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Cock is best, it's better than all the rest.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So we got a forum regular on page one. But looking through, it was contrary to what I keep hearing. 'Cock pics are not needed'. But 99% hot pics for males are cocks. And as everything is about exposure in here, I'm thinking maybe that's what's needed to have more sexy fun while on Fab. I didn't see many faces .
Is my conclusion wrong or right or a bit of both?
Questions...Guys - on Willy Wednesday who's getting it out with me? Let's see if someone can get on hot pics again? If you don't normally show it off, will you for one day for a challenge? Get someone on page one with help of fans from everyone again?
Ladies - Can you suggest how to take a good cock pic because I'm unsure you can after looking at all those yesterday.  . (No offence to anyone, maybe it's because they just don't appeal to me)
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By (user no longer on site)
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If you must have a cock pic, then for me it has to be part of a picture of a person. It's the disembodied cock that I find so distasteful - I guess it's the message behind it, which to me suggests the cock is the be all and end all, and hense tells me about the mentality of the guy who is using that picture to try and get a sex partner. I think women are more interested in the person and the whole body (which of cause includes a cock). A gallery of nothing but disembodied cocks is probably going to be more appealing to men than women, and I suspect it's mainly men who are fabbing these pics that make it to hot pics.
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Well standing up and getting it pointing skyward isn't a good look. Think I like those that sort of have a bit of the body behind them, so half sitting/lying down. Difficult to say because I don't normally look at those pics unless I unknowingly click on one.
But I hope you all do it and manage to get a few on page 1 x  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Will never post an out and out cock pic personally, certainly not of the graphic in your face type seen on Mens Hot Pics - if ever I were to it would be a pic where the cock wasn't the focus of the pic and was almost in the background.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So we got a forum regular on page one. But looking through, it was contrary to what I keep hearing. 'Cock pics are not needed'. But 99% hot pics for males are cocks. And as everything is about exposure in here, I'm thinking maybe that's what's needed to have more sexy fun while on Fab. I didn't see many faces.
Is my conclusion wrong or right or a bit of both?
Questions...Guys - on Willy Wednesday who's getting it out with me? Let's see if someone can get on hot pics again? If you don't normally show it off, will you for one day for a challenge? Get someone on page one with help of fans from everyone again?
Ladies - Can you suggest how to take a good cock pic because I'm unsure you can after looking at all those yesterday. . (No offence to anyone, maybe it's because they just don't appeal to me)
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You do realise that most of the cock pics are being fabbed by men  |
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"If you must have a cock pic, then for me it has to be part of a picture of a person. It's the disembodied cock that I find so distasteful - I guess it's the message behind it, which to me suggests the cock is the be all and end all, and hense tells me about the mentality of the guy who is using that picture to try and get a sex partner. I think women are more interested in the person and the whole body (which of cause includes a cock). A gallery of nothing but disembodied cocks is probably going to be more appealing to men than women, and I suspect it's mainly men who are fabbing these pics that make it to hot pics.
Mrs"
I couldn't have put this better myself
Profiles which feature *nothing* except disembodied cock pics especially get my back up - they're not so much offensive, as intelligence *insulting* because they assume the viewer has no interest in what that person looks like beyond their cock. Even worse are those that zoom in on the bell end in all its 'glory' ... like (hardly??) anyone is going to think 'ooh, that looks attractive, I think I'll get in touch' on the basis of that alone! 
On the other hand, I've seen some fantastic male photos - e.g. torso shots, full length nudes etc - that just so happen to include their cock as well. Absolutely nothing wrong with those   |
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I can't take anymore cock, the one that's just arrived in my inbox has finished me off. Your theory is still flawed as it isn't females for the most part fabbing cock pics. Remember the how disproportionate the sexes are, therefore whatever guys are fabbing will rise to the top, so to speak. As for good cock pics I suggest a photo session at the social |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its only the forum that seem to find cock / vaj pics unappealing....
It appears that the majority love them.
Funnily enough my vaj pics are my most fabbed |
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"Will never post an out and out cock pic personally, certainly not of the graphic in your face type seen on Mens Hot Pics - if ever I were to it would be a pic where the cock wasn't the focus of the pic and was almost in the background. "
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"So we got a forum regular on page one. But looking through, it was contrary to what I keep hearing. 'Cock pics are not needed'. But 99% hot pics for males are cocks. And as everything is about exposure in here, I'm thinking maybe that's what's needed to have more sexy fun while on Fab. I didn't see many faces.
