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"With derogatory and hurtful remarksand then block you.
Has anyone else experienced this? "
No - I don't think so! But then again I don't get to read most of my messages - so maybe they do!
Wouldn't bother me overly much though - after over three years on fab I've had to develop a pretty thick skin! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With derogatory and hurtful remarksand then block you.
Has anyone else experienced this? "
No...or not yet..
And your pics are hot
So their loss not yours  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not on here but I sent a female who was looking for a female playmate, a photo of me in my stockings and Basque. She replied,
" I am sorry but......"
Making it quite clear she didn't like my photo.
XXX |
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oh god yea
Happens a fair but to me a just counter block and carry on making the most of fab. Their idiocy and opinion is really fuck all in the grand scheme of things
I've never had anyone complain that what they see isn't what they get when they meet me so I ain't doing bad
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"With derogatory and hurtful remarksand then block you.
Has anyone else experienced this? "
Yep a minority have have ...after I've turned em down funnily enough lol.
Don't give it a second thought as not going to be everyone's cup of tea |
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By *dsindyTV/TS
over a year ago
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Not at first message, but when politely declined their offer of a "good seeing to", I have had one or two people then call me and my pictures. Shows I was right to decline their generous offer  |
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By *dsindyTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Not on here but I sent a female who was looking for a female playmate, a photo of me in my stockings and Basque. She replied,
" I am sorry but......"
Making it quite clear she didn't like my photo.
XXX"
Now who could decline that!!!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't take it to heart, it's just some asshole sitting at a keyboard with a chip on his/shoulder and decided to pick on your pics and after yours someone else's
Just enjoy the nice people on fab
I had some guy message and say " what a waste of spunk you are "
I just laughed at it and didn't give it a thought
It's not worth your time or energy on people like that
Good luck op and keep putting up your pics xx |
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"Don't take it to heart, it's just some asshole sitting at a keyboard with a chip on his/shoulder and decided to pick on your pics and after yours someone else's
Just enjoy the nice people on fab
I had some guy message and say " what a waste of spunk you are "
I just laughed at it and didn't give it a thought
It's not worth your time or energy on people like that
Good luck op and keep putting up your pics xx"
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"oh god yea
Happens a fair but to me a just counter block and carry on making the most of fab. Their idiocy and opinion is really fuck all in the grand scheme of things
I've never had anyone complain that what they see isn't what they get when they meet me so I ain't doing bad
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes...on two occasions reported both both times. It's horrible and hurtful...I had a rant got it off my chest felt better and moved on.
Sorry that this has happened to you op  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep. A fella actually made a comment about one of my pics recently and then started a thread along the same lines as his comment
Meh.
Some folk like and others don't. Don't like them don't look. My pics aren't fabbable
So you'd have to look at my profile to see them, and my profile clearly states i'm large.
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"With derogatory and hurtful remarksand then block you.
Has anyone else experienced this? "
Yes, without the blocking. I have two contradictory reactions, the first is to be childish and react in a 'ner, made you look though' style, the second is to point out that at 40 years old I am pretty much immune to negging since it's the pick up artist equivalent of pulling my hair and running away. Neither reaction is strong enough to make me engage though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not on here but I sent a female who was looking for a female playmate, a photo of me in my stockings and Basque. She replied,
" I am sorry but......"
Making it quite clear she didn't like my photo.
XXX"
That's just bloody rude |
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Some people are just dicks on here. I once had a guy insult me and as I was in a sarky playful mood I just agreed with everything he said just to see how far he would go,by the end of it I was now apparently very attractive!
I got bored then,told him to fuck off and blocked him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With derogatory and hurtful remarksand then block you.
Has anyone else experienced this? "
yup. I see it as they were good enough to attract their attention and make them feel they had to comment. And while they are picking on us.. they are leaving some other poor sod alone x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With derogatory and hurtful remarksand then block you.
