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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Has your opinion changed around here.
Maybe you've changed your mind about what youre looking for?
Maybe your opinion of a person has changed because of seeing them in the forums?
Has someone who caught your eye made you change your opinion as you chatted?
Has your opinion of swinging changed? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've gone from mainly looking for a local friend with benefit, to just hanging out in the forums.
Not by choice though may I add  "
If you move to Edinburgh id be local  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has your opinion changed around here.
Maybe you've changed your mind about what youre looking for?
Maybe your opinion of a person has changed because of seeing them in the forums?
Has someone who caught your eye made you change your opinion as you chatted?
Has your opinion of swinging changed? "
Iv seen a lot more 50+ sexy ladies on here lately,my favorite dish |
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"Has your opinion changed around here.
Maybe you've changed your mind about what youre looking for?
Maybe your opinion of a person has changed because of seeing them in the forums?
Has someone who caught your eye made you change your opinion as you chatted?
Has your opinion of swinging changed? "
My opinion of men has hanged drastically.
I first got into this scene as an escape from life with my ex--controlling, manipulative, nasty. Thought all men were really like him, deep down, even if it didn't show right away.
I found: most men looking for sex on a swinger's site to be infinitely more considerate and caring than the one who swore he loved me.
Met a guy a few years back who has changed my world, we are now getting into this as a couple and so swinging is taking on a different meaning.
Right now I'm trying to figure out what swinging as a couple means; I'm sure my thoughts and opinion of it will change as time goes on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Has your opinion changed around here.
Maybe you've changed your mind about what youre looking for?
Maybe your opinion of a person has changed because of seeing them in the forums?
Has someone who caught your eye made you change your opinion as you chatted?
Has your opinion of swinging changed?
My opinion of men has hanged drastically.
I first got into this scene as an escape from life with my ex--controlling, manipulative, nasty. Thought all men were really like him, deep down, even if it didn't show right away.
I found: most men looking for sex on a swinger's site to be infinitely more considerate and caring than the one who swore he loved me.
Met a guy a few years back who has changed my world, we are now getting into this as a couple and so swinging is taking on a different meaning.
Right now I'm trying to figure out what swinging as a couple means; I'm sure my thoughts and opinion of it will change as time goes on."
Aw I like this. Im sure you guys will enjoy finding out together x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think I'm going with the majority here
Yes
Yes
Yes
No
Only been here a few months but have swinged/ swung (?!?) before so my thoughts and opinions are better grounded than just 2 months x |
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"Has your opinion changed around here.
Maybe you've changed your mind about what youre looking for?
Maybe your opinion of a person has changed because of seeing them in the forums?
Has someone who caught your eye made you change your opinion as you chatted?
Has your opinion of swinging changed? "
Had a shake up of my Fab expectations recently. I have become try-sexual since last year. Decided anything can be fun if done well so shouldn't be afraid to have a go. Worked well so far  |
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Ive changed my opinion on what I want to do with my little self and I'm just starting to lay the plans. Life is short people if you need thing to go in a different direction there's only you going to change it  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"Has your opinion changed around here.
Maybe you've changed your mind about what youre looking for?
Maybe your opinion of a person has changed because of seeing them in the forums?
Has someone who caught your eye made you change your opinion as you chatted?
Has your opinion of swinging changed?
Had a shake up of my Fab expectations recently. I have become try-sexual since last year. Decided anything can be fun if done well so shouldn't be afraid to have a go. Worked well so far "
I've been trying to get sexual with some for way too long.
OP, yes, mostly. Dan Berks' thread on people watching points to what a learning opportunity Fab and swinging can be.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So many questions, are you working for Sydney University  ?
1.Yes
2.Yes
3.Yes
4.No
No. Just a personal study on you "
Not sure whether I feel violated or slightly aroused, maybe both  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Has your opinion changed around here.
Maybe you've changed your mind about what youre looking for?
Maybe your opinion of a person has changed because of seeing them in the forums?
Has someone who caught your eye made you change your opinion as you chatted?
Has your opinion of swinging changed?
Had a shake up of my Fab expectations recently. I have become try-sexual since last year. Decided anything can be fun if done well so shouldn't be afraid to have a go. Worked well so far
I've been trying to get sexual with some for way too long.
OP, yes, mostly. Dan Berks' thread on people watching points to what a learning opportunity Fab and swinging can be.
