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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We deleted our profile because we couldn't be arsed with it. Fancied it again so set up another profile. I don't understand why you would get into it again if you didn't want to x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been on the site before, left for 2 months came back left for a month and came back and now I'll probably leave again soon.
I'll make a goodbye thread and when I come back I'll make a hello back thread, I'll change my username and post controversial topics and repeat. |
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"I've been on the site before, left for 2 months came back left for a month and came back and now I'll probably leave again soon.
I'll make a goodbye thread and when I come back I'll make a hello back thread, I'll change my username and post controversial topics and repeat."
Yea i used to be a reg forum user and do the same to be fair but kept user name lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow. Seven years is a long time to be away from the scene.
Won't be surprised if things have changed and maybe age and a different mentality post-your first retirement from the scene have mellowed you somewhat, thus explaining your "shy bug" as you described it?
Take it slow I suppose. It'll always take time to get back into the literal swing of things assuming you do want to return to status quo ante... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its not about not wanting to, i used to be very active but i seem to have caught a shy bug that i never had lol "
I could think of nothing worse. You should love it and be confident. It's the best thing about swinging. I would take another break until you get that buzz x |
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"Its not about not wanting to, i used to be very active but i seem to have caught a shy bug that i never had lol
I could think of nothing worse. You should love it and be confident. It's the best thing about swinging. I would take another break until you get that buzz x"
Hmm well i have made it clear I won't be meeting just yet, it was always more then just meeting for me, the social side. Etc.. I think coming back and so much has changed.. But i will just take my time x |
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"How's about going to a club or something. Sort of jump in with both feet kinda thing.
It could reignite the confidence you had before."
Ah that's a good idea i used to love the clubs. And socials. Good idea  |
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"How's about going to a club or something. Sort of jump in with both feet kinda thing.
It could reignite the confidence you had before.
Ah that's a good idea i used to love the clubs. And socials. Good idea "
Yaaay! |
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"Its not about not wanting to, i used to be very active but i seem to have caught a shy bug that i never had lol
I could think of nothing worse. You should love it and be confident. It's the best thing about swinging. I would take another break until you get that buzz x
Hmm well i have made it clear I won't be meeting just yet, it was always more then just meeting for me, the social side. Etc.. I think coming back and so much has changed.. But i will just take my time x"
You do whatever takes your fancy .
But I fail to see how you expect to get back in the swing of things when you make it clear you're not here to meet .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone left swinging for a while and then came back and took a while to get back into it, i seem to have lost my mojo and become very shy. Do u think its getting older that's done it. "
Looking at your profile I don't think you'll be waiting long! |
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That does not stop the offers at all lol .. I will meet in my own time and just cos my profile says that it don't mean i wont if i want to, i do chat and get to know people which i will always do before a meet anyway. |
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