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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all just wondering if you can have too many verts , I have had a,few ladies say I have met too many people ref my verts and would not meet up although we got on well and been chatting for a while , so my question to you can you have too many verys on your profile or should I reduce what I show .....thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None and they think your fake (im generising i know)
Show your verifications and your judged my them.
Show your summery and you have lots, your judged again.
You can't win op, just try and find a good balance your happy with. If you need a nice round number, try 42. I like that number.  |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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Youve had 17 since 2011.
Quite frankly anyone saying thats too many you shouldn't worry about meeting. They aren't worth your time. In all honesty if you had met 17 this year alone why should anyone think that's too many. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They are your veris mate so put as many as you want on. Personally I don't see how there could possibly too many. But everyones preferences is different, you won't be able to appeal to everyone |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"Who gives a fuck what people think. They are your veris, if someone is going to judge you on the words of others or the opinion of someone else then maybe don't meet them. "
Spot on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It does make me wonder if the people who say someone has too many have set themselves a quota. 3 a year maybe, and shut up shop when they hit their target.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe Fabs should change it to "proof that you are real" then??
Isn't that what a Veri is??
Or are you seeing them as trophies put on display for all to see??
Badges of honour lol"
look at me look at me!!! okai honestly for me I am put off by lots, cam meets or otherwise, so ive never met men with lots, each to their own etc |
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My veri bug is when someone goes Unlos and you lose the veri but the it stays on the summary.... Then when the person comes back on a new profile and asks you to re-verify them, and they insist on re-verifying you in return. 3 of the veris on my summary are from a guy I met once 2 years ago for coffee because of this, 2 more from another guy for the same reason and I've 2 veris each from 2 couples I've met socially also who came back... that's 5 more veris than I should have  |
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"Can I just ask why lots of veris put you off?"
Don't think that question was for me, but it's not really needed!!!
We all know what we are here for.....less is more sometimes.
A bit like cock or pussy pics, don't see the need on a profile .
But that's just our opinion
M and M |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can I just ask why lots of veris put you off?
Don't think that question was for me, but it's not really needed!!!
We all know what we are here for.....less is more sometimes.
A bit like cock or pussy pics, don't see the need on a profile .
But that's just our opinion
M and M"
What's not really needed? The question? I was just asking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can I just ask why lots of veris put you off?
Don't think that question was for me, but it's not really needed!!!
We all know what we are here for.....less is more sometimes.
A bit like cock or pussy pics, don't see the need on a profile .
But that's just our opinion
M and M
What's not really needed? The question? I was just asking"
Oh, the veris, sorry, I'm full of snot and very tired  |
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"Can I just ask why lots of veris put you off?
Don't think that question was for me, but it's not really needed!!!
We all know what we are here for.....less is more sometimes.
A bit like cock or pussy pics, don't see the need on a profile .
But that's just our opinion
M and M
The need to show all the veris
What's not really needed? The question? I was just asking"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can I just ask why lots of veris put you off?
Don't think that question was for me, but it's not really needed!!!
We all know what we are here for.....less is more sometimes.
A bit like cock or pussy pics, don't see the need on a profile .
But that's just our opinion
M and M
The need to show all the veris
What's not really needed? The question? I was just asking"
Kind of get what you mean. But from what I've seen, they all pretty much say the same and you don't have to read them, on the mobile site you have click a button to show them and on the full site there all the way at the bottom. I don't know, just find it odd that it puts people off when you don't have to look them.
But like you said, each to their own  |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Maybe Fabs should change it to "proof that you are real" then??
Isn't that what a Veri is??
Or are you seeing them as trophies put on display for all to see??
Badges of honour lol
look at me look at me!!! okai honestly for me I am put off by lots, cam meets or otherwise, so ive never met men with lots, each to their own etc"
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"Can I just ask why lots of veris put you off?
Don't think that question was for me, but it's not really needed!!!
We all know what we are here for.....less is more sometimes.
A bit like cock or pussy pics, don't see the need on a profile .
