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Men do all of the chasing.. or am I doing something wrong?
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By *ddit... OP Man
over a year ago
Land of the giants... ;-) |
I realise that in society it is usually men that chase the women. ..
I accept this..
I just find it odd that I am really bubbly and fun.. in great shape for my age (42) and have great verifications..
Yet I get very few ladies approaching me...
Am I doing something wrong?
Please tell me..
Cheers guys..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I message those who I like to make laugh or whose Johnson I want to ride.
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Oooh! Johnson!!... Did you use that one already on your naming thread? Be a cracker for anyone named John |
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"I message those who I like to make laugh or whose Johnson I want to ride.
Oooh! Johnson!!... Did you use that one already on your naming thread? Be a cracker for anyone named John "
Not yet. I feel it's too obvious. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I message ladies and chase them.
I often think men like chasing, that's part of what they enjoy. Like greyhounds chasing a rabbit, once caught onto the next rabbit. |
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By *ddit... OP Man
over a year ago
Land of the giants... ;-) |
"I message those who I like to make laugh or whose Johnson I want to ride.
Oooh! Johnson!!... Did you use that one already on your naming thread? Be a cracker for anyone named John
Not yet. I feel it's too obvious. "
Funny fuckers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't decide if you are being serious or not Dude... 
I'm serious man...  "
Then you know surely, from how long you've been on here and how I've seen you around the forums, that there are so many fellas that the majority of ladies do not feel the need to do any approaching. And the ones that do their own searching are very few and far between, Geezer.
Still... Nice look at me thread  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never initiate contact because I'm not meeting, but I still get interest from women approaching me. I didn't get as much interest when I was actively seeking to meet though. It's a perverse world |
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.  "
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you."
Thanks i appreciate it. |
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By *ddit... OP Man
over a year ago
Land of the giants... ;-) |
"I can't decide if you are being serious or not Dude...
I'm serious man...
Then you know surely, from how long you've been on here and how I've seen you around the forums, that there are so many fellas that the majority of ladies do not feel the need to do any approaching. And the ones that do their own searching are very few and far between, Geezer.
Still... Nice look at me thread "
It was a good try wasn't it.. still hasn't worked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
Thanks i appreciate it. "
So why are you on here???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
Thanks i appreciate it.
So why are you on here????"
To meet the beautiful ones not the average ones.
You.? |
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By *ddit... OP Man
over a year ago
Land of the giants... ;-) |
"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you."
I'm just looking at it from the law of averages point of view... I would say at least 40k ladies as the site... |
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
Thanks i appreciate it.
So why are you on here????
To meet the beautiful ones not the average ones.
You.?"
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you."
But no veris? |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
i dont chase, i make obvious through my status, where i am going, that way people can, if they wish, come and say hi. Their choice and, no chasing needed from anyone. If we hit it off, i arrange to see them at a time mutually convenient..simple.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
But no veris? "
Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified? |
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By *ddit... OP Man
over a year ago
Land of the giants... ;-) |
"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
But no veris? "
I've got varies.. or don't they show if you're not a supporter? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't decide if you are being serious or not Dude...
I'm serious man...
Then you know surely, from how long you've been on here and how I've seen you around the forums, that there are so many fellas that the majority of ladies do not feel the need to do any approaching. And the ones that do their own searching are very few and far between, Geezer.
Still... Nice look at me thread
It was a good try wasn't it.. still hasn't worked "
Maybe you should post lots of threads on the same subject every day.......oh wait a minute! |
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
But no veris? "
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
But no veris?
I've got varies.. or don't they show if you're not a supporter? X"
not sure to be honest, I've always been a supporter so I'm assuming you can display even if you aren't? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
But no veris?
Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?"
Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate. |
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The behaviour of people on fab reflects that if real life. Women, as indeed, men, are inherently lazy. Therefore, if you get loads of amazing confidence boosting offers, by doing jack shit, you ain't going to be doing much of the running...
Society needs to change before the behaviour of the women on a website does. It's ironic, because in my opinion, many of society's problems would be solved by women changing their values regarding sex.
Once women feel that it acceptable (in general, not fab) to admit enjoying sex for its own sake, and not doing it for obligation/reward and can admit to enjoying it without risking the criticism of other women, then we might see more equality, less jealous and frustration. Possibly then, a reduction in hatred and violence.
