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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So, after reading a post from another thread, I was curious how many out there make contact in some way with those people on your hotlist?
Or do you just wistfully look at their updates, hoping one day you'll pluck up the courage to say hello?
I'm definitely in the second camp and I doubt I ever would. To quote Wayne's world 'I'm not worthy'  |
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Our hotlist is full of people who live too far away or who won't meet smokers so we just perve their pics hoping that one day we might be in the same area of the country at the same time. There are also some on there because it's also our notlist. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hotlisters are just people - same as the rest of us.
My Hotlist is a holding area, for when I've got enough spare time (and motivation), to devote proper thought to an introductory message.
Usually only one profile at a time, otherwise I get confused with multiple message threads. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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they've been there for that long, I guess I've put them on a pedestal. I transferred them from my old profile so it's been a long time of perving from afar  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"they've been there for that long, I guess I've put them on a pedestal. I transferred them from my old profile so it's been a long time of perving from afar "
Aren't I on your friends list anyway  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"they've been there for that long, I guess I've put them on a pedestal. I transferred them from my old profile so it's been a long time of perving from afar
Aren't I on your friends list anyway "
Yes you are. Only because I trust you with my face pics and you have the most unbelievably cute smile... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There's a few on my hotlist i've been brave enough to message but most haven't messages back so now i just perv "
Oh god you've just confirmed my worst fear.
That's it... I reserve the right to be a total coward  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's a few on my hotlist i've been brave enough to message but most haven't messages back so now i just perv
Oh god you've just confirmed my worst fear.
That's it... I reserve the right to be a total coward "
For that i apologise |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have anyone on my hotlist!
When I did previously it was those people that I hoped to talk to and hopefully meet in the future but hadn't got around to properly introducing myself yet. I gave up on all that when I UNLOSed and haven't used my hotlist since I rejoined |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't bother with a hot list. I really don't see the point in being a shrinking violet. If I see someone I like the look of I'll message them. If I can't message them it's a waste of my time staring wistfully at their profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't really actively look for "hot guys", they just appear in my box and then become friends I chat to. I do have a hot list but most of them are friends also...."Hot Friends". My awkward inability to make the first move I still can't conquer. Sometimes I see a hot pic and think Oh Em Effing Gee, but I would never have the courage to say FAF. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never normally bother with a hotlist but if I've been chatting to someone and they ask to add me as a friend, I usually suggest putting me on their hotlist instead...and I do the same |
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"I don't bother with a hot list. I really don't see the point in being a shrinking violet. If I see someone I like the look of I'll message them. If I can't message them it's a waste of my time staring wistfully at their profile. "
I stare wistfully at you often  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've messaged most on my hotlist
A couple are way out of my league though so I shall continue to admire from afar "
There is no one out of your league.  |
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"I've messaged most on my hotlist
A couple are way out of my league though so I shall continue to admire from afar
There is no one out of your league. "
I'll go do some messaging and get back to you. Be ready to listen to my sobs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've messaged most on my hotlist
A couple are way out of my league though so I shall continue to admire from afar
There is no one out of your league.
I'll go do some messaging and get back to you. Be ready to listen to my sobs"
Wonder Woman pants on and get it done |
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"So, after reading a post from another thread, I was curious how many out there make contact in some way with those people on your hotlist?
Or do you just wistfully look at their updates, hoping one day you'll pluck up the courage to say hello?
I'm definitely in the second camp and I doubt I ever would. To quote Wayne's world 'I'm not worthy' "
Well I took the first option but haven't heard back from you yet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think all of my hotlist are forumites who got there for having a cute tush, and I'm too young to contact them anyway.
There are two that give me a fizzy belly, and I would never be able to message them first, even without the filters luckily one isn't going to the social. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've got a pretty big hotlist, most are profiles that's we'll almost never meet due to distance or filters But their pics are good
Wouldn't like to think we're on anyone's hotlist and they wouldn't dare to message. I.e the ops I'm not worthy comment.
Nobody should think anyone's above them on here |
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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago
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"I think all of my hotlist are forumites who got there for having a cute tush, and I'm too young to contact them anyway.
There are two that give me a fizzy belly, and I would never be able to message them first, even without the filters luckily one isn't going to the social."
That means that one is though? |
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"I just merrily check updates in my own little bubble..and fab away ..."
My hotlist is either people I've met and stay in touch with or those I'm chatting with and intend to meet
But yes I like my bubble of updates too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think all of my hotlist are forumites who got there for having a cute tush, and I'm too young to contact them anyway.
There are two that give me a fizzy belly, and I would never be able to message them first, even without the filters luckily one isn't going to the social.
That means that one is though?"
