Work on your self esteem and know your own worth. Sometimes another person can help with that and sometimes it has to come entirely from yourself. It never comes from the false flattery of men who want sex from you.
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"Work on your self esteem and know your own worth. Sometimes another person can help with that and sometimes it has to come entirely from yourself. It never comes from the false flattery of men who want sex from you.
Disclaimer: I know not all men are like that."
Good advice.
I'm no psychologist, but I do know it's other people who make me doubt myself/or make me feel inadequate. (Anyone who's trying to evaluate me, read much into what I just typed there either,).
Have a look around you, your friends and such, if someone is giving you reason to don't yourself. Ditch them op.
There's some people on Fab that could constantly bring you down. Even on Facebook and other social sites. Hell, glamour magazines are looked at for not helping people's outlook on life.
Take stock, and look how beautiful you are, and how beautiful the world can be.
I'm going to go and hug a tree. I'll be back soon.  |
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"No-one can make you feel inferior without your consent "
Hmm. This is so easy to say, but it takes some level of self belief to act on it.
These sorts of phrases sound all well and good, but the 'how' is more useful. |
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"You need to up your confidence. You are not inferior to anyone. Maybe get a little book on mindfulness. xxx"
Why do people persist with this "everyone is the same" crap?
Of course some people are superior /inferior to others.
It's a fact of life, some are stronger, smarter, better looking etc.
And before you say it's what on the inside that counts some people have way better personalities than others too.
If you're constantly trying to measure eup to others you will always come up short unless you're the absolute pinicle of whatever it is you care about.
Work to be happy with who you are either by not judging yourself against others or by working your ass off till you come out superior to them. |
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"You need to up your confidence. You are not inferior to anyone. Maybe get a little book on mindfulness. xxx
Why do people persist with this "everyone is the same" crap?
Of course some people are superior /inferior to others.
It's a fact of life, some are stronger, smarter, better looking etc.
And before you say it's what on the inside that counts some people have way better personalities than others too.
If you're constantly trying to measure eup to others you will always come up short unless you're the absolute pinicle of whatever it is you care about.
Work to be happy with who you are either by not judging yourself against others or by working your ass off till you come out superior to them."
Wise words..well said |
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Comparing yourself unfavourably with other people doesn't help either.
