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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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just bought a maxi dress and looking forward to a friends wedding.. 'girlie' isn't really my style but i'm even thinking about curling my hair, wearing dangley earrings and braceletes...
this summer weather is doing things to me!! Have you ever drifted from your typical style and was it for the better or worse? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go for it. I can only speak for myself, but I've been around a bit, lol, but most blokes like ladies to look like ladies.
Long dresses and dangly bling is a look that I personally like, and it's how Kate dresses at times.
I'm sure you'd look gorgeous, so go with it. If you feel good, you'll look good, and importantly your confidence will grow which in turn is another attractive trait for us guys 
Hope I don't sound like your dad, lol, but glam up, and you'll be fighting them off with a big stick |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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lol Jack.. no you dont sound like my dad xx
Being a bigger girl ive always stuck to wearing black and often end up in black trousers or a long skirt with a longer length 'dressy' top for such occasions. My style since becoming a mum has gone downhill as i dont have time to do my hair in the mornings.. plus id rather spend money on her toys & books than updating my wardrobe.
I just hope the dress looks and feels good when im wearing it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go for it Cutey, always good to try a new look, practice it before the actual day though.
You say you're a bigger girl like it's a bad thing.... my daughter is no size 14 but she's a super girl, why? Confidence. Knowing which clothes will work for her and going for it.
What would you say to your daughter if she was always on about being a big lass?
Accentuate your positives, ignore the not so. xxx  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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I invested in a maxi dress, not really thinking I would probably get much wear out of it....I ended up buying three more.
They hide any bumps I don't want showing plus are low at the front to show off the bumps I don't mind showing and feel very feminine.
Go for it, I bet it will look lovely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I change my style regularly, dirty work clothes all week, then the weekend comes and BAM total change! If its hot then shorts and a t shirt, mild/cold then jeans and jumper, and when I cant be arsed on goes the tracky!! though some weekends I like to lounge around in just my boxers/thong depending on the company |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just being realistic and there are certain looks that bigger girls can't carry off.. like jeggins or tight fitting things.
I compare myself to most of my friends and the fashion trends and ive always been conservative with my clothing choices.. keep it respectable. I know my bodys plus points and negatives. Only wore a dress once and the comments were really nice and yes i did feel like a million pound |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Kim, I'm a jeans/combats, vest and trainers girl. Always have been. But do on occasion wear dresses/skirts and it's amazing the difference other people will see in you xx"
used to live in Jeans and vest tops with my Timberlands when i was a size 14.. but since ive ballooned to a 24 and being only 5'2 its really depressing when ironing jeans to discover my ass is as wide as my leg length is long.. so they went off the list of things to wear. |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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Oh dear, are they back again?? I wouldn't wear one, but some ladies look really good in long, girly dresses. As a change from jeans or trousers,they are good cos you do feel more "freedom"! lol After wearing skirts and tops, it will make you feel very "girly". I bet you will look great Sassy x
I did wear them for a while in the 1970's and didn't like it! Because I was fairly thin (ok, skinny!) they used to hang off me like I was a coat hanger. Pete used to complain that he couldn't see my legs and to be honest, I did wear very short skirts and dresses. He also used to say it hid too much of me, so gave em up and went back to the little pieces of material that passed as clothes back then lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Rumour thats the thing im slightly worried about that its going to hang off all the lumps & bumps that it shouldn't and will excentuate the fact im a whale rather than show ive a bust, get nipped in at the waist and flow over (massive fingers crossed) my tummy area skimming over the wobbly bits..
