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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say they were more for a woman to inform the men that she wants a meet if I'm honest.
Every guys profile is a meet request anyway, you only have to message them and say you want to meet them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very occasional interest, usually hours after I wanted and by d*unk, horny people who are too far away or are getting desperate after not finding anyone they like more.
Sounds like a rant, it's really not, I keep my expectations low so rarely disappointed. The few successful ads are definitely worth the many unsuccessful ones  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd say they were more for a woman to inform the men that she wants a meet if I'm honest.
Every guys profile is a meet request anyway, you only have to message them and say you want to meet them. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had interest but it's very rarely anyone I would consider actually meeting, I think only twice have they worked out well. I don't tend to bother with them anymore as random meets with people I haven't established a connection with beforehand don't really float my boat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think unless you are tall muscled and have a large one (and not just the ego) then chances on the site are very slim and even if you do arrange something it's likely that they get a better offer and cancel |
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I've stopped putting up meets or status looking for a meet when I'm arranging my parties as I get too many random single males wanting to join in. I invite those who have been before or ones I like the look of. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd say they were more for a woman to inform the men that she wants a meet if I'm honest.
Every guys profile is a meet request anyway, you only have to message them and say you want to meet them. "
Don't put every men in the same basket  i would not meet a woman just because she sent me a message telling me wants to meet.
"Wanna fuck" type message can has the same effect on women & men.
And to answer the question, i feel like putting a statue saying that you wanna meet is a bit useless to me, it seems a little bit desesperate, would mean to me that you're too lazy to look yourself for the person you wanna and also that might meet anyone that reach you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never had anyone show any interest in mine. Stopped putting them up altogether "
Same here, seems a waste of time. I'll sometimes add myself to meet now but I suspect most women don't use that nor many couples |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only done it once few days after I joined and got responses from women I wouldn't want to meet and ended in the ‘why not‘ ping pong conversation so had to block them.
I don't use it anyone can't be arsed with the drama.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd say they were more for a woman to inform the men that she wants a meet if I'm honest.
Every guys profile is a meet request anyway, you only have to message them and say you want to meet them.
Don't put every men in the same basket i would not meet a woman just because she sent me a message telling me wants to meet.
"Wanna fuck" type message can has the same effect on women & men.
And to answer the question, i feel like putting a statue saying that you wanna meet is a bit useless to me, it seems a little bit desesperate, would mean to me that you're too lazy to look yourself for the person you wanna and also that might meet anyone that reach you."
Must just be the guys that I've messaged over the years then. I send a message saying I want to fuck and they're there with their pants down waiting!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never done it. I've been tempted when extremely horny. But considering it was someone else that got me that way, it's not a shag I need. It's that person I want.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd say they were more for a woman to inform the men that she wants a meet if I'm honest.
Every guys profile is a meet request anyway, you only have to message them and say you want to meet them.
Don't put every men in the same basket i would not meet a woman just because she sent me a message telling me wants to meet.
"Wanna fuck" type message can has the same effect on women & men.
And to answer the question, i feel like putting a statue saying that you wanna meet is a bit useless to me, it seems a little bit desesperate, would mean to me that you're too lazy to look yourself for the person you wanna and also that might meet anyone that reach you."
This is what I've found, hardly anyone who showed interest was I interested in apart from a couple of notable exceptions. It's often couples who are interested despite me not looking to meet couples. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Must guys put up mets then don't go on all day or reply saying it was only for the morning or afternoon!! Well us ladies aren't mind readers!!
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Ahh it's mainly the mans fault yet again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Must just be the guys that I've messaged over the years then. I send a message saying I want to fuck and they're there with their pants down waiting!
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You are a very good looking woman that's for sure, so i can't really blame them aha, but yeah, depends on what everyone's into i guess, don't get me wrong i'm not here to find love or anything close to that, but yeah, well i've gotta say that i never recieved any messages from women saying : wanna fuck ? Yet, so i guess it would depend on the woman that message me, how do i feel about it, etc.
But the profile update is a bit rough imo if you want to meet, i would rather find the person i would like to meet and message her/them, would feel less like looking for just a random fuck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've used it on the occasion as you never know what might happen. But yes it is a bit useless for men, it's alot better just striking up a conversation with somebody you like the looks of and seeing where it goes |
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"I'd say they were more for a woman to inform the men that she wants a meet if I'm honest.
