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Filtering out the same sex.

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

As a single straight guy, I'm not looking for single men. But I don't see the need to filter out and block all single men from mailing me.

If you do block the same sex from mailing you, why?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I did receive a lot of messages from.men lol but your right

Filters off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Any message is a message, right

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do as I get more faf or fabj or I know you're straight but I'm sure I can give a better bj than a woman messages daily. So maybe if the plonkers didn't harass straight guys I would happily leave it off and chat socially to guys too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't block them cause if I did, id never get an unsolicited message, plus it let's guys enquire about having a 3some with the wife and me.

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By *ink Panther.Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I don't block them cause if I did, id never get an unsolicited message, plus it let's guys enquire about having a 3some with the wife and me.

*Fab crashes as all straight males remove male block filter

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By *ink Panther.Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I do as I get more faf or fabj or I know you're straight but I'm sure I can give a better bj than a woman messages daily. So maybe if the plonkers didn't harass straight guys I would happily leave it off and chat socially to guys too."

Yes that's the downside because you could be missing out on a bromance

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I do. I get the same. But is it really that unmanageable? A dozen a week maybe? Delete and ignore like the advice we give others?

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By *uckOfTheBayMan over a year ago

Mold

No filters here, just a block button

I organise socials, anyway, and need to be contactable

The number of people who ask to come along, but have filters up against single men, which means I can't contact them, just means they lose out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't block them cause if I did, id never get an unsolicited message, plus it let's guys enquire about having a 3some with the wife and me.

*Fab crashes as all straight males remove male block filter

Then spontaneously combusts as all members attempt to post an avatar pic!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 17/06/17 07:48:52]

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By *r imp miss minxCouple over a year ago

Colchester

You can block them???????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You can block them???????

Yes, but most won't cause they're too lazy to look for it themselves

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By *ink Panther.Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I don't block them cause if I did, id never get an unsolicited message, plus it let's guys enquire about having a 3some with the wife and me.

*Fab crashes as all straight males remove male block filter

Then spontaneously combusts as all members attempt to post an avatar pic!

Not ALL members

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't block them cause if I did, id never get an unsolicited message, plus it let's guys enquire about having a 3some with the wife and me.

*Fab crashes as all straight males remove male block filter

Then spontaneously combusts as all members attempt to post an avatar pic!

Not ALL members

That'd make the world stop spinning!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"[filters Removed by poster at 17/06/17 07:48:52]"

Well done!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do. I get the same. But is it really that unmanageable? A dozen a week maybe? Delete and ignore like the advice we give others? "

More like 4 or 5 and completely manageable. I do get some corners too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because they bring no positive experience to how I use the site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't because I fancy women, however I chat to straight women too and I don't fancy every bi lady I chat to either. I have some ladies I just get on with without anything sexual involved in it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Because they bring no positive experience to how I use the site."

Ah okay. To help me understand, now you filter, is everything you do and experience now completely possitive?

I've had some good possitive conversations with other males here. Do you not think you could have a positive exchange of comments with the same sex?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they bring no positive experience to how I use the site.

Ah okay. To help me understand, now you filter, is everything you do and experience now completely possitive?

I've had some good possitive conversations with other males here. Do you not think you could have a positive exchange of comments with the same sex?"

Nope, I still have to scroll through dick pics on the forums.

I've had good conversations with males here too, that doesn't mean I want them messaging me all freely Willy.

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By *ink Panther.Woman over a year ago

Preston

"Because they bring no positive experience to how I use the site.

Ah okay. To help me understand, now you filter, is everything you do and experience now completely possitive?

I've had some good possitive conversations with other males here. Do you not think you could have a positive exchange of comments with the same sex?

Nope, I still have to scroll through dick pics on the forums.

I've had good conversations with males here too, that doesn't mean I want them messaging me all freely Willy. "

You wouldn't want to pm with a guy ever?

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By *hinypants77Man over a year ago

Leeds

I don't filter but do block every guy that offers to suck my dick. It's very annoying and can only imagine the hassle that single ladies must get.

I only wish the ladies were as enthusiastic about dick sucking as the single guys seem to be!

