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over a year ago
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Some will because they can. Forget about it. Fab can be a cold hard place sometimes.
Stay talking to the ones who talk to you, don't chase the ones who don't want to.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I block if I don't want to meet them. I find if I say I don't want to meet men argue with it and want to know why...
It goes
Me
You're too far....
Them
I can travel
Me
I don't host
Them
Hotel or car
Ect ect.
So then they are blocked.
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It depends on how things are going and what you're saying to each other I think. Without knowing that it's impossible to say why they do it.
There could be loads of reasons including they've changed their minds, you said something they don't like, they aren't who they say they are, something better came along or they did it by accident.
It's frustrating but really what can you do? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I see the OP's point, if you're going to block then why not just say no thanks before you do it, then you're not left wondering. Don't worry about it OP, happens all the time. |
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By *ea_CoffeeCouple
over a year ago
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We block if if A they ask us to caht on KIK or B they ask to add us as a friend before we have met.
Sounds harsh but we do state on our profile that we don't have KIK for this activity and also that due to the bloody pic collectors we only accept friend requests after weve met in real life.
Wish it didn't have to be this way but it what can you do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's fair. It's also after *some* communication: some people block on receipt of a single message. That is, whether it is easier or not, plain rude and ill mannered. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's fair. It's also after *some* communication: some people block on receipt of a single message. That is, whether it is easier or not, plain rude and ill mannered."
Why is it? They don't want further communication from you. Its not personal. I've blocked all women, all couples etc, is that rude? Not really, I don't want to waste their time or them mine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP welcome to fabs where theres 100 guys to 1 girl and 1000 guys messaging that one girl. Out of that 1000 guys messaging her a good 500 say they are genuine, and only a handful actually are. Fabs its a scary place full of weird creatures called men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I block if I don't want to meet them. I find if I say I don't want to meet men argue with it and want to know why...
It goes
Me
You're too far....
Them
I can travel
Me
I don't host
Them
Hotel or car
Ect ect.
So then they are blocked.
XX
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This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they block you, then see it as a positive, you no longer have to waste your valuable time on them and also they are the ones missing out on a gem.
Then when you read in the forums that they have been messed about and had no shows.
They quietly piss yourself laughing.
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Truly cannot understand why people get so upset about being blocked by a stranger who doesn't want sex with them.
Going by the response from *some* men following a polite "no thanks" I can understand why some people block.
It's a site tool...get over it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Truly cannot understand why people get so upset about being blocked by a stranger who doesn't want sex with them.
Going by the response from *some* men following a polite "no thanks" I can understand why some people block.
It's a site tool...get over it!"
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"Had a Fe conversations on here all going well then block can I ask why lol as simple no thanku is better not a stalker lmao x "
You're but one raindrop in an ocean of available guys, and unfortunately someone 'better' appeared on the horizon. Get used to it mate, but don't take it personally |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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i actually think it's rude to block if you've been chatting but also do it myself sometimes if i don't feel comfortable turning the guy down so can understand why others do it.
also, there's often no point in telling a guy you're not interested any more as pretty much every single guy i have told does not accept that and messages again at other times to try and pique my interest again. |
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By *udemattMan
over a year ago
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For me personally, I don't mind and even like it if they block me if I just sent them one message and they hadn't replied.
Having a message sat in my sent box unread is quite frustrating as I don't know if in a few weeks they might decide to go through their mail box and reply.
On the other hand if we had exchanged a couple of messages I think it would at least be nice for them to say sorry but you aren't right for me or you fucked up and now I'm blocking you. |
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Lol I don't take it personally lol at all don't know them just not every guy a knob a no for me is clear sign lol I'm off happy fabbing .
Would never then try to argue lol or hassle .
Love fab and thanks for comments |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not easily offended lol was going really well ah well x
To me a simple no thanks or change of mind ok not into it for emotions lol x"
No offence but it clearly wasn't going well for them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"just easier to block - saves answering all those questions"
Exactly. I block every guy I know I don't want to meet, even ones I've never spoken to. I am just getting bored of receiving messages from people I've no sexual interest in. |
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A good looking girl messaged me the other day and was like "hi I like your pictures you look very smart in your suit and a nice bum"
I blocked her instantly with no reply for two reasons;
1) to experience the power trip and emerge myself in grandiosity with ignorance and,
2) due to her bad grammar missing a colon after pictures and not inserting 'have' before "a nice bum"
I may try to take over a small country with my new found superiority |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A good looking girl messaged me the other day and was like "hi I like your pictures you look very smart in your suit and a nice bum"
I blocked her instantly with no reply for two reasons;
1) to experience the power trip and emerge myself in grandiosity with ignorance and,
2) due to her bad grammar missing a colon after pictures and not inserting 'have' before "a nice bum"
I may try to take over a small country with my new found superiority "
I take it you didn't want to fuck her either then. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I block if I don't want to meet them. I find if I say I don't want to meet men argue with it and want to know why...