Has anyone else experienced this? "
Not us
But sadly the worlds technology has created the Keyboard warriors, usually faceless tw@ts that have nothing better to do than troll people to boost their own ego and confidence |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sadly, some people think that they have the right to criticise other peoples photos regardless of whether they have been invited to do so or not.
Who the f*** do they think they are! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With derogatory and hurtful remarksand then block you.
Has anyone else experienced this? "
Did you turn this person down .? If they are being like this you really would never wish to meet so lucky escape xc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had it once a guy messaged and set a photo he wasn't for me(beard and hairy chest) I just replied and said "sorry you aren't for me" followed by a kiss and a happy swinging in the future, and I got back I was fat and he wouldn't want to play anyway.
I thought that was nice seen has he messaged first so I just blocked him.
Then a few months later he messaged again under a different profile and said I was hot and he wanted me and attached the same photo. I don't have a short memory like he did so I just blocked him again hasi couldn't be arsed to even reply. |
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"I had it once a guy messaged and set a photo he wasn't for me(beard and hairy chest) I just replied and said "sorry you aren't for me" followed by a kiss and a happy swinging in the future, and I got back I was fat and he wouldn't want to play anyway.
I thought that was nice seen has he messaged first so I just blocked him.
Then a few months later he messaged again under a different profile and said I was hot and he wanted me and attached the same photo. I don't have a short memory like he did so I just blocked him again hasi couldn't be arsed to even reply. "
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"With derogatory and hurtful remarksand then block you.
Has anyone else experienced this?
Not us
But sadly the worlds technology has created the Keyboard warriors, usually faceless tw@ts that have nothing better to do than troll people to boost their own ego and confidence "
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"With derogatory and hurtful remarksand then block you.
Has anyone else experienced this? yup. I see it as they were good enough to attract their attention and make them feel they had to comment. And while they are picking on us.. they are leaving some other poor sod alone x"
Shouldn't happen though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"With derogatory and hurtful remarksand then block you.
Has anyone else experienced this? "
Yep, I've had some foul abuse from one particular account over the last couple of days. It's clear they are mentally ill. |
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Yes I have been, the first time I was a little upset but now I couldn't give two shits.
Basically if you don't like my photos then stop looking at them, don't message me to call me an ugly cunt when you are clearly one yourself.
Some people are just pricks |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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Ha! Yes!
We've had a few about our latest and very explicit pic, knew it wouldn't be liked universally but really do just let the comments roll straight of the back. We delete and don't give it a second thought. |
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"Yes I have been, the first time I was a little upset but now I couldn't give two shits.
Basically if you don't like my photos then stop looking at them, don't message me to call me an ugly cunt when you are clearly one yourself.
Some people are just pricks
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Absolutely well said |
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"Ha! Yes!
We've had a few about our latest and very explicit pic, knew it wouldn't be liked universally but really do just let the comments roll straight of the back. We delete and don't give it a second thought. "
Just had a perv and your pics are stunning |
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Yes we have had this happen to us and it's hard not to feel hurt by the comments I (N) took all our pics down which are now set in private (M keeps gradually putting them back on) and I felt like coming off here, my confidence and self esteem took a bit of a hit, we never logged on here for people like that but we are still here and looking for the right guy to join us |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"Ha! Yes!
We've had a few about our latest and very explicit pic, knew it wouldn't be liked universally but really do just let the comments roll straight of the back. We delete and don't give it a second thought.
Just had a perv and your pics are stunning "
Thank you op |
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"Yes we have had this happen to us and it's hard not to feel hurt by the comments I (N) took all our pics down which are now set in private (M keeps gradually putting them back on) and I felt like coming off here, my confidence and self esteem took a bit of a hit, we never logged on here for people like that but we are still here and looking for the right guy to join us "
Nothing wrong with your pics at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As in life Some are merely vindictive trolls that have a deep abiding self loathing they feel compelled to offload onto others to make the unwitting recipient feel as bad or unattractive as they themselves feel.
You shouldn't personalise unsolicited correspondence of that nature.. it's more a reflection upon them than you in all likelihood. |
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