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Which way around do you do it ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know I prob shouldn't go there but I'm bored as hell so I thought I'll start a new thread.
Everyone does this differently and there is no right or wrong way to go about this.
I am keen to know which way everyone does it.
Everyone has a different approach but I have found I have now changed my approach due to the wasting of time.....
So here it is the big question....
Which way around do you look at a profile???
The About you bit ,first or the pictures....
Oh I see you thought I meant something else ....
Dirty minded gits.
In all seriousness tho which way as if you look at the pictures and then the profile says " we don't do ...." have you wasted your time, as opposed to reading the profile and liking it and then seeing the pics and not liking them.....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they have contacted me regarding meeting I look at their photos first, then if they can accommodate, then anything they have written on their profile and status. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I read the profile first..
If it interests me then I check their age range, the distance and if they are looking for similar to me...
Then I check the pics ... |
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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago
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If looking for someone to meet, I look at main text first, then their about me/looking for/interests then pics.
If I'm perving, pics only.
If being nosey about someone I've seen posting on the forum, depending on the post its either location first , to see if its worth getting the pitchfork out  or pics first if their profile pic catches my eye. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The profile pic, then if i can't really tell from that then I'll look at the other pics.
If i can then i read the profile then look at their public pictures.
Both equally important for me |
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(1) Profile text:
a) Take a second to read their one line, then instantly forget the person and move on to next unread mail.
b) Chuckle and decide I like someone's humour and proceed to phase (2).
(2) Pics:
a) Bandage my wounded eyes and pray the damage isn't permanent.
b) Think 'hey, we have the same taste in bedlinen/decor' before realising that's really not a good enough reason to proceed.
c) Chuckle at the clever use of humour shown yet again and cut straight to phase (4)
d) Pick up my jaw, wonder why this adonis has mailed me, move straight to phase (3) to see if I'm being catfished.
(3) Veris:
a) Wonder why he mailed me when his preference seems to be for inarticulate bimbos.
b) Wonder why all his veris are profiles created in the past month and have also only been verified by each other.
c) Notice he's met someone I've had jealous/possessive mails from in the past and say 'aw hell no! no more drama please...'
d) Think how everyone sounds reasonably balanced and sane and has good things to say without giving overly graphic accounts of skill and anatomy.
(4) Reply:
a) Thank you for your interest, but you're not what I'm looking for.
b) You sound like fun.... Lets chat a bit and see if we have anything in common.
I can send this as a PDF if anyone needs it for their notes.... |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"I know I prob shouldn't go there but I'm bored as hell so I thought I'll start a new thread.
Everyone does this differently and there is no right or wrong way to go about this.
I am keen to know which way everyone does it.
Everyone has a different approach but I have found I have now changed my approach due to the wasting of time.....
So here it is the big question....
Which way around do you look at a profile???
The About you bit ,first or the pictures....
Oh I see you thought I meant something else ....
Dirty minded gits.
In all seriousness tho which way as if you look at the pictures and then the profile says " we don't do ...." have you wasted your time, as opposed to reading the profile and liking it and then seeing the pics and not liking them.....
Answers below "
I check the height then their interests.
I'm looking for something quite specific...  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
It honestly depends...if it's off the back of a fabbing thread or similar then straight to the pics without a glance at anything else.
If it's out of genuine interest in the profile then age criteria and looking for first, then either blurb or pictures depending on my mood at the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Name first- quick glance to make sure they haven't called them something like fannydestroyer
Pictures
Blurb
Everything else
It seems I'm in the minority with that way lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends. Chances are that either their profile avatar caught my eye or it was their comments on the forum. A profile can be a slog sometimes though, so a skim read can happen followed by pics or vice versa. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Name first- quick glance to make sure they haven't called them something like fannydestroyer
Pictures
Blurb
Everything else
It seems I'm in the minority with that way lol"
Or maybe just the most honest |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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It depends on how I come across the profile. If it's as a result of a comment I'm not keen on on here, profile text. If I'm just being nosy or I'm curious about them in a good way, pictures first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pictures first, then I'm usually spent before I get to the text so I go for a nap.
Aren't you spent after the first picture? "
I have to look for the right picture. I sometimes get to the second or even the third. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pictures first, then I'm usually spent before I get to the text so I go for a nap.
Aren't you spent after the first picture?
I have to look for the right picture. I sometimes get to the second or even the third. "
Stamina!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pictures first, then I'm usually spent before I get to the text so I go for a nap.