But that's just our opinion
M and M
The need to show all the veris
What's not really needed? The question? I was just asking
Kind of get what you mean. But from what I've seen, they all pretty much say the same and you don't have to read them, on the mobile site you have click a button to show them and on the full site there all the way at the bottom. I don't know, just find it odd that it puts people off when you don't have to look them.
But like you said, each to their own "
As a female if I was to post numerous encounters....would you want to go near!!!!
Rest my case
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can I just ask why lots of veris put you off?
Don't think that question was for me, but it's not really needed!!!
We all know what we are here for.....less is more sometimes.
A bit like cock or pussy pics, don't see the need on a profile .
But that's just our opinion
M and M
The need to show all the veris
What's not really needed? The question? I was just asking
Kind of get what you mean. But from what I've seen, they all pretty much say the same and you don't have to read them, on the mobile site you have click a button to show them and on the full site there all the way at the bottom. I don't know, just find it odd that it puts people off when you don't have to look them.
But like you said, each to their own
As a female if I was to post numerous encounters....would you want to go near!!!!
Rest my case
Mx"
Nail on the head there I've
None and being Male I feel as if it's the opposite so now after reading this who cares I don't.. Each to their own and if u want loads great no problem
It's up to you who you meet.. |
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"Can I just ask why lots of veris put you off?
Don't think that question was for me, but it's not really needed!!!
We all know what we are here for.....less is more sometimes.
A bit like cock or pussy pics, don't see the need on a profile .
But that's just our opinion
M and M
The need to show all the veris
What's not really needed? The question? I was just asking
Kind of get what you mean. But from what I've seen, they all pretty much say the same and you don't have to read them, on the mobile site you have click a button to show them and on the full site there all the way at the bottom. I don't know, just find it odd that it puts people off when you don't have to look them.
But like you said, each to their own
As a female if I was to post numerous encounters....would you want to go near!!!!
Rest my case
Mx
Nail on the head there I've
None and being Male I feel as if it's the opposite so now after reading this who cares I don't.. Each to their own and if u want loads great no problem
It's up to you who you meet.."
My point exactly, don't see the need to advertise, it is what it is
Night all M xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can I just ask why lots of veris put you off?
Don't think that question was for me, but it's not really needed!!!
We all know what we are here for.....less is more sometimes.
A bit like cock or pussy pics, don't see the need on a profile .
But that's just our opinion
M and M
The need to show all the veris
What's not really needed? The question? I was just asking
Kind of get what you mean. But from what I've seen, they all pretty much say the same and you don't have to read them, on the mobile site you have click a button to show them and on the full site there all the way at the bottom. I don't know, just find it odd that it puts people off when you don't have to look them.
But like you said, each to their own
As a female if I was to post numerous encounters....would you want to go near!!!!
Rest my case
Mx"
Wouldn't bother me. I meet people for who they are and not who they've met. ive only got one meet veri but how do you know I've not slept with hundreds of prostitutes? Veris dont reflect a persons sexual encounters accurately. Hence, why they don't bother me
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That's 2/3 shags a year! I know people who are out every weekend and have 2 a weekend! Just cos they're not advertising it doesn't make them less active or a fabber more active.
Yes it's up to a potential meet if they like/dislike but they need to be realistic, the people saying this how many veris they got? How many different people they sleep with a year?
Very few single people are shagging less than 3 times a year! |
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If folk think other folk have too many veris, perhaps they are on the wrong site.....fab "SWINGERS", the clue's in the fucking name, it's not fab "exclusive life partners" or fab "manogamers"....wassup wiv people? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That's 2/3 shags a year! I know people who are out every weekend and have 2 a weekend! Just cos they're not advertising it doesn't make them less active or a fabber more active.
Yes it's up to a potential meet if they like/dislike but they need to be realistic, the people saying this how many veris they got? How many different people they sleep with a year?
Very few single people are shagging less than 3 times a year! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What puts me off is the repeated veris by the same person, that makes me wary, it's like they are stamping their claim over a person, I don't want to be involved with the fall out from that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can I just ask why lots of veris put you off?"
