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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why do women put this in their profiles?? I know thats what they say they are looking for, but this means i don't send messages on fab because i don't have a massive cock and i don't have big muscles although i do go the gym. I then meet the same couples in a club and they are happy to play even though i am not gym fit. Just seems strange to me |
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The thing with this life is that everyone has their choices and preferences. For most (imo) the desire is to get something that they can't do in their vanilla life. So older ladies may want younger guys, white girls might want black guys, single men want to have sex....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know i understand that but why does their filter change when in a club? Maybe they just put it on profile and hope for the best, i suppose they will still get messages from other guys that ain't gym fit or vwe but i don't message if im not what they are looking for |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Because being in a club is a different experience to meeting on here. Also, if they settle at a club, they're more likely not to settle on here. Can't blame a person for aiming high. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Why do women put this in their profiles?? I know thats what they say they are looking for, but this means i don't send messages on fab because i don't have a massive cock and i don't have big muscles although i do go the gym. I then meet the same couples in a club and they are happy to play even though i am not gym fit. Just seems strange to me"
There are lots who aren't looking for that type, so don't despair. There are those who prefer the 'dad bod'  |
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"Why do women put this in their profiles?? I know thats what they say they are looking for, but this means i don't send messages on fab because i don't have a massive cock and i don't have big muscles although i do go the gym. I then meet the same couples in a club and they are happy to play even though i am not gym fit. Just seems strange to me"
I go for gym fit well endowed guys on fab That's my starting point as all you have are profiles to read
Clubs are different as you can interact face to face from the start |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just seems strange to me
I go for gym fit well endowed guys on fab That's my starting point as all you have are profiles to read
Clubs are different as you can interact face to face from the start"
This is why I'm starting to think clubs is more the way to go for a single guy. (I know, there's probably too many in there as well) but it's navigating these rocky waters of Fab, or going straight in with a 'hello' face to face in a club? I know which sounds easier. |
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"Just seems strange to me
I go for gym fit well endowed guys on fab That's my starting point as all you have are profiles to read
Clubs are different as you can interact face to face from the start
This is why I'm starting to think clubs is more the way to go for a single guy. (I know, there's probably too many in there as well) but it's navigating these rocky waters of Fab, or going straight in with a 'hello' face to face in a club? I know which sounds easier. "
I'd definitely recommend clubs as a single guy The genuine laid back swinging guys do well at clubs
On here there are so many single guys it's hard to even get a message read when women get so many messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do women put this in their profiles?? I know thats what they say they are looking for, but this means i don't send messages on fab because i don't have a massive cock and i don't have big muscles although i do go the gym. I then meet the same couples in a club and they are happy to play even though i am not gym fit. Just seems strange to me"
Take it as a compliment that they want you.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do women put this in their profiles?? I know thats what they say they are looking for, but this means i don't send messages on fab because i don't have a massive cock and i don't have big muscles although i do go the gym. I then meet the same couples in a club and they are happy to play even though i am not gym fit. Just seems strange to me"
I don't understand why you find it strange...you are obviously having a successful time meeting people in clubs so why bother with profiles who have that as a preference?
it would seem in this case that its their loss  |
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I definitely think clubs are good for single guys. I've met and played with guys in a club and had a great time. Then when I've looked at profile i would probably have passed them by.
I guess everyone has their list of ideals but if you meet and click that's great. It's harder electronically |
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When I'm moving somewhere different, on a journey, my destination is my focus - rather than my place.
And if I visit a restaurant I've eaten fantastic steak at, I may deliberately order a vegetarian meal.
Former tastes can inspire change and if the restaurant hasn't an appropriate alternative, I may settle for something that's not my preferences. Remember that few people only like and accept one option for most things in life.
And we often don't perceive ourselves as others do - we're too big, small, dark, fair etc when we are looking at us very differently.
Fab involves trial and error for many of us - what we like, how to get what we want and more. We seek out learning from what we're doing.
Investing effort - and how much - is a personal call. Likewise how much risk we're going to make - will we experiment or stick with a rigid formula?
You're right to gauge others' needs and how well you match them but it's going to be a continuous process. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Arguably if you go the gym you are gym fit, maybe what you have in mind and they have in mind are two different things.
But yes, clubs are very different. On here you need to apply filters in whatever form you choose to narrow the field because it's harder to get a feel for people whereas in a club it's a lot easier when they're in front of you and able to dazzle you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There's nowt worse than being over six foot and gym fit with a baby's arm between ya legs and the demanding bint is fat sweaty and couldn't catch a cold never mind a fitness class  |
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By *wcwCouple
over a year ago
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"Just seems strange to me
I go for gym fit well endowed guys on fab That's my starting point as all you have are profiles to read
Clubs are different as you can interact face to face from the start
This is why I'm starting to think clubs is more the way to go for a single guy. (I know, there's probably too many in there as well) but it's navigating these rocky waters of Fab, or going straight in with a 'hello' face to face in a club? I know which sounds easier.
I'd definitely recommend clubs as a single guy The genuine laid back swinging guys do well at clubs
On here there are so many single guys it's hard to even get a message read when women get so many messages"
we only go for guys at a club or on a meet. The only thing we have found at the club we go. There is never enough single guys to pick n choose. By the time we worked out who wife would like it only leaves a few. More guys should go to clubs Only our opinion. N also lower the enterence fee for them to. I know it can be quite expensive for single guy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why do women put this in their profiles?? I know thats what they say they are looking for, but this means i don't send messages on fab because i don't have a massive cock and i don't have big muscles although i do go the gym. I then meet the same couples in a club and they are happy to play even though i am not gym fit. Just seems strange to me
I don't understand why you find it strange...you are obviously having a successful time meeting people in clubs so why bother with profiles who have that as a preference?
it would seem in this case that its their loss "
thank you and i think they are missing out  |
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