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over a year ago
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate?  "
I can accommodate and still lost count of how many times I've been rejected.
Unfortunatly having a house doesn't disguise my ugly mug  |
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? "
what about us single women who have the same problem? it happens to me too
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate?
I can accommodate and still lost count of how many times I've been rejected.
Unfortunatly having a house doesn't disguise my ugly mug "
I see well i been reject since moving back to the Uk 21 years ago due to my looks and being upfront and honest lol  |
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate?
what about us single women who have the same problem? it happens to me too
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pfft, Start your own thread
But I have a feeling if you do it will be more popular then this one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can think of three single men, off the top of my head, who use the forums, all of which cannot accommodate but are still popular on here, because they're willing to make a meet work, such as travelling and helping towards hotel costs, or attending clubs or socials - and I've met the three in question.
A good, positive attitude works wonders on here, regardless of whether you're a single man, a single lady or a couple. Honey gets more flies than vinegar. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate?
I can accommodate and still lost count of how many times I've been rejected.
Unfortunatly having a house doesn't disguise my ugly mug I see well i been reject since moving back to the Uk 21 years ago due to my looks and being upfront and honest lol "
OP have you never been to a social? or a club...clubs are great for those who cant accommodate ....try giving it a go  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can think of three single men, off the top of my head, who use the forums, all of which cannot accommodate but are still popular on here, because they're willing to make a meet work, such as travelling and helping towards hotel costs, or attending clubs or socials - and I've met the three in question.
A good, positive attitude works wonders on here, regardless of whether you're a single man, a single lady or a couple. Honey gets more flies than vinegar."
That's only because she never washes...
I'm so dead  |
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate?
I can accommodate and still lost count of how many times I've been rejected.
Unfortunatly having a house doesn't disguise my ugly mug I see well i been reject since moving back to the Uk 21 years ago due to my looks and being upfront and honest lol
OP have you never been to a social? or a club...clubs are great for those who cant accommodate ....try giving it a go "
Yes! You could join the long line of men following the women around! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? "
presumably,in most cases, it would be clear from their profile criteria in the first place that they were looking for someone who could accom..most messages i get are from people who can't,despite what my profile says.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because I can't accommodate, nah, I don't think so. For plenty of other reasons though I'm sure.
If you want to meet one another you'll figure out a way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can think of three single men, off the top of my head, who use the forums, all of which cannot accommodate but are still popular on here, because they're willing to make a meet work, such as travelling and helping towards hotel costs, or attending clubs or socials - and I've met the three in question.
A good, positive attitude works wonders on here, regardless of whether you're a single man, a single lady or a couple. Honey gets more flies than vinegar.
That's only because she never washes...
I'm so dead "
You big meanie pants!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate?
I can accommodate and still lost count of how many times I've been rejected.
Unfortunatly having a house doesn't disguise my ugly mug I see well i been reject since moving back to the Uk 21 years ago due to my looks and being upfront and honest lol
OP have you never been to a social? or a club...clubs are great for those who cant accommodate ....try giving it a go
Yes! You could join the long line of men following the women around! "
so he should try an organised social then....meet people that way first..
but posting endless threads about isn't getting him anywhere |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It seems to be more my looks that get me rejected. Annoying, because most people say im good looking when they see me in the flesh. Guess I just dont take a good pic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think many single men get rejected for being single to be fair...
I think it's the 'can't accom' bit as a lot will assume that's because you're either spoken for/living with parents/live in a place of satanic worship? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's a bit pointless one member who can't accommodate messaging another who can't either to be honest. Unless both parties profiles say up for car or outdoor sex. It's quite likely men messaging such females have not read the females profile and are rejected as much for that as not being able to accommodate. XXX |
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate?
I can accommodate and still lost count of how many times I've been rejected.
Unfortunatly having a house doesn't disguise my ugly mug "
Same here mate  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can think of three single men, off the top of my head, who use the forums, all of which cannot accommodate but are still popular on here, because they're willing to make a meet work, such as travelling and helping towards hotel costs, or attending clubs or socials - and I've met the three in question.