Aren't you spent after the first picture?
I have to look for the right picture. I sometimes get to the second or even the third.
Stamina! "
Baby, I can go all... minute. |
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"Pictures first, then I'm usually spent before I get to the text so I go for a nap.
Aren't you spent after the first picture?
I have to look for the right picture. I sometimes get to the second or even the third.
Stamina!
Baby, I can go all... minute. "
Damn you are so hot |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pictures first, then I'm usually spent before I get to the text so I go for a nap.
Aren't you spent after the first picture?
I have to look for the right picture. I sometimes get to the second or even the third.
Stamina!
Baby, I can go all... minute. "
Some folk just don't realise how long that 60 seconds can be!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pictures first, then I'm usually spent before I get to the text so I go for a nap.
Aren't you spent after the first picture?
I have to look for the right picture. I sometimes get to the second or even the third.
Stamina!
Baby, I can go all... minute. "
Go and have a rest. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Pictures first, then I'm usually spent before I get to the text so I go for a nap.
Aren't you spent after the first picture?
I have to look for the right picture. I sometimes get to the second or even the third.
Stamina!
Baby, I can go all... minute.
Damn you are so hot "
How have you not ridden him yet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pictures first, then I'm usually spent before I get to the text so I go for a nap.
Aren't you spent after the first picture?
I have to look for the right picture. I sometimes get to the second or even the third.
Stamina!
Baby, I can go all... minute.
Damn you are so hot "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pictures first, then I'm usually spent before I get to the text so I go for a nap.
Aren't you spent after the first picture?
I have to look for the right picture. I sometimes get to the second or even the third.
Stamina!
Baby, I can go all... minute.
Some folk just don't realise how long that 60 seconds can be!! "
Especially when you have it on a countdown timer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pictures first, then I'm usually spent before I get to the text so I go for a nap.
Aren't you spent after the first picture?
I have to look for the right picture. I sometimes get to the second or even the third.
Stamina!
Baby, I can go all... minute.
Damn you are so hot
How have you not ridden him yet? "
Yeah, Honey! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pictures first, then I'm usually spent before I get to the text so I go for a nap.
Aren't you spent after the first picture?
I have to look for the right picture. I sometimes get to the second or even the third.
Stamina!
Baby, I can go all... minute.
Go and have a rest. "
Good idea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pictures first, then I'm usually spent before I get to the text so I go for a nap.
Aren't you spent after the first picture?
I have to look for the right picture. I sometimes get to the second or even the third.
Stamina!
Baby, I can go all... minute.
Some folk just don't realise how long that 60 seconds can be!!
Especially when you have it on a countdown timer. "
Are you imagining doing them up the conundrum? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pictures first, then I'm usually spent before I get to the text so I go for a nap.
Aren't you spent after the first picture?
I have to look for the right picture. I sometimes get to the second or even the third.
Stamina!
Baby, I can go all... minute.
Some folk just don't realise how long that 60 seconds can be!!
Especially when you have it on a countdown timer. "
Under pressure!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pictures first, then I'm usually spent before I get to the text so I go for a nap.
Aren't you spent after the first picture?
I have to look for the right picture. I sometimes get to the second or even the third.
Stamina!
Baby, I can go all... minute.
Some folk just don't realise how long that 60 seconds can be!!
Especially when you have it on a countdown timer.
Are you imagining doing them up the conundrum? "
So this! |
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"Pictures first, then I'm usually spent before I get to the text so I go for a nap.
Aren't you spent after the first picture?
I have to look for the right picture. I sometimes get to the second or even the third.
Stamina!
Baby, I can go all... minute.
Some folk just don't realise how long that 60 seconds can be!! "
This guy wasn't lying when he said he will be cumming in seconds  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pictures first, then I'm usually spent before I get to the text so I go for a nap.
Aren't you spent after the first picture?
I have to look for the right picture. I sometimes get to the second or even the third.
Stamina!
Baby, I can go all... minute.
Some folk just don't realise how long that 60 seconds can be!!
Especially when you have it on a countdown timer.
Are you imagining doing them up the conundrum?
So this! "
Well, now I'm actually imagining Rachel Riley...
I'll be in my bunk |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pictures first, then I'm usually spent before I get to the text so I go for a nap.
Aren't you spent after the first picture?
I have to look for the right picture. I sometimes get to the second or even the third.
Stamina!
Baby, I can go all... minute.
Some folk just don't realise how long that 60 seconds can be!!
Especially when you have it on a countdown timer.