What i might do is wear the dress for a while to see what it feels like for comfort reasons rather than look straight in the mirror.. then just imagine that i look like the model in the picture while strutting around haha
If i look bad in it.. well people don't have to look |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
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"Oh dear, are they back again?? I wouldn't wear one, but some ladies look really good in long, girly dresses. As a change from jeans or trousers,they are good cos you do feel more "freedom"! lol After wearing skirts and tops, it will make you feel very "girly". I bet you will look great Sassy x
I did wear them for a while in the 1970's and didn't like it! Because I was fairly thin (ok, skinny!) they used to hang off me like I was a coat hanger. Pete used to complain that he couldn't see my legs and to be honest, I did wear very short skirts and dresses. He also used to say it hid too much of me, so gave em up and went back to the little pieces of material that passed as clothes back then lol "
with you on the "freedom" part there Rumour. I'm a size 6-8 (size 12/14 chest) but don't feel confident showing off my body, so the maxi gives me the girly option but still covers me up. At the end of the day, whether a size 6 or 26... we all have confidence issues at times x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a bit of 80's casual kinda guy, fila jacket's addidas sambas, fred perry shirt's ellesse that kind of gear.....but when i went 2 live with 2 m8s in preston they were in2 there vintage stuff, drssing propper bohemion, so i treid 2 change my style 2 suit the crowd, vintage jumper and all that jazz.....but my frame and hair just didnt suit, i looked like a wally....so i went back 2 dressing like a bjorn borg in the 80's...sitting there with people with long hair and cravats, and deck shoes.....and we all got on famously ended up being a running joke. |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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"Rumour thats the thing im slightly worried about that its going to hang off all the lumps & bumps that it shouldn't and will excentuate the fact im a whale rather than show ive a bust, get nipped in at the waist and flow over (massive fingers crossed) my tummy area skimming over the wobbly bits..
What i might do is wear the dress for a while to see what it feels like for comfort reasons rather than look straight in the mirror.. then just imagine that i look like the model in the picture while strutting around haha
If i look bad in it.. well people don't have to look "
Awww, Sassy hunny, bet you will look £1 million dollars xx. If you have any issues (and laine is right, we all have them) perhaps a light control type basque or similar would give you that extra confidence? Because confidence is all you need
" with you on the "freedom" part there Rumour. I'm a size 6-8 (size 12/14 chest) but don't feel confident showing off my body, so the maxi gives me the girly option but still covers me up. At the end of the day, whether a size 6 or 26... we all have confidence issues at times x"
Ha ha, Fmuma! I just read this out to Pete and all I heard him mutter was something about "soapy's a lucky fucker!!" xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"lol Jack.. no you dont sound like my dad xx
Being a bigger girl ive always stuck to wearing black and often end up in black trousers or a long skirt with a longer length 'dressy' top for such occasions. My style since becoming a mum has gone downhill as i dont have time to do my hair in the mornings.. plus id rather spend money on her toys & books than updating my wardrobe.
I just hope the dress looks and feels good when im wearing it "
oh it will, especially withe accessorties. Go for it, black is sooo boring. I won't buy anything black these days.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have always had the impression in my mind I was still as slim as in my youth, reality bit when I got the tape measure out the other day.
Doesn't do any good to shatter your own delusions hahaha! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Rumour thats the thing im slightly worried about that its going to hang off all the lumps & bumps that it shouldn't and will excentuate the fact im a whale rather than show ive a bust, get nipped in at the waist and flow over (massive fingers crossed) my tummy area skimming over the wobbly bits..
What i might do is wear the dress for a while to see what it feels like for comfort reasons rather than look straight in the mirror.. then just imagine that i look like the model in the picture while strutting around haha
If i look bad in it.. well people don't have to look "
That is a really good idea if it is not your usual style or you are not too sure. I do that, wear it a bit and you start to feel more comfortable in it and can "see" it better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Rumour thats the thing im slightly worried about that its going to hang off all the lumps & bumps that it shouldn't and will excentuate the fact im a whale rather than show ive a bust, get nipped in at the waist and flow over (massive fingers crossed) my tummy area skimming over the wobbly bits..