Is my conclusion wrong or right or a bit of both?
Questions...Guys - on Willy Wednesday who's getting it out with me? Let's see if someone can get on hot pics again? If you don't normally show it off, will you for one day for a challenge? Get someone on page one with help of fans from everyone again?
Ladies - Can you suggest how to take a good cock pic because I'm unsure you can after looking at all those yesterday. . (No offence to anyone, maybe it's because they just don't appeal to me)
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I'd love to see who fabbed the cock pics. The % of men to women. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"my cock pics are fabbed 3 couples, 2 women and all the rest men, of these men nearly all want no cd/ts on their profile ???"
Most of my fabs come from. I'd say 90 percent. Even yesterday when begging for woman to Fab the guys, most of my fans were men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Lets face it, most fabbers are men therefore most cock pics must be fabbed by men
The one's that are nothing but the helmet both make me laugh and leave a scar. Don't know how anyone could think that it's attractive. 
I dont show mine, I keep them friends only, and I rarely add friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yesterday a number of my pics were fabbed and the two that were fabbed the most had my cock in them. (Not as a cock pic per se but featured)
Interestingly in both cases all but one we're fabbed by women or the female of the couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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lol it's at least 90 percent men that vote my pics when I get big views and scan the fabbed pics info .
Hot pics have a snowball effect though anyway that keep them up listed once they hit a number
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"my cock pics are fabbed 3 couples, 2 women and all the rest men, of these men nearly all want no cd/ts on their profile ???
Most of my fabs come from. I'd say 90 percent. Even yesterday when begging for woman to Fab the guys, most of my fans were men. "
I'm a pretty prolific fabber of men's pics - if I come across them and like them - then I'll fab them!
A stand alone cock pic holds no appeal for me - though I love a well muscled/athletic torso with an impressive willy on show! If there's a handsome face too - all the better! |
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"If you must have a cock pic, then for me it has to be part of a picture of a person. It's the disembodied cock that I find so distasteful - I guess it's the message behind it, which to me suggests the cock is the be all and end all, and hense tells me about the mentality of the guy who is using that picture to try and get a sex partner. I think women are more interested in the person and the whole body (which of cause includes a cock). A gallery of nothing but disembodied cocks is probably going to be more appealing to men than women, and I suspect it's mainly men who are fabbing these pics that make it to hot pics.
Mrs
I couldn't have put this better myself
Profiles which feature *nothing* except disembodied cock pics especially get my back up - they're not so much offensive, as intelligence *insulting* because they assume the viewer has no interest in what that person looks like beyond their cock. Even worse are those that zoom in on the bell end in all its 'glory' ... like (hardly??) anyone is going to think 'ooh, that looks attractive, I think I'll get in touch' on the basis of that alone!
On the other hand, I've seen some fantastic male photos - e.g. torso shots, full length nudes etc - that just so happen to include their cock as well. Absolutely nothing wrong with those "
I think you have put it better yourself actually. I've often wondered why a disembodied cock pic offends me as it's not like I'm a prude or anything. But you're right, it insults intelligence, and that is what's offensive to me. It saddens me that that is what men think of sexually adventurous women i.e. that a close up of a cock is all that's required to help a woman choose a sex partner. And it saddens me that some men are so misguided as what typically turns a woman on. Of course women like cocks, but I think women usually like the whole man more that just one body part.
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"Its only the forum that seem to find cock / vaj pics unappealing....
It appears that the majority love them.
Funnily enough my vaj pics are my most fabbed "
Absolutely right .
There are lots of opinions which are exclusive to the forum , a fact that's often forgotten .
And bearing in mind that less than 1% of the site use the forum , it beggars belief that members still take heed when forumites offer advice !
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Its only the forum that seem to find cock / vaj pics unappealing....
It appears that the majority love them.
Funnily enough my vaj pics are my most fabbed
Absolutely right .
There are lots of opinions which are exclusive to the forum , a fact that's often forgotten .
And bearing in mind that less than 1% of the site use the forum , it beggars belief that members still take heed when forumites offer advice !
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its only the forum that seem to find cock / vaj pics unappealing....
It appears that the majority love them.
Funnily enough my vaj pics are my most fabbed
Absolutely right .
