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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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What's in the air,recently I seem to be getting a fair few message's from men asking me to own them or to own me. I'm fairly sure my rather sparse profile doesn't suggest I'm into owning anyone.
Are there many people into being 'owned'? I don't even know exactly what's involved to be honest,maybe I would like it!  |
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over a year ago
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Someone can own me if they want.
I come as second hand goods and sold as seen with no returns. I'm starting to show my age a bit to be honest and definitely showing signs of wear and tear and a bit rusty, and I'll probably end up unused and stored at the back of the kitchen cupboards along with the sandwich toastie maker and the George Foreman grill  |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Someone can own me if they want.
I come as second hand goods and sold as seen with no returns. I'm starting to show my age a bit to be honest and definitely showing signs of wear and tear and a bit rusty, and I'll probably end up unused and stored at the back of the kitchen cupboards along with the sandwich toastie maker and the George Foreman grill "
and don't forget all those microwave containers we don't use  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get asked about 3 or 4 times a week if I want to own them."
Same here and all by people I'm not looking for...as profile.
I wonder how long they want to be owned for....more then likely until they have to be home for the wife.  |
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"I get asked about 3 or 4 times a week if I want to own them.
I can understand that with your profile,but not mine!"
You would get to control who they meet. You would set the meets up. In the meantime,give them a scrubbing brush and bucket and get them cleaning the driveway. They may soon change their minds. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I Am only going to comment from my own prospective. I have owned sub females in the past but only after I long discussion and an element of trust and understanding of her needs and desires. Of course she has to understand me too.
For me it is the most amazing part of Dom sub relationships and does not have to be sexual. It is about knowing she trust me so much that she can Tel me her deepest darkest desires and I will not judge, but also I am committed to caring for her mentally and physically. Plus more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure about being owned but I get asked a lot if they can be my slave...
No idea about that either 
Handy if you have housework that needs doing..."
Ahh that's true...
Or a pile of ironing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes there are. Hubby and I are in an M/s relationship and consider me his property. Happy to provide more info but not willing to throw myself to the lions if I'm just going to be mocked. |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
Onestepoutofthedoor |
"They probably just misinterpreted your profile title OP 
"Woman looking for man for permanent possession""
Oh right that's a good point oops,I've only recently changed that  That's not what I meant |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
Onestepoutofthedoor |
"They probably just misinterpreted your profile title OP
"Woman looking for man for permanent possession"
Oh right that's a good point oops,I've only recently changed that That's not what I meant "
Changed it now  |
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"I Am only going to comment from my own prospective. I have owned sub females in the past but only after I long discussion and an element of trust and understanding of her needs and desires. Of course she has to understand me too.
For me it is the most amazing part of Dom sub relationships and does not have to be sexual. It is about knowing she trust me so much that she can Tel me her deepest darkest desires and I will not judge, but also I am committed to caring for her mentally and physically. Plus more. "
Nail hit on the head  |
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By *kmanMan
over a year ago
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"I get asked about 3 or 4 times a week if I want to own them.
I can understand that with your profile,but not mine!
You would get to control who they meet. You would set the meets up. In the meantime,give them a scrubbing brush and bucket and get them cleaning the driveway. They may soon change their minds."
I am very good at hovering  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes there are. Hubby and I are in an M/s relationship and consider me his property. Happy to provide more info but not willing to throw myself to the lions if I'm just going to be mocked. "
I would hope you wound not get mocked as you are in a working relationship.
Maybe you could give some insight to those who want to be owned and I think your comments should be treated as such |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
Onestepoutofthedoor |
"I Am only going to comment from my own prospective. I have owned sub females in the past but only after I long discussion and an element of trust and understanding of her needs and desires. Of course she has to understand me too.
For me it is the most amazing part of Dom sub relationships and does not have to be sexual. It is about knowing she trust me so much that she can Tel me her deepest darkest desires and I will not judge, but also I am committed to caring for her mentally and physically. Plus more. "
You sound like you know what you're talking about,I'm sure there's lot's of men out there though that like to think they know what's involved. Suppose it's just finding the right person,how you do that I don't know though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get asked about 3 or 4 times a week if I want to own them.
I can understand that with your profile,but not mine!
You would get to control who they meet. You would set the meets up. In the meantime,give them a scrubbing brush and bucket and get them cleaning the driveway. They may soon change their minds.
I am very good at hovering "
How does that work then? |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
Onestepoutofthedoor |
"Yes there are. Hubby and I are in an M/s relationship and consider me his property. Happy to provide more info but not willing to throw myself to the lions if I'm just going to be mocked.
I would hope you wound not get mocked as you are in a working relationship.
Maybe you could give some insight to those who want to be owned and I think your comments should be treated as such "
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If the dog collar fits 
Did they all have variations of Grey and Shades in their usernames?
There are too many porn addicts who've joined up not having a clue what swinging is
Just direct then to particular fetish sites |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest ignite, men see your profile and your amazing body and probably try any angle to get with you.
50 and looking stunning, keep up the good work. |
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"Someone can own me if they want.
