a requirement for your enjoyment/orgasm. Weather you want to take that to the absurd extreme "must fancy all X phenotype" is up to you. I think at its most realistic extreme its a "requirement" as one fetish. They must be xyz but just because they have xyz doesnt mean you want them. " I thought he was just asking a general question, not if we fetished or have a thing for them. Same as threads asking if we like shaved pubes or hairy chests. I don't fetish anyone or anything, but I have a thing for some physical attributes. | |||
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"I do sometimes read people's comments and think they're unnecessarily harsh. The guy's relatively new to the forums - cut him some slack maybe. " I was thinking the same. Why are people being so mean to him. Just give him advice or piss off. | |||
"I do sometimes read people's comments and think they're unnecessarily harsh. The guy's relatively new to the forums - cut him some slack maybe. I was thinking the same. Why are people being so mean to him. Just give him advice or piss off." Why would you give him advice when he hasnt asked for any? | |||
"I do sometimes read people's comments and think they're unnecessarily harsh. The guy's relatively new to the forums - cut him some slack maybe. I was thinking the same. Why are people being so mean to him. Just give him advice or piss off. Why would you give him advice when he hasnt asked for any?" You know what i mean | |||
"I do sometimes read people's comments and think they're unnecessarily harsh. The guy's relatively new to the forums - cut him some slack maybe. I was thinking the same. Why are people being so mean to him. Just give him advice or piss off. Why would you give him advice when he hasnt asked for any? You know what i mean" Does that mean you're going to take your own advice and piss off as you've not answered his question? | |||
"I do sometimes read people's comments and think they're unnecessarily harsh. The guy's relatively new to the forums - cut him some slack maybe. I was thinking the same. Why are people being so mean to him. Just give him advice or piss off. Why would you give him advice when he hasnt asked for any? You know what i mean Does that mean you're going to take your own advice and piss off as you've not answered his question? " I don't think anyone has to be fair | |||
"I do sometimes read people's comments and think they're unnecessarily harsh. The guy's relatively new to the forums - cut him some slack maybe. I was thinking the same. Why are people being so mean to him. Just give him advice or piss off. Why would you give him advice when he hasnt asked for any?" No, but he did ask a question. You're being very pedantic. | |||
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"Is there a fetish for big guys in the straight scene like BBW? " BBM? I think there is. Probably not as much as there is for women. | |||
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"Is there a fetish for big guys in the straight scene like BBW? BBM? I think there is. Probably not as much as there is for women." I've often fantasized about a BIG black guy fucking my Mrs. Tanned flab is ok by me! | |||