However I like to be contactable for party invites or threesomes. Had a single guy contact me regarding a threesome with his girlfriend. Was a bit wary at first and thought it might be fake but it turned out to be epic!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

That's a good point. You've left yourself open to getting the crap messages on here, but also left doors open for great opportunities and experiences.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd rather see a sexuality filter which to me makes more sense simply because straight people don't engage in same sex activity which to some degree renders a gender filter somewhat superfluous .....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'd rather see a sexuality filter which to me makes more sense simply because straight people don't engage in same sex activity which to some degree renders a gender filter somewhat superfluous .....

Exactly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't block anyone, my inbox is open for all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they bring no positive experience to how I use the site.

Ah okay. To help me understand, now you filter, is everything you do and experience now completely possitive?

I've had some good possitive conversations with other males here. Do you not think you could have a positive exchange of comments with the same sex?

Nope, I still have to scroll through dick pics on the forums.

I've had good conversations with males here too, that doesn't mean I want them messaging me all freely Willy.

You wouldn't want to pm with a guy ever?"

What makes you say that?

I've pm'ed with guys before, doesnt mean I want them pm'ing me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't block anyone, my inbox is open for all

My box is open to all comers but If I had the option too filter out by sexuality its something I'd find purposeful in reducing the amount of mail I receive from members whose profile sexuality does not offer me a welcome invitation to contact them.....

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By *ink Panther.Woman over a year ago

Preston

"Because they bring no positive experience to how I use the site.

Ah okay. To help me understand, now you filter, is everything you do and experience now completely possitive?

I've had some good possitive conversations with other males here. Do you not think you could have a positive exchange of comments with the same sex?

Nope, I still have to scroll through dick pics on the forums.

I've had good conversations with males here too, that doesn't mean I want them messaging me all freely Willy.

You wouldn't want to pm with a guy ever?

What makes you say that?

I've pm'ed with guys before, doesnt mean I want them pm'ing me."

Even the straight ones?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have done because I'm here to meet for sex and I only meet men. I'm not interested in making friends as I don't want people from fab in my everyday life. So I have no need to chat to those I don't want to meet for sex. Sometimes I feel more sociable and do remove filters.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they bring no positive experience to how I use the site.

Ah okay. To help me understand, now you filter, is everything you do and experience now completely possitive?

I've had some good possitive conversations with other males here. Do you not think you could have a positive exchange of comments with the same sex?

Nope, I still have to scroll through dick pics on the forums.

I've had good conversations with males here too, that doesn't mean I want them messaging me all freely Willy.

You wouldn't want to pm with a guy ever?

What makes you say that?

I've pm'ed with guys before, doesnt mean I want them pm'ing me.

Even the straight ones?"

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By *ink Panther.Woman over a year ago

Preston

"Because they bring no positive experience to how I use the site.

Ah okay. To help me understand, now you filter, is everything you do and experience now completely possitive?

I've had some good possitive conversations with other males here. Do you not think you could have a positive exchange of comments with the same sex?

Nope, I still have to scroll through dick pics on the forums.

I've had good conversations with males here too, that doesn't mean I want them messaging me all freely Willy.

You wouldn't want to pm with a guy ever?

What makes you say that?

I've pm'ed with guys before, doesnt mean I want them pm'ing me.

Even the straight ones?

I'm not being funny I'm being serious I only ask because I message females and enjoy it. Even meet for coffee etc. I'm not suggesting you do that but ............

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dont block men. But if they send me 3 messages without me replying i block them

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS over a year ago

London

The only messages I block are from newbies/unverified profile as most of them are spam/bots.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have no filters up at all. I'll chat with anyone who messages, men, women, couples, TV/TS .. chatting doesn't equate to 'want to shag'

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By *ink Panther.Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I dont block men. But if they send me 3 messages without me replying i block them"

That seems reasonable I will only say no thanks twice then block

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By *ink Panther.Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I have no filters up at all. I'll chat with anyone who messages, men, women, couples, TV/TS .. chatting doesn't equate to 'want to shag'

That's right bro, how's your tinky winky?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they bring no positive experience to how I use the site.

Ah okay. To help me understand, now you filter, is everything you do and experience now completely possitive?

I've had some good possitive conversations with other males here. Do you not think you could have a positive exchange of comments with the same sex?