A good, positive attitude works wonders on here, regardless of whether you're a single man, a single lady or a couple. Honey gets more flies than vinegar.
That's only because she never washes...
I'm so dead
You big meanie pants! "
It's been nice knowing you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? "
ha hey no good getting frustrated about it accept its gonna happen and move on |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate?
I can accommodate and still lost count of how many times I've been rejected.
Unfortunatly having a house doesn't disguise my ugly mug I see well i been reject since moving back to the Uk 21 years ago due to my looks and being upfront and honest lol
OP have you never been to a social? or a club...clubs are great for those who cant accommodate ....try giving it a go
Yes! You could join the long line of men following the women around!
so he should try an organised social then....meet people that way first..
but posting endless threads about isn't getting him anywhere"
But where's the fun in that? He is in his happy place when he can moan and blame others |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a bit pointless one member who can't accommodate messaging another who can't either to be honest. Unless both parties profiles say up for car or outdoor sex. It's quite likely men messaging such females have not read the females profile and are rejected as much for that as not being able to accommodate. XXX"
Or book a hotel for the weekend. |
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"I don't think many single men get rejected for being single to be fair...
I think it's the 'can't accom' bit as a lot will assume that's because you're either spoken for/living with parents/live in a place of satanic worship?"
And to be brutally honest, some single men will be rejected for looks.
There.
Said it!
People have fun with others they find attractive and that is just the way it is.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a bit pointless one member who can't accommodate messaging another who can't either to be honest. Unless both parties profiles say up for car or outdoor sex. It's quite likely men messaging such females have not read the females profile and are rejected as much for that as not being able to accommodate. XXX
Or book a hotel for the weekend."
why would anyone get rejected because of accommodation hotels and guest houses in abundance in this country at very reasonable rates also facilitates those who like to remain private |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? "
Loads but as I say on my profile there are other places to meet such as clubs or happy to pay for a hotel......but if that's not good enough then I won't lose any sleep by not meeting them
Couples can be different as most only seem to want to swap....so being single is a draw back for them.
Most say they cannot accommodate for a reason usually kids so maybe before rejecting a single because he cannot accommodate they should ask why not......if the guy is a nice guy should it matter if it's a club, house or hotel? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate?
what about us single women who have the same problem? it happens to me too
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Don't believe you.......I would reject you for that reason  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah it can be strange , hell I can accommodate but even still will have to deal with no shows etc. Women and couples moan about single guys, but they are equally guilty of doing this |
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate?
I can accommodate and still lost count of how many times I've been rejected.
Unfortunatly having a house doesn't disguise my ugly mug I see well i been reject since moving back to the Uk 21 years ago due to my looks and being upfront and honest lol "
so are you saying you've not been with a woman for 21 years? |
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate?
I can accommodate and still lost count of how many times I've been rejected.
Unfortunatly having a house doesn't disguise my ugly mug I see well i been reject since moving back to the Uk 21 years ago due to my looks and being upfront and honest lol "
What have you been upfront and honest about that has caused you to be rejected? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have no idea. It's extremely rare to even be told I'm being turned down, usually a message just gets deleted without a reply. Even when I do get told, I'm rarely given a reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate?
what about us single women who have the same problem? it happens to me too
Don't believe you.......I would reject you for that reason "
I would have discounted you in the first instance though...so the rejection would have been ok |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate?
I can accommodate and still lost count of how many times I've been rejected.
Unfortunatly having a house doesn't disguise my ugly mug I see well i been reject since moving back to the Uk 21 years ago due to my looks and being upfront and honest lol
OP have you never been to a social? or a club...clubs are great for those who cant accommodate ....try giving it a go "
I have try it for a while without any lucky due to my looks and shyness |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate?
I can accommodate and still lost count of how many times I've been rejected.
Unfortunatly having a house doesn't disguise my ugly mug I see well i been reject since moving back to the Uk 21 years ago due to my looks and being upfront and honest lol
OP have you never been to a social? or a club...clubs are great for those who cant accommodate ....try giving it a go I have try it for a while without any lucky due to my looks and shyness"
you have been to clubs already? |
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Rejection is part and parcel not just on here but regular dating online sites.
