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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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obviously when 2 profiles have no face pics in public, there is that aspect of 'nervousness' when it comes to the big reveal
will i fancy them ?
will they fancy me ?
will we know each other ?
and perhaps most critical, if they i show first and they either know me or don't fancy me, will i get theirs in return ?
when it comes round to showing face pics ?
if i make the contact then i will gladly 'show my cards' first
however, if i am contacted by someone else when it comes to that time, i think the impetus should come from them
(can i just add that if i dont fancy the other person if they entrust me with their pics and i don't fancy them, i will send mine anyway - as trust should work both ways) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If i was to make first contact then I would show first , if they make first contact then I would expect them to show first but thats just me .
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Thats the same rule i go with under normal circumstances  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"obviously when 2 profiles have no face pics in public, there is that aspect of 'nervousness' when it comes to the big reveal
will i fancy them ?
will they fancy me ?
will we know each other ?
and perhaps most critical, if they i show first and they either know me or don't fancy me, will i get theirs in return ?
when it comes round to showing face pics ?
if i make the contact then i will gladly 'show my cards' first
however, if i am contacted by someone else when it comes to that time, i think the impetus should come from them
(can i just add that if i dont fancy the other person if they entrust me with their pics and i don't fancy them, i will send mine anyway - as trust should work both ways)"
sounds fair. |
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Just go to a chat room and put on cam . so much better than a picture anyway.In all honesty they could be showing any pic of anyone .. could be ten years old some people are deceitful. when I ask for a pic I expect a clear lit face picture and you would get that from me. but sadly this is rarely the case. camming gives you a proper idea of what the whole person is like . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just go to a chat room and put on cam . so much better than a picture anyway.In all honesty they could be showing any pic of anyone .. could be ten years old some people are deceitful. when I ask for a pic I expect a clear lit face picture and you would get that from me. but sadly this is rarely the case. camming gives you a proper idea of what the whole person is like ."
ahhhh but as we learnt from another thread its easy to put a video up on cam |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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(can i just add that if i dont fancy the other person if they entrust me with their pics and i don't fancy them, i will send mine anyway - as trust should work both ways)"
I'm the same as you, even though I don't fancy them (hmm 90%)of the time, I will still send mine back, fairs fair after all  |
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