Nope, I still have to scroll through dick pics on the forums.

I've had good conversations with males here too, that doesn't mean I want them messaging me all freely Willy.

You wouldn't want to pm with a guy ever?

What makes you say that?

I've pm'ed with guys before, doesnt mean I want them pm'ing me.

Even the straight ones?

I'm not being funny I'm being serious I only ask because I message females and enjoy it. Even meet for coffee etc. I'm not suggesting you do that but ............"

And I've already told you that I do chat with guys but I don't want random ones messaging me.

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By *ink Panther.Woman over a year ago

Preston

"Because they bring no positive experience to how I use the site.

Ah okay. To help me understand, now you filter, is everything you do and experience now completely possitive?

I've had some good possitive conversations with other males here. Do you not think you could have a positive exchange of comments with the same sex?

Nope, I still have to scroll through dick pics on the forums.

I've had good conversations with males here too, that doesn't mean I want them messaging me all freely Willy.

You wouldn't want to pm with a guy ever?

What makes you say that?

I've pm'ed with guys before, doesnt mean I want them pm'ing me.

Even the straight ones?

I'm not being funny I'm being serious I only ask because I message females and enjoy it. Even meet for coffee etc. I'm not suggesting you do that but ............

And I've already told you that I do chat with guys but I don't want random ones messaging me."

Forumites are ok though, but they can't if you've blocked males? So you always have to initiate the conversation?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they bring no positive experience to how I use the site.

Ah okay. To help me understand, now you filter, is everything you do and experience now completely possitive?

I've had some good possitive conversations with other males here. Do you not think you could have a positive exchange of comments with the same sex?

Nope, I still have to scroll through dick pics on the forums.

I've had good conversations with males here too, that doesn't mean I want them messaging me all freely Willy.

You wouldn't want to pm with a guy ever?

What makes you say that?

I've pm'ed with guys before, doesnt mean I want them pm'ing me.

Even the straight ones?

I'm not being funny I'm being serious I only ask because I message females and enjoy it. Even meet for coffee etc. I'm not suggesting you do that but ............

And I've already told you that I do chat with guys but I don't want random ones messaging me.

Forumites are ok though, but they can't if you've blocked males? So you always have to initiate the conversation?"

Yes.

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By *ink Panther.Woman over a year ago

Preston

"Because they bring no positive experience to how I use the site.

Ah okay. To help me understand, now you filter, is everything you do and experience now completely possitive?

I've had some good possitive conversations with other males here. Do you not think you could have a positive exchange of comments with the same sex?

Nope, I still have to scroll through dick pics on the forums.

I've had good conversations with males here too, that doesn't mean I want them messaging me all freely Willy.

You wouldn't want to pm with a guy ever?

What makes you say that?

I've pm'ed with guys before, doesnt mean I want them pm'ing me.

Even the straight ones?

I'm not being funny I'm being serious I only ask because I message females and enjoy it. Even meet for coffee etc. I'm not suggesting you do that but ............

And I've already told you that I do chat with guys but I don't want random ones messaging me.

Forumites are ok though, but they can't if you've blocked males? So you always have to initiate the conversation?

Yes."

Ok thanks I get it now. Sorry for all the questions x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I blocked single men as the amount of messages was getting ridiculous and some weren't taking no for an answer. But have left women, don't seem to get the same level of messages from bi women. Though have had a few offers of being "sorted" off a few. X

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By *ink Panther.Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I blocked single men as the amount of messages was getting ridiculous and some weren't taking no for an answer. But have left women, don't seem to get the same level of messages from bi women. Though have had a few offers of being "sorted" off a few. X

Sorted, classy. I'll sort you with a hug at the social

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By *cotty2hotty75Man over a year ago

Leeds

"I don't filter but do block every guy that offers to suck my dick. It's very annoying and can only imagine the hassle that single ladies must get.

I only wish the ladies were as enthusiastic about dick sucking as the single guys seem to be!

Hi, my sentiments exactly. I've had a few guys message to say they want to suck me off. But I was respectful and messaged them back to say no thanks as I'm not Bi. I wouldn't just block as I believe manners go a long way.

