What's your opinion on them being used before sex or during oral ?
Has a bad experience put you off ?
You've never/don't really enjoy it ?
Love it or take it or leave it ?
2 of the last 3 vanilla Women I was with didn't like fingers used on them and said previous Men had been to rough, But the 3rd loved it especially while I was sucking on her tits, The force of her cumming made my finger slip out,
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Love being fingered and fisted occasionally and I've had bad experiences previously through men trying their utmost to make me squirt 
I don't squirt just doesn't happen but orgasm while being fingered my man bloody loves it  |
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" What's your opinion on them being used before sex or during oral ?
Has a bad experience put you off ?
You've never/don't really enjoy it ?
Love it or take it or leave it ?
2 of the last 3 vanilla Women I was with didn't like fingers used on them and said previous Men had been to rough, But the 3rd loved it especially while I was sucking on her tits, The force of her cumming made my finger slip out,
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Dude, fingers and hands essential part of foreplay (!!) |
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"I guess this highlights the importance of communication. Very different responses from different women. What may have worked last time may not next time. "
Reading her body language or listening out for that moan or ouch helps but communication is a must when doing anything sexual |
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" What's your opinion on them being used before sex or during oral ?
Has a bad experience put you off ?
You've never/don't really enjoy it ?
Love it or take it or leave it ?
2 of the last 3 vanilla Women I was with didn't like fingers used on them and said previous Men had been to rough, But the 3rd loved it especially while I was sucking on her tits, The force of her cumming made my finger slip out,
A status update prompted the question
Dude, fingers and hands essential part of foreplay (!!)"
Not every Woman enjoys having fingers inserted in them |
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"I guess this highlights the importance of communication. Very different responses from different women. What may have worked last time may not next time.
Reading her body language or listening out for that moan or ouch helps but communication is a must when doing anything sexual "
Wise words....  |
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" What's your opinion on them being used before sex or during oral ?
Has a bad experience put you off ?
You've never/don't really enjoy it ?
Love it or take it or leave it ?
2 of the last 3 vanilla Women I was with didn't like fingers used on them and said previous Men had been to rough, But the 3rd loved it especially while I was sucking on her tits, The force of her cumming made my finger slip out,
A status update prompted the question
Dude, fingers and hands essential part of foreplay (!!)
Not every Woman enjoys having fingers inserted in them "
Not certain I suggested they did? |
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" What's your opinion on them being used before sex or during oral ?
Has a bad experience put you off ?
You've never/don't really enjoy it ?
Love it or take it or leave it ?
2 of the last 3 vanilla Women I was with didn't like fingers used on them and said previous Men had been to rough, But the 3rd loved it especially while I was sucking on her tits, The force of her cumming made my finger slip out,
A status update prompted the question
Dude, fingers and hands essential part of foreplay (!!)
Not every Woman enjoys having fingers inserted in them
Not certain I suggested they did? "
But I'll leave this to the ladies
Realise your question was aimed at them
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" What's your opinion on them being used before sex or during oral ?
Has a bad experience put you off ?
You've never/don't really enjoy it ?
Love it or take it or leave it ?
2 of the last 3 vanilla Women I was with didn't like fingers used on them and said previous Men had been to rough, But the 3rd loved it especially while I was sucking on her tits, The force of her cumming made my finger slip out,
A status update prompted the question
Dude, fingers and hands essential part of foreplay (!!)
Not every Woman enjoys having fingers inserted in them "
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"I guess this highlights the importance of communication. Very different responses from different women. What may have worked last time may not next time.
Reading her body language or listening out for that moan or ouch helps but communication is a must when doing anything sexual "
I really like it, *providing* my responses are noted and worked with accordingly.
However, like you say, communication is key. There's nothing worse than someone adopting a 'one size fits all' approach, whatever sexual activity you're partaking in and yes, I've been hurt in the past being fingered too roughly by clueless idiots who don't get you're an individual who needs to take things at her own pace. |
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I prefer oral with fingers. But I completely understand when other women say that men have been too rough. But when that has happened in the past I've just gently touched the guy's hand and told him to go softly. It's not usually a problem, but I do think it happens more when a guy is trying to make me "squirt" which isn't going to happen anyway.
But oral without fingers usually isn't as enjoyable for me, so yes, I much prefer it. |
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" What's your opinion on them being used before sex or during oral ?
Has a bad experience put you off ?
You've never/don't really enjoy it ?
Love it or take it or leave it ?
2 of the last 3 vanilla Women I was with didn't like fingers used on them and said previous Men had been to rough, But the 3rd loved it especially while I was sucking on her tits, The force of her cumming made my finger slip out,
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honestly with 99% of guys Ive met.. I dont want to as I have had so many guys with poor skills.
However Mr is mmm and i rather enjoy them x |
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