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By *ot40s OP Couple
over a year ago
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How do you prefer men to dress for a meet ?
Shirt and trousers and nice shoes or shirt and jeans
The smart kind obviously i.e. No rips !
Just a debate I need settling so come on hell me out
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over a year ago
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In his clothes that he feels good in, only caveating by depending on what we are doing and if there's a reason that clothing should be influenced by the place/activity.
On the whole for a social I would be going to a café/pub and we would likely be in jeans/t-shirt type clothing. |
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By *ot40s OP Couple
over a year ago
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"In his clothes that he feels good in, only caveating by depending on what we are doing and if there's a reason that clothing should be influenced by the place/activity.
On the whole for a social I would be going to a café/pub and we would likely be in jeans/t-shirt type clothing. "
Thanks E I knew you would help me out !
We are going to a club later and he wants to wear smart jeans and shirt but I prefer shirt and trousers I thought ladies preferred a nice shirt and trousers
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By *ot40s OP Couple
over a year ago
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It doesn't really matter too much normally as we go to chams where you dress down but this week we are trying xstasia wher people tend to stay dressed so I thought nice and smart
And yes the shirt will be tight fitting !! X |
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"In his clothes that he feels good in, only caveating by depending on what we are doing and if there's a reason that clothing should be influenced by the place/activity.
On the whole for a social I would be going to a café/pub and we would likely be in jeans/t-shirt type clothing.
Thanks E I knew you would help me out !
We are going to a club later and he wants to wear smart jeans and shirt but I prefer shirt and trousers I thought ladies preferred a nice shirt and trousers
X"
To be honest I'm not a shirt and trousers girl at all! I am much more comfortable myself if the chap is in jeans/more chilled in attire but that's just me. I do appreciate that if we were going somewhere more formal it may be required to be different though. But with a club surely both are permissible, it's merely what he prefers or you prefer and then agreeing together! I guess it depends on who wears the trousers/jeans in your relationship as to who wins?!  |
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over a year ago
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I wouldn't want to meet anyone who had expectations about how I should or shouldn't dress. And I would never wear trousers shirt amd shoes to a meet.
I dress fir me and what I feel comfortable. I'm not scriffy but if someone turns their nose up ar me in jeans and a tshirt then its just another filter |
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"I wouldn't want to meet anyone who had expectations about how I should or shouldn't dress. And I would never wear trousers shirt amd shoes to a meet.
I dress fir me and what I feel comfortable. I'm not scriffy but if someone turns their nose up ar me in jeans and a tshirt then its just another filter"
Agree 100%. We are both casual (I dress up a bit more
Than Mr ...jeans, lol). I do specify this to anyone we meet in advance so if they expect/need more, they have the option to bow out beforehand rather than judge us for how we choose to dress.
Personally, I think a man looks best when he's wearing what he feels good in.
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I don't really care what people wear to a meet.
I do like to know if there is something out meet would like me to wear, though. If he/she likes short dresses with hold ups, or if they'd prefer tights, or jeans, or a corset. It turns me on, but I'm not bothered about what they want to wear. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't really care what people wear to a meet.
I do like to know if there is something out meet would like me to wear, though. If he/she likes short dresses with hold ups, or if they'd prefer tights, or jeans, or a corset. It turns me on, but I'm not bothered about what they want to wear. "
It's not often you post on here Marc but I'm glad you did on here   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't really care what people wear to a meet.
I do like to know if there is something out meet would like me to wear, though. If he/she likes short dresses with hold ups, or if they'd prefer tights, or jeans, or a corset. It turns me on, but I'm not bothered about what they want to wear.
It's not often you post on here Marc but I'm glad you did on here "
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By *ot40s OP Couple
over a year ago
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Ouch !! I'm not some kind of dragon so I don't mean to across as some bossy cow telling her man what to wear because he appreciates my input but ultimately he will wear and look mighty good whatever he chooses
I just want to look like we've made an effort
Thank you for all your input it's really appreciated  |
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