So girls, but that fit guy a drink, and send him a message... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't want to be chased, or pestered, or rushed into something I don't want to do. When a man contacts me we talk until we feel we both want to meet. I can't do anything about how soon that is for him. If it's sooner than I'm ready for he has to be prepared to wait. It's not that complicated really. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to do the chase. I get fed up of the bullshit messages telling me the same as they've told every other woman they've messaged...
plus, I just like to be in control  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I realise that in society it is usually men that chase the women. ..
I accept this..
I just find it odd that I am really bubbly and fun.. in great shape for my age (42) and have great verifications..
Yet I get very few ladies approaching me...
Am I doing something wrong?
Please tell me..
Cheers guys..
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This is planet fab where certain females can be something they'd never be on planet earth....because of the numbers of men chasing them.
I don't mean that disredpectfully fair play to those who do take advantage of planet fab I would too.
DISCLAIMER
This comment does not include any genuine swingers.
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"The behaviour of people on fab reflects that if real life. Women, as indeed, men, are inherently lazy. Therefore, if you get loads of amazing confidence boosting offers, by doing jack shit, you ain't going to be doing much of the running...
Society needs to change before the behaviour of the women on a website does. It's ironic, because in my opinion, many of society's problems would be solved by women changing their values regarding sex.
Once women feel that it acceptable (in general, not fab) to admit enjoying sex for its own sake, and not doing it for obligation/reward and can admit to enjoying it without risking the criticism of other women, then we might see more equality, less jealous and frustration. Possibly then, a reduction in hatred and violence.
So girls, but that fit guy a drink, and send him a message... "
im not lazy, i get out and about. i enjoy kink and sex. im not a jealous person and i dont want a husband. if i ever have frustration, i go do something about it..like get out of the house. i message when i deem it appropriate and go out of my way to go meet people for socials etc. i even host them when i have time..doesn't mean ill fuck anything, anywhere and at any time though.i have my filters on..so im not inundated. i do my thing and it works for me and the lovely people i meet..hatred...wrong person with or without sex, i am not a hater x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The behaviour of people on fab reflects that if real life. Women, as indeed, men, are inherently lazy. Therefore, if you get loads of amazing confidence boosting offers, by doing jack shit, you ain't going to be doing much of the running...
Society needs to change before the behaviour of the women on a website does. It's ironic, because in my opinion, many of society's problems would be solved by women changing their values regarding sex.
Once women feel that it acceptable (in general, not fab) to admit enjoying sex for its own sake, and not doing it for obligation/reward and can admit to enjoying it without risking the criticism of other women, then we might see more equality, less jealous and frustration. Possibly then, a reduction in hatred and violence.
So girls, but that fit guy a drink, and send him a message... "
I'll admit to being lazy regarding looking for men on here. After scrolling through countless local profiles, hour after hour, I decided to let them come to me. It works much better for me that way, as there are thousands of profiles within 20 miles of me and I don't have a type. Those men who feel they are chasing me, because I don't meet them after a couple of messages, aren't the men for me.
I do enjoy sex very much . I enjoyed it 3 tines yesterday,with a man I bought drinks for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
But no veris?
Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?
Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate. "
That little green tick thing means your photo verified you have no meet verifications is what she meant but i am sure you understood that and with your attitude to wemon i doubt very much you get any messages you expèct them to drop to your feet your profile is not worthy of feet worship yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
But no veris?
Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?
Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate. That little green tick thing means your photo verified you have no meet verifications is what she meant but i am sure you understood that and with your attitude to wemon i doubt very much you get any messages you expèct them to drop to your feet your profile is not worthy of feet worship yet "
well put |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
But no veris?
Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?
Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate. That little green tick thing means your photo verified you have no meet verifications is what she meant but i am sure you understood that and with your attitude to wemon i doubt very much you get any messages you expèct them to drop to your feet your profile is not worthy of feet worship yet "
Wrong. Green flag is photo verified. Green tick is meet verified.
If you're gonna try and make someone look a dick? Make sure you don't look like one doing it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
But no veris?
Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?
Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate. That little green tick thing means your photo verified you have no meet verifications is what she meant but i am sure you understood that and with your attitude to wemon i doubt very much you get any messages you expèct them to drop to your feet your profile is not worthy of feet worship yet
Wrong. Green flag is photo verified. Green tick is meet verified.
