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So you are out with some friends and acquaintances and one of them starts spouting bullshit. You know it’s bullshit and a few others know it’s bullshit. The bullshit could be about their job, financial situation, home life, whatever…. you just know they are making crap up for the sake of their mouth having a reason to move and mislead their audience.
What do you do?
How do you react?
What do you think? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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lol this brings back some funny memories of a friend of mine (ex best mate) i used to think she was a compulsive liar.
At the begining i just let her ramble on, if she wanted to 'big herself up' that was her choice. Me and other friends of our just used to make little jokes out of it to her afterwards.. especially if she was talking to someone new
It got out of hand when she pretended to have a child to someone just so she could play the sympathy card. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Normally I would just let the bullshit fly over my head and put up with it just to be polite really until I find an excuse to walk away,some people are so insecure they feel they have to behave in a certain way that they seem to think will impress others
One time I just could'nt as what this person was saying was directly involved with where I work
I just could'nt stop myself from saying you are talking complete and utter bullshit,the person tried to carry on but I kept saying bullshit everytime they tried to defend what they had said,in the end Rob led me away 
Ive never done anything like that before or since |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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lol, I've got a mate we call "Pilot Light" because he never goes out, but whenever we asked him what he'd been up to, he's always out shagging "some hot babe", his words.
We used to live in the same row of houses and his car never left the drive, and this bloke never ever walked anywhere  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One of my best m8s is real bad for this, he will tell me things like the time he went to glastonbury, when I know for a fact he never, and he knows, that I know, that hes lying. the way he looks at me is like, sorry m8 I crnt help it. and then you ask him questions like, who did you see, and it's so awkward watching him lie. he knows he does it, we all call him the story topper, I think it's a actuall mental condition, compulsive lying. |
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"So you are out with some friends and acquaintances and one of them starts spouting bullshit. You know it’s bullshit and a few others know it’s bullshit. The bullshit could be about their job, financial situation, home life, whatever…. you just know they are making crap up for the sake of their mouth having a reason to move and mislead their audience.
What do you do?
How do you react?
What do you think?"
i tell them its B/s...nicely of course 
If you are friends having different views if i think a good thing.At the weekend i was at a picnic with creationists...we have had some fab debates
People who make up stuff to win an argument is a different matter. It seems common in politics, and certain newspapers dont help, misinformation needs to be challenged. |
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Bullshiters can never keep track of theirprevious bullshit , so i would often raise the subject again a day or two later and then enjoy watching the flop sweat as they desperately scramble to recall the details of the bullshit tale . ie ' im sorry , i thought you said you shagged the mother while her twin daughters licked your balls '. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So you are out with some friends and acquaintances and one of them starts spouting bullshit. You know it’s bullshit and a few others know it’s bullshit. The bullshit could be about their job, financial situation, home life, whatever…. you just know they are making crap up for the sake of their mouth having a reason to move and mislead their audience.
What do you do?
How do you react?
What do you think?
i tell them its B/s...nicely of course
If you are friends having different views if i think a good thing.At the weekend i was at a picnic with creationists...we have had some fab debates
People who make up stuff to win an argument is a different matter. It seems common in politics, and certain newspapers dont help, misinformation needs to be challenged."
creationist's, make up stuff more then most thoe, dont they? according to science? Dont mean to sound like dawkins, Im a catholic. ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Easiest thing to do is to ask them questions about what they are talking about so they end up either changing the subject or it will become obvious they are bullshitting... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So you are out with some friends and acquaintances and one of them starts spouting bullshit."
Judging by some of claims on this site, I am thinking that maybe Jay from The Inbetweeners has an active profile !  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A lot of the time people make stuff up because they want to appear more interesting than they actually are. Think as long as what they say isn't harming anyone like ' what did you do at tbe weekend?' - oh Friday night I shagged a couple of girls who used to be in baywatch then sat flew over to walk up mt everest naked with a Weetabix stuck between my arse cheeks ( for charity!) then had a quiet one Sunday before back to work Monday as a masked crusader against injustice!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Works the other way as well,I went to work 1 Monday got asked what I had done at weekend said I had sex in a swing sat night and they didn't believe me  "
Lol you're bad!! If you need a push on tbe swing let me know!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Works the other way as well,I went to work 1 Monday got asked what I had done at weekend said I had sex in a swing sat night and they didn't believe me
Lol you're bad!! If you need a push on tbe swing let me know!!! "
Don't push too high but fast is good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i can't help but wonder why they do it
i think it must be to cover up insecurities and lack of self esteem so i would never pull them up on it i would jjst feel mean no idea hoe to change things for them though other than trying to include them in things so they won't feel the need to do it so much i guess |
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"Works the other way as well,I went to work 1 Monday got asked what I had done at weekend said I had sex in a swing sat night and they didn't believe me
Lol you're bad!! If you need a push on tbe swing let me know!!!