Plus dont assume just that your a single and able to accommodate that you can hook up with any woman after one or two messages... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate?
I can accommodate and still lost count of how many times I've been rejected.
Unfortunatly having a house doesn't disguise my ugly mug I see well i been reject since moving back to the Uk 21 years ago due to my looks and being upfront and honest lol
OP have you never been to a social? or a club...clubs are great for those who cant accommodate ....try giving it a go I have try it for a while without any lucky due to my looks and shyness
you have been to clubs already? "
yes i try that for 9 years before joining here due to a guy and a couple telling to try this site..  |
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"Never because I can accommodate and I shave my legs and being a bloke wearing a frock has worked wonders for my success rate...
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Yeah I want frock back get your own, most annoying you look better in it than I do  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate?
I can accommodate and still lost count of how many times I've been rejected.
Unfortunatly having a house doesn't disguise my ugly mug I see well i been reject since moving back to the Uk 21 years ago due to my looks and being upfront and honest lol
OP have you never been to a social? or a club...clubs are great for those who cant accommodate ....try giving it a go I have try it for a while without any lucky due to my looks and shyness
you have been to clubs already? yes i try that for 9 years before joining here due to a guy and a couple telling to try this site.. "
So your last club visit was 9 years ago?
The environment is probably vastly different now, so I'd suggest you give it another whirl. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think many single men get rejected for being single to be fair...
I think it's the 'can't accom' bit as a lot will assume that's because you're either spoken for/living with parents/live in a place of satanic worship?
And to be brutally honest, some single men will be rejected for looks.
There.
Said it!
People have fun with others they find attractive and that is just the way it is.
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...and constant whining but never taking the advice you ask for isn't very attractive either.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate?
what about us single women who have the same problem? it happens to me too
Don't believe you.......I would reject you for that reason
I would have discounted you in the first instance though...so the rejection would have been ok "
Bigger mistype....sorry...I meant I WOULDNT reject you for that reason  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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That's a difficult question to answer, no reason is given for rejection on most occasions so how do we know if it's because we are single men etc, it may be because I am unattractive or just not their type. Who knows, who cares even, I tend to concentrate on those that don't reject me rather than those that do. |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate?
I can accommodate and still lost count of how many times I've been rejected.
Unfortunatly having a house doesn't disguise my ugly mug I see well i been reject since moving back to the Uk 21 years ago due to my looks and being upfront and honest lol
OP have you never been to a social? or a club...clubs are great for those who cant accommodate ....try giving it a go I have try it for a while without any lucky due to my looks and shyness"
You've already done an amazing job on your looks! Now we need to crack your shyness... |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? "
It's been months since I've played at home. I think I might have to change my profile to "cannot accommodate"...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate?
I can accommodate and still lost count of how many times I've been rejected.
Unfortunatly having a house doesn't disguise my ugly mug I see well i been reject since moving back to the Uk 21 years ago due to my looks and being upfront and honest lol
OP have you never been to a social? or a club...clubs are great for those who cant accommodate ....try giving it a go I have try it for a while without any lucky due to my looks and shyness
You've already done an amazing job on your looks! Now we need to crack your shyness... "
Thanks for the complement but it seem you got to be Mr prefect on here lol. When I was going to social or a club I was 6 stone ten pound heavier which I am slowly changing still got to lose more and maybe think of having cosmetic surgery done to once I’ve hit my target to hide my knife wounds are more but I only posted this as friendly banter but I apologise for posting this forum.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate?
I can accommodate and still lost count of how many times I've been rejected.
Unfortunatly having a house doesn't disguise my ugly mug I see well i been reject since moving back to the Uk 21 years ago due to my looks and being upfront and honest lol
OP have you never been to a social? or a club...clubs are great for those who cant accommodate ....try giving it a go I have try it for a while without any lucky due to my looks and shyness
You've already done an amazing job on your looks! Now we need to crack your shyness... Thanks for the complement but it seem you got to be Mr prefect on here lol. When I was going to social or a club I was 6 stone ten pound heavier which I am slowly changing still got to lose more and maybe think of having cosmetic surgery done to once I’ve hit my target to hide my knife wounds are more but I only posted this as friendly banter but I apologise for posting this forum.. "
never apologise OP
but tbh it's never friendly banter, there is always a theme.. you have been given oodles of advice yet you consistently ignore it and post another thread instead...
if you don't want to try a club have a look for the organised socials and get your name down for one
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate?