If you're gonna try and make someone look a dick? Make sure you don't look like one doing it "
as long as there is no ticks in the bed its all good with me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
Thanks i appreciate it.
So why are you on here????
To meet the beautiful ones not the average ones.
You.?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
But no veris?
Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?
Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate. That little green tick thing means your photo verified you have no meet verifications is what she meant but i am sure you understood that and with your attitude to wemon i doubt very much you get any messages you expèct them to drop to your feet your profile is not worthy of feet worship yet
Wrong. Green flag is photo verified. Green tick is meet verified.
If you're gonna try and make someone look a dick? Make sure you don't look like one doing it "
When dishing out righteous indignation, check and recheck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I will message men that I like the look of, and even more so if they are the type I am looking for..
But I do try to dodge the ones that are attached already |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
But no veris?
Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?
Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate. That little green tick thing means your photo verified you have no meet verifications is what she meant but i am sure you understood that and with your attitude to wemon i doubt very much you get any messages you expèct them to drop to your feet your profile is not worthy of feet worship yet
Wrong. Green flag is photo verified. Green tick is meet verified.
If you're gonna try and make someone look a dick? Make sure you don't look like one doing it
When dishing out righteous indignation, check and recheck "
dont forget the ticks too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm guilty of just responding to messages for a meet and not initially sending a first message. I've never chased a guy on here or in real life, I guess I'm quite old fashioned. However... I do make hints that I like somebody by Fabbing their pics or subtle hints in the Forum.
Op, you are doing nothing wrong, I suspect that most women get so many messages, they don't need to chase? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lol talk about a car crash this is more a pile up. "
Instead of writing random comments that are no help at all, why not share with OP your key to success ..who knows, maybe we could all benefit from such wisdom |
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By *ddit... OP Man
over a year ago
Land of the giants... ;-) |
"I'm guilty of just responding to messages for a meet and not initially sending a first message. I've never chased a guy on here or in real life, I guess I'm quite old fashioned. However... I do make hints that I like somebody by Fabbing their pics or subtle hints in the Forum.
Op, you are doing nothing wrong, I suspect that most women get so many messages, they don't need to chase? "
Thanks Dana |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
But no veris?
Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?
Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate. That little green tick thing means your photo verified you have no meet verifications is what she meant but i am sure you understood that and with your attitude to wemon i doubt very much you get any messages you expèct them to drop to your feet your profile is not worthy of feet worship yet
Wrong. Green flag is photo verified. Green tick is meet verified.
If you're gonna try and make someone look a dick? Make sure you don't look like one doing it
When dishing out righteous indignation, check and recheck dont forget the ticks too "
Pesky lil things!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
But no veris?
Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?
Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate. That little green tick thing means your photo verified you have no meet verifications is what she meant but i am sure you understood that and with your attitude to wemon i doubt very much you get any messages you expèct them to drop to your feet your profile is not worthy of feet worship yet
Wrong. Green flag is photo verified. Green tick is meet verified.
If you're gonna try and make someone look a dick? Make sure you don't look like one doing it "
wrong again it says you have met regardless if you show them it will say met by but does not show the veri go do some searching because i always look for genuine meet verifications and he does not have any |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't 'chase' people on here - but I do have everyone blocked, so I can do my own contacting without putting up with a load of messages from people I don't actually want to talk to.
I'd call that productive and sensible rather than chasing.  |
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over a year ago
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
But no veris?
Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?
Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate. That little green tick thing means your photo verified you have no meet verifications is what she meant but i am sure you understood that and with your attitude to wemon i doubt very much you get any messages you expèct them to drop to your feet your profile is not worthy of feet worship yet
Wrong. Green flag is photo verified. Green tick is meet verified.
If you're gonna try and make someone look a dick? Make sure you don't look like one doing it wrong again it says you have met regardless if you show them it will say met by but does not show the veri go do some searching because i always look for genuine meet verifications and he does not have any "
You have the option to display your meet verification summary or hide it. So NO, you're still wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
But no veris?
Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?
Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate. That little green tick thing means your photo verified you have no meet verifications is what she meant but i am sure you understood that and with your attitude to wemon i doubt very much you get any messages you expèct them to drop to your feet your profile is not worthy of feet worship yet
Wrong. Green flag is photo verified. Green tick is meet verified.
