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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Let's take a step back shall we readers?
0 meet club was created for those who have difficulties meeting to help each other out. It then evolved so that others could join in and help if they could.
It is a friendly place to try to engage with others in order to generate some fun for those of us who struggle - for whatever reason.
To the rules then for membership then.
Rule 1 - you haven't had a meet within the past 30 days (this includes socials)
Rule 2 - you have had a meet but are willing to help out one of the other members
Grab a seat, drinks are free and let's get meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"0 meets here although I am still a newbie really I'm sure my time will come, but I'll be watching this thread intently, if there is any advice to be thrown my way please do!  "
0 meets is 0 meets. Welcome in let's hope you're a rule 2er next week |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm one day out from actually being in for the first time in months.
Take pity on me 
Welcome to the club
Not seen you here before 
Oh hi  "
Take a pew and I'll bring some coffee over |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Still here under rule 1, despite my best efforts while on holiday  I need to get back out there, anyone know of any socials around here?"
Welcome back
Is there anything in the meets area? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Still here under rule 1, despite my best efforts while on holiday I need to get back out there, anyone know of any socials around here?
Welcome back
Is there anything in the meets area?"
Only one, and I'm not welcome there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You lot need to get yourselves to the lounge social in Manchester "
Can't afford a trip to Manchester for the foreseeable. The best I can manage is the Secret Tea Party in London, and any local socials I can find that I'm not already blackballed from. |
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"You lot need to get yourselves to the lounge social in Manchester
Can't afford a trip to Manchester for the foreseeable. The best I can manage is the Secret Tea Party in London, and any local socials I can find that I'm not already blackballed from."
Oh dear what have you done to deserve that  |
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"You lot need to get yourselves to the lounge social in Manchester
I'm coming.... We're matched remember??? 
Oh I found you another match yesterday but he's shy  "
Shy??? I need someone who knows what he wants and is unwavering in his pursuit... none of this pussyfooting around and angst... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You lot need to get yourselves to the lounge social in Manchester
Can't afford a trip to Manchester for the foreseeable. The best I can manage is the Secret Tea Party in London, and any local socials I can find that I'm not already blackballed from.
Oh dear what have you done to deserve that "
One of them I didn't have a good time at (was systematically blanked by everyone I tried to talk to) and I dared to put up a status to the effect that the friendliest person I met all night had been a girl in McDonalds after I walked out who asked me for a light. I didn't say whete I'd been, nor had I advertised that I was going to the social ahead of time, but this counted as badmouthing her event and she made it very clear I wasn't welcome again.
The other one, I've no idea. The organiser just ignored messages asking if I could come to three different events. I took the hint. |
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"You lot need to get yourselves to the lounge social in Manchester
I'm coming.... We're matched remember???
Oh I found you another match yesterday but he's shy
Shy??? I need someone who knows what he wants and is unwavering in his pursuit... none of this pussyfooting around and angst... "
Good lord woman steady on, I'm sure he'd kiss you to the ground |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You lot need to get yourselves to the lounge social in Manchester
When is this lounge social in Manchester pink
There's a thread in meet requests and parties with full details, it's 15th July "
Damnation I'm away |
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"You lot need to get yourselves to the lounge social in Manchester
Can't afford a trip to Manchester for the foreseeable. The best I can manage is the Secret Tea Party in London, and any local socials I can find that I'm not already blackballed from.
Oh dear what have you done to deserve that
One of them I didn't have a good time at (was systematically blanked by everyone I tried to talk to) and I dared to put up a status to the effect that the friendliest person I met all night had been a girl in McDonalds after I walked out who asked me for a light. I didn't say whete I'd been, nor had I advertised that I was going to the social ahead of time, but this counted as badmouthing her event and she made it very clear I wasn't welcome again.
The other one, I've no idea. The organiser just ignored messages asking if I could come to three different events. I took the hint."