I can accommodate and still lost count of how many times I've been rejected.
Unfortunatly having a house doesn't disguise my ugly mug I see well i been reject since moving back to the Uk 21 years ago due to my looks and being upfront and honest lol
OP have you never been to a social? or a club...clubs are great for those who cant accommodate ....try giving it a go I have try it for a while without any lucky due to my looks and shyness
You've already done an amazing job on your looks! Now we need to crack your shyness... Thanks for the complement but it seem you got to be Mr prefect on here lol. When I was going to social or a club I was 6 stone ten pound heavier which I am slowly changing still got to lose more and maybe think of having cosmetic surgery done to once I’ve hit my target to hide my knife wounds are more but I only posted this as friendly banter but I apologise for posting this forum..
never apologise OP
but tbh it's never friendly banter, there is always a theme.. you have been given oodles of advice yet you consistently ignore it and post another thread instead...
if you don't want to try a club have a look for the organised socials and get your name down for one
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i see i do not remember people give it so i am sorry but thanks sexy PS I DO NOT KNOW HOW TO ORGANISED A SOCIAL I DID POST A MEET BEFORE WHICH DID NOT WORK IF I HAD A WING MAN MAYBE I BE LUCK LOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate?
I can accommodate and still lost count of how many times I've been rejected.
Unfortunatly having a house doesn't disguise my ugly mug I see well i been reject since moving back to the Uk 21 years ago due to my looks and being upfront and honest lol
OP have you never been to a social? or a club...clubs are great for those who cant accommodate ....try giving it a go I have try it for a while without any lucky due to my looks and shyness
You've already done an amazing job on your looks! Now we need to crack your shyness... Thanks for the complement but it seem you got to be Mr prefect on here lol. When I was going to social or a club I was 6 stone ten pound heavier which I am slowly changing still got to lose more and maybe think of having cosmetic surgery done to once I’ve hit my target to hide my knife wounds are more but I only posted this as friendly banter but I apologise for posting this forum..
never apologise OP
but tbh it's never friendly banter, there is always a theme.. you have been given oodles of advice yet you consistently ignore it and post another thread instead...
if you don't want to try a club have a look for the organised socials and get your name down for one
i see i do not remember people give it so i am sorry but thanks sexy PS I DO NOT KNOW HOW TO ORGANISED A SOCIAL I DID POST A MEET BEFORE WHICH DID NOT WORK IF I HAD A WING MAN MAYBE I BE LUCK LOL"
I didn't say you should organise a social...I said you should look for an organised social ...one that someone else has organised...and get your name down...only you can make it happen, you don't need a wing man to go to a pub and meet other people |
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate?
I can accommodate and still lost count of how many times I've been rejected.
Unfortunatly having a house doesn't disguise my ugly mug I see well i been reject since moving back to the Uk 21 years ago due to my looks and being upfront and honest lol
OP have you never been to a social? or a club...clubs are great for those who cant accommodate ....try giving it a go I have try it for a while without any lucky due to my looks and shyness
You've already done an amazing job on your looks! Now we need to crack your shyness... Thanks for the complement but it seem you got to be Mr prefect on here lol. When I was going to social or a club I was 6 stone ten pound heavier which I am slowly changing still got to lose more and maybe think of having cosmetic surgery done to once I’ve hit my target to hide my knife wounds are more but I only posted this as friendly banter but I apologise for posting this forum..
never apologise OP
but tbh it's never friendly banter, there is always a theme.. you have been given oodles of advice yet you consistently ignore it and post another thread instead...
if you don't want to try a club have a look for the organised socials and get your name down for one
i see i do not remember people give it so i am sorry but thanks sexy PS I DO NOT KNOW HOW TO ORGANISED A SOCIAL I DID POST A MEET BEFORE WHICH DID NOT WORK IF I HAD A WING MAN MAYBE I BE LUCK LOL
I didn't say you should organise a social...I said you should look for an organised social ...one that someone else has organised...and get your name down...only you can make it happen, you don't need a wing man to go to a pub and meet other people "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Bloody hell man, all you do is continually put up obstacles for yourself.