It goes
Me
You're too far....
Them
I can travel
Me
I don't host
Them
Hotel or car
Ect ect.
So then they are blocked.
XXX
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exactly this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had a Fe conversations on here all going well then block can I ask why lol as simple no thanku is better not a stalker lmao x "
it depends an awful lot on what you've said I imagine you may see it as innocuous but maybe they didnt  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had a Fe conversations on here all going well then block can I ask why lol as simple no thanku is better not a stalker lmao x it depends an awful lot on what you've said I imagine you may see it as innocuous but maybe they didnt "
You can say anything and they still try to get into a conversation.
Easier to just block. Whatever the process, the outcome is still the same and you're not meeting so who cares. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had a Fe conversations on here all going well then block can I ask why lol as simple no thanku is better not a stalker lmao x it depends an awful lot on what you've said I imagine you may see it as innocuous but maybe they didnt
You can say anything and they still try to get into a conversation.
Easier to just block. Whatever the process, the outcome is still the same and you're not meeting so who cares."
well a little bit harsh I always employ manners and expect that in return ,so many different things you can say to offend though really ,sometimes just peoples brutal honesty is offensive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had a Fe conversations on here all going well then block can I ask why lol as simple no thanku is better not a stalker lmao x it depends an awful lot on what you've said I imagine you may see it as innocuous but maybe they didnt
You can say anything and they still try to get into a conversation.
Easier to just block. Whatever the process, the outcome is still the same and you're not meeting so who cares.well a little bit harsh I always employ manners and expect that in return ,so many different things you can say to offend though really ,sometimes just peoples brutal honesty is offensive "
It's harsh on me having to waste my time telling hundreds of people I'll never meet 'no thanks', for the sake of pandering to someone's ego. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All kinds of reasons why I block
Mother nature gets me moody so I just go crazy and block
Someone's abusive so I block
Someone's blocked me so I counterblock
Someone sent me the same message every 4 weeks and they no the reply they are going to get ..i block
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All kinds of reasons why I block
Mother nature gets me moody so I just go crazy and block
Someone's abusive so I block
Someone's blocked me so I counterblock
Someone sent me the same message every 4 weeks and they no the reply they are going to get ..i block
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Don't underestimate the power of the block button!
Hell, I'm off to block 10 people from my local area now, just cause I can. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had a Fe conversations on here all going well then block can I ask why lol as simple no thanku is better not a stalker lmao x it depends an awful lot on what you've said I imagine you may see it as innocuous but maybe they didnt
You can say anything and they still try to get into a conversation.
Easier to just block. Whatever the process, the outcome is still the same and you're not meeting so who cares.well a little bit harsh I always employ manners and expect that in return ,so many different things you can say to offend though really ,sometimes just peoples brutal honesty is offensive
It's harsh on me having to waste my time telling hundreds of people I'll never meet 'no thanks', for the sake of pandering to someone's ego."
awwww we all have egos ,I think I understand what you mean though its a time thing ,so many messages and not enough time to answer so block or bulk delete ,I kinda think that is brutal though because on the basis of one message you may have lost what could be an ideal person for you and all text messages can be read ambiguously |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All kinds of reasons why I block
Mother nature gets me moody so I just go crazy and block
Someone's abusive so I block
Someone's blocked me so I counterblock
Someone sent me the same message every 4 weeks and they no the reply they are going to get ..i block
Don't underestimate the power of the block button!
Hell, I'm off to block 10 people from my local area now, just cause I can. "
I think I have more people on my block list than I have on my friends and hot list put together  |
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over a year ago
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"Had a Fe conversations on here all going well then block can I ask why lol as simple no thanku is better not a stalker lmao x it depends an awful lot on what you've said I imagine you may see it as innocuous but maybe they didnt
You can say anything and they still try to get into a conversation.
