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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Or whatever people are calling it these days.
If you get talking here, exchange numbers, exchange lots of messages on WhatsApp over 10 days, couple of chats on the phone, video chats so confident the person I was speaking to was the person in the pics off here, couple of wank listens on the phone. Talk of a meet, then a suitable date, then were the halfway point would be.
Then Sunday had a message saying really busy again will text tomorrow when I'm free, Monday comes... nothing!
Person has been online on here and WhatsApp.
Is it possible I've been used for wank fodder, if so I feel really stupid cos I'm kind of a veteran and wise to that shit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Judging by your pictures, whoever you were talking to is a complete idiot. How many man would waste a chance to meet with a stunning lady like you is just unbelievable.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds like you have but why on earth would you settle for just a wank and not grab the oppotunity to have fun with you?
Strange some folk aren't they!!! |
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Sounds like he got the thrill of the chase bug and once you were "caught" he had the fix...it happens or he decided that he wasn't that keen and just choose to not communicate any further....just put it down to experience etc..like I said to the other poster in a lot these situations there are 3 sides to every situation... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say so. I think most of us have had this happen and no matter how wise to things you are, it makes little difference. I think they just find someone else or lose interest. |
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"Judging by your pictures, whoever you were talking to is a complete idiot. How many man would waste a chance to meet with a stunning lady like you is just unbelievable.
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Why is he an idiot? Just because someone is good looking doesn't mean that people should bow down to looks etc |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Message Sunday was really busy weekend not again.
Yeah my psychopath has come out, doesn't take long and this is the point where I can turn any potential person off who could just genuinely be busy but end up making them not wanna bother anyway!
I message today saying have I done something to change your mind? Nothing!
I know that's just me committing potential fuck suicide but can't help it.
Can't be this messed up and crazy sexually without having inner psychopath! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Possibly, try contacting him one more time and see how that goes? If it doesn't improve then I think he's lost interest  "
Dont pander to him. He hasnt messaged you move on. If he was interested he would have been in touch |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes something happens in the person's life that gets in the way. I've gone quiet before when something sad has happened whilst I dealt with it or tried to get to grips with processing it but, the ideal behaviour would be to at least alert someone to that. Or in his case the need for a longer period of wait on your part as he did initially say to hold on but then went over the timeline.
It's very easy to "read" people's behaviour and make decisions what has happened. It's often wholly inaccurate though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just move on the the next bloke. You'll mash your head up by overanalysing stuff. You seem to think you know what you might have done wrong so avoid the same mistake next time. Alternatively, he just wasn't that into you. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
I do find it odd that people can't simply say 'I've changed my mind.' Like the guy in Bristol who I was supposed to be meeting for a drink tonight but who has mysteriously not logged in for 5 days. Instead I have a hot date with a Tesco sandwich.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do find it odd that people can't simply say 'I've changed my mind.' Like the guy in Bristol who I was supposed to be meeting for a drink tonight but who has mysteriously not logged in for 5 days. Instead I have a hot date with a Tesco sandwich. "
Lucky sandwich |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Judging by your pictures, whoever you were talking to is a complete idiot. How many man would waste a chance to meet with a stunning lady like you is just unbelievable.
Polish your armour sir?  "
Haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Message Sunday was really busy weekend not again.
Yeah my psychopath has come out, doesn't take long and this is the point where I can turn any potential person off who could just genuinely be busy but end up making them not wanna bother anyway!
I message today saying have I done something to change your mind? Nothing!
I know that's just me committing potential fuck suicide but can't help it.
Can't be this messed up and crazy sexually without having inner psychopath! "
Has he read your messages on here or on whatsapp? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Could you have done something to fuck them off? Some folk get a bit stroppy for no reason and ignore you without you realising. Until they shirty that you've not noticed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hopefully, he'll read this thread and be along to post his side of the story soon....
In the meantime, take the radio silence as he's either a - busy with real life or b - not interested.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't "chase" for sex from anyone. If they stop messaging then that's it.
It can be hard and it can screw with your head if you try to analyse what went wrong.
You can't second guess what's going on with the other person or what's going on in their head.
Some are just fuck ups who like to play games.