Unless you communicate in a series of grunts and growls, then I imagine you can get a conversation across.
The only thing stopping you is yourself. A wingman won't be able to pull a woman on your behalf. Just take the plunge and put yourself out there. |
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"Bloody hell man, all you do is continually put up obstacles for yourself.
Unless you communicate in a series of grunts and growls, then I imagine you can get a conversation across.
The only thing stopping you is yourself. A wingman won't be able to pull a woman on your behalf. Just take the plunge and put yourself out there. "
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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people get rejected when they have nothing to offer the person they are approaching.
simple as that, so yes if you can't accom and the person needs you to do that of course they're gonna reject.
guys need to focus on what they do have to offer that women are looking for and if they have nothing at all after thinking about that then maybe accept they just shouldn't be looking for women.
might be harsh advice but not all men are going to have success. some men can if they focus more on what they do have to offer instead of focusing on what they cannot. and some never will.
i find it hard to accept some men will never have success as there's a wide variety of women out here looking for all sorts of things in men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a bit pointless one member who can't accommodate messaging another who can't either to be honest. Unless both parties profiles say up for car or outdoor sex. It's quite likely men messaging such females have not read the females profile and are rejected as much for that as not being able to accommodate. XXX
Or book a hotel for the weekend.why would anyone get rejected because of accommodation hotels and guest houses in abundance in this country at very reasonable rates also facilitates those who like to remain private "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Bloody hell man, all you do is continually put up obstacles for yourself.
Unless you communicate in a series of grunts and growls, then I imagine you can get a conversation across.
The only thing stopping you is yourself. A wingman won't be able to pull a woman on your behalf. Just take the plunge and put yourself out there. "
Completely agree.
All OP does is complain about how hard it is to get meets/ make friends/ etc.
Yet he has excuses for every suggestion that is ever made to him. It's getting tedious.
Last week his status read 'not posting anymore pics due to no one liking them ' Since then he's posted 10's more of them
He asked me how to stop getting on people's nerves. Well that is certainly one way!
Sorry for rant , and I understand that everyone has the right to use the site as they wish. However some people aren't prepared to help themselves. |
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over a year ago
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate?
I can accommodate and still lost count of how many times I've been rejected.
Unfortunatly having a house doesn't disguise my ugly mug I see well i been reject since moving back to the Uk 21 years ago due to my looks and being upfront and honest lol
OP have you never been to a social? or a club...clubs are great for those who cant accommodate ....try giving it a go I have try it for a while without any lucky due to my looks and shyness
You've already done an amazing job on your looks! Now we need to crack your shyness... Thanks for the complement but it seem you got to be Mr prefect on here lol. When I was going to social or a club I was 6 stone ten pound heavier which I am slowly changing still got to lose more and maybe think of having cosmetic surgery done to once I’ve hit my target to hide my knife wounds are more but I only posted this as friendly banter but I apologise for posting this forum..
never apologise OP
but tbh it's never friendly banter, there is always a theme.. you have been given oodles of advice yet you consistently ignore it and post another thread instead...
if you don't want to try a club have a look for the organised socials and get your name down for one
i see i do not remember people give it so i am sorry but thanks sexy PS I DO NOT KNOW HOW TO ORGANISED A SOCIAL I DID POST A MEET BEFORE WHICH DID NOT WORK IF I HAD A WING MAN MAYBE I BE LUCK LOL
I didn't say you should organise a social...I said you should look for an organised social ...one that someone else has organised...and get your name down...only you can make it happen, you don't need a wing man to go to a pub and meet other people i do because no one understand me due to my accent "
Bollocks!
You are perfectly able to communicate verbally! I don't think you actually want to meet! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate?