However, I have since put a filter on to stop guys messaging but I'm now thinking I could be closing doors to other offers.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Because they bring no positive experience to how I use the site.

Ah okay. To help me understand, now you filter, is everything you do and experience now completely possitive?

I've had some good possitive conversations with other males here. Do you not think you could have a positive exchange of comments with the same sex?

Nope, I still have to scroll through dick pics on the forums.

I've had good conversations with males here too, that doesn't mean I want them messaging me all freely Willy.

You wouldn't want to pm with a guy ever?

What makes you say that?

I've pm'ed with guys before, doesnt mean I want them pm'ing me.

Even the straight ones?

I'm not being funny I'm being serious I only ask because I message females and enjoy it. Even meet for coffee etc. I'm not suggesting you do that but ............"

If I can put my two penn'orth in. I know we live in the 21st century but men and women are still different and generally speaking I'd say women are more gregarious than men, look how quick women apparent become friends with each other on the Forum. I'd go as far as saying I bet most straight men on here would be suspicion and suspecting of the motive of any man who wanted to just message.

Vive la différence!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not into girls but don't use that filter because I chat to quite few girls from forum

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorted, classy. I'll sort you with a hug at the social

I was being polite, the words were a whole lot more graphic than that. But yes a hug will be great, and eagerly returned x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have no filters up at all. I'll chat with anyone who messages, men, women, couples, TV/TS .. chatting doesn't equate to 'want to shag'

Exactly x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I have no filters up at all. I'll chat with anyone who messages, men, women, couples, TV/TS .. chatting doesn't equate to 'want to shag'

Exactly x"

I completely agree.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do. I get the same. But is it really that unmanageable? A dozen a week maybe? Delete and ignore like the advice we give others? "

I manage it differently I guess. I've no need to read delete and ignore as they're no longer there to be deleted. Win win and no irrelevant messages now.

And to user above who mentioned I'm missing out on guys messaging for 3some with their lady... i don't do mmf 3some, only ffm so again it's a filtering system that works for me.

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By *ink Panther.Woman over a year ago

Preston

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By *ink Panther.Woman over a year ago

Preston

Sorted, classy. I'll sort you with a hug at the social

I was being polite, the words were a whole lot more graphic than that. But yes a hug will be great, and eagerly returned x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have no filters up at all. I'll chat with anyone who messages, men, women, couples, TV/TS .. chatting doesn't equate to 'want to shag'

Exactly x

I completely agree.

Oh so this is more a "who agrees with me thread" rather than being interested in why others do things differently

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I have no filters up at all. I'll chat with anyone who messages, men, women, couples, TV/TS .. chatting doesn't equate to 'want to shag'

Exactly x

I completely agree.

Oh so this is more a "who agrees with me thread" rather than being interested in why others do things differently

Haha. No. There. I disagreed with you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I have done because I'm here to meet for sex and I only meet men. I'm not interested in making friends as I don't want people from fab in my everyday life. So I have no need to chat to those I don't want to meet for sex. Sometimes I feel more sociable and do remove filters."

This is what I assume. People filter precisely because they're only in Fab for sex. They have no intention of talking or socialising. Which to me is strange. Sex is after all the most socialising thing I'm going to do. The forum is all about socialising.

So you'd never chat to someone for the sake of conversation on Fab?

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'd never block women, thats why I joined not that any ever message me

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By *ink Panther.Woman over a year ago

Preston

"I'd never block women, thats why I joined not that any ever message me

I tried but I'm filtered

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So you'd never chat to someone for the sake of conversation on Fab? "

Sometimes I do. That's why I said sometimes I filter out those I'm not interested in sexually. For me fab is a very compartmentalised part of a very busy and complex life. I have no desire for fab people to infiltrate my everyday life. None whatsoever. Even those I've been meeting for years. Yeah we get on socially and we chat but I'd never just meet them for a drink. I can see how for others its part of their social life but I prefer to keep mine separate. I don't think it's strange. Just I'm not single and have different people in my life for different things. Being real life friends with people from fab threatens the discretion that I value too much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So you'd never chat to someone for the sake of conversation on Fab?

And everyone is obviously different. The longest conversations I've had are amongst people in the forum I'm either never going to meet or never going to meet. (I thought I'd mention that same point twice).