Are you imagining doing them up the conundrum?
So this!
Well, now I'm actually imagining Rachel Riley...
I'll be in my bunk "
Enjoy! |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
"Location
Accommodation status
Height
Pics
Blurb
Veris
Yes, that's about me - though i will check whether they can accomm or not pretty much near the top of the list."
I forgot about that! FIFM |
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"Pictures first, then I'm usually spent before I get to the text so I go for a nap.
Aren't you spent after the first picture?
I have to look for the right picture. I sometimes get to the second or even the third.
Stamina!
Baby, I can go all... minute.
Damn you are so hot
How have you not ridden him yet? "
He wants someone who can ride without falling off |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pictures first, then I'm usually spent before I get to the text so I go for a nap.
Aren't you spent after the first picture?
I have to look for the right picture. I sometimes get to the second or even the third.
Stamina!
Baby, I can go all... minute.
Damn you are so hot
How have you not ridden him yet?
He wants someone who can ride without falling off"
I am just a bachelor |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pictures first, then I'm usually spent before I get to the text so I go for a nap.
Aren't you spent after the first picture?
I have to look for the right picture. I sometimes get to the second or even the third.
Stamina!
Baby, I can go all... minute.
Damn you are so hot
How have you not ridden him yet?
He wants someone who can ride without falling off
I am just a bachelor"
Oh no you didn't! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From the title of the thread I was expecting a detailed discussion of whether the milk or the tea goes in the cup first. Imagine my disappointment!
(Milk first, of course) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Pictures first, then I'm usually spent before I get to the text so I go for a nap.
Aren't you spent after the first picture?
I have to look for the right picture. I sometimes get to the second or even the third.
Stamina!
Baby, I can go all... minute.
Some folk just don't realise how long that 60 seconds can be!!
This guy wasn't lying when he said he will be cumming in seconds "
Hey they did a whole movie about it
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"Pictures first, then I'm usually spent before I get to the text so I go for a nap.
Aren't you spent after the first picture?
I have to look for the right picture. I sometimes get to the second or even the third.
Stamina!
Baby, I can go all... minute.
Damn you are so hot
How have you not ridden him yet?
He wants someone who can ride without falling off
I am just a bachelor"
Looking for a partner? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pictures first, then I'm usually spent before I get to the text so I go for a nap.
Aren't you spent after the first picture?
I have to look for the right picture. I sometimes get to the second or even the third.
Stamina!
Baby, I can go all... minute.
Damn you are so hot
How have you not ridden him yet?
He wants someone who can ride without falling off
I am just a bachelor
Looking for a partner? "
Gotta be compatible. |
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"Pictures first, then I'm usually spent before I get to the text so I go for a nap.
Aren't you spent after the first picture?
I have to look for the right picture. I sometimes get to the second or even the third.
Stamina!
Baby, I can go all... minute.
Damn you are so hot
How have you not ridden him yet?
He wants someone who can ride without falling off
I am just a bachelor
Looking for a partner?
Gotta be compatible. "
Take me to my limits |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Pictures first, then I'm usually spent before I get to the text so I go for a nap.
Aren't you spent after the first picture?
I have to look for the right picture. I sometimes get to the second or even the third.
Stamina!
Baby, I can go all... minute.
Damn you are so hot
How have you not ridden him yet?
He wants someone who can ride without falling off
I am just a bachelor
Looking for a partner?
Gotta be compatible.
Take me to my limits "
Girl when I break you off
I promise that you won't want to get off |
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"Pictures first, then I'm usually spent before I get to the text so I go for a nap.
Aren't you spent after the first picture?
I have to look for the right picture. I sometimes get to the second or even the third.
Stamina!
Baby, I can go all... minute.
Damn you are so hot
How have you not ridden him yet?
He wants someone who can ride without falling off
I am just a bachelor
Looking for a partner?
Gotta be compatible.
Take me to my limits
Girl when I break you off
I promise that you won't want to get off"
If you're horny let's do it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"varies - profile pic - age range - distance - likes and dislikes - and even then you can click to message and find they blocked your type -  "
We quite often click on send message first, just to check we're not blocked by their filters. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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1.pics,
2.profile context (if not excluded with preference)
3. verification to see previous choices
4. if interested send and introduction email with face and other pics depending on what is requested.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"varies - profile pic - age range - distance - likes and dislikes - and even then you can click to message and find they blocked your type -
We quite often click on send message first, just to check we're not blocked by their filters. "
might try that - save me a few groans |
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