I can accommodate and still lost count of how many times I've been rejected.
Unfortunatly having a house doesn't disguise my ugly mug I see well i been reject since moving back to the Uk 21 years ago due to my looks and being upfront and honest lol
OP have you never been to a social? or a club...clubs are great for those who cant accommodate ....try giving it a go I have try it for a while without any lucky due to my looks and shyness
You've already done an amazing job on your looks! Now we need to crack your shyness... Thanks for the complement but it seem you got to be Mr prefect on here lol. When I was going to social or a club I was 6 stone ten pound heavier which I am slowly changing still got to lose more and maybe think of having cosmetic surgery done to once I’ve hit my target to hide my knife wounds are more but I only posted this as friendly banter but I apologise for posting this forum..
never apologise OP
but tbh it's never friendly banter, there is always a theme.. you have been given oodles of advice yet you consistently ignore it and post another thread instead...
if you don't want to try a club have a look for the organised socials and get your name down for one
i see i do not remember people give it so i am sorry but thanks sexy PS I DO NOT KNOW HOW TO ORGANISED A SOCIAL I DID POST A MEET BEFORE WHICH DID NOT WORK IF I HAD A WING MAN MAYBE I BE LUCK LOL
I didn't say you should organise a social...I said you should look for an organised social ...one that someone else has organised...and get your name down...only you can make it happen, you don't need a wing man to go to a pub and meet other people i do because no one understand me due to my accent "
are you seriously trying to say that no-one can understand you in everyday life because you have a SA accent? |
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You don't know for sure the reason why you have been rejected is your looks or lack of accommodation or shyness or having an accent or wearing a Wookiee mask.
You could easily go to a social as there is a kind lady on Fab who organises them. Type in 'Chester Social' into the forum topic search box and make an effort and go.
I'd be assuming that if you choose not to then I'll make my own assumptions.
May the Force be with you. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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if you don't want to try a club have a look for the organised socials and get your name down for one
i see i do not remember people give it so i am sorry but thanks sexy PS I DO NOT KNOW HOW TO ORGANISED A SOCIAL I DID POST A MEET BEFORE WHICH DID NOT WORK IF I HAD A WING MAN MAYBE I BE LUCK LOL
I didn't say you should organise a social...I said you should look for an organised social ...one that someone else has organised...and get your name down...only you can make it happen, you don't need a wing man to go to a pub and meet other people i do because no one understand me due to my accent "
Bloody hell man, you have every bloody excuse in the book to call upon when needed
So many people have tried to help you and you just don't listen, maybe it is time to just knock it on the head and give up and delete your profile, otherwise the next step is you'll want someone to shag the person on your behalf, because that will just be easier for you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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if you don't want to try a club have a look for the organised socials and get your name down for one
i see i do not remember people give it so i am sorry but thanks sexy PS I DO NOT KNOW HOW TO ORGANISED A SOCIAL I DID POST A MEET BEFORE WHICH DID NOT WORK IF I HAD A WING MAN MAYBE I BE LUCK LOL
I didn't say you should organise a social...I said you should look for an organised social ...one that someone else has organised...and get your name down...only you can make it happen, you don't need a wing man to go to a pub and meet other people i do because no one understand me due to my accent
Bloody hell man, you have every bloody excuse in the book to call upon when needed
So many people have tried to help you and you just don't listen, maybe it is time to just knock it on the head and give up and delete your profile, otherwise the next step is you'll want someone to shag the person on your behalf, because that will just be easier for you "
I'll do that, I'll pick a proper hotty as well. |
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It's being in the right place at the right time on here in my opinion. There are so many guys on here you have to work incredibly hard. My last meet off here was 2 years ago. I have t really bothered much since then with the site but still.
A lot of the women on here are also on here to meet other women. A lot of the couples on here want women to join them not men. On here women are free to meet other women and not get judged like they would if they were in their local pub. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd like to shag a lady on his behalf as well. I'd be a cool wing man.