I'll answer this... I said too many puts me off but I won't say how many that is. Could be 5, could be 500.
I like private people. Simple as that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If we don't display veris and that then puts you off then that's your loss.
It works both ways you see.
We swing rather than feel the need to display it, that's all we are saying."
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"Can I just ask why lots of veris put you off?
I'll answer this... I said too many puts me off but I won't say how many that is. Could be 5, could be 500.
I like private people. Simple as that. "
so are you more inclined to wet someone who hides their veris? I'm curious, because I start to lean towards private people as those that have something to hide. Not always I know. But knowledge is power is it not? |
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"Can I just ask why lots of veris put you off?
I'll answer this... I said too many puts me off but I won't say how many that is. Could be 5, could be 500.
I like private people. Simple as that.
so are you more inclined to wet someone who hides their veris? I'm curious, because I start to lean towards private people as those that have something to hide. Not always I know. But knowledge is power is it not? "
Real swingers can be Private people it's just today most on here seem to think lets shout about it like being on Facebook.
We don't do either nor will we because a group of small minded people on here say so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can I just ask why lots of veris put you off?
I'll answer this... I said too many puts me off but I won't say how many that is. Could be 5, could be 500.
I like private people. Simple as that.
so are you more inclined to wet someone who hides their veris? I'm curious, because I start to lean towards private people as those that have something to hide. Not always I know. But knowledge is power is it not? "
I prefer people that are private yes. Showing 30 verifications doesn't mean they aren't hiding something. What would they be hiding? They may have 20 bareback gangbangs every week on a different profile. Or all their 30 verifications may be social and they are a virgin. That's cool. I just don't want to meet them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can I just ask why lots of veris put you off?
I'll answer this... I said too many puts me off but I won't say how many that is. Could be 5, could be 500.
I like private people. Simple as that.
so are you more inclined to wet someone who hides their veris? I'm curious, because I start to lean towards private people as those that have something to hide. Not always I know. But knowledge is power is it not?
Real swingers can be Private people it's just today most on here seem to think lets shout about it like being on Facebook.
We don't do either nor will we because a group of small minded people on here say so."
Please, I'm not small minded. It was a serious question.
Would you prefer to meet someone who hides all their veris or someone who clearly shows 100 of the last people he/she had met.
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I'm not put off by how many someone has I'm put off by how some of them write them mind.
Most of mine are from people I haven't even had sex with, some are from people who have left then came back, some from people who felt the need to write more then one, the trouble is people see a number and that's it they don't bother to actually read them all or at least a few to see what the story actually is.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can I just ask why lots of veris put you off?
I'll answer this... I said too many puts me off but I won't say how many that is. Could be 5, could be 500.
I like private people. Simple as that.
so are you more inclined to wet someone who hides their veris? I'm curious, because I start to lean towards private people as those that have something to hide. Not always I know. But knowledge is power is it not?
I prefer people that are private yes. Showing 30 verifications doesn't mean they aren't hiding something. What would they be hiding? They may have 20 bareback gangbangs every week on a different profile. Or all their 30 verifications may be social and they are a virgin. That's cool. I just don't want to meet them. "
That's kind of my point. Just judging someone on the verifications you see or don't see is only taking things as face value. Your well within your rights though, as we all are. |
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"Can I just ask why lots of veris put you off?
I'll answer this... I said too many puts me off but I won't say how many that is. Could be 5, could be 500.
I like private people. Simple as that.
so are you more inclined to wet someone who hides their veris? I'm curious, because I start to lean towards private people as those that have something to hide. Not always I know. But knowledge is power is it not?
I prefer people that are private yes. Showing 30 verifications doesn't mean they aren't hiding something. What would they be hiding? They may have 20 bareback gangbangs every week on a different profile. Or all their 30 verifications may be social and they are a virgin. That's cool. I just don't want to meet them.
That's kind of my point. Just judging someone on the verifications you see or don't see is only taking things as face value. Your well within your rights though, as we all are. "
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"Can I just ask why lots of veris put you off?
