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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there any woman like my profile if not do u have any tips
Just one pointer here from a guy.
The open Arse pic is, in my opinion, a tad too much sir.
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Maybe he is 'fab-straight' 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No no no .. no ass pics .. you opening your ass? seriously lol
Your grammar and wording needs to be improved as it doesnt make sense. Put some nice classy pics on there not in your face pics  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why did I look!? 
OP some serious advice.
Look at your pictures and decide if you think they are flattering or not?
I'm going to be honest from my a mature opinion they're pretty crude
Think about poses (just look at any boudoir photography site), think about your face and what you want to convey with it
Finally think about the back ground and any filters/effects that you could apply.
While your pictures are certainly representative of you (and you shouldn't try to have misleading pictures) but they could certainly be improved to be more appealing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there any woman like my profile if not do u have any tips
Just one pointer here from a guy.
The open Arse pic is, in my opinion, a tad too much sir.
Maybe he is 'fab-straight'
- Mrs. J -"
Or maybe he is bi-curious. As his profile says |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi Steve,
My recommendations would be:
You're obviously happy to have your face on display as per your avatar yet your few public pics aren't of face -- I think on the whole I prefer to see someone's face (if they're happy to display) than gratuitous shots. So a few more smiley pics would be nice, clothes or unclothed. And make the avatar pic public.
If you like to have more gratuitous shots public that's entirely your call, but maybe think about the background of the pic? You've one with a pile of washing, empty bottle, bowl of something etc -- choose a tidy or unbusy environment to take your pic in, it's far more enticing.
Re profile text, you're asking for someone to "show you a good time", sounds a bit all take -- what are you "showing them"?
You've also got spelling mistakes in the text one of which actually negates what you're trying to say.
I think it smacks a little unnecessary to say you're the nicest person someone could ever meet. A little extreme!
Write more about you, show your personality in your profile -- have a read of the profiles of some of the regular male forum posters and see how different personalities shine through.
Good luck, and welcome. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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Agree with all the above, regarding the pics. Some nice clothed pics would be better, I think. Also write about what you would like from a meet and what you can contribute to that meet. Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there any woman like my profile if not do u have any tips
Just one pointer here from a guy.
The open Arse pic is, in my opinion, a tad too much sir.
Maybe he is 'fab-straight'
- Mrs. J -
Or maybe he is bi-curious. As his profile says "
I will never understand why people think us bi men want to see thier hairy hoop
Seriously even most gay guys I know do not find the hairy man hole an attractive feature. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there any woman like my profile if not do u have any tips
Just one pointer here from a guy.
The open Arse pic is, in my opinion, a tad too much sir.
Maybe he is 'fab-straight'
- Mrs. J -
Or maybe he is bi-curious. As his profile says "
Oh is he? That explains the 2nd photograph
In that case OP, keep the 2nd photograph as is; am sure some guys will be interested
- Mrs. J - |
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"Is there any woman like my profile if not do u have any tips
Just one pointer here from a guy.
The open Arse pic is, in my opinion, a tad too much sir.
Maybe he is 'fab-straight'
- Mrs. J -"
Lol Mrs J
I'm sure he probably knows that his profile pics haven't been chosen very well.
I'm stunned that all you ladies are not clambering over each other to offer your strap on services to the OP.
Shocking ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there any woman like my profile if not do u have any tips
Just one pointer here from a guy.
The open Arse pic is, in my opinion, a tad too much sir.
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This comment started me on a roll of tears of laughter and I never even looked..actually as read more...i just couldnt stop laughing.
I know everyone is offering good advise here on the ops question but i cant be the only one whos laughed at above comment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP -- I see you've made pics private and now gone offline... you have been brave in seeking help and I know critical feedback can sting. Don't take it personally, have a think and take on board the advice and be you. You're as welcome as everyone here. Be well.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP -- I see you've made pics private and now gone offline... you have been brave in seeking help and I know critical feedback can sting. Don't take it personally, have a think and take on board the advice and be you. You're as welcome as everyone here. Be well. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP -- I see you've made pics private and now gone offline... you have been brave in seeking help and I know critical feedback can sting. Don't take it personally, have a think and take on board the advice and be you. You're as welcome as everyone here. Be well. "
Thats nice of you to take time to write that...hope he sees it
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"Is there any woman like my profile if not do u have any tips
Just one pointer here from a guy.