There are lots of opinions which are exclusive to the forum , a fact that's often forgotten .
And bearing in mind that less than 1% of the site use the forum , it beggars belief that members still take heed when forumites offer advice !
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My experience of the swing scene is that the views expressed of cock pics are not exclusive to the forum. I come across the same opinions and complaints at parties, clubs, and just from browsing profiles. Not saying that this view reflects all women, but I don't think there is much difference between what women in the forum say about cock pics, and what women outside the forum say. I think there is a similar cross section of views from my experience of both.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Its only the forum that seem to find cock / vaj pics unappealing....
It appears that the majority love them.
Funnily enough my vaj pics are my most fabbed
Absolutely right .
There are lots of opinions which are exclusive to the forum , a fact that's often forgotten .
And bearing in mind that less than 1% of the site use the forum , it beggars belief that members still take heed when forumites offer advice !
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Absolutely right, but as my experience with Fab upto now has only been in the forum, this is the only views I can possibly give. |
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"Its only the forum that seem to find cock / vaj pics unappealing....
It appears that the majority love them.
Funnily enough my vaj pics are my most fabbed
Absolutely right .
There are lots of opinions which are exclusive to the forum , a fact that's often forgotten .
And bearing in mind that less than 1% of the site use the forum , it beggars belief that members still take heed when forumites offer advice !
My experience of the swing scene is that the views expressed of cock pics are not exclusive to the forum. I come across the same opinions and complaints at parties, clubs, and just from browsing profiles. Not saying that this view reflects all women, but I don't think there is much difference between what women in the forum say about cock pics, and what women outside the forum say. I think there is a similar cross section of views from my experience of both.
Mrs"
This may well be the case for you , and perhaps it depends on the type of people you meet and chat with . Although we aren't averse to a social with a view to play if we click ( on the same night ) , we wouldn't entertain a social only meet . This would exclude us from meeting a considerable % of single women and couples . The ones we meet would be of a similar mind to ourselves , and invariably they may have the same view as us - that being that seeing the cock first would be a useful thing .
We aren't here to build friendships , or to massage fragile egos . We swing for sheer uninhibited sexual fun , and a part of that includes seeing what we will be enjoying on a meet . So a cock pic is part of our pre meet criteria . As it is for most of the women and couples we meet .
There are plenty of forum folk who aren't really looking to meet at all , and plenty more who are looking for much more than we are when they do meet . That's fair enough . They will have a very different perspective , primarily the cock pic not being something they want to see . There are however plenty of folk who are like us , and simply enjoy NSA sexual hook ups . And in many instances , the cock pic is a perfectly acceptable part of the pre meet selection process |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its only the forum that seem to find cock / vaj pics unappealing....
It appears that the majority love them.
Funnily enough my vaj pics are my most fabbed
Absolutely right .
There are lots of opinions which are exclusive to the forum , a fact that's often forgotten .
And bearing in mind that less than 1% of the site use the forum , it beggars belief that members still take heed when forumites offer advice !
Absolutely right, but as my experience with Fab upto now has only been in the forum, this is the only views I can possibly give. "
I'm sure your experience of Fab goes beyond the forums. You've got verifications. I'm sure you've messaged people. You will have certainly looked at profiles. All that gives an idea of what different people do and don't like.
Nice arse in those tight jeans by the way
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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There are lots of opinions which are exclusive to the forum , a fact that's often forgotten .
And bearing in mind that less than 1% of the site use the forum , it beggars belief that members still take heed when forumites offer advice !
Absolutely right, but as my experience with Fab upto now has only been in the forum, this is the only views I can possibly give.
I'm sure your experience of Fab goes beyond the forums. You've got verifications. I'm sure you've messaged people. You will have certainly looked at profiles. All that gives an idea of what different people do and don't like.
Nice arse in those tight jeans by the way
Mrs"
You'd be surprised. Until recently it is.
But the hot pics opened my eyes, (I've never looked through the men's in as much detail as yesterday.
Hot pics I looked at when I first joined, and what I expected to see is what I found.
So people's opinions on the forums is generally what I thought swinging was.
How naive was I? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its only the forum that seem to find cock / vaj pics unappealing....
It appears that the majority love them.
Funnily enough my vaj pics are my most fabbed
Absolutely right .