There is always someone else to pay attention to and soon you'll forget he even existed
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do find it odd that people can't simply say 'I've changed my mind.' Like the guy in Bristol who I was supposed to be meeting for a drink tonight but who has mysteriously not logged in for 5 days. Instead I have a hot date with a Tesco sandwich. "
Some Bristol guys are good 
To the OP, could be multiple reasons. If he isn't replying, then wait for him to come back, and see if you accept his excuse when he does. |
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I hear ya... Sounds like typical 'fap-fodder' behaviour alright. I fell for this kind of thing a few times in my early days, and quickly learned not to share any nude pics, etc., or get drawn into an intimate sexual conversation with anyone until after we'd had an initial social meet (sometimes this was a double-blessing as when we did meet and the connection just wasn't there I couldn't then be called a tease afterwards when I didn't want to follow through with a play meet). I've recently stupidly broken my own rules for someone I had arranged to meet and now that its not happening, I really regret it. It won't be making that mistake again.
Its hugely frustrating when you put your trust in someone and they behave in this manner... Hugs and chin up OP. You're worth so much more than he has given you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Message Sunday was really busy weekend not again.
Yeah my psychopath has come out, doesn't take long and this is the point where I can turn any potential person off who could just genuinely be busy but end up making them not wanna bother anyway!
I message today saying have I done something to change your mind? Nothing!
I know that's just me committing potential fuck suicide but can't help it.
Can't be this messed up and crazy sexually without having inner psychopath! "
If he's not answering you I'll hazard a guess that it's not him in his pics. Yes, people do pretend to be someone they are not to get a wank. I refuse to do any wank chat prior to meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Possibly, try contacting him one more time and see how that goes? If it doesn't improve then I think he's lost interest
Dont pander to him. He hasnt messaged you move on. If he was interested he would have been in touch"
It's hardly pandering to him. Anyway, she's messaged him and got nothing back. So just block and delete. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Message Sunday was really busy weekend not again.
Yeah my psychopath has come out, doesn't take long and this is the point where I can turn any potential person off who could just genuinely be busy but end up making them not wanna bother anyway!
I message today saying have I done something to change your mind? Nothing!
I know that's just me committing potential fuck suicide but can't help it.
Can't be this messed up and crazy sexually without having inner psychopath!
If he's not answering you I'll hazard a guess that it's not him in his pics. Yes, people do pretend to be someone they are not to get a wank. I refuse to do any wank chat prior to meeting. "
You didn't read the part about video calling then no? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He must be mental !  "
He probably is. Which is why he's using pics of the kind of man the OP is attracted to, and not his own.
He maybe is just scared, but I'm going with fake pics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Message Sunday was really busy weekend not again.
Yeah my psychopath has come out, doesn't take long and this is the point where I can turn any potential person off who could just genuinely be busy but end up making them not wanna bother anyway!
I message today saying have I done something to change your mind? Nothing!
I know that's just me committing potential fuck suicide but can't help it.
Can't be this messed up and crazy sexually without having inner psychopath!
If he's not answering you I'll hazard a guess that it's not him in his pics. Yes, people do pretend to be someone they are not to get a wank. I refuse to do any wank chat prior to meeting.
You didn't read the part about video calling then no? "
No. I seem to have missed that little snippet of information 
I thought she asked if he was using fake pics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fuck knows how I read the opening post and missed so much detail.
Anyhow OP, it does happen. They can say everything they think we want to hear, then back out after they don't need a wank. Or, go home from wherever they are working away, to their wife or girlfriend, or bachelor life. |
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Some folk are weirdos on here, a couple of weeks ago a really hot couple hit me up. They contacted me not the other way around.
Chatting, exchanging pictures for couple of days and then they were pressing for a meet.
I Jiggled everything around, chatted right up to the night of it happening, then boom, nothing.
Just radio silence... they were online, same as you I sent a couple of polite "everything ok, has something come up" and nothing...
A couple of days later a new veri pops up on their profile... so I'm like ok, they are just rude cunts... onwards
TBF his gran might've died so don't fillet him just yet... wait a day see if he texts then cut his balls off for being a dick |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.
No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?
Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.
No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?
Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.
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I did ask if maybe she had pissed him off in some way. So there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.
No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?
Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.
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That point was made. By a female too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.
No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?
Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.
I did ask if maybe she had pissed him off in some way. So there "
True... She's already admitted she can be a little strong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some folk are weirdos on here, a couple of weeks ago a really hot couple hit me up. They contacted me not the other way around.
Chatting, exchanging pictures for couple of days and then they were pressing for a meet.
I Jiggled everything around, chatted right up to the night of it happening, then boom, nothing.
