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Any ladies play with married men?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Am looking for a non judgemental female who would play with married a married man, I know married females play and no one blinks an eye as i discovered and thats a different story? Anyone out there? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Short answer... on paper or in theory... no. Very few, if any, women are attracted to the idea of playing with a married guy, even one who has consent. Whilst men find the reverse kinky, women just don't.
In reality? If they meet you and you click and they maybe meet your partner and can tell it's all cool... then yes some of them may be willing to give you a punt... but it's unlikely to be *because* you're married but rather *despite* you're being married.
I would usually add that I'm in no way condoning cheating and that, in my opinion, you should always have the consent of your partner, but recently the forum has made it clear to me that women see cheats no differently from those playing with consent... so it doesn't really seem to matter to women either way |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Am looking for a non judgemental female who would play with married a married man, I know married females play and no one blinks an eye as i discovered and thats a different story? Anyone out there?"
There are many on here that will, often it's best to stick to the married ladies as well, then you're both in the same boat.
And pssst, anyway, I haven't told you this but y'know many of these 'single' women on here .. well they're really not! It's just that they're more discreet about it! Wink wink!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sure there's a lot of women out there that have played with married men, I do. Nothing wrong with it. It's the married man's business / conscience not the woman playing with him. Simple.
Why over complicate things. Jeese. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Am looking for a non judgemental female who would play with married a married man, I know married females play and no one blinks an eye as i discovered and thats a different story? Anyone out there?
Non judgemental female. Next to the flying unicorn, at the bottom of the garden with the faeries, by the golden pot at the end of the rainbow. Stand back and wait for the backlash.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am looking for a non judgemental female who would play with married a married man, I know married females play and no one blinks an eye as i discovered and thats a different story? Anyone out there?"
I always play with my husband  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Am looking for a non judgemental female who would play with married a married man, I know married females play and no one blinks an eye as i discovered and thats a different story? Anyone out there? I always play with my husband "
and yes I play with married men. I'm only after fun not a relationship but some guys need to be careful. There's lots of bunny boilers in this game x |
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"Am looking for a non judgemental female who would play with married a married man, I know married females play and no one blinks an eye as i discovered and thats a different story? Anyone out there? I always play with my husband and yes I play with married men. I'm only after fun not a relationship but some guys need to be careful. There's lots of bunny boilers in this game x"
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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago
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It's not our issue if a married guy wants to cheat or not. It's his conscience not ours. If we click with someone and invite them to meet us we don't normally ask about his home life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Am looking for a non judgemental female who would play with married a married man, I know married females play and no one blinks an eye as i discovered and thats a different story? Anyone out there? I always play with my husband and yes I play with married men. I'm only after fun not a relationship but some guys need to be careful. There's lots of bunny boilers in this game x
Never "
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"Am looking for a non judgemental female who would play with married a married man, I know married females play and no one blinks an eye as i discovered and thats a different story? Anyone out there? I always play with my husband and yes I play with married men. I'm only after fun not a relationship but some guys need to be careful. There's lots of bunny boilers in this game x
Never just saying. "
There probably is a few lol ... Ive not met any yet .... I hope ..... Who's that in my garden  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Am looking for a non judgemental female who would play with married a married man, I know married females play and no one blinks an eye as i discovered and thats a different story? Anyone out there? I always play with my husband and yes I play with married men. I'm only after fun not a relationship but some guys need to be careful. There's lots of bunny boilers in this game x
Never just saying.
There probably is a few lol ... Ive not met any yet .... I hope ..... Who's that in my garden "
it's not me. I love bunnies too much to boil them lol. X |
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"Am looking for a non judgemental female who would play with married a married man, I know married females play and no one blinks an eye as i discovered and thats a different story? Anyone out there? I always play with my husband and yes I play with married men. I'm only after fun not a relationship but some guys need to be careful. There's lots of bunny boilers in this game x
Never just saying.
There probably is a few lol ... Ive not met any yet .... I hope ..... Who's that in my garden it's not me. I love bunnies too much to boil them lol. X"
They taste better from the oven lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oddly it seems more of an issue on here than anywhere. Dating sites cater for that preference and in real life plenty of women play away, albeit discreetly. |
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"Am looking for a non judgemental female who would play with married a married man, I know married females play and no one blinks an eye as i discovered and thats a different story? Anyone out there?"
There are plenty of people here who will play with those attached but I think you asked the wrong question. You want to know who will play with you, don't you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to say that it's never been a problem with me. I wouldn't want to associate with judgemental people anyway ??"