There are lots of opinions which are exclusive to the forum , a fact that's often forgotten .
And bearing in mind that less than 1% of the site use the forum , it beggars belief that members still take heed when forumites offer advice !
My experience of the swing scene is that the views expressed of cock pics are not exclusive to the forum. I come across the same opinions and complaints at parties, clubs, and just from browsing profiles. Not saying that this view reflects all women, but I don't think there is much difference between what women in the forum say about cock pics, and what women outside the forum say. I think there is a similar cross section of views from my experience of both.
Mrs
This may well be the case for you , and perhaps it depends on the type of people you meet and chat with . Although we aren't averse to a social with a view to play if we click ( on the same night ) , we wouldn't entertain a social only meet . This would exclude us from meeting a considerable % of single women and couples . The ones we meet would be of a similar mind to ourselves , and invariably they may have the same view as us - that being that seeing the cock first would be a useful thing .
We aren't here to build friendships , or to massage fragile egos . We swing for sheer uninhibited sexual fun , and a part of that includes seeing what we will be enjoying on a meet . So a cock pic is part of our pre meet criteria . As it is for most of the women and couples we meet .
There are plenty of forum folk who aren't really looking to meet at all , and plenty more who are looking for much more than we are when they do meet . That's fair enough . They will have a very different perspective , primarily the cock pic not being something they want to see . There are however plenty of folk who are like us , and simply enjoy NSA sexual hook ups . And in many instances , the cock pic is a perfectly acceptable part of the pre meet selection process "
Yes of course. People play in different ways and therefore have different needs. I certainly don't think the forum is reflective of the way my husband and I play, nor the people we play with (although I think we're sometimes much closer to the way you do things that you realise). But I think the forum has a good cross section of people that is fairly reflective of the Fab population as a whole. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
To be honest I don't think it's actually a question of whether people do or don't want to see cock pics (they obviously have their place for some) - more one of how they are presented.
As others have said, there's nothing worse IMHO of a disembodied close up of a cock that shows nothing of the person or their body, and even worse when it's snapped over a toilet bowl or in a cubicle at work, or held up against the ubiquitous Sky remote, Linx can, Coke can etc.
What's worse is more often than not the owners of these seem to think it's all that's needed to get a meet on here, which as has been pointed out is frankly insulting.
In the same vein I've seen some frankly off putting close up pics of the female anatomy, which are just as horrendous as the disembodied cock pics.
However I have seen some fantastic pics that show off the body, as well as the cock attached to it, and as I said earlier if I could ever compose a pic of that type (which will be never) then I'd certainly consider posting it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There are lots of opinions which are exclusive to the forum , a fact that's often forgotten .
And bearing in mind that less than 1% of the site use the forum , it beggars belief that members still take heed when forumites offer advice !
Absolutely right, but as my experience with Fab upto now has only been in the forum, this is the only views I can possibly give.
I'm sure your experience of Fab goes beyond the forums. You've got verifications. I'm sure you've messaged people. You will have certainly looked at profiles. All that gives an idea of what different people do and don't like.
Nice arse in those tight jeans by the way
Mrs
You'd be surprised. Until recently it is.
But the hot pics opened my eyes, (I've never looked through the men's in as much detail as yesterday.
Hot pics I looked at when I first joined, and what I expected to see is what I found.
So people's opinions on the forums is generally what I thought swinging was.
How naive was I? "
I don't know. I find there is more sex going on in the swing scene than there is in the forums |
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There are lots of opinions which are exclusive to the forum , a fact that's often forgotten .
And bearing in mind that less than 1% of the site use the forum , it beggars belief that members still take heed when forumites offer advice !
Absolutely right, but as my experience with Fab upto now has only been in the forum, this is the only views I can possibly give.
I'm sure your experience of Fab goes beyond the forums. You've got verifications. I'm sure you've messaged people. You will have certainly looked at profiles. All that gives an idea of what different people do and don't like.
Nice arse in those tight jeans by the way
Mrs
You'd be surprised. Until recently it is.
But the hot pics opened my eyes, (I've never looked through the men's in as much detail as yesterday.
Hot pics I looked at when I first joined, and what I expected to see is what I found.
So people's opinions on the forums is generally what I thought swinging was.
How naive was I?
I don't know. I find there is more sex going on in the swing scene than there is in the forums "
Certainly agree with this |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There are lots of opinions which are exclusive to the forum , a fact that's often forgotten .