Isn't swinging on here supposed to provide some sort of discretion anyway? Is that another reason to not talk amongst the same sex? Mistrust?

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By *londieddWoman over a year ago

fife

blocked couples and females as I'm not interested in hearing from either

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By *ink Panther.Woman over a year ago

Preston

So you'd never chat to someone for the sake of conversation on Fab?

Isn't swinging on here supposed to provide some sort of discretion anyway? Is that another reason to not talk amongst the same sex? Mistrust? "

Discretion, I just spat my drink across the table

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"blocked couples and females as I'm not interested in hearing from either"

Not even to talk to?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As a single straight guy, I'm not looking for single men. But I don't see the need to filter out and block all single men from mailing me.

If you do block the same sex from mailing you, why?

I do every so often when the parade of shitty cock pics and tedious comments wears thin.

I do have to wonder just why so many men find it hard to take a decent pic of Thier cock

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't block men but I am tempted after the number of emails and winks from single men. I guess it is the age old problem of people not reading profiles.

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"I'd never block women, thats why I joined not that any ever message me

I tried but I'm filtered

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By *onny MCMan over a year ago

Crawley

I've blocked nobody and have never received a level of mail that I would describe as a "hassle".

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't block men but I am tempted after the number of emails and winks from single men. I guess it is the age old problem of people not reading profiles. "

Have you ever chatted and talked to anyone just as guys. Or has every mail from a male been a sexual pm?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I do every so often when the parade of shitty cock pics and tedious comments wears thin.

I do have to wonder just why so many men find it hard to take a decent pic of Thier cock"

That last bit is a new thread right there.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So I just unblocked men and I've also noticed that my looked at me numbers have just sky rocketed. I've been undercounting this number for ages

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By *londieddWoman over a year ago

fife

"blocked couples and females as I'm not interested in hearing from either

Not even to talk to? "

I'm in chat rooms and on here for chat don't want pm's

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because i have no interest in hearing from women with faux concerns about who i may or may not be meeting because they want to lamp-post piss.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Although I am not bi, I don't block single women from messaging me as I've had some interesting chats. I do block couples though, as they're more likely to send messages from the 'woman' asking me to entertain their partner while they are away. Also I was messed around constantly by couples when I first joined so decided to reduce the stress by blocking them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So you'd never chat to someone for the sake of conversation on Fab?

Isn't swinging on here supposed to provide some sort of discretion anyway? Is that another reason to not talk amongst the same sex? Mistrust? "

Sadly a lot of people, especially newbies, don't truly understand the meaning of discretion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So you'd never chat to someone for the sake of conversation on Fab?

Isn't swinging on here supposed to provide some sort of discretion anyway? Is that another reason to not talk amongst the same sex? Mistrust? "

I don't have time to get caught up in conversations with people I'm not going to meet. It just seems pointless. I clearly have a different mindset to most that use the forum so don't think many would want a conversation with me anyway.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I don't have time to get caught up in conversations with people I'm not going to meet. It just seems pointless. I clearly have a different mindset to most that use the forum so don't think many would want a conversation with me anyway. "

I rarely chat via message on Fab, as I originally joined to meet people. Any conversation with me via messaging is likely to be boring and short.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't block men but I am tempted after the number of emails and winks from single men. I guess it is the age old problem of people not reading profiles.

Have you ever chatted and talked to anyone just as guys. Or has every mail from a male been a sexual pm? "

I have replied to some guys but virtually all emails are either sexual or a couple of words. It may seem harsh but if you want a reply then send something worth replying too.

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By *ink Panther.Woman over a year ago

Preston

I do every so often when the parade of shitty cock pics and tedious comments wears thin.

I do have to wonder just why so many men find it hard to take a decent pic of Thier cock

That last bit is a new thread right there.

No need I can answer that, because they aren't looking at it from a female's perspective. It's their pride and joy, and therefore we should appreciate it as such. I'm not a cock pic fan but there are some exquisite pics around

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I want to see a more flexible filter, it is not hard to implement, to not get winks from them, but still pm as you talk about different forum topics.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Reminded me I need to change my water filter... off to Screwfix. ( no pun intended )

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