We're all so friendly in the north west you need to relocate |
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By *eek12Man
over a year ago
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"I'd be down for this, let me know when and where ??
What is it you are "down for" exactly? "
Yeah I realised that read funny, my apologies. Coffee and a Bagel is fine with me I work evenings so added difficulty in meeting people. |
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"You lot need to get yourselves to the lounge social in Manchester
I'm coming.... We're matched remember???
Oh I found you another match yesterday but he's shy
Shy??? I need someone who knows what he wants and is unwavering in his pursuit... none of this pussyfooting around and angst...
Good lord woman steady on, I'm sure he'd kiss you to the ground "
Have him bathed and sent to my fort....   |
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"And there I was as thinking Cilla was going to do an appearance
I have been called Cilla by fellow forumites "
In that case then I'm feeling butterflies of anticipation as to whom you're going to match me with............ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You lot need to get yourselves to the lounge social in Manchester
Can't afford a trip to Manchester for the foreseeable. The best I can manage is the Secret Tea Party in London, and any local socials I can find that I'm not already blackballed from.
Oh dear what have you done to deserve that
One of them I didn't have a good time at (was systematically blanked by everyone I tried to talk to) and I dared to put up a status to the effect that the friendliest person I met all night had been a girl in McDonalds after I walked out who asked me for a light. I didn't say whete I'd been, nor had I advertised that I was going to the social ahead of time, but this counted as badmouthing her event and she made it very clear I wasn't welcome again.
The other one, I've no idea. The organiser just ignored messages asking if I could come to three different events. I took the hint.
We're all so friendly in the north west you need to relocate "
If I could find a job up there that paid enough to live on comfortably, I'd really consider it. |
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"You lot need to get yourselves to the lounge social in Manchester
Can't afford a trip to Manchester for the foreseeable. The best I can manage is the Secret Tea Party in London, and any local socials I can find that I'm not already blackballed from.
Oh dear what have you done to deserve that
One of them I didn't have a good time at (was systematically blanked by everyone I tried to talk to) and I dared to put up a status to the effect that the friendliest person I met all night had been a girl in McDonalds after I walked out who asked me for a light. I didn't say whete I'd been, nor had I advertised that I was going to the social ahead of time, but this counted as badmouthing her event and she made it very clear I wasn't welcome again.
The other one, I've no idea. The organiser just ignored messages asking if I could come to three different events. I took the hint.
We're all so friendly in the north west you need to relocate "
Just don't go too north  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You lot need to get yourselves to the lounge social in Manchester
Can't afford a trip to Manchester for the foreseeable. The best I can manage is the Secret Tea Party in London, and any local socials I can find that I'm not already blackballed from.
Oh dear what have you done to deserve that
One of them I didn't have a good time at (was systematically blanked by everyone I tried to talk to) and I dared to put up a status to the effect that the friendliest person I met all night had been a girl in McDonalds after I walked out who asked me for a light. I didn't say whete I'd been, nor had I advertised that I was going to the social ahead of time, but this counted as badmouthing her event and she made it very clear I wasn't welcome again.
The other one, I've no idea. The organiser just ignored messages asking if I could come to three different events. I took the hint.
We're all so friendly in the north west you need to relocate
Just don't go too north "
I don't know, I like Scottish women |
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By *eesideMan
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
Morning op
Morning all
It is still just morning
These late work shifts I'm doing are really beging to add up 
I'm still under roul 1
Anyone want to meet up in Margate for a chat and a drink |
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"You lot need to get yourselves to the lounge social in Manchester
Can't afford a trip to Manchester for the foreseeable. The best I can manage is the Secret Tea Party in London, and any local socials I can find that I'm not already blackballed from.
Oh dear what have you done to deserve that
One of them I didn't have a good time at (was systematically blanked by everyone I tried to talk to) and I dared to put up a status to the effect that the friendliest person I met all night had been a girl in McDonalds after I walked out who asked me for a light. I didn't say whete I'd been, nor had I advertised that I was going to the social ahead of time, but this counted as badmouthing her event and she made it very clear I wasn't welcome again.