What i might do is wear the dress for a while to see what it feels like for comfort reasons rather than look straight in the mirror.. then just imagine that i look like the model in the picture while strutting around haha
If i look bad in it.. well people don't have to look "
wow had a look and its a really good choice, beautiful. I would accessorise that with some turquoise chunky jewellery, but depends on your skin and hair colour really. Add a pair of heels as high as you can comfortably manage, (platforms are good for adding height) and you will really wow them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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my hair is currently a deep red and my eyes are a bluey green..
like i said hopefully will look as nice on as it does modelled by that woman who is half my size and probably double my height lol
will find out monday |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"my hair is currently a deep red and my eyes are a bluey green..
like i said hopefully will look as nice on as it does modelled by that woman who is half my size and probably double my height lol
will find out monday "
OOOOO go for the turquoise then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd keep it big and chunky, maybe slightly retro. Nip out round the charity shops, specially British Heart as they do their own line of semi precious chunky jewellery and it is not at all expensive. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Im a girly girly and cant wait to by all my new girly clothes. Maxi dressed ive said befoe shouldnt be seen on short fa women (anely me) i dont want to look like demos roussous"
i was dabling with the idea of wearing flip flops.. but decided to dress it up with some high wedges.. think i need all the help in the height department i can get |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im a girly girly and cant wait to by all my new girly clothes. Maxi dressed ive said befoe shouldnt be seen on short fa women (anely me) i dont want to look like demos roussous
i was dabling with the idea of wearing flip flops.. but decided to dress it up with some high wedges.. think i need all the help in the height department i can get "
Why not take some sparkly flip-flops with you? that's what I do, as when I start dancing the heels get kicked off, but many places insist you can't go barefoot now. xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im a girly girly and cant wait to by all my new girly clothes. Maxi dressed ive said befoe shouldnt be seen on short fa women (anely me) i dont want to look like demos roussous
i was dabling with the idea of wearing flip flops.. but decided to dress it up with some high wedges.. think i need all the help in the height department i can get
Why not take some sparkly flip-flops with you? that's what I do, as when I start dancing the heels get kicked off, but many places insist you can't go barefoot now. xxx"
aye, a pair of pretty ballerinas are good for dancing, I find flip flops a bit flippy floppy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"aye, a pair of pretty ballerinas are good for dancing, I find flip flops a bit flippy floppy."
damm was set on heels but your right about the dancing.. flats would be more practical |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"aye, a pair of pretty ballerinas are good for dancing, I find flip flops a bit flippy floppy.
damm was set on heels but your right about the dancing.. flats would be more practical"
noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"aye, a pair of pretty ballerinas are good for dancing, I find flip flops a bit flippy floppy.
damm was set on heels but your right about the dancing.. flats would be more practicalnoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo "
femme if i could protect your eyes from such words i would.. forgive me |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"aye, a pair of pretty ballerinas are good for dancing, I find flip flops a bit flippy floppy.
damm was set on heels but your right about the dancing.. flats would be more practicalnoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
femme if i could protect your eyes from such words i would.. forgive me "
lol, i forgive ya, just this once mind |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"*dances around in heels... falls over n breaks my ankle*
damm  "
I can see i will have to give you lessons in how to walk in them without doing yaself a mischief, but please note they are fab for getting upto mischief |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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men can walk better in heels than i can haha
i'm very flat footed and very clumpy.. i do try the heel toe heel toe thing but look a twat and not very elegant
hippo on stilts would be an accurate description lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"aye, a pair of pretty ballerinas are good for dancing, I find flip flops a bit flippy floppy.
damm was set on heels but your right about the dancing.. flats would be more practicalnoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo "
I'm with _emmefatale on this one! No flats. Never. Ever. Don't go there. Ms |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"aye, a pair of pretty ballerinas are good for dancing, I find flip flops a bit flippy floppy.
damm was set on heels but your right about the dancing.. flats would be more practicalnoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
I'm with _emmefatale on this one! No flats. Never. Ever. Don't go there. Ms "
I am with you 2 on that as well. Flipflops for the beach only |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"just bought a maxi dress and looking forward to a friends wedding.. 'girlie' isn't really my style but i'm even thinking about curling my hair, wearing dangley earrings and braceletes...
this summer weather is doing things to me!! Have you ever drifted from your typical style and was it for the better or worse?"
I before I got with my master was a typical laddette I guess.. I did have some lovely dresses but they were for special occassions..
As things developed between Master and I.. I had to start wearing skirts.. and dresses.. and now to be fair I often prefer it..