If you're gonna try and make someone look a dick? Make sure you don't look like one doing it wrong again it says you have met regardless if you show them it will say met by but does not show the veri go do some searching because i always look for genuine meet verifications and he does not have any "
I have genuine meet verifications but simply choose not to show them. They are my business not anyone else's. So all you see is the green tick. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
But no veris?
Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?
Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate. That little green tick thing means your photo verified you have no meet verifications is what she meant but i am sure you understood that and with your attitude to wemon i doubt very much you get any messages you expèct them to drop to your feet your profile is not worthy of feet worship yet
Wrong. Green flag is photo verified. Green tick is meet verified.
If you're gonna try and make someone look a dick? Make sure you don't look like one doing it wrong again it says you have met regardless if you show them it will say met by but does not show the veri go do some searching because i always look for genuine meet verifications and he does not have any
I have genuine meet verifications but simply choose not to show them. They are my business not anyone else's. So all you see is the green tick."
just to clarify who has ticks and who has not got ticks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
But no veris?
Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?
Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate. That little green tick thing means your photo verified you have no meet verifications is what she meant but i am sure you understood that and with your attitude to wemon i doubt very much you get any messages you expèct them to drop to your feet your profile is not worthy of feet worship yet
Wrong. Green flag is photo verified. Green tick is meet verified.
If you're gonna try and make someone look a dick? Make sure you don't look like one doing it wrong again it says you have met regardless if you show them it will say met by but does not show the veri go do some searching because i always look for genuine meet verifications and he does not have any
I have genuine meet verifications but simply choose not to show them. They are my business not anyone else's. So all you see is the green tick.
just to clarify who has ticks and who has not got ticks "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
But no veris?
Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?
Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate. That little green tick thing means your photo verified you have no meet verifications is what she meant but i am sure you understood that and with your attitude to wemon i doubt very much you get any messages you expèct them to drop to your feet your profile is not worthy of feet worship yet
Wrong. Green flag is photo verified. Green tick is meet verified.
If you're gonna try and make someone look a dick? Make sure you don't look like one doing it wrong again it says you have met regardless if you show them it will say met by but does not show the veri go do some searching because i always look for genuine meet verifications and he does not have any
I have genuine meet verifications but simply choose not to show them. They are my business not anyone else's. So all you see is the green tick.
just to clarify who has ticks and who has not got ticks "
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I'm afraid I let he men do the chasing - always have done, on fab and in the real world - it's just what trips my trigger, if they want me they have to come after me!
Apparently I'm hard work compared to some women who I've seen throw themselves at the men they like hehe......
But sometimes I just forget to reply when I am sure I really meant to....  |
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"I liked to be chased, I have done it previously and ended up with egg on my face so don't bother any more "
This. . Give and take has a lot going for it. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I have been known to message men I am interested in. However recently that's ended up with me being stood up, so I suppose the men in question didn't value the meet as much as they might have done if they had been the one to initiate contact. |
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Only ever been chased once on Fab and I mean literally.Arranged a meet at her house.When she opened the door she had no teeth ha ha.I legged it and yeah she chased.True!!!! |
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"Only ever been chased once on Fab and I mean literally.Arranged a meet at her house.When she opened the door she had no teeth ha ha.I legged it and yeah she chased.True!!!! "
You have a gorgeous chin, what's your penis like? |
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"Only ever been chased once on Fab and I mean literally.Arranged a meet at her house.When she opened the door she had no teeth ha ha.I legged it and yeah she chased.True!!!!
You have a gorgeous chin, what's your penis like?"
Line of the month. .... |
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
But no veris?
Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?
Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate. That little green tick thing means your photo verified you have no meet verifications is what she meant but i am sure you understood that and with your attitude to wemon i doubt very much you get any messages you expèct them to drop to your feet your profile is not worthy of feet worship yet
Wrong. Green flag is photo verified. Green tick is meet verified.
If you're gonna try and make someone look a dick? Make sure you don't look like one doing it wrong again it says you have met regardless if you show them it will say met by but does not show the veri go do some searching because i always look for genuine meet verifications and he does not have any
You have the option to display your meet verification summary or hide it. So NO, you're still wrong "
i know but it still says you have some just dont say what it says xx |
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
Thanks i appreciate it.
So why are you on here????
To meet the beautiful ones not the average ones.
You.?
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Why is it weird for him to say he's here to meet women he finds beautiful not average?
If a woman said that youd be supporting her for maintaining her standards |
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
Thanks i appreciate it.
So why are you on here????
