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By *ifferent69 OP Man over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Curious to know ..

Couples and single ladies..

Those who seek single guys, do you initiate or does guy have to Msge first.??

Even if single guy is of interest,or has been viewing you or winking.??

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Curious to know ..

Couples and single ladies..

Those who seek single guys, do you initiate or does guy have to Msge first.??

Even if single guy is of interest,or has been viewing you or winking.??

The guy has to work quite hard I am afraid lol!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

I wouldnt message someone whose viewed or winked me. But if i like someones profile i will message them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I'm looking, I make the first move

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have to say when a woman makes the 1st move it is a massive turn on. Just my opinion

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By *airymagicWoman over a year ago

goblin city

Either or.

Ive made the first move and also been approached

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By *ighland gentlemanMan over a year ago

Ardgay

Pawn to g4.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't bother making the first move on here. If someone likes the look of me they'll message me, if they don't they won't

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I sometimes message off the back on a forum post or in chat but I don't think Ive messaged a profile first.

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By *hooselifeMan over a year ago

Coventry

Depends entirely on who found who first I suppose. I try not to give these kinds of things any thought. They shouldn't really matter

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'm more than happy to message first if I'm looking to meet new people

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By *ifferent69 OP Man over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"Curious to know ..

Couples and single ladies..

Those who seek single guys, do you initiate or does guy have to Msge first.??

Even if single guy is of interest,or has been viewing you or winking.??

The guy has to work quite hard I am afraid lol!

"
. Hhhhmmm OK ??

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By *ifferent69 OP Man over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"Either or.

Ive made the first move and also been approached"

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By *ifferent69 OP Man over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Thanks for all your early responses guys..

Nice to hear that Ladies are prepared to break the ice ..

Should be reassuring ......still bloody waiting ha ha...

Tap tap hello ...tap tap hello is there any one out there...

Please ......pretty please ha ha ...

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By *rowleyMan over a year ago

Edinburgh

I've had a few messages first, but usually send them first.

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

I'll msg off the back of a thread but that's all. I stopped doing 1st msges a while ago if somebody like the look of me I'm sure they can manage a 1st msg. I hate the thought of being seen as a normal sad single on here I'm not and I'm definitely worth so much more

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By *ifferent69 OP Man over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"I'll msg off the back of a thread but that's all. I stopped doing 1st msges a while ago if somebody like the look of me I'm sure they can manage a 1st msg. I hate the thought of being seen as a normal sad single on here I'm not and I'm definitely worth so much more

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By *ifferent69 OP Man over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

That's a valid point previous profile fireblade makes..

Are singles on here generally thought as sad ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We're happy receiving and sending the first msg, it's the content that matters. On the odd lucky occasion, we all click and then the magic happens...

Peach x

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By *lan157Man over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

You know from your first reply from your message to a lady if she is interested or not. One line responses speak volumes.

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By *unandbuckCouple over a year ago

Sheffield

We would message first, no problem. In a club, after chatting to a guy we invited him to join us for an mmf. It's fine either way round for us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

id make the first move if i wanted the person enough

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Two potential guys I wanna meet, I found one on the forums and one on men's hot pics, both cases I messaged them first and initiated it as I have filters on.

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By *iss.RedWoman over a year ago

somewhere

I would and have messaged first if I liked someone

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By *ifferent69 OP Man over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"Two potential guys I wanna meet, I found one on the forums and one on men's hot pics, both cases I messaged them first and initiated it as I have filters on. "

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By *ifferent69 OP Man over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"I would and have messaged first if I liked someone "

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm more likely to make the first move these days, as I arrange meets for when I am out and about for work. Unfortunately the guys are playing hard to get.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think girls get so many messages they prob don't look much.I message 1st very rarely

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By *on and TammyCouple over a year ago

Manchester

We have done a couple of times in the past but it didn't work out. We've learnt from our mistake though and will change tack when we try it again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would say I do 95% of all first contact. I have been approached a couple of times which make a very nice change.

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