The open Arse pic is, in my opinion, a tad too much sir.
This comment started me on a roll of tears of laughter and I never even looked..actually as read more...i just couldnt stop laughing.
I know everyone is offering good advise here on the ops question but i cant be the only one whos laughed at above comment "
I'm hoping the OP has gone offline and hidden pics as he is in the process of updating it all.
We all deserve out place on Fab and I sincerely don't think.I'm anything special or above anyone else.
For all I know this man could be a sexual dynamo and an orgasm machine for ladies.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't look at this as a porn site, where you have to constantly think and talk about sex, or be explicit.
Look at it as you may make friends who you might have sex with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I suggest you go and spend a bit of time looking at some of the single men who have lots of meet verifications, and see what they're doing that's getting them meets.
Your 'update' still tells everyone pretty much nothing. |
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"I hope my update is better if not what else"
"i am the nicies person u will ever meet and give me a chance"
Still smacks of desperation and not the type of thing that is actually selling yourself. What can you provide to a potential meet, what are you looking for?
The ladies on here don't do sympathy shags, you have to stand out from the crowd. Tell people a bit about yourself and inject a bit of personality and humour into your profile text |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP -- I see you've made pics private and now gone offline... you have been brave in seeking help and I know critical feedback can sting. Don't take it personally, have a think and take on board the advice and be you. You're as welcome as everyone here. Be well. "
This is why you're awesome!
OP, welcome and have fun! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OK your grammar shouldn't be of concern. It could be improved however if other factors cause your to spell the way you do then make no apologies and keep your own unique style of writing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ps it takes courage and guts to describe yourself as a fat man. That's a strong point of yours. There is many men on here who wouldn't be so honest about weight and describe themselves as, 'athletic'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am shocked to see your only 25.
I thought you were late 30s early 40s.
If you're just going to have one full on face pic, maybe a fresh shave and beaming smile might be a better option |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am shocked to see your only 25.
I thought you were late 30s early 40s.
If you're just going to have one full on face pic, maybe a fresh shave and beaming smile might be a better option "
Blimey... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"U are so wright im fat and proud i have lost 6st in a year i should be proud
Well done Steven thanks and i have not finished
Good for you, hope you achieve your goal. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hope everyone likes my profile now thank you to everyone"
The important thing is Steve, is that you like your profile. You can't please everyone so just be yourself |
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"Don't look at this as a porn site, where you have to constantly think and talk about sex, or be explicit.
Look at it as you may make friends who you might have sex with "
Username checks out Good advice |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wowser, that pic takes 10 years off you, I would happily have a pint with you now, before you seemed to be on a downer.
I guess positive things happen to positive people"
thanks man i fill 10 years younger i just hope the woman on here like |
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"Wowser, that pic takes 10 years off you, I would happily have a pint with you now, before you seemed to be on a downer.
I guess positive things happen to positive people thanks man i fill 10 years younger i just hope the woman on here like "
That's the spirit, now the key is like yourself and don't give a damn about what others think about you. It's hard to do and I assure you we all have imperfections we tend to worry about. Don't waste your time on them, own them, that type of self confidence is irresistible |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wowser, that pic takes 10 years off you, I would happily have a pint with you now, before you seemed to be on a downer.
I guess positive things happen to positive people thanks man i fill 10 years younger i just hope the woman on here like
That's the spirit, now the key is like yourself and don't give a damn about what others think about you. It's hard to do and I assure you we all have imperfections we tend to worry about. Don't waste your time on them, own them, that type of self confidence is irresistible "
Great thread OP. Good luck. |
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