I come as second hand goods and sold as seen with no returns. I'm starting to show my age a bit to be honest and definitely showing signs of wear and tear and a bit rusty, and I'll probably end up unused and stored at the back of the kitchen cupboards along with the sandwich toastie maker and the George Foreman grill "
You sound like you need kissing to the ground, that'll take 10 years off you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OK then... Yes we did meet on a well known Fetish website about five years ago. He was experienced, I was not but curious and eager to learn about kink and D/s having spent nearly a decade celibate. We met, we clicked and the M/s relationship between us developed naturally. It basically means for us that he's in charge here, and that doesn't just mean when it comes to kinky sex or bedroom stuff, life stuff too. Including opening our relationship when I very much considered myself monogamous. So yeah I'm his property. His wife, his whore, the love of his life and committed to doing as he says. It's worked well for nearly five years and I'm not nearly so naive as I was.
Oh and yes there's a lot of hot kinky play too. He's a sadist and I'm a masochist and we play hard. I'm also discovering my own sadistic side with my girlfriend.
Not really sure what else to say. |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
Onestepoutofthedoor |
"If the dog collar fits
Did they all have variations of Grey and Shades in their usernames?
There are too many porn addicts who've joined up not having a clue what swinging is
Just direct then to particular fetish sites "
See that's my thing,I can't say I know hugely what it's about although people have explained for me now thankyou,but I do worry if I was to put my trust in someone they'd just fuck with my head and not in a good way! |
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By *gnitemybody OP Woman
over a year ago
Onestepoutofthedoor |
"OK then... Yes we did meet on a well known Fetish website about five years ago. He was experienced, I was not but curious and eager to learn about kink and D/s having spent nearly a decade celibate. We met, we clicked and the M/s relationship between us developed naturally. It basically means for us that he's in charge here, and that doesn't just mean when it comes to kinky sex or bedroom stuff, life stuff too. Including opening our relationship when I very much considered myself monogamous. So yeah I'm his property. His wife, his whore, the love of his life and committed to doing as he says. It's worked well for nearly five years and I'm not nearly so naive as I was.
Oh and yes there's a lot of hot kinky play too. He's a sadist and I'm a masochist and we play hard. I'm also discovering my own sadistic side with my girlfriend.
Not really sure what else to say. "
Thankyou for that! What if you didn't want to do something he said how does that work? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OK then... Yes we did meet on a well known Fetish website about five years ago. He was experienced, I was not but curious and eager to learn about kink and D/s having spent nearly a decade celibate. We met, we clicked and the M/s relationship between us developed naturally. It basically means for us that he's in charge here, and that doesn't just mean when it comes to kinky sex or bedroom stuff, life stuff too. Including opening our relationship when I very much considered myself monogamous. So yeah I'm his property. His wife, his whore, the love of his life and committed to doing as he says. It's worked well for nearly five years and I'm not nearly so naive as I was.
Oh and yes there's a lot of hot kinky play too. He's a sadist and I'm a masochist and we play hard. I'm also discovering my own sadistic side with my girlfriend.
Not really sure what else to say. "
Beautiful and amazing when it works. All about communication. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are owned and can only be with one person, doesn't that mean it's just a standard relationship?"
Being owned does not mean you are restricted to one person probably the opposite. Doms encourage their partners sexual desires and needs and want to see then enjoy what ever they like to do.
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"If the dog collar fits
Did they all have variations of Grey and Shades in their usernames?
There are too many porn addicts who've joined up not having a clue what swinging is
Just direct then to particular fetish sites "
They would run for cover if they went on those sites. Most(but not all) haven't got a clue about the lifestyle. Instead on dipping their toes into the waters,they want to dive in from one of the highest board. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you are owned and can only be with one person, doesn't that mean it's just a standard relationship?
Being owned does not mean you are restricted to one person probably the opposite. Doms encourage their partners sexual desires and needs and want to see then enjoy what ever they like to do.
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Got ya. Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OK then... Yes we did meet on a well known Fetish website about five years ago. He was experienced, I was not but curious and eager to learn about kink and D/s having spent nearly a decade celibate. We met, we clicked and the M/s relationship between us developed naturally. It basically means for us that he's in charge here, and that doesn't just mean when it comes to kinky sex or bedroom stuff, life stuff too. Including opening our relationship when I very much considered myself monogamous. So yeah I'm his property. His wife, his whore, the love of his life and committed to doing as he says. It's worked well for nearly five years and I'm not nearly so naive as I was.
Oh and yes there's a lot of hot kinky play too. He's a sadist and I'm a masochist and we play hard. I'm also discovering my own sadistic side with my girlfriend.
Not really sure what else to say. "
I have a question. Do you think you can ever have a vanilla relationship again or how important is BDSM to you now? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OK then... Yes we did meet on a well known Fetish website about five years ago. He was experienced, I was not but curious and eager to learn about kink and D/s having spent nearly a decade celibate. We met, we clicked and the M/s relationship between us developed naturally. It basically means for us that he's in charge here, and that doesn't just mean when it comes to kinky sex or bedroom stuff, life stuff too. Including opening our relationship when I very much considered myself monogamous. So yeah I'm his property. His wife, his whore, the love of his life and committed to doing as he says. It's worked well for nearly five years and I'm not nearly so naive as I was.
Oh and yes there's a lot of hot kinky play too. He's a sadist and I'm a masochist and we play hard. I'm also discovering my own sadistic side with my girlfriend.
Not really sure what else to say. "
Thanks for that....all I can say is only reply to any comments your comfortable with |
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