To meet the beautiful ones not the average ones.
You.?
Why is it weird for him to say he's here to meet women he finds beautiful not average?
If a woman said that youd be supporting her for maintaining her standards "
I think it was more that he didn't say the ones "he finds beautiful"
Rather than the beautiful ones.
An interpretation thing. Makes it sound like there's only some people that are beautiful, the rest of us are well, average I suppose.
I ain't dumb, I know what one finds average another will find beautiful, I think it really was just the wording.
Hope this makes sense, I'm pretty tired! |
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"I realise that in society it is usually men that chase the women. ..
I accept this..
I just find it odd that I am really bubbly and fun.. in great shape for my age (42) and have great verifications..
Yet I get very few ladies approaching me...
Am I doing something wrong?
Please tell me..
Cheers guys..
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women rarely approach especially here |
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
Thanks i appreciate it.
So why are you on here????
To meet the beautiful ones not the average ones.
You.?
Why is it weird for him to say he's here to meet women he finds beautiful not average?
If a woman said that youd be supporting her for maintaining her standards
I think it was more that he didn't say the ones "he finds beautiful"
Rather than the beautiful ones.
An interpretation thing. Makes it sound like there's only some people that are beautiful, the rest of us are well, average I suppose.
I ain't dumb, I know what one finds average another will find beautiful, I think it really was just the wording.
Hope this makes sense, I'm pretty tired!"
If you say so.
But I'm pretty sure thats not what wound up those two women
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
Thanks i appreciate it.
So why are you on here????
To meet the beautiful ones not the average ones.
You.?
Why is it weird for him to say he's here to meet women he finds beautiful not average?
If a woman said that youd be supporting her for maintaining her standards
I think it was more that he didn't say the ones "he finds beautiful"
Rather than the beautiful ones.
An interpretation thing. Makes it sound like there's only some people that are beautiful, the rest of us are well, average I suppose.
I ain't dumb, I know what one finds average another will find beautiful, I think it really was just the wording.
Hope this makes sense, I'm pretty tired!
If you say so.
But I'm pretty sure thats not what wound up those two women
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over a year ago
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
Thanks i appreciate it.
So why are you on here????
To meet the beautiful ones not the average ones.
You.?
Why is it weird for him to say he's here to meet women he finds beautiful not average?
If a woman said that youd be supporting her for maintaining her standards
I think it was more that he didn't say the ones "he finds beautiful"
Rather than the beautiful ones.
An interpretation thing. Makes it sound like there's only some people that are beautiful, the rest of us are well, average I suppose.
I ain't dumb, I know what one finds average another will find beautiful, I think it really was just the wording.
Hope this makes sense, I'm pretty tired!
If you say so.
But I'm pretty sure thats not what wound up those two women
That's just how I perceived it in my tired head "
put your tired head on the pillow and count parking wardens it worked for me once |
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
Thanks i appreciate it.
So why are you on here????
To meet the beautiful ones not the average ones.
You.?
Why is it weird for him to say he's here to meet women he finds beautiful not average?
If a woman said that youd be supporting her for maintaining her standards
I think it was more that he didn't say the ones "he finds beautiful"
Rather than the beautiful ones.
An interpretation thing. Makes it sound like there's only some people that are beautiful, the rest of us are well, average I suppose.
I ain't dumb, I know what one finds average another will find beautiful, I think it really was just the wording.
Hope this makes sense, I'm pretty tired!
If you say so.
But I'm pretty sure thats not what wound up those two women
That's just how I perceived it in my tired head put your tired head on the pillow and count parking wardens it worked for me once "
I walk or get the bus, so they'll do nothing for me. |
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
Thanks i appreciate it.
So why are you on here????
To meet the beautiful ones not the average ones.
You.?
Why is it weird for him to say he's here to meet women he finds beautiful not average?
If a woman said that youd be supporting her for maintaining her standards
I think it was more that he didn't say the ones "he finds beautiful"
Rather than the beautiful ones.
An interpretation thing. Makes it sound like there's only some people that are beautiful, the rest of us are well, average I suppose.
I ain't dumb, I know what one finds average another will find beautiful, I think it really was just the wording.
Hope this makes sense, I'm pretty tired!
If you say so.