Or people can have preferences, rather than simply labelling them as judgemental. |
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By *wcwCouple
over a year ago
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My wife plays with married men. At clubs. And on meets. We only know this cuz they tell us. We dont ask. They could say they are single. We would never know. We dont agree with cheating. But if they say there single theres no way of knowing there not. We go out to have fun. Its up to them what they do or say afterwards (to there wifes). |
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"Am looking for a non judgemental female who would play with married a married man, I know married females play and no one blinks an eye as i discovered and thats a different story? Anyone out there?
There are plenty of people here who will play with those attached but I think you asked the wrong question. You want to know who will play with you, don't you. "
That's extremely perceptive  |
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"Am looking for a non judgemental female who would play with married a married man, I know married females play and no one blinks an eye as i discovered and thats a different story? Anyone out there?
There are plenty of people here who will play with those attached but I think you asked the wrong question. You want to know who will play with you, don't you.
That's extremely perceptive "
Thanks but I've been here many years and it's a common theme. Blame everything on not getting a meet apart from what the OP's are responsible for and can change. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Am looking for a non judgemental female who would play with married a married man, I know married females play and no one blinks an eye as i discovered and thats a different story? Anyone out there?
There are plenty of people here who will play with those attached but I think you asked the wrong question. You want to know who will play with you, don't you.
That's extremely perceptive
Thanks but I've been here many years and it's a common theme. Blame everything on not getting a meet apart from what the OP's are responsible for and can change."
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"I have to say that it's never been a problem with me. I wouldn't want to associate with judgemental people anyway ??
Or people can have preferences, rather than simply labelling them as judgemental. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had one demented woman/couple on a mission from God who after I mentioned I was attached during a chat contacted my fabfriends/veris to warn them I was married. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had one demented woman/couple on a mission from God who after I mentioned I was attached during a chat contacted my fabfriends/veris to warn them I was married. "
lesson learnt. Hide your veris & friends |
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"I had one demented woman/couple on a mission from God who after I mentioned I was attached during a chat contacted my fabfriends/veris to warn them I was married. "
So you generally leave that little bit of information out do you when you meet people. If you play with fire you may just get burned sometimes you know,there are some crazy people out there do you attached/married people not realise that?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had one demented woman/couple on a mission from God who after I mentioned I was attached during a chat contacted my fabfriends/veris to warn them I was married.
So you generally leave that little bit of information out do you when you meet people. If you play with fire you may just get burned sometimes you know,there are some crazy people out there do you attached/married people not realise that?!"
Actually, no, I pretty much always volunteer that information early on, if not in first message. I did not meet this particular darling, just chatted on here and had informed her of my status in the first message. But as you say, there are crazies out there so hiding contacts might be a good idea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had one demented woman/couple on a mission from God who after I mentioned I was attached during a chat contacted my fabfriends/veris to warn them I was married.
So you generally leave that little bit of information out do you when you meet people. If you play with fire you may just get burned sometimes you know,there are some crazy people out there do you attached/married people not realise that?!
Actually, no, I pretty much always volunteer that information early on, if not in first message. I did not meet this particular darling, just chatted on here and had informed her of my status in the first message. But as you say, there are crazies out there so hiding contacts might be a good idea."
I always hide my veris & contacts. I have met a few policemen so for their privacy I won't allow anyone to see who they are. I get verified just so people know we are genuine. |
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"I had one demented woman/couple on a mission from God who after I mentioned I was attached during a chat contacted my fabfriends/veris to warn them I was married.
So you generally leave that little bit of information out do you when you meet people. If you play with fire you may just get burned sometimes you know,there are some crazy people out there do you attached/married people not realise that?!
Actually, no, I pretty much always volunteer that information early on, if not in first message. I did not meet this particular darling, just chatted on here and had informed her of my status in the first message. But as you say, there are crazies out there so hiding contacts might be a good idea."
Well it's a very good idea if you don't want it to happen again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had one demented woman/couple on a mission from God who after I mentioned I was attached during a chat contacted my fabfriends/veris to warn them I was married.
So you generally leave that little bit of information out do you when you meet people. If you play with fire you may just get burned sometimes you know,there are some crazy people out there do you attached/married people not realise that?!
Actually, no, I pretty much always volunteer that information early on, if not in first message. I did not meet this particular darling, just chatted on here and had informed her of my status in the first message. But as you say, there are crazies out there so hiding contacts might be a good idea. I always hide my veris & contacts. I have met a few policemen so for their privacy I won't allow anyone to see who they are. I get verified just so people know we are genuine. "
I do enjoy reading veris though, it does round out a profile but I have just hidden mine now. |
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