Squadron Leader Steve "
I feel like shagging him just to shut him up. . . ..and I'm not even into men |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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if you don't want to try a club have a look for the organised socials and get your name down for one
i see i do not remember people give it so i am sorry but thanks sexy PS I DO NOT KNOW HOW TO ORGANISED A SOCIAL I DID POST A MEET BEFORE WHICH DID NOT WORK IF I HAD A WING MAN MAYBE I BE LUCK LOL
I didn't say you should organise a social...I said you should look for an organised social ...one that someone else has organised...and get your name down...only you can make it happen, you don't need a wing man to go to a pub and meet other people i do because no one understand me due to my accent
Bloody hell man, you have every bloody excuse in the book to call upon when needed
So many people have tried to help you and you just don't listen, maybe it is time to just knock it on the head and give up and delete your profile, otherwise the next step is you'll want someone to shag the person on your behalf, because that will just be easier for you
I'll do that, I'll pick a proper hotty as well. "
Fuck at my rate of success this year so far, I might even put myself forward for wingman and I'm straight  |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"I'd like to shag a lady on his behalf as well. I'd be a cool wing man.
Squadron Leader Steve
I feel like shagging him just to shut him up. . . ..and I'm not even into men "
hope you got your filters on, or maybe it'll be funny to get all those pity fuck messages, not sure. |
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"I'd like to shag a lady on his behalf as well. I'd be a cool wing man.
Squadron Leader Steve
I feel like shagging him just to shut him up. . . ..and I'm not even into men
hope you got your filters on, or maybe it'll be funny to get all those pity fuck messages, not sure."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate?
I can accommodate and still lost count of how many times I've been rejected.
Unfortunatly having a house doesn't disguise my ugly mug "
I can testify this last line is a lie |
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? "
Been rejected far to many times to remember but usually "because I'm not there type"
Don't over analyse it, it's there choice just accept and move on |
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"I'd like to shag a lady on his behalf as well. I'd be a cool wing man.
Squadron Leader Steve
I feel like shagging him just to shut him up. . . ..and I'm not even into men "
awwwww a sympathy shag |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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if you don't want to try a club have a look for the organised socials and get your name down for one
i see i do not remember people give it so i am sorry but thanks sexy PS I DO NOT KNOW HOW TO ORGANISED A SOCIAL I DID POST A MEET BEFORE WHICH DID NOT WORK IF I HAD A WING MAN MAYBE I BE LUCK LOL
I didn't say you should organise a social...I said you should look for an organised social ...one that someone else has organised...and get your name down...only you can make it happen, you don't need a wing man to go to a pub and meet other people i do because no one understand me due to my accent
Bloody hell man, you have every bloody excuse in the book to call upon when needed
So many people have tried to help you and you just don't listen, maybe it is time to just knock it on the head and give up and delete your profile, otherwise the next step is you'll want someone to shag the person on your behalf, because that will just be easier for you
I'll do that, I'll pick a proper hotty as well.
Fuck at my rate of success this year so far, I might even put myself forward for wingman and I'm straight "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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if you don't want to try a club have a look for the organised socials and get your name down for one
i see i do not remember people give it so i am sorry but thanks sexy PS I DO NOT KNOW HOW TO ORGANISED A SOCIAL I DID POST A MEET BEFORE WHICH DID NOT WORK IF I HAD A WING MAN MAYBE I BE LUCK LOL
I didn't say you should organise a social...I said you should look for an organised social ...one that someone else has organised...and get your name down...only you can make it happen, you don't need a wing man to go to a pub and meet other people i do because no one understand me due to my accent
Bloody hell man, you have every bloody excuse in the book to call upon when needed
So many people have tried to help you and you just don't listen, maybe it is time to just knock it on the head and give up and delete your profile, otherwise the next step is you'll want someone to shag the person on your behalf, because that will just be easier for you
I'll do that, I'll pick a proper hotty as well. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'd like to shag a lady on his behalf as well. I'd be a cool wing man.
Squadron Leader Steve
I feel like shagging him just to shut him up. . . ..and I'm not even into men "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is for all the single men only how many times have you been rejected because you are single and cannot accommodate? "
I'm single and can accom.... but it's easier to get blood out a stone |
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