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What do you say the first time messaging someone?
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over a year ago
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"Curious as to everyone's different techniques  "
I just try and be polite and avoid crudeness.....many on here complain about the hi's and the fancy a f**k or the meet now messages but even when you do send a decent message they still don't reply.
Sometimes it works others times the get deleted with out even reading.....think it's depends on the person you're messaging and what they're looking for.....
That's FAB for you matie.......don't ever try to understand it  |
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I just try and be polite and avoid crudeness.....many on here complain about the hi's and the fancy a f**k or the meet now messages but even when you do send a decent message they still don't reply.
Sometimes it works others times the get deleted with out even reading.....think it's depends on the person you're messaging and what they're looking for.....
That's FAB for you matie.......don't ever try to understand it "
Alas with the ratio of men and women on here you have to understand that most single women's inboxes get flooded with messages from single guys all the time.
There is no way they can respond to all the messages, once they get to a certain many will just block delete.
Dont take it personally after all alot of women have a type / preference that they are after too.
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"Curious as to everyone's different techniques "
I try my best to tailor each message to the content of their profile, if it's a blank profile but I like their pics I'll just say a polite hello and say a little bit about myself. Oh and yes, I always read a profile before sending a message.  |
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I read the profile, workout if we are compatible and tailor an email just for them. Introduce myself, explain a little of what I like and look for. Many of my messages are read and left in the mail box. Replys are few and far between. |
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