Just radio silence... they were online, same as you I sent a couple of polite "everything ok, has something come up" and nothing...
A couple of days later a new veri pops up on their profile... so I'm like ok, they are just rude cunts... onwards
TBF his gran might've died so don't fillet him just yet... wait a day see if he texts then cut his balls off for being a dick "
Mate.. This happens to me quite regularly |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.
No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?
Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.
That point was made. By a female too. "
Mea Culpa for the slight over-generalisation
The point still stands though.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.
No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?
Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.
That point was made. By a female too.
Mea Culpa for the slight over-generalisation
The point still stands though.
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Well, my point wasn't inclined to saying he was *insert negative assumption here* either. But I guess people might be posting based on empirical evidence from their own experiences. That's a point too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.
No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?
Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.
I did ask if maybe she had pissed him off in some way. So there "
I've had a look through WhatsApp conversation and was always him that initiated the start of a text chat, give or take 2 evenings where I did, but was constant back and forth then phone calls.
I'd ask him for videos of him having a piss and close ups of his pee hole and he'd send them, I'd ask him for pictures of his arse hole and he'd send them.
All seemed ok till Sunday when I had a message saying really busy weekend will text properly tomorrow when I'm free.
I haven't gone full stage 5 clinger yet but I'm on the cusp do you know what I mean. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Or whatever people are calling it these days.
If you get talking here, exchange numbers, exchange lots of messages on WhatsApp over 10 days, couple of chats on the phone, video chats so confident the person I was speaking to was the person in the pics off here, couple of wank listens on the phone. Talk of a meet, then a suitable date, then were the halfway point would be.
Then Sunday had a message saying really busy again will text tomorrow when I'm free, Monday comes... nothing!
Person has been online on here and WhatsApp.
Is it possible I've been used for wank fodder, if so I feel really stupid cos I'm kind of a veteran and wise to that shit. "
I've had this happen to me
Me personally I sent one message asking what was going on I didn't hear anything back so I blocked the number on my whatsapp and phone, and then deleted it. That way the temptation isn't there looking to see if they are online on whatsapp or the temptation to contact them. Then do the same on fab, block them. And then but it down to experience and forget about them and move on |
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"So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.
No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?
Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.
I did ask if maybe she had pissed him off in some way. So there
I've had a look through WhatsApp conversation and was always him that initiated the start of a text chat, give or take 2 evenings where I did, but was constant back and forth then phone calls.
I'd ask him for videos of him having a piss and close ups of his pee hole and he'd send them, I'd ask him for pictures of his arse hole and he'd send them.
All seemed ok till Sunday when I had a message saying really busy weekend will text properly tomorrow when I'm free.
I haven't gone full stage 5 clinger yet but I'm on the cusp do you know what I mean. "
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.
No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?
Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.
I did ask if maybe she had pissed him off in some way. So there
I've had a look through WhatsApp conversation and was always him that initiated the start of a text chat, give or take 2 evenings where I did, but was constant back and forth then phone calls.
I'd ask him for videos of him having a piss and close ups of his pee hole and he'd send them, I'd ask him for pictures of his arse hole and he'd send them.
All seemed ok till Sunday when I had a message saying really busy weekend will text properly tomorrow when I'm free.
I haven't gone full stage 5 clinger yet but I'm on the cusp do you know what I mean. "
Did the videos ever include his face?
Maybe he thought the thrill of sending pictures of specific parts had run its course.
Just move on. I know that's difficult for you as you like to dissect a matter but really, just move on.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.
No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?
Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.
I did ask if maybe she had pissed him off in some way. So there
I've had a look through WhatsApp conversation and was always him that initiated the start of a text chat, give or take 2 evenings where I did, but was constant back and forth then phone calls.
I'd ask him for videos of him having a piss and close ups of his pee hole and he'd send them, I'd ask him for pictures of his arse hole and he'd send them.
All seemed ok till Sunday when I had a message saying really busy weekend will text properly tomorrow when I'm free.
I haven't gone full stage 5 clinger yet but I'm on the cusp do you know what I mean. "
Ah! Now to me that does sound like he might not be genuinely single. Or he had family visiting or something and would just log on here to check messages without having time to reply.
Doesn't explain the Whats app bit though.
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"So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.
No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?
Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.
I did ask if maybe she had pissed him off in some way. So there
I've had a look through WhatsApp conversation and was always him that initiated the start of a text chat, give or take 2 evenings where I did, but was constant back and forth then phone calls.