The other one, I've no idea. The organiser just ignored messages asking if I could come to three different events. I took the hint.
We're all so friendly in the north west you need to relocate
Just don't go too north
I don't know, I like Scottish women "
I'm 20 minutes from the border with Scotland, and been in here almost 5 years now, but yet to meet a Scots lady  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sorry I've been a bit distracted with that thing called work and another thing called trouble
Welcome to the lunchtime crew. Let's get some meets sorted shall we? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry I've been a bit distracted with that thing called work and another thing called trouble
Welcome to the lunchtime crew. Let's get some meets sorted shall we?"
That would be wonderful..... ladies hello.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a helper. Though it's looking like I'll be a meeter soon if my social life doesn't perk up soon
If you were closer..."
Story of my life as a northerner. 'You're too far' |
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"I'm a helper. Though it's looking like I'll be a meeter soon if my social life doesn't perk up soon
If you were closer...
Story of my life as a northerner. 'You're too far' "
I'm with you on that one, but not with you, as I'm 'even further' |
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"I'm a helper. Though it's looking like I'll be a meeter soon if my social life doesn't perk up soon
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If you become a meetee then drop me a line we can solve each other's meetlessness (sure there are words in there that aren't real but make perfect sense)
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sorry I've been a bit distracted with that thing called work and another thing called trouble
Welcome to the lunchtime crew. Let's get some meets sorted shall we?
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Afternoon trouble  |
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By *eesideMan
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"Is everyone having a good day ?
It could be better mate what about you"
Hope it gets better for you.
As for me.
We'll I've got sum mager internet problums atm but apart from that its a ok day. |
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"Sorry I've been a bit distracted with that thing called work and another thing called trouble
Welcome to the lunchtime crew. Let's get some meets sorted shall we?
Afternoon trouble "
Afternoon cuddle bear |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've not had a meet since I joined. It's not for want of trying. Just haven't managed to get the message quite right!"
Welcome in. There are some ladies knocking around here somewhere. Or some gents - we are a non judgemental meeting space.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've not had a meet since I joined. It's not for want of trying. Just haven't managed to get the message quite right!
Welcome in. There are some ladies knocking around here somewhere. Or some gents - we are a non judgemental meeting space.
I think being younger and not yet being verified has been working against me. But I'm staying positive!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Afternoon one and all,am here again as usual,but finally here under rule two if anyone on rule one wants to try and arrange a social of an evening feel free to get in touch,I'm usually in Derby but occasionally around Manchester and Liverpool |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've not had a meet since I joined. It's not for want of trying. Just haven't managed to get the message quite right!
Welcome in. There are some ladies knocking around here somewhere. Or some gents - we are a non judgemental meeting space.
I think being younger and not yet being verified has been working against me. But I'm staying positive!
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Being positive is a good thing. People will notice if you aren't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've not had a meet since I joined. It's not for want of trying. Just haven't managed to get the message quite right!
Welcome in. There are some ladies knocking around here somewhere. Or some gents - we are a non judgemental meeting space.
I think being younger and not yet being verified has been working against me. But I'm staying positive!
Being positive is a good thing. People will notice if you aren't "
Speaking as someone with a tendency to be negative, this is sadly very true. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've not had a meet since I joined. It's not for want of trying. Just haven't managed to get the message quite right!
Welcome in. There are some ladies knocking around here somewhere. Or some gents - we are a non judgemental meeting space.
I think being younger and not yet being verified has been working against me. But I'm staying positive!
Being positive is a good thing. People will notice if you aren't
Speaking as someone with a tendency to be negative, this is sadly very true."
But some of us understand |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've not had a meet since I joined. It's not for want of trying. Just haven't managed to get the message quite right!
