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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"Seriously just be yourself and don't be rude or crude. If you struggle to even introduce yourself do you think your going to be ok face to face?
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This completely - try just introducing yourself, telling the person you're writing to a little bit about you, what attracted you to their profile, why you think you'd be a good match, that kind of thing
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By *ild_oatsMan
over a year ago
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Just be yourself and be polite ....
There is no magic formula...
What you say will not appeal to everyone.
And make sure you read and fully understand their profiles..
Or you could just spam every woman on this site with "Fancy a f**k"... You may eventually get lucky but I doubt it...
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By (user no longer on site)
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Pssst. I'm going to let you into a secret but promise we'll keep it between us, right? Our little secret!
Ok. The ladies on here are, on the whole, normal everyday people. So talk to them like you would a normal everyday person on any other social media platform or in person. Talk respectfully and politely. Be yourself. Don't fire off a crude sexually explicit intro message on much the same way you wouldn't go up to a strange lady in a supermarket and tell them all the detailed sexually explicit things you'd like to do with them!
And don't send a cock pic immediately either (unless the profile explicitly asks you to!) - if you apply the 'how would I approach a lady in public' rule to the way you approach them in here, you'll be fine and hopefully the conversations will flow!
Good luck my friend! I hope you find what you're looking for |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Pssst. I'm going to let you into a secret but promise we'll keep it between us, right? Our little secret!
Ok. The ladies on here are, on the whole, normal everyday people. So talk to them like you would a normal everyday person on any other social media platform or in person. Talk respectfully and politely. Be yourself. Don't fire off a crude sexually explicit intro message on much the same way you wouldn't go up to a strange lady in a supermarket and tell them all the detailed sexually explicit things you'd like to do with them!
And don't send a cock pic immediately either (unless the profile explicitly asks you to!) - if you apply the 'how would I approach a lady in public' rule to the way you approach them in here, you'll be fine and hopefully the conversations will flow!
Good luck my friend! I hope you find what you're looking for "
u are so write |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Treat this site as you would meeting someone in a wine bar, pub or club. Be respectful but also be interesting.
Women gets hundreds of messages a day. A simple "hi" probably will get overlooked.
Everyone else on this thread has summed it up.
If you're looking to talk to women note that most women on here are smart, intelligent and very witty and will probably like a bit of substance to their message |
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By *ild_oatsMan
over a year ago
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On the topic of what to write...
Before hastily sending off a message it is always a good idea to pause for a bit and reread it before sending.
As often you can see what has been written the first time makes no sense...
Well it does when I write and I always take time to review and rephrase and correct where required...
But maybe that's just me...
Good luck...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"On the topic of what to write...
Before hastily sending off a message it is always a good idea to pause for a bit and reread it before sending.
As often you can see what has been written the first time makes no sense...
Well it does when I write and I always take time to review and rephrase and correct where required...
But maybe that's just me...
Good luck...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a dyslexic myself it might be worth knowing the difference between write and right....
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And breaking and bracking. .....I'm not the spelling police btw  |
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