Easier to just block. Whatever the process, the outcome is still the same and you're not meeting so who cares.well a little bit harsh I always employ manners and expect that in return ,so many different things you can say to offend though really ,sometimes just peoples brutal honesty is offensive
It's harsh on me having to waste my time telling hundreds of people I'll never meet 'no thanks', for the sake of pandering to someone's ego.awwww we all have egos ,I think I understand what you mean though its a time thing ,so many messages and not enough time to answer so block or bulk delete ,I kinda think that is brutal though because on the basis of one message you may have lost what could be an ideal person for you and all text messages can be read ambiguously "
No, I don't bulk delete. I block people I don't wish to have sex with, which is 99% of guys in my local area.
If people think this is harsh, I don't really care as either way, me sending out hundreds of 'no thank yous' is not a productive use of my time - and I'm here for my own needs, not someone else's. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All kinds of reasons why I block
Mother nature gets me moody so I just go crazy and block
Someone's abusive so I block
Someone's blocked me so I counterblock
Someone sent me the same message every 4 weeks and they no the reply they are going to get ..i block
Don't underestimate the power of the block button!
Hell, I'm off to block 10 people from my local area now, just cause I can. "
ha oh well its true its easily achieved one click of your finger |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All kinds of reasons why I block
Mother nature gets me moody so I just go crazy and block
Someone's abusive so I block
Someone's blocked me so I counterblock
Someone sent me the same message every 4 weeks and they no the reply they are going to get ..i block
Don't underestimate the power of the block button!
Hell, I'm off to block 10 people from my local area now, just cause I can.
I think I have more people on my block list than I have on my friends and hot list put together "
Me too, I've no friends on here but I must have approaching a thousand blocked guys.
I've just blocked 5x people who've just signed up who only posted dick pics.
I also block any local guys with massive beards, as I'll never meet them either
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had a Fe conversations on here all going well then block can I ask why lol as simple no thanku is better not a stalker lmao x it depends an awful lot on what you've said I imagine you may see it as innocuous but maybe they didnt
You can say anything and they still try to get into a conversation.
Easier to just block. Whatever the process, the outcome is still the same and you're not meeting so who cares.well a little bit harsh I always employ manners and expect that in return ,so many different things you can say to offend though really ,sometimes just peoples brutal honesty is offensive
It's harsh on me having to waste my time telling hundreds of people I'll never meet 'no thanks', for the sake of pandering to someone's ego.awwww we all have egos ,I think I understand what you mean though its a time thing ,so many messages and not enough time to answer so block or bulk delete ,I kinda think that is brutal though because on the basis of one message you may have lost what could be an ideal person for you and all text messages can be read ambiguously
No, I don't bulk delete. I block people I don't wish to have sex with, which is 99% of guys in my local area.
If people think this is harsh, I don't really care as either way, me sending out hundreds of 'no thank yous' is not a productive use of my time - and I'm here for my own needs, not someone else's. "
very true I completely agree and understand that and I imagine as an attractive woman you get many messages all of which couldn't be answered anyways |
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A good looking girl messaged me the other day and was like "hi I like your pictures you look very smart in your suit and a nice bum"
I blocked her instantly with no reply for two reasons;
1) to experience the power trip and emerge myself in grandiosity with ignorance and,
2) due to her bad grammar missing a colon after pictures and not inserting 'have' before "a nice bum"
I may try to take over a small country with my new found superiority
I take it you didn't want to fuck her either then. "
Just wanted to experience that approach for once... I'm not like that I'm a polite courteous bloke |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This made me laugh.
Personally I really do not care if I am blocked or not.
Several women on here tell the guys to suck it up. - No issue there.
Just read a profile of a woman who squealing like a stepped on cat, because someone blocked her. So tempting to say - suck it up bitch. But as It's not in my nature. I'll say nothing.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some will because they can. Forget about it. Fab can be a cold hard place sometimes.
Stay talking to the ones who talk to you, don't chase the ones who don't want to. "
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"This made me laugh.
Personally I really do not care if I am blocked or not.
Several women on here tell the guys to suck it up. - No issue there.
Just read a profile of a woman who squealing like a stepped on cat, because someone blocked her. So tempting to say - suck it up bitch. But as It's not in my nature. I'll say nothing.
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