I was a jeans girl before.. now I am always dressed to impress..
although even under my jeans I tended to have nice underwear on.. I would never wear unmatching..
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".... They hide any bumps I don't want showing plus are low at the front to show off the bumps I don't mind showing ....."
Do you ever switch a fan on when trying something on and looking in the mirror.
A friend of mine does and to be fair she does have a point.
In the house there is no wind (unless you've been on the beans of course) so soft floaty fabrics look very flattering.... as you say they cover the bits you are happy to be covering.
Then you get out in a bit of a light breeze and suddenly the soft floaty flattering fabric turns into a clingfilm body suit  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love them long dresses look very sexy too .... I am tall and i put really high heel under thay think i am even taller and cant see the 5 in heels I am then over 6ft. lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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".... They hide any bumps I don't want showing plus are low at the front to show off the bumps I don't mind showing .....
Do you ever switch a fan on when trying something on and looking in the mirror.
A friend of mine does and to be fair she does have a point.
In the house there is no wind (unless you've been on the beans of course) so soft floaty fabrics look very flattering.... as you say they cover the bits you are happy to be covering.
Then you get out in a bit of a light breeze and suddenly the soft floaty flattering fabric turns into a clingfilm body suit "
ooooo good point! luckily in the situation i'll be wearing it its for an indoor event. Great little tip though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"men can walk better in heels than i can haha
i'm very flat footed and very clumpy.. i do try the heel toe heel toe thing but look a twat and not very elegant
hippo on stilts would be an accurate description lol "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I know what clothes I like and I dont tend to stray away from that. I am certainly not conservative in the clothes I wear, I never have been, but I cannot ever imagine going out in jeans and a top.
I think some maxi dresses are pretty but I prefer the ones that are slightly fitted and straight skirted rather than loads of floaty material. I do have one but it wouldnt be my favourite item of clothing. I prefer fitted dresses because even though I am a big girl, I do have defined curves and fitted dresses suit me. I prefer fitted pencil skirts with a split up the thigh rather than lots of fabric. I tend to go for rather dressy dresses.
I do like colour and I do like ethnic style clothing with beads / diamantes, some kind of emblishment on. I like indian clothing, the indian suits in particular. I wear the tunic as a dress and dont bother with the trousers. I like indian jewellery too and Bindi's etc. I would love a saree, but theres a knack to pleating it and Im not good at that.
of course I dont tend to wear this type of clothing for swinging or stick jewels on my face etc, Im more conservative and would wear a fitted dress when on a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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iconic if i had your body id be showing off as much as i could :D
your curves are just out of this world and should be showed to their maximum potential not hidden away under floaty fabrics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Bless you my child - oo ive come over all religious. I do have curves but I also have a huge saggy tummy and backside
so its not that great really. I wish the bustle would come back, wouldnt need the construction to make my backside stick out any further.
Floaty fabrics are lovely, but they do make me look bigger or pregnant, yet Im better in more fitted clothes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't follow fashion, as nothing in the shops fits, so I have my formal clothes tailored made for me.
They are what some would consider as boring, as in classic styles and shapes that do not date.
I would rather look good in something that fits and in the colours that are flattering to me, which can make me look slimmer in the process; than to spend a fortune on throw away fashion that are ill-fitting and not particularly well-made.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I never follow what colours are supposed to look good on me, I dont really know what colours do. If I like something I will buy it and wear it. I know what shapes suit me but never colours.
I have never been a matching shoes and handbag kind of woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I find matching shoes/handbags or jewellery uninspiring.
Those who have style would mix and match accessories with ease.
I have my colours done a long time ago, and confirmed what I already know, plus some surprises too.
Like I can wear head to toe purple or burgundy! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I dont think I do have style particularly, I dont aim to try and get it either. I am happy in the clothes I wear, its always been a little odd at times. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find matching shoes/handbags or jewellery uninspiring.
Those who have style would mix and match accessories with ease.
I have my colours done a long time ago, and confirmed what I already know, plus some surprises too.
Like I can wear head to toe purple or burgundy! "
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head to toe dustbin liners...;-);-);-) |
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