I'd ask him for videos of him having a piss and close ups of his pee hole and he'd send them, I'd ask him for pictures of his arse hole and he'd send them.
All seemed ok till Sunday when I had a message saying really busy weekend will text properly tomorrow when I'm free.
I haven't gone full stage 5 clinger yet but I'm on the cusp do you know what I mean. "
Maybe he just thought fuck this...you did send some demands there maybe wait for asking for pictures of bum holes etc
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.
No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?
Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.
I did ask if maybe she had pissed him off in some way. So there
I've had a look through WhatsApp conversation and was always him that initiated the start of a text chat, give or take 2 evenings where I did, but was constant back and forth then phone calls.
I'd ask him for videos of him having a piss and close ups of his pee hole and he'd send them, I'd ask him for pictures of his arse hole and he'd send them.
All seemed ok till Sunday when I had a message saying really busy weekend will text properly tomorrow when I'm free.
I haven't gone full stage 5 clinger yet but I'm on the cusp do you know what I mean.
Ah! Now to me that does sound like he might not be genuinely single. Or he had family visiting or something and would just log on here to check messages without having time to reply.
Doesn't explain the Whats app bit though.
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Nah he can accommodate and I know who he lives with and where. He's been single for years which says something cos he's aesthetically a real catch but then so am I and so have I been single years! He's sexually unwell, which I can get then from general chat without sexy chat, you can just tell these things. He's a lot like the guy I met off my ukmuscle forum the one who stuck a douche up my arse and stood there asking how I take my tea whilst I was sat on the toilet with arse juice dribbling out of me and would finger me on the toilet whilst I pissed on his hands, that's why I was excited about him and disappointed if it's done with now. |
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"So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.
No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?
Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.
I did ask if maybe she had pissed him off in some way. So there
I've had a look through WhatsApp conversation and was always him that initiated the start of a text chat, give or take 2 evenings where I did, but was constant back and forth then phone calls.
I'd ask him for videos of him having a piss and close ups of his pee hole and he'd send them, I'd ask him for pictures of his arse hole and he'd send them.
All seemed ok till Sunday when I had a message saying really busy weekend will text properly tomorrow when I'm free.
I haven't gone full stage 5 clinger yet but I'm on the cusp do you know what I mean.
Ah! Now to me that does sound like he might not be genuinely single. Or he had family visiting or something and would just log on here to check messages without having time to reply.
Doesn't explain the Whats app bit though.
Nah he can accommodate and I know who he lives with and where. He's been single for years which says something cos he's aesthetically a real catch but then so am I and so have I been single years! He's sexually unwell, which I can get then from general chat without sexy chat, you can just tell these things. He's a lot like the guy I met off my ukmuscle forum the one who stuck a douche up my arse and stood there asking how I take my tea whilst I was sat on the toilet with arse juice dribbling out of me and would finger me on the toilet whilst I pissed on his hands, that's why I was excited about him and disappointed if it's done with now. "
Ah those heady days of Uk Muscle and TDF. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ah those heady days of Uk Muscle and TDF. "
Oh, were you a fellow member?
I got banned from Tdf, Jon didn't like me, I hacked one of the founders accounts and deleted all my threads and pictures! |
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Ah those heady days of Uk Muscle and TDF.
Oh, were you a fellow member?
I got banned from Tdf, Jon didn't like me, I hacked one of the founders accounts and deleted all my threads and pictures!"
Yeah it was noticed |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ah those heady days of Uk Muscle and TDF.
Oh, were you a fellow member?
I got banned from Tdf, Jon didn't like me, I hacked one of the founders accounts and deleted all my threads and pictures!
Yeah it was noticed "
Bet they all slagged me off for months, now what kind of access did you have, did you know about the trusted members only subsection which only original people who came over from ukm had access to? Bunch of wankers, apart from ackee! |
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Ah those heady days of Uk Muscle and TDF.
Oh, were you a fellow member?
I got banned from Tdf, Jon didn't like me, I hacked one of the founders accounts and deleted all my threads and pictures!
Yeah it was noticed
Bet they all slagged me off for months, now what kind of access did you have, did you know about the trusted members only subsection which only original people who came over from ukm had access to? Bunch of wankers, apart from ackee! "
I was an original when the UKM ban hammer was swung. The subsection was known by most to be fair.
They are a good bunch of lads. Still in touch with a few. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"He must be mental !
Why?
In a relationship is my guess.
