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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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.....truly wear your heart on your sleeve?
Are you straight and upfront about your feelings?
Me, personally, not usually but I did recently, and never again. Lesson well learned.
Thanks in advance for your input.
BG x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm always open & honest with ppl. With friends etc they know what's in my heart etc but with others they know what I'm thinking only (I wouldn't share matters of heart with strangers). "
Saves me "writing"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i do...it often backfires...and ive gone through phases of trying not to , but at 50 odd, im old enough and tough enough to deal with the fallout if it wasnt the good idea i thought it was! |
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Way too much.
All the bloody time
I think I sometimes scare people away. I'm a very caring & loving person and I have a lot of love to give. I'll often tell people I love them. It don't mean I wanna marry them and all that. I love my dog, I ain't wanting to stick a ring on her paw.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a bit of a mixed bag, I don't share a lot of how I'm feeling so it's a case of still waters. But if I love someone I think it's quite clear how I feel about them. X |
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Much the same as you BG.
I'm usually a totally together emotionally person, but then things happen someone chinks your armour and those little feelings start to grow.
Things are said and seeds planted.
Then you get a massive kick in the cunt and fall to earth.
Or a mutual cunt/ball bashing
Anyway. It happens, people will have their own assumptions of what goes down (fuckers) but just stay true to yourself
Only you and the person involved will know what went down
Chin up sweetness, happens to the best of us.
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I hope you're ok BG.
I'm kind of doing it the other way around right now. I'm used to not being open about feelings and stuff for various reasons but now I'm learning how to be more so. I hope it works. |
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By *olgateMan
over a year ago
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"Not really - I'm wary of getting emotionally involved with anyone and as much as I think I'd like a friend like me I don't think it will happen. "
A friend like me would be a fucking nightmare |
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"Not really - I'm wary of getting emotionally involved with anyone and as much as I think I'd like a friend like me I don't think it will happen.
A friend like me would be a fucking nightmare "
I can't disagree
Besides which, I said "like me". Urbane and sophisticated as fuck. Bleedin' cultured as well, gaffa. |
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By *olgateMan
over a year ago
on the road to nowhere in particular |
"Not really - I'm wary of getting emotionally involved with anyone and as much as I think I'd like a friend like me I don't think it will happen.
A friend like me would be a fucking nightmare
I can't disagree
Besides which, I said "like me". Urbane and sophisticated as fuck. Bleedin' cultured as well, gaffa. "
I'm all of that coupled with style and panache  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. If I'm mad about something. I can't rest until I've said my piece. If I try to keep it in I blow everything else out of proportion and pick fights that don't need to be picked. I make myself look a right twat. So better out than in. If I have a problem you know about it.
However on the flip side I'm very very cagey about my other more delicate emotions. If I like you more than I should I would probably never tell you.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm upfront and honest and tend to tell it how it is. I really wish I could learn how to put a lid on that sometimes. It's always getting me into trouble.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"With me BG I rarely say anything about my feelings..I just prefer to bottle it up and leave it pass..It's just not worth the hassle and problems that follow it xx lol"
Yeah, I've always been like that.
It's so much easier. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry to hear you've had a bad tome of it OP sending cwtches. I definitely always wear mine on my sleeve. I'm trying to be a little less open because I'm often left hurt or disappointed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi BG.
I definitely do not wear my heart on my sleeve. In my time on Fab I developed a serious crush on two guys. I let them sink their hooks deep into my heart. Of course I never told them my true feelings. It all became very confusing and I lost focus. I don't see them anymore but I crave them. I'm glad I never told them how I felt.
If I ever feel like that again, I'll have to give myself a serious talking to! There are only so many shards of heart one can give away.
Stay strong Boldy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always do! I am very open about my feelings, and share them even if it means I risk losing someone for admitting I love them.
Some things just can't be surpressed. Feelings are one of them ...(and farts are another!)
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