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That's definitely a side of things I didn't expect to find. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So many questions, are you working for Sydney University ?
1.Yes
2.Yes
3.Yes
4.No
No. Just a personal study on you
Not sure whether I feel violated or slightly aroused, maybe both "
Come have a wee lie down on my couch |
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Sure... life is an evolution in itself why not opinions
Fab has been there in the background and sometimes in the foreground. Always keep balance.
False people are everywhere in the world, real and digital, I just treat idiots the same in both cases. Ignore and they will eventually go away
Too many fun nice folk to enjoy life with so why worry x
Ps I used to be able to do bunny hops on my bmx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Has your opinion changed around here.
Maybe you've changed your mind about what youre looking for?
Yes
Maybe your opinion of a person has changed because of seeing them in the forums?
Maybe
Has someone who caught your eye made you change your opinion as you chatted?
Yes
Has your opinion of swinging changed? No |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So many questions, are you working for Sydney University ?
1.Yes
2.Yes
3.Yes
4.No
No. Just a personal study on you
Not sure whether I feel violated or slightly aroused, maybe both
Come have a wee lie down on my couch "
Now I'm imagining a black leather couch and a tripod camera facing said leather couch |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1- Yes we've changed our minds about what we're looking for since we joined.
2- Yes the forums have made me change my mind about people. Usually it only changed my mind for the worse, but I do remember at least one person who I really disliked when I first started using the forums who completely change my opinion of him as I got to know him.
3- Yes chatting has made me change my opinion of lots of people who originally caught my eye but who I then realized I wasn't really compatible with.
4- Yes, my opinion of swinging in general had changed since I started.
I think its healthy to change one's mind as more information is presented and I do so when appropriate. |
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By *eesideMan
over a year ago
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"Has your opinion changed around here.
1 Maybe you've changed your mind about what youre looking for?
2 Maybe your opinion of a person has changed because of seeing them in the forums?
3 Has someone who caught your eye made you change your opinion as you chatted?
4 Has your opinion of swinging changed? "
1 no
2 no
3 no
4 yes
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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It's changed my mind overall. Quite often the forums make me think that someone is a bit of a tosser when they are racist or body shame for example. Or I realise they aren't quite what I had hoped they would be. Which is a shame because their profile looks so pretty!
That aside, yeah. I've changed my mind about what I am looking for. Right now it's not anyone as I'm content and all that stuff. And he made me change my mind about relationships as well.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So many questions, are you working for Sydney University ?
1.Yes
2.Yes
3.Yes
4.No
No. Just a personal study on you
Not sure whether I feel violated or slightly aroused, maybe both
Come have a wee lie down on my couch
Now I'm imagining a black leather couch and a tripod camera facing said leather couch "
Kinky |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's changed my mind overall. Quite often the forums make me think that someone is a bit of a tosser when they are racist or body shame for example. Or I realise they aren't quite what I had hoped they would be. Which is a shame because their profile looks so pretty!
That aside, yeah. I've changed my mind about what I am looking for. Right now it's not anyone as I'm content and all that stuff. And he made me change my mind about relationships as well. "
Aw  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's changed my mind overall. Quite often the forums make me think that someone is a bit of a tosser when they are racist or body shame for example. Or I realise they aren't quite what I had hoped they would be. Which is a shame because their profile looks so pretty!
That aside, yeah. I've changed my mind about what I am looking for. Right now it's not anyone as I'm content and all that stuff. And he made me change my mind about relationships as well. "
Oh this is most excellent |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has your opinion changed around here."
Not really, I don't think about it deeply enough.
"Maybe you've changed your mind about what youre looking for?"
That we have done. We started out with one idea/fantasy and its grown into many.
"Maybe your opinion of a person has changed because of seeing them in the forums? "
This has happened many times after interacting with some.
"Has someone who caught your eye made you change your opinion as you chatted? "
Definitely, they've looked lovely on the outside, but as time has gone on we realise that we'd not be compatible.
"Has your opinion of swinging changed? "
Only insofar as we know we want more experiences than we did at the start. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has your opinion changed around here.
Yes
Maybe you've changed your mind about what youre looking for?
Yes, started off looking for a single lady now swap with couples.
Maybe your opinion of a person has changed because of seeing them in the forums?