I think I can handle one. Two would have caused a fizz overload 
And after I've spoke to the person, the fizz normally goes away. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We've got a pretty big hotlist, most are profiles that's we'll almost never meet due to distance or filters But their pics are good
Wouldn't like to think we're on anyone's hotlist and they wouldn't dare to message. I.e the ops I'm not worthy comment.
Nobody should think anyone's above them on here "
I know I'm worthy but with my limited pics on public profile they may not think that.
I think that's what I was trying to say.
There are many other people on here who offer pictures that I feel are stunning and my limited ones pale in comparison.
I don't usually have an inferiority complex |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I use my hotlist for hotties that are way out of my league, so I tend to perv discreetly "
Out of your league? You're a stunner
I tried it tonight and was pleasantly surprised. |
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"I use my hotlist for hotties that are way out of my league, so I tend to perv discreetly "
Who's to say that? Take a chance What's the worst that can happen? Life's too short
I thought I'd stanf no chance with my FWB and by all accounts he said similar about me so go for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Haven't got a hotlist wouldn't say anyone on the thread is out off anyone else's league, Think it's more how you view yourself rather than them. I could be totally wrong but as a person if you had more confidence in how you perceive yourself look wise, It would maybe give you that added confidence to take the chance you'll never know unless you try |
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"I use my hotlist for hotties that are way out of my league, so I tend to perv discreetly
Who's to say that? Take a chance What's the worst that can happen? Life's too short
I thought I'd stanf no chance with my FWB and by all accounts he said similar about me so go for it "
Exactly this! The worst that can happen is you receive a polite 'Thanks but no', or more likely, your message is read and ignored, where you can feel like one of the guys lol |
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I actually put a status up about this and loads of people have contacted me where I'm on their hotlist and some where on mine and some I've added lol
As I say I like my hotlist to be my 'to do' list |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd love to know if we are on anyone's hot list
Probably never know though  "
The best way to tell is when or if you post new pics...
If you are on someone's hotlist chances are that they will always fab your pics |
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"So many beautiful people on here thinking they're not worthy of talking to people on their hot lists... take a look in the mirror ... see what we see ... gorgeous !!!! "
But that's the thing isn't it. We're shaped on past experiences, things we've been told over the years. If only it was possible to see ourselves through the eyes of others. I'm sure lots of people would be pleasantly surprised, myself included. |
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"So many beautiful people on here thinking they're not worthy of talking to people on their hot lists... take a look in the mirror ... see what we see ... gorgeous !!!!
But that's the thing isn't it. We're shaped on past experiences, things we've been told over the years. If only it was possible to see ourselves through the eyes of others. I'm sure lots of people would be pleasantly surprised, myself included."
Perfectly put |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So many beautiful people on here thinking they're not worthy of talking to people on their hot lists... take a look in the mirror ... see what we see ... gorgeous !!!!
But that's the thing isn't it. We're shaped on past experiences, things we've been told over the years. If only it was possible to see ourselves through the eyes of others. I'm sure lots of people would be pleasantly surprised, myself included."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've just 6 on my hotlist. 4 of them I've met (2 of which haven't been active since last year, the other 2 are friends I chat to sporadically), the remaining 2 are forum friends.... "
I'm actually embarrassed by how many people are on mine just so I can perv new pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My hotlist is people id like to meet, but unfortunately according to their profiles im not what they are looking for...so i just enjoy seeing their updates |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every now and then I'll send a message to hotlist club and if there's no reciprocating, I remove them. Unless I like the odd perve of their pics then they remain |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So many beautiful people on here thinking they're not worthy of talking to people on their hot lists... take a look in the mirror ... see what we see ... gorgeous !!!! "
I chat to those on my hotlist...
not much chance of meeting them atm though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I add people that I liked the look of to my hotlist and have slowly been reading through profiles and sending messages. Then anyone who is not interested I delete. Although I have to admit, I have got a couple of people on there just to have a cheeky flick through thier pictures now and again. |
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We use the hotlist as a list of people whos profile or posts we like, who we are ging to message in the future. We message when we know we are going to have time to meet in the not to distant future for a meet, or if they put a status on that makes a message appropriate.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So many beautiful people on here thinking they're not worthy of talking to people on their hot lists... take a look in the mirror ... see what we see ... gorgeous !!!!
But that's the thing isn't it. We're shaped on past experiences, things we've been told over the years. If only it was possible to see ourselves through the eyes of others. I'm sure lots of people would be pleasantly surprised, myself included.
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You are on my hotlist. My messages are always unread. Must be that you are on a lot of hotlists and get alot of messages x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't actually have anyone on my hotlist. I pretty much bust up my courage to message you all anyway. (I feel I need to apologise sometimes ) but what are we here for if not to talk to each other. If i fancy you or like talking to you. Why wouldn't I?
But, I rarely message. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've whittled mine down to none! The ones I felt I'd get on with I've messaged and the others have been removed.
I may add in the future though, who knows |
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