But I'm pretty sure thats not what wound up those two women
That's just how I perceived it in my tired head put your tired head on the pillow and count parking wardens it worked for me once
I walk or get the bus, so they'll do nothing for me. "
hey me to but train not bus thought you'd dozed off |
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over a year ago
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"So if men don't have to chase, what do they do? Wait for women to throw themselves at them? Not my style."
Have a mutual and equal approach with good open and honest communication from both sides?
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"So if men don't have to chase, what do they do? Wait for women to throw themselves at them? Not my style.
Have a mutual and equal approach with good open and honest communication from both sides?
Sounds good to me!
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over a year ago
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
Thanks i appreciate it.
So why are you on here????
To meet the beautiful ones not the average ones.
You.?
Why is it weird for him to say he's here to meet women he finds beautiful not average?
If a woman said that youd be supporting her for maintaining her standards "
The dude just meets the elite, nothing wrong with that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I message people I like the look of, sometimes people message me first. Isn't that how this is meant to work!?
If they don't message me back, I assume they're not interested. |
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"I message people I like the look of, sometimes people message me first. Isn't that how this is meant to work!?
If they don't message me back, I assume they're not interested. "
ha but the likelihood is you got so many messages his reply got lost in the pile x |
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
But no veris?
Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?
Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate. That little green tick thing means your photo verified you have no meet verifications is what she meant but i am sure you understood that and with your attitude to wemon i doubt very much you get any messages you expèct them to drop to your feet your profile is not worthy of feet worship yet
Wrong. Green flag is photo verified. Green tick is meet verified.
If you're gonna try and make someone look a dick? Make sure you don't look like one doing it wrong again it says you have met regardless if you show them it will say met by but does not show the veri go do some searching because i always look for genuine meet verifications and he does not have any
You have the option to display your meet verification summary or hide it. So NO, you're still wrong i know but it still says you have some just dont say what it says xx"
Ok, I'm only going to explain this one more time. I really don't know why you're not getting it
You can hide each individual verification so it doesn't display what the person said about you.
You can then hide your verification summary so it won't tell you how many single, couples or TVs you have met.
All it will leave on your profile is a green tick meaning you have either been meet or cam verified.
Do you understand now I've explained it in more detail? |
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
But no veris?
Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?
Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate. That little green tick thing means your photo verified you have no meet verifications is what she meant but i am sure you understood that and with your attitude to wemon i doubt very much you get any messages you expèct them to drop to your feet your profile is not worthy of feet worship yet
Wrong. Green flag is photo verified. Green tick is meet verified.
If you're gonna try and make someone look a dick? Make sure you don't look like one doing it wrong again it says you have met regardless if you show them it will say met by but does not show the veri go do some searching because i always look for genuine meet verifications and he does not have any
You have the option to display your meet verification summary or hide it. So NO, you're still wrong i know but it still says you have some just dont say what it says xx
Ok, I'm only going to explain this one more time. I really don't know why you're not getting it
You can hide each individual verification so it doesn't display what the person said about you.
You can then hide your verification summary so it won't tell you how many single, couples or TVs you have met.
All it will leave on your profile is a green tick meaning you have either been meet or cam verified.
Do you understand now I've explained it in more detail? "
Real LOL @ you now.
Why you so obsessed with me.? |
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"I message ladies and chase them.
I often think men like chasing, that's part of what they enjoy. Like greyhounds chasing a rabbit, once caught onto the next rabbit. "
I don't like chasing and never have chased anyone..maybe that's why people seem to always say that I think I'm nice because most women are used to men chasing. That's outdated to me. It's 2017 for god sake lol. |
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
But no veris?
Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?
Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate. That little green tick thing means your photo verified you have no meet verifications is what she meant but i am sure you understood that and with your attitude to wemon i doubt very much you get any messages you expèct them to drop to your feet your profile is not worthy of feet worship yet
Wrong. Green flag is photo verified. Green tick is meet verified.
If you're gonna try and make someone look a dick? Make sure you don't look like one doing it wrong again it says you have met regardless if you show them it will say met by but does not show the veri go do some searching because i always look for genuine meet verifications and he does not have any
You have the option to display your meet verification summary or hide it. So NO, you're still wrong i know but it still says you have some just dont say what it says xx
Ok, I'm only going to explain this one more time. I really don't know why you're not getting it
You can hide each individual verification so it doesn't display what the person said about you.
You can then hide your verification summary so it won't tell you how many single, couples or TVs you have met.
All it will leave on your profile is a green tick meaning you have either been meet or cam verified.