I'll answer this... I said too many puts me off but I won't say how many that is. Could be 5, could be 500.
I like private people. Simple as that.
so are you more inclined to wet someone who hides their veris? I'm curious, because I start to lean towards private people as those that have something to hide. Not always I know. But knowledge is power is it not?
Real swingers can be Private people it's just today most on here seem to think lets shout about it like being on Facebook.
We don't do either nor will we because a group of small minded people on here say so.
Please, I'm not small minded. It was a serious question.
Would you prefer to meet someone who hides all their veris or someone who clearly shows 100 of the last people he/she had met.
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We look at many things, veris are there to confirm who they are to us, that's how we see it.
If they have loads then they won't be for us along with other things, even down to how they are in the forums (elitist etc) never going near as they won't be our kind of people ( bit like golfers) |
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"Can I just ask why lots of veris put you off?
I'll answer this... I said too many puts me off but I won't say how many that is. Could be 5, could be 500.
I like private people. Simple as that.
so are you more inclined to wet someone who hides their veris? I'm curious, because I start to lean towards private people as those that have something to hide. Not always I know. But knowledge is power is it not?
Real swingers can be Private people it's just today most on here seem to think lets shout about it like being on Facebook.
We don't do either nor will we because a group of small minded people on here say so.
Please, I'm not small minded. It was a serious question.
Would you prefer to meet someone who hides all their veris or someone who clearly shows 100 of the last people he/she had met.
We look at many things, veris are there to confirm who they are to us, that's how we see it.
If they have loads then they won't be for us along with other things, even down to how they are in the forums (elitist etc) never going near as they won't be our kind of people ( bit like golfers)"
fair enough. Just curious to hear your side. At the end of the day it's our own profiles and we can all display what we like. There is no wrong answers in this game |
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"Can I just ask why lots of veris put you off?
I'll answer this... I said too many puts me off but I won't say how many that is. Could be 5, could be 500.
I like private people. Simple as that.
so are you more inclined to wet someone who hides their veris? I'm curious, because I start to lean towards private people as those that have something to hide. Not always I know. But knowledge is power is it not?
Real swingers can be Private people it's just today most on here seem to think lets shout about it like being on Facebook.
We don't do either nor will we because a group of small minded people on here say so.
Please, I'm not small minded. It was a serious question.
Would you prefer to meet someone who hides all their veris or someone who clearly shows 100 of the last people he/she had met.
We look at many things, veris are there to confirm who they are to us, that's how we see it.
If they have loads then they won't be for us along with other things, even down to how they are in the forums (elitist etc) never going near as they won't be our kind of people ( bit like golfers)
fair enough. Just curious to hear your side. At the end of the day it's our own profiles and we can all display what we like. There is no wrong answers in this game "
Absolutely. I do get get veri curious how people view them. I chose to show a couple because that's exactly what I'd like to see. But that's me. We're all going to do things differently. I'm just gutted as I'm a golfer.  .
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"Can I just ask why lots of veris put you off?
I'll answer this... I said too many puts me off but I won't say how many that is. Could be 5, could be 500.
I like private people. Simple as that.
so are you more inclined to wet someone who hides their veris? I'm curious, because I start to lean towards private people as those that have something to hide. Not always I know. But knowledge is power is it not?
Real swingers can be Private people it's just today most on here seem to think lets shout about it like being on Facebook.
We don't do either nor will we because a group of small minded people on here say so.
Please, I'm not small minded. It was a serious question.
Would you prefer to meet someone who hides all their veris or someone who clearly shows 100 of the last people he/she had met.
We look at many things, veris are there to confirm who they are to us, that's how we see it.
If they have loads then they won't be for us along with other things, even down to how they are in the forums (elitist etc) never going near as they won't be our kind of people ( bit like golfers)
fair enough. Just curious to hear your side. At the end of the day it's our own profiles and we can all display what we like. There is no wrong answers in this game
Absolutely. I do get get veri curious how people view them. I chose to show a couple because that's exactly what I'd like to see. But that's me. We're all going to do things differently. I'm just gutted as I'm a golfer. .