Welcome in. There are some ladies knocking around here somewhere. Or some gents - we are a non judgemental meeting space.
I think being younger and not yet being verified has been working against me. But I'm staying positive!
Being positive is a good thing. People will notice if you aren't
Speaking as someone with a tendency to be negative, this is sadly very true."
Fake it until you make it
You are alive and there are boobs all over the place. That's a good starting point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've not had a meet since I joined. It's not for want of trying. Just haven't managed to get the message quite right!
Welcome in. There are some ladies knocking around here somewhere. Or some gents - we are a non judgemental meeting space.
I think being younger and not yet being verified has been working against me. But I'm staying positive!
Being positive is a good thing. People will notice if you aren't
Speaking as someone with a tendency to be negative, this is sadly very true.
But some of us understand "
I never quite know how to make that really good first impression that grabs the attention of the other person  |
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"Ok I'm taking the bull by the horns and I'm gonna start doing a Cilla -
Can we have a show of hands of women single or coupled that are looking to meet "
Well not one hand raised. That's frustrating |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've not had a meet since I joined. It's not for want of trying. Just haven't managed to get the message quite right!
Welcome in. There are some ladies knocking around here somewhere. Or some gents - we are a non judgemental meeting space.
I think being younger and not yet being verified has been working against me. But I'm staying positive!
Being positive is a good thing. People will notice if you aren't
Speaking as someone with a tendency to be negative, this is sadly very true.
Fake it until you make it
You are alive and there are boobs all over the place. That's a good starting point "
Faking it is a lot harder when you can't remember what it feels like. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've not had a meet since I joined. It's not for want of trying. Just haven't managed to get the message quite right!
Welcome in. There are some ladies knocking around here somewhere. Or some gents - we are a non judgemental meeting space.
I think being younger and not yet being verified has been working against me. But I'm staying positive!
Being positive is a good thing. People will notice if you aren't
Speaking as someone with a tendency to be negative, this is sadly very true.
Fake it until you make it
You are alive and there are boobs all over the place. That's a good starting point
Faking it is a lot harder when you can't remember what it feels like."
Just think of boobs - smiling right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've not had a meet since I joined. It's not for want of trying. Just haven't managed to get the message quite right!
Welcome in. There are some ladies knocking around here somewhere. Or some gents - we are a non judgemental meeting space.
I think being younger and not yet being verified has been working against me. But I'm staying positive!
Being positive is a good thing. People will notice if you aren't
Speaking as someone with a tendency to be negative, this is sadly very true.
Fake it until you make it
You are alive and there are boobs all over the place. That's a good starting point
Faking it is a lot harder when you can't remember what it feels like.
Just think of boobs - smiling right?"
Boobs in the abstract, yes. Particular sets of boobs, though - then I start thinking I've no chance.I |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Boobs in the abstract, yes. Particular sets of boobs, though - then I start thinking I've no chance.I "
That's where you are going wrong. Thinking is not the answer. Baby steps
Boobs = smiles and then stop.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You lot need to get yourselves to the lounge social in Manchester
Well, if you want to explain to my Mum why I'm missing her birthday, I will! "
Hand me the phone and I'll tell her |
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By *eek12Man
over a year ago
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"You lot need to get yourselves to the lounge social in Manchester
Well, if you want to explain to my Mum why I'm missing her birthday, I will! "
I can handle that, I'm great with mom's! We'll have a cup of tea and chat |
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By *eesideMan
over a year ago
margate sumwear by the sea |
"You lot need to get yourselves to the lounge social in Manchester
Well, if you want to explain to my Mum why I'm missing her birthday, I will! "
I'm tempted but the £400 train ticket is mor than I can afford just for a day in Manchester. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Anyone have any luck today? I'm rule one but this will be my last week as I have a social pencilled in for next week "
Lots of talk but I don't think anyone has matched up.
I may try a different approach next week |
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I was lurking but couldn't not gatecrash after reading that.