Do you understand now I've explained it in more detail?
Real LOL @ you now.
Why you so obsessed with me.? "
Me?
I'm helping them understand how the site works, inspite them telling me I'm wrong 3 times. When in actual fact I've been right all along.
Nothing to do with you
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"I message those who I like to make laugh or whose Johnson I want to ride.
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This, all of this!! 3 I even messaged some forumites I fancied the look of but were outside my usual boundaries of age or distance |
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"I message those who I like to make laugh or whose Johnson I want to ride.
This, all of this!! 3 I even messaged some forumites I fancied the look of but were outside my usual boundaries of age or distance "
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"I message those who I like to make laugh or whose Johnson I want to ride.
This, all of this!! 3 I even messaged some forumites I fancied the look of but were outside my usual boundaries of age or distance "
My message still in the post? |
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"Tbh OP not much worth chasing on here i don't bother anymore they can find me.
Works for me.
You're so generous to grace the site with your stunning looks, physique and personality. Sure the girls feel honoured you allow them to message you.
But no veris?
Doesn't the lil green tick thing mean verified?
Yeah and you're obviously smarter then her mate. That little green tick thing means your photo verified you have no meet verifications is what she meant but i am sure you understood that and with your attitude to wemon i doubt very much you get any messages you expèct them to drop to your feet your profile is not worthy of feet worship yet
Wrong. Green flag is photo verified. Green tick is meet verified.
If you're gonna try and make someone look a dick? Make sure you don't look like one doing it wrong again it says you have met regardless if you show them it will say met by but does not show the veri go do some searching because i always look for genuine meet verifications and he does not have any
You have the option to display your meet verification summary or hide it. So NO, you're still wrong i know but it still says you have some just dont say what it says xx
Ok, I'm only going to explain this one more time. I really don't know why you're not getting it
You can hide each individual verification so it doesn't display what the person said about you.
You can then hide your verification summary so it won't tell you how many single, couples or TVs you have met.
All it will leave on your profile is a green tick meaning you have either been meet or cam verified.
Do you understand now I've explained it in more detail?
Real LOL @ you now.
Why you so obsessed with me.?
Me?
I'm helping them understand how the site works, inspite them telling me I'm wrong 3 times. When in actual fact I've been right all along.
Nothing to do with you
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No no not you mate that couple thats on my case like a dog with a bone.
I'm actually convinced they must be bit slow or something now if they don't understand what you said.
Best just ignore them buddy. |
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"The behaviour of people on fab reflects that if real life. Women, as indeed, men, are inherently lazy. Therefore, if you get loads of amazing confidence boosting offers, by doing jack shit, you ain't going to be doing much of the running...
Society needs to change before the behaviour of the women on a website does. It's ironic, because in my opinion, many of society's problems would be solved by women changing their values regarding sex.
Once women feel that it acceptable (in general, not fab) to admit enjoying sex for its own sake, and not doing it for obligation/reward and can admit to enjoying it without risking the criticism of other women, then we might see more equality, less jealous and frustration. Possibly then, a reduction in hatred and violence.
So girls, but that fit guy a drink, and send him a message... "
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"I realise that in society it is usually men that chase the women. ..
I accept this..
I just find it odd that I am really bubbly and fun.. in great shape for my age (42) and have great verifications..
Yet I get very few ladies approaching me...
Am I doing something wrong?
Please tell me..
Cheers guys..
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Stick to the clubs mate, they seem to work for you |
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Me?
I'm helping them understand how the site works, inspite them telling me I'm wrong 3 times. When in actual fact I've been right all along.
Nothing to do with you
No no not you mate that couple thats on my case like a dog with a bone.
I'm actually convinced they must be bit slow or something now if they don't understand what you said.
Best just ignore them buddy."
Ohhhh that's alright then, well I've dumbed it down as much as I can for them. If they still profess I'm wrong then I'll just keep quiet |
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"I'm guilty of just responding to messages for a meet and not initially sending a first message. I've never chased a guy on here or in real life, I guess I'm quite old fashioned. However... I do make hints that I like somebody by Fabbing their pics or subtle hints in the Forum.
Op, you are doing nothing wrong, I suspect that most women get so many messages, they don't need to chase? "
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Personally I was under the impression that these days guys still do most of the chasing in life, occasionally a woman will change that around but very occasionally.
I'm happy to chase or be chased |
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