I don't know what an elitist is? "
Think I may take up golf very soon
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"If folk think other folk have too many veris, perhaps they are on the wrong site.....fab "SWINGERS", the clue's in the fucking name, it's not fab "exclusive life partners" or fab "manogamers"....wassup wiv people?"
This . Yes, it's peoples prerogative who they choose to meet but I do find the veris thing a bit strange...
I've seen someone say they won't meet one of the guys in this thread because he's a prolific swinger! Wtf. So because he swings you won't meet him but you are on a swinging site?
One woman saying if she showed loads of veris men wouldn't want to meet her? Again what? Sorry, I thought I was your first meet... Ever.
Guys, if someone's had multiple partners and it offends you, you are seriously on the wrong site. Most likely one of the fantasists who don't actually swing, just like the thought of it.
The only pov that I slightly agree with, and only slightly is the multiple veris from one person - basically like they've marked you and they "follow you" on the site, commenting on the same posts etc... Listen, if you meet the same person regularly that's fine... A fuck buddy. But 1 or 2 veris is sufficient.
To all those genuine fabbers out there who love all types of fuckery, carry on. So long as safe sex applies, I'm always in this game! |
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"That's 2/3 shags a year! I know people who are out every weekend and have 2 a weekend! Just cos they're not advertising it doesn't make them less active or a fabber more active.
Yes it's up to a potential meet if they like/dislike but they need to be realistic, the people saying this how many veris they got? How many different people they sleep with a year?
Very few single people are shagging less than 3 times a year! "
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"Can I just ask why lots of veris put you off?
I'll answer this... I said too many puts me off but I won't say how many that is. Could be 5, could be 500.
I like private people. Simple as that.
so are you more inclined to wet someone who hides their veris? I'm curious, because I start to lean towards private people as those that have something to hide. Not always I know. But knowledge is power is it not?
Real swingers can be Private people it's just today most on here seem to think lets shout about it like being on Facebook.
We don't do either nor will we because a group of small minded people on here say so.
Please, I'm not small minded. It was a serious question.
Would you prefer to meet someone who hides all their veris or someone who clearly shows 100 of the last people he/she had met.
We look at many things, veris are there to confirm who they are to us, that's how we see it.
If they have loads then they won't be for us along with other things, even down to how they are in the forums (elitist etc) never going near as they won't be our kind of people ( bit like golfers)
fair enough. Just curious to hear your side. At the end of the day it's our own profiles and we can all display what we like. There is no wrong answers in this game
Absolutely. I do get get veri curious how people view them. I chose to show a couple because that's exactly what I'd like to see. But that's me. We're all going to do things differently. I'm just gutted as I'm a golfer. .
I don't know what an elitist is?
Think I may take up golf very soon
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Only women let it be known that they have a problem with the amount of veris I have and the men that left them...apparently if they have met me it means they have no standards...the opinions of people I don't know don't matter to me, they can think what they want to, it won't change me  |
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"Can I just ask why lots of veris put you off?
I'll answer this... I said too many puts me off but I won't say how many that is. Could be 5, could be 500.
I like private people. Simple as that.
so are you more inclined to wet someone who hides their veris? I'm curious, because I start to lean towards private people as those that have something to hide. Not always I know. But knowledge is power is it not?
Real swingers can be Private people it's just today most on here seem to think lets shout about it like being on Facebook.
We don't do either nor will we because a group of small minded people on here say so.
Please, I'm not small minded. It was a serious question.
Would you prefer to meet someone who hides all their veris or someone who clearly shows 100 of the last people he/she had met.
We look at many things, veris are there to confirm who they are to us, that's how we see it.
If they have loads then they won't be for us along with other things, even down to how they are in the forums (elitist etc) never going near as they won't be our kind of people ( bit like golfers)
fair enough. Just curious to hear your side. At the end of the day it's our own profiles and we can all display what we like. There is no wrong answers in this game "
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