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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Going to attend a club in the next week or so. Really looking forward to it, slightly apprehensive but I'll enjoy getting to chat to some people and getting some much needed verifications.
So I thought I'd ask those who attend clubs how their first time was and what their best little tips are.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Going to attend a club in the next week or so. Really looking forward to it, slightly apprehensive but I'll enjoy getting to chat to some people and getting some much needed verifications.
So I thought I'd ask those who attend clubs how their first time was and what their best little tips are.
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My first time was amazing. I went with a friend who had been lots before so if you can go with someone that's a good tip.
I found it to be very welcoming and friendly. Just treat everyone with respect and you will enjoy the experience I'm sure |
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"Well all my fears came true, big naked orgy just inside the front door and you were forced to join in  "
Sounds terrible. What was the name of that club again... you know, just so I can definitely not get lost and end up being forced into it too  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well all my fears came true, big naked orgy just inside the front door and you were forced to join in
Sounds terrible. What was the name of that club again... you know, just so I can definitely not get lost and end up being forced into it too "
But I've been to a club out of hours so I'm familiar with the dynamics it's moreso the etiquette I'm a tad apprehensive about |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Go with no expectations of anything 'happening', be respectful, polite and accept a "no thanks" gracefully.
Be prepared to make eye contact and smile, and to approach others respectfully. Don't just stand around lurking hoping someone will talk to you, as the chances are that they won't.
Don't stand wanking two inches away from others playing in the play areas.
Don't drink too much, and don't whatever you do join the single male conga that follows people round the club.
Remember all that and you'll be fine.
Have a great time  |
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My first visit was a complete anti-climax, and like many will tell you; it probably won't turn out how you imagine it to be. I thought I'd entered a working man's social club on a Sunday afternoon, rather than a swingers' club on a Friday night. Your experience may be much better, but you won't know unless you go |
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"Well all my fears came true, big naked orgy just inside the front door and you were forced to join in
Sounds terrible. What was the name of that club again... you know, just so I can definitely not get lost and end up being forced into it too
But I've been to a club out of hours so I'm familiar with the dynamics it's moreso the etiquette I'm a tad apprehensive about"
You sussed me
Expect nothing, be polite and friendly. And always be super respectful  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well all my fears came true, big naked orgy just inside the front door and you were forced to join in
Sounds terrible. What was the name of that club again... you know, just so I can definitely not get lost and end up being forced into it too
But I've been to a club out of hours so I'm familiar with the dynamics it's moreso the etiquette I'm a tad apprehensive about
You sussed me
Expect nothing, be polite and friendly. And always be super respectful "
I do take the time to figure you out Minx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Go with no expectations of anything 'happening', be respectful, polite and accept a "no thanks" gracefully.
Be prepared to make eye contact and smile, and to approach others respectfully. Don't just stand around lurking hoping someone will talk to you, as the chances are that they won't.
Don't stand wanking two inches away from others playing in the play areas.
Don't drink too much, and don't whatever you do join the single male conga that follows people round the club.
Remember all that and you'll be fine.
Have a great time "
That's perfect advice .....
Be a total gentleman ....smile, eye contact, engage with people, DO NOT BE PART OF THAT CONGA..... have fun .... we are just people  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Go with no expectations of anything 'happening', be respectful, polite and accept a "no thanks" gracefully.
Be prepared to make eye contact and smile, and to approach others respectfully. Don't just stand around lurking hoping someone will talk to you, as the chances are that they won't.
Don't stand wanking two inches away from others playing in the play areas.
Don't drink too much, and don't whatever you do join the single male conga that follows people round the club.
Remember all that and you'll be fine.
Have a great time
That's perfect advice .....
Be a total gentleman ....smile, eye contact, engage with people, DO NOT BE PART OF THAT CONGA..... have fun .... we are just people "
Oh no I'm the talk to anyone type, only one way to find out what each person is like and what they are looking to get and it's through chatting. Going to have fun though, I'm not going there to drink although I may have one or two. I'll be there mainly to get to know a few people and add some veri's find a nice local club to go to regularly then people can begin to see the real me |
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