Because OP is mint "
Bless you but it happens to the best of us I suppose. I've gone quiet on guys just as much if not more times than they've gone quiet on me. Has to even itself out doesn't it. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"He must be mental !
Why?
In a relationship is my guess.
Because OP is mint
Bless you but it happens to the best of us I suppose. I've gone quiet on guys just as much if not more times than they've gone quiet on me. Has to even itself out doesn't it. "
And so the threads are born.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ah those heady days of Uk Muscle and TDF.
Oh, were you a fellow member?
I got banned from Tdf, Jon didn't like me, I hacked one of the founders accounts and deleted all my threads and pictures!
Yeah it was noticed
Bet they all slagged me off for months, now what kind of access did you have, did you know about the trusted members only subsection which only original people who came over from ukm had access to? Bunch of wankers, apart from ackee!
I was an original when the UKM ban hammer was swung. The subsection was known by most to be fair.
They are a good bunch of lads. Still in touch with a few. "
Yeah I was an original as well and pscarb swung his ban hammer on me on ukm for association with that lot! I speak to ack and munchi now and again but that's as far as it goes.
I think it was a case of loose lips sink ships and I had to go cos you don't fuck with the staff, literally!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds like ash  sorry coundnt resist that.
Just relax see it for what it prob was just wanking fun n plod on with the next hottie. Your very like me n get all giddy over one guy. he may well be just busy give him they quiet treatment if he does want you he'll come sprinting back.
PTU xxx |
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Ah those heady days of Uk Muscle and TDF.
Oh, were you a fellow member?
I got banned from Tdf, Jon didn't like me, I hacked one of the founders accounts and deleted all my threads and pictures!
Yeah it was noticed
Bet they all slagged me off for months, now what kind of access did you have, did you know about the trusted members only subsection which only original people who came over from ukm had access to? Bunch of wankers, apart from ackee!
I was an original when the UKM ban hammer was swung. The subsection was known by most to be fair.
They are a good bunch of lads. Still in touch with a few.
Yeah I was an original as well and pscarb swung his ban hammer on me on ukm for association with that lot! I speak to ack and munchi now and again but that's as far as it goes.
I think it was a case of loose lips sink ships and I had to go cos you don't fuck with the staff, literally!
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I wonder what Dan is doing now? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ah those heady days of Uk Muscle and TDF.
Oh, were you a fellow member?
I got banned from Tdf, Jon didn't like me, I hacked one of the founders accounts and deleted all my threads and pictures!
Yeah it was noticed
Bet they all slagged me off for months, now what kind of access did you have, did you know about the trusted members only subsection which only original people who came over from ukm had access to? Bunch of wankers, apart from ackee!
I was an original when the UKM ban hammer was swung. The subsection was known by most to be fair.
They are a good bunch of lads. Still in touch with a few.
Yeah I was an original as well and pscarb swung his ban hammer on me on ukm for association with that lot! I speak to ack and munchi now and again but that's as far as it goes.
I think it was a case of loose lips sink ships and I had to go cos you don't fuck with the staff, literally!
I wonder what Dan is doing now? "
What do you mention Dan? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You probably have away too much too soon. Only 10 days and you have already had phone sex. I think if the sex talk comes into it too quickly then there wasn't enough interesting things to talk about in the first place x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You probably have away too much too soon. Only 10 days and you have already had phone sex. I think if the sex talk comes into it too quickly then there wasn't enough interesting things to talk about in the first place x"
I sort of directed it that way though! Had general chat as well but I wanted to hear and see him cum! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If he's said he's crazy busy maybe it's as simple as he's logged on quickly , got interrupted and hadn't had chance to come back to it. I've done it myself, and once marked unread sometimes I forget to reply until I actively go through the inbox and check
Alternatively as we're always telling guys no reply can equal a polite no thanks , leave him be, maybe if he's strapped for time felt he couldn't keep up with your demands. If he reappears with a good excuse then reassess. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If he's said he's crazy busy maybe it's as simple as he's logged on quickly , got interrupted and hadn't had chance to come back to it. I've done it myself, and once marked unread sometimes I forget to reply until I actively go through the inbox and check
Alternatively as we're always telling guys no reply can equal a polite no thanks , leave him be, maybe if he's strapped for time felt he couldn't keep up with your demands. If he reappears with a good excuse then reassess."
Haven't exchanged messages on here since we exchanged numbers.