Every guys profile is a meet request anyway, you only have to message them and say you want to meet them.
Don't put every men in the same basket i would not meet a woman just because she sent me a message telling me wants to meet.
"Wanna fuck" type message can has the same effect on women & men.
And to answer the question, i feel like putting a statue saying that you wanna meet is a bit useless to me, it seems a little bit desesperate, would mean to me that you're too lazy to look yourself for the person you wanna and also that might meet anyone that reach you.
Must just be the guys that I've messaged over the years then. I send a message saying I want to fuck and they're there with their pants down waiting!
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Yep, must be |
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I used once when I first joined (young and naive then)
Havent used it since, although I do put the odd status, up now and again, but generally with my tongue firmly placed in my cheek, and not expecting anything to come of the status. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you put a meet or status up looking for a meet how successful are you  "
Never unless a friend see's it and is free, tho usually i'll see what friends are upto before postin a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Didn't think I'd get messages cos of the filters but getting messages through from people that have messaged me in the past when I haven't had filters on.
So the general response is meet requests do work, but for females only. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never had any success with putting up a meet event, even when I'm accomodating or even just a social, guess I'm just too fuck ugly for most on here  |
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I would guess that due to the sheer volume of men on this site women can literally pick and choose exactly what they want, when, where and how! for the guys its a little bit more difficult. Of course after some initial meetings and verifications life can and does get easier but I've never actually had anybody directly approach me. On the very odd occasion where I've put a suggestion up for a social meet or otherwise I literally have not had a reply |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The site can create a very distorted outlook to users.
Guys can get downbeat about their presumed lack of success while girls can often get inflated egos.
Reminds me a lot of the military...
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How so, in terms of your statement about the military? Not being chippy, just curious. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The site can create a very distorted outlook to users.
Guys can get downbeat about their presumed lack of success while girls can often get inflated egos.
Reminds me a lot of the military...
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Couldn't have said it better myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's a waste of time putting them up. I never look at them and have never advertised that I'm looking. Most of my requests goes on behind the scenes. |
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"Didn't think I'd get messages cos of the filters but getting messages through from people that have messaged me in the past when I haven't had filters on.
So the general response is meet requests do work, but for females only. "
Definitely, and I bet your responses were almost immediate right? I've had one profile view since I posted up, and that was from someone in this thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you put a meet or status up looking for a meet how successful are you "
I have never had any interest too any meets I put up I also just do then randomly just to see but nothing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was just looking through some of the people who have advertised meetings for today.
And I am blocked by ALOT of them  "
Maybe they don't like cake. Everyone has their preferences  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was just looking through some of the people who have advertised meetings for today.
And I am blocked by ALOT of them
Maybe they don't like cake. Everyone has their preferences "
Then they are just not the ones for me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There was a similar demographic in the military, weighting things massively in favour of girls.
Never affected me thankfully but that even included career progression!"
Yes I've heard that before about the military. I suppose that's quite a different topic though, however interesting.
I guess with this site it's about the self worth and self esteem you bring to it before you join. |
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"I was just looking through some of the people who have advertised meetings for today.
And I am blocked by ALOT of them
Maybe they don't like cake. Everyone has their preferences
Then they are just not the ones for me "
Maybe you should stick to rapping |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never... In 2 yrs.
I have had messages afterwards saying they didn't think I'd accept and if I did It would probably that they were not the first choice...ie tried others first but didn't work with them and so didn't respond.
I don't put up meets anymore nor actually even respond to them myself as I've never been successful in my attempts at responding myself in the past.
My meets only ever happen through a lot of chat and getting to know someone through messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a hit & miss, sometimes too bombarded with 'too many' messages difficult to pick end up cancelling the meet sometimes 'only' bout 20 people interested (which is abit of an insult only 20) so put down the meet again, at least 80-100 we like variety to choose from  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use it quite a bit not just the "on the day" meets I do put meets up for future dates. It has worked once or twice but I don't get hung up on it. I'll proactively message ladies I like the look of and want to potentially meet. Positively proactive |
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"Absolutely no interest at all ........ it's a useless feature for guys lol "
I'm not sure it's useless for you as you would show up in searches under interested in meeting today, one of the search criteria. |
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