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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why do blokes take the time to chat us women up ask for our number walk us home then never contact us again ...my thoughts are it makes you look good infront of your mates |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now there is the time that your swept up in the moment it all goes well then the gentlemen gets home and shyness kicks in. Unfortunate but can be one of the reasons"
Shy??? Give me strength. On further consideration OP, maybe there was another woman (or three) in the background and he was just doing it as an ego boost. |
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Just because there's an initial interest, doesn't mean a second meet will happen, that's what I learned watching Blind Date in the '80s 
They were all over each other at the studio, just short of saying "I want his dick in my mouth" but not many made it to a second date.
It could be you, him, something else in his life, anything. Don't take it to heart, move on to the next one. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Now there is the time that your swept up in the moment it all goes well then the gentlemen gets home and shyness kicks in. Unfortunate but can be one of the reasons
Shy??? Give me strength. On further consideration OP, maybe there was another woman (or three)
in the background and he was just doing it as an ego boost."
possably right on that one |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"perhaps he's just not into you on.meeting."
then why take the time to aproach me chat me up ask for my number walk me home he did all the chasing thats what i cant understand
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Jessica, any man that chats you up , takes you home and doesn't get in touch must be mad ! You look yummy ! I'd be in touch for sure ! Lol Rich xxx"
thanks for the confidence boost
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Did he take your number correctly ,if I got one number wrong then he can't contact you ,or maybe he's waiting for you to contact him ..."
he sent 1 message that evening
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My guess is he'll oome crawling back in 6 months or so with some pathetic excuse when whichever relationship he's in has gone belly-up, by which time you will be knee-deep in gorgeous men and can send him packing. (I hope he does get in touch by the way, but similar experiences have sadly taught me otherwise)! In any case, don't hang around waiting. Get out there and have fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do blokes take the time to chat us women up ask for our number walk us home then never contact us again ...my thoughts are it makes you look good infront of your mates "
They sober up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you attempted to contact him?i did just a polite how are you this morning ...no reply "
Has he read the message? He could be busy getting ready for work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's about the chase !! If you didn't give him your number and give him an encouraging flirt I bet he would of been very keen to see you again !
With you giving him your number despite that being what he wanted the chase is over really ! And yes if his mates are there if could be just for his ego and some banter !! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My guess is he'll oome crawling back in 6 months or so with some pathetic excuse when whichever relationship he's in has gone belly-up, by which time you will be knee-deep in gorgeous men and can send him packing. (I hope he does get in touch by the way, but similar experiences have sadly taught me otherwise)! In any case, don't hang around waiting. Get out there and have fun "
i will ...plenty more fish in the sea  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You'll hear from him when he's next out and pissed and horny is my guess ! He will of wanted a fuck that night and when it didn't happen he took your number !! |
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"Why do blokes take the time to chat us women up ask for our number walk us home then never contact us again ...my thoughts are it makes you look good infront of your mates "
they were after a one night stand.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its 9am, you sent a polite message at daft o'clock in the morning and now you're ranting about him not replying?
Just wow... Relax, seriously.. nothing is more off putting than a whiff of desperation and I'm sorry, but this is how this comes across.
The guy could still be asleep, could have been late for work.. or just hasnt had time to look at messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its 9am, you sent a polite message at daft o'clock in the morning and now you're ranting about him not replying?
Just wow... Relax, seriously.. nothing is more off putting than a whiff of desperation and I'm sorry, but this is how this comes across.
The guy could still be asleep, could have been late for work.. or just hasnt had time to look at messages. "
NOOOOO! its the mans fault! always! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do blokes take the time to chat us women up ask for our number walk us home then never contact us again ...my thoughts are it makes you look good infront of your mates "
A lot of men like the "thrill of the chase" come over as being too "easy" and they lose interest. |
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"Its 9am, you sent a polite message at daft o'clock in the morning and now you're ranting about him not replying?
Just wow... Relax, seriously.. nothing is more off putting than a whiff of desperation and I'm sorry, but this is how this comes across.
The guy could still be asleep, could have been late for work.. or just hasnt had time to look at messages. "
But guys have to respond at the click of a finger don't they  |
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Is this one man? Your op implies that it happens often
If it's just one guy I'd say he behaved impeccably. He walked you home and took your number. He might contact you later or he might have changed his mind about wanting to see you again. |
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"Is this one man? Your op implies that it happens often
If it's just one guy I'd say he behaved impeccably. He walked you home and took your number. He might contact you later or he might have changed his mind about wanting to see you again. "
^^^^this^^^^ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its 9am, you sent a polite message at daft o'clock in the morning and now you're ranting about him not replying?
Just wow... Relax, seriously.. nothing is more off putting than a whiff of desperation and I'm sorry, but this is how this comes across.
The guy could still be asleep, could have been late for work.. or just hasnt had time to look at messages.
But guys have to respond at the click of a finger don't they "
Aye aye.
As we've got nothing else better to do |
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"Its 9am, you sent a polite message at daft o'clock in the morning and now you're ranting about him not replying?
Just wow... Relax, seriously.. nothing is more off putting than a whiff of desperation and I'm sorry, but this is how this comes across.
The guy could still be asleep, could have been late for work.. or just hasnt had time to look at messages.
But guys have to respond at the click of a finger don't they
Aye aye.
As we've got nothing else better to do "
Personally I've always treated men as my equals. Never had any expectations they would fancy me or want to see me again. I think this attitude works better and I've never been angry or disappointed at this point of a relationship  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do blokes take the time to chat us women up ask for our number walk us home then never contact us again ...my thoughts are it makes you look good infront of your mates "
If you're talking about a social meet, then there wasn't a connection. Although I would tell the person and not just leave them hanging. To not get back in touch even if it's just to say thanks for a lovely night but I don't see this going any further is a little rude. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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3rd world problems and all that 
Beer goggles are great on a night out, thing is you sober up in the morning and think wtf?
Why some women make a big thing out of nothing is beyond me at times, no wonder men think we are hard work lol |
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