Don't push too high but fast is good "
Scream if you want to go faster!!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So you are out with some friends and acquaintances and one of them starts spouting bullshit. You know it’s bullshit and a few others know it’s bullshit. The bullshit could be about their job, financial situation, home life, whatever…. you just know they are making crap up for the sake of their mouth having a reason to move and mislead their audience.
What do you do?
How do you react?
What do you think?"
30 seconds of deafening silence works a treat,lol,they then just may think woops overdone it with my ballony. |
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"Works the other way as well,I went to work 1 Monday got asked what I had done at weekend said I had sex in a swing sat night and they didn't believe me "
I do that as well when friends come round what did you do at the weekend I reply we went to a sex club and had an orgy or 2 they never believe me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So you are out with some friends and acquaintances and one of them starts spouting bullshit. You know it’s bullshit and a few others know it’s bullshit. The bullshit could be about their job, financial situation, home life, whatever…. you just know they are making crap up for the sake of their mouth having a reason to move and mislead their audience.
What do you do?
How do you react?
What do you think?"
Depends on the circumstances & my mood. Sometimes ignore, sometimes stop them & tell them they are talking shite. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Acquaintance- Tell em there and then to cut the crap
Friend- Take em to one side and tell em to cut the crap"
You're probably right!
Lost some 'friends' my way! Lol |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Acquaintance- Tell em there and then to cut the crap
Friend- Take em to one side and tell em to cut the crap
You're probably right!
Lost some 'friends' my way! Lol"
If you can be honest with friends then who can ya be honest with! |
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over a year ago
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"creation is no more far fetched than big bang . dont get me started .
Why not, i love a good debate "
And who created the big bang??? Besides me when I'm fixing electrical stuff - and after the big bang - the big fire and the big row!!!
Haven't rowed as much since I've been single but I'm sure I know what tbe dogs thinking!!!
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"creation is no more far fetched than big bang . dont get me started .
Why not, i love a good debate
And who created the big bang??? Besides me when I'm fixing electrical stuff - and after the big bang - the big fire and the big row!!!
Haven't rowed as much since I've been single but I'm sure I know what tbe dogs thinking!!!
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Are you corrupting your dog! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I tend to let it drift over my head tbh. If I'm in a pub and someone I don't know is blethering on about something that I know to be false I'll refrain from telling him he's talking shite unless directly asked for my opinion.
With people I know I'm more inclined to not say anything unless it directly affects me. I know someone else will call their bluff so I don't need to. |
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"creation is no more far fetched than big bang . dont get me started .
Why not, i love a good debate
And who created the big bang??? Besides me when I'm fixing electrical stuff - and after the big bang - the big fire and the big row!!!
Haven't rowed as much since I've been single but I'm sure I know what tbe dogs thinking!!!
Are you corrupting your dog! "
Corrupting/training - all I know is he hides when I change a plug !!! |
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"So you are out with some friends and acquaintances and one of them starts spouting bullshit. You know it’s bullshit and a few others know it’s bullshit. The bullshit could be about their job, financial situation, home life, whatever…. you just know they are making crap up for the sake of their mouth having a reason to move and mislead their audience.
What do you do?
How do you react?
What do you think?"
I look to see who else is smirking and wink at them. Reaction wise well i most likely will ignore it as i don’t like confrontation. Think......lol well i tend to label them as a dreamer if i am being polite that day but more often a wanker or something worse. |
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our daughters boyfriend is full of bullshit he says hes been in the army and hes a profetional laborer (whats one of those)hes done all sorts of things we know is a lie so i just told him one day to shut the f--ck up with the lies, it worked a treet he never talks to me now JOB DONE |
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The best thing to do is agree or if they're making something up that they've done, say 'yes, i remember you doing that' or 'i saw you in that restaurant with that gorgeous babe' etc etc - that sooooo confuses them they can't say 'no you didn't' as that would give the game away! Z |
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There is a guy here that we call billy liar but i actually think he belives what hes saying. He has some fabricated life that he leads. Strange it being a small town and everyone knowing him and what hes like. If you didnt know him he talks a good talk |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"creation is no more far fetched than big bang . dont get me started .
Why not, i love a good debate "
We like it when everyone joins in. Then you have a mass debate! |
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By *andKCouple
over a year ago
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used to have a 'mate' when I was at school, used to call him STB, the thought it was because of a sports shirt he used to wear that happened to have those initials on it but it was his name S The Bullshitter. Doubt he ever found out unless he is on here and reads this lol |
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It could have so been dangerous as while on holiday someone was having a heart attack and she didnt have a clue and pretended she hadnt got her glasses and that she couldnt attend to anyone on her hols. thankfully the guy recovered but no thanks to her lies 