Think it's just a case of him finding someone that appeals to him more. He's got no obligations to me, I can't really moan. Just makes you think if you did something to put them off, if I know what it was I wouldn't do it in the future when speaking to someone else. |
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"So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.
No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?
Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.
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It's alway's the guy at fault! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds like he had a lucky escape,,,
Maybe those things you asked from him he felt uncomfortable,
Others do have fantasies but then when the fantasies becomes a possible reality they get scared,
I'm also inclined to think this isn't a dating site,
Not all contacts winks etc will be a guaranteed meet, nor will it blossom into a loving relationship,
Swinging is a no strings attached fun
Sounds like it got a bit more full on than maybe he wanted,
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sounds like he had a lucky escape,,,
Maybe those things you asked from him he felt uncomfortable,
Others do have fantasies but then when the fantasies becomes a possible reality they get scared,
I'm also inclined to think this isn't a dating site,
Not all contacts winks etc will be a guaranteed meet, nor will it blossom into a loving relationship,
Swinging is a no strings attached fun
Sounds like it got a bit more full on than maybe he wanted,
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Think he would've just said no if he didn't want to send stuff.
It's done now anyway, it's blatantly obvious he's no longer interested.
In the words of jay z, on to the next one! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sounds like he had a lucky escape,,,
Maybe those things you asked from him he felt uncomfortable,
Others do have fantasies but then when the fantasies becomes a possible reality they get scared,
I'm also inclined to think this isn't a dating site,
Not all contacts winks etc will be a guaranteed meet, nor will it blossom into a loving relationship,
Swinging is a no strings attached fun
Sounds like it got a bit more full on than maybe he wanted,
Think he would've just said no if he didn't want to send stuff.
It's done now anyway, it's blatantly obvious he's no longer interested.
In the words of jay z, on to the next one! "
You would have thought that if he didn't want to send them, he wouldn't have. You've gotten to a point were you both appeared to be into it and it fizzled out, for one reason or another.
Chest up, smile and on to the next lucky victim...  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.
No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?
Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.
It's alway's the guy at fault! "
We all know that pfft |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't even deal. Right I'm off be back in a week or so with a new alias!
Now way? I liked you.
She'll be back "
Who will? I forgotten about her already....hi MsV. . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What will the next name be...exciting
I also look forward to seeing what it will be.
I like the first few posts when I'm not sure if it's her.
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I think I got about a third of the way before the penny dropped. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
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What will the next name be...exciting
I also look forward to seeing what it will be.
I like the first few posts when I'm not sure if it's her.
I think I got about a third of the way before the penny dropped."
Sorry, I wasn't clear, I mean on the new name. Although, when old threads are resurrected it's a a little game working out who it was and who they are now.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The empress has gone unlos she'll be back
You're right, she said as much when she posted she was leaving "
Awww. I know that feeling though. We always come back  |
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"So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.
No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?
Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.
It's alway's the guy at fault!
We all know that pfft "
Although in this case...  . Is she back yet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've only just started reading this thread and OP has gone unlos, and I am guessing this is empress? Just by the bum hole piss, and clingy comments I thought straight away it was her, she does make me laugh, so straight up.
If it's not you I am sorry but you have a writing style twin |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"So far in this thread, by not replying to the OP, this guy is :- mental, married, cheating, lying, just getting his rocks off.
No one stopped to consider that he could be a genuine single guy who may have been put off the OP because she came on too strong, constantly messaging or coming across as too needy?
Nope, has to be the guy who is at fault.
It's alway's the guy at fault!
We all know that pfft
Although in this case... . Is she back yet? "
Probably |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've only just started reading this thread and OP has gone unlos, and I am guessing this is empress? Just by the bum hole piss, and clingy comments I thought straight away it was her, she does make me laugh, so straight up.
If it's not you I am sorry but you have a writing style twin "
It was her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've only just started reading this thread and OP has gone unlos, and I am guessing this is empress? Just by the bum hole piss, and clingy comments I thought straight away it was her, she does make me laugh, so straight up.
If it's not you I am sorry but you have a writing style twin
It was her "
Knew, it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbh she is under a bit of stress at the moment in her personal life so its good she's taking a breather from here after her little meltdown.
She's a good sort really and I be keeping a eye on her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tbh she is under a bit of stress at the moment in her personal life so its good she's taking a breather from here after her little meltdown.
She's a good sort really and I be keeping a eye on her. "
Yes she's unique, and quite well liked on here. Some times a break is good. Glad your looking out for her |
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