And bearing in mind that less than 1% of the site use the forum , it beggars belief that members still take heed when forumites offer advice !
Absolutely right, but as my experience with Fab upto now has only been in the forum, this is the only views I can possibly give.
I'm sure your experience of Fab goes beyond the forums. You've got verifications. I'm sure you've messaged people. You will have certainly looked at profiles. All that gives an idea of what different people do and don't like.
Nice arse in those tight jeans by the way
Mrs
You'd be surprised. Until recently it is.
But the hot pics opened my eyes, (I've never looked through the men's in as much detail as yesterday.
Hot pics I looked at when I first joined, and what I expected to see is what I found.
So people's opinions on the forums is generally what I thought swinging was.
How naive was I?
I don't know. I find there is more sex going on in the swing scene than there is in the forums
Certainly agree with this "
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By *eliWoman
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I still don't understand how a disembodied cock can be offensive to your intelligence. I wouldn't allow such a small thing to rile me enough to consider it an offence against my intelligence. I see it, I don't like it. Meh. I move the fuck on.
One day I might have reason to be offended by what another user chooses to display that doesn't break any laws or isn't racist or something 'phobic'. |
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"I still don't understand how a disembodied cock can be offensive to your intelligence. I wouldn't allow such a small thing to rile me enough to consider it an offence against my intelligence. I see it, I don't like it. Meh. I move the fuck on.
One day I might have reason to be offended by what another user chooses to display that doesn't break any laws or isn't racist or something 'phobic'. "
Everybody has different sensitivities. I see people getting upset on the forums for things that I wouldnt bat an eyelid at. Disembodied cocks are my bugbare (amongst many) when I allow it to bother me |
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I think I might have mentioned once or twice my dislike of random cock pics (and vag pics for that matter). Especially of the fully erect disembodied variety... In fact it makes me a little sad that people view themselves simply as a disposable piece of anatomy when I see a profile that's comprised solely of cock pics.
I appreciate people as a whole, the warmth of their personality matters to me just as much (if not more) than how they look. I can be laughed into bed... I can be flirted into bed... I can even be charmed into bed... But nobody has ever got me into bed with a cock pic. You are far greater than the sum of your parts... don't ever let Fab make you forget that  |
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"I think I might have mentioned once or twice my dislike of random cock pics (and vag pics for that matter). Especially of the fully erect disembodied variety... In fact it makes me a little sad that people view themselves simply as a disposable piece of anatomy when I see a profile that's comprised solely of cock pics.
I appreciate people as a whole, the warmth of their personality matters to me just as much (if not more) than how they look. I can be laughed into bed... I can be flirted into bed... I can even be charmed into bed... But nobody has ever got me into bed with a cock pic. You are far greater than the sum of your parts... don't ever let Fab make you forget that "
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"I think I might have mentioned once or twice my dislike of random cock pics (and vag pics for that matter). Especially of the fully erect disembodied variety... In fact it makes me a little sad that people view themselves simply as a disposable piece of anatomy when I see a profile that's comprised solely of cock pics.
I appreciate people as a whole, the warmth of their personality matters to me just as much (if not more) than how they look. I can be laughed into bed... I can be flirted into bed... I can even be charmed into bed... But nobody has ever got me into bed with a cock pic. You are far greater than the sum of your parts... don't ever let Fab make you forget that "
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"I think I might have mentioned once or twice my dislike of random cock pics (and vag pics for that matter). Especially of the fully erect disembodied variety... In fact it makes me a little sad that people view themselves simply as a disposable piece of anatomy when I see a profile that's comprised solely of cock pics.
I appreciate people as a whole, the warmth of their personality matters to me just as much (if not more) than how they look. I can be laughed into bed... I can be flirted into bed... I can even be charmed into bed... But nobody has ever got me into bed with a cock pic. You are far greater than the sum of your parts... don't ever let Fab make you forget that
That's great. But will you Fab a forumites cock pic to get them to page one ? "
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I  cock pictures, seeing a picture of the guys penis is one of the factors that determine whether I would meet him or not.
I think every male profile should have at least 1 penis picture in their public pics. |
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"I cock pictures, seeing a picture of the guys penis is one of the factors that determine whether I would meet him or not.
I think every male profile should have at least 1 penis picture in their public pics. "
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