Yes, a few people I've come to like and call friends.
Has someone who caught your eye made you change your opinion as you chatted?
Yes, had to block an over obsessive meet.
Has your opinion of swinging changed? "
Yes, thought it was a couple only pastime. X |
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By *rowleyMan
over a year ago
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"Has your opinion changed around here.
Maybe you've changed your mind about what youre looking for?
Maybe your opinion of a person has changed because of seeing them in the forums?
Has someone who caught your eye made you change your opinion as you chatted?
Has your opinion of swinging changed? "
1. Yes
ii. Yes
C. Yes
****. Yes
~. No. Because I never really had an opinion of it in the first place. |
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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago
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"Has your opinion changed around here.
Maybe you've changed your mind about what youre looking for?"
No. But i was never looking for it on fab anyway so it's all good. This place was/is a time pass until i'm the right person for what i'm looking for.
"Maybe your opinion of a person has changed because of seeing them in the forums? "
Kind of. Desperation and illusion are ugly traits and i go off a lot more people than i go 'onto'. Am sure many think the same of me and i really don't care. Also humans are fundamentally ugly inside but hardly reveal that side of themselves overtly. They reveal it in a way that appeals (to the sexual and needy, on here).
"Has someone who caught your eye made you change your opinion as you chatted?"
Yeah. Been fed a lot of bullshit, seen a few promising people also who i know won't let people down and i reckon they get hurt a lot.
"Has your opinion of swinging changed? "
Yes. When i first got here i hadn't a clue it was an actual thing, so much so that i didn't even acknowledge the swingers in the site name. Over time i got told it was a social thing. I mostly feel it's shallow though and nothing much deep comes from it, rightly or wrongly i dunno but i've nothing against that and know it's not for me.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DNc373lGOME my theme tune. |
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When I think back to pre-fab days I was unhappy, felt like a failure because I thought I was 'crap at relationships', thought I was unattractive due to my weight and age, thought the sexual part of my life was all but over...
Then I discovered fab!
It's been an ego boost (and yes I know people aren't always being genuine but I'll take what I can get thanks )
A voyage of self discovery (I too was initially thinking 'I just want a regular fwb' just a wee bit of fun. Only to discover I love variety, group sex, being watched...)
It's made me question what I think about relationships (I now wish I'd discovered fab years ago, think I was always more suited to swinging than traditional relationship model, thought I was done with relationships, but now I'd be happy to have an open/poly/non-conformist relationship)
So so wish I'd found swinging years ago. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm curious about the OP's answers."
I guess I came here looking for something which I tried and discovered it wasnt for me.
Ive found a bit of confidence in the site although the attention I get still feels a bit overwhelming at times its made me see myself a wee but different.
Ive had my opinion changed by a few people around the forums, mostly in a good way because Ive maybe misjudged them at the start but also some have shown themselves to be arseholes.
Ive found a pretty profile doesn't always equal a pretty person.
And yes, my idea of what id find in the swinging world hasn't come into fruition. |
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By *rowleyMan
over a year ago
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"Ive found a bit of confidence in the site although the attention I get still feels a bit overwhelming at times its made me see myself a wee but different."
I'll agree that these forum and site has given me a bit more confidence in myself.
And for that I will always be glad of this site.
I just hope I don't come across as an arsehole to people. |
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"I'm curious about the OP's answers.
I guess I came here looking for something which I tried and discovered it wasnt for me.
Ive found a bit of confidence in the site although the attention I get still feels a bit overwhelming at times its made me see myself a wee but different.
Ive had my opinion changed by a few people around the forums, mostly in a good way because Ive maybe misjudged them at the start but also some have shown themselves to be arseholes.
Ive found a pretty profile doesn't always equal a pretty person.
And yes, my idea of what id find in the swinging world hasn't come into fruition. "
This
Same... beauty starts on the inside of a person and I thought the swinging scene was going to be all fun and open like the 60s in the movies, it's a bit more clandestine than it appeared
Still I love the banter and the good folks far outweigh the weirdos... just let them crack on with cock size, profile advice and I'm leaving fab threads
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting point. I lost my virginity to a woman who was 16 years older than me (I was 18 at the time) and we were having regular sex for about 18 months. Ever since that, I've always had a thing for older mature woman. I did also fall in love with her but that's a story for another day haha. |
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