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I have been talking to a woman for some time now. And she naps multiple times a day. Personally I think it makes her appear boring. When I talk to her she is either just waking up or getting ready to take a nap. What do you think? Do you find that boring. Would you want to be around a person that wants to sleep all the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seriously? 
Perhaps she just says that because she doesn't want to chat to you 
Perhaps she has health issues which make her nap
Perhaps she is an insomniac and naps in short stints
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe she's a night owl and needs the power naps during the day. Maybe there's a medical condition that causes it. Doesn't make her boring in my opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She sounds perfect to me!
I quite fancy a nap right now to be honest! 
Annnnd.... maybe she needs naps during the day as she's out fucking and dogging all night!?! Not so boring now hey!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My ex used to nap a lot and do no training in the gym or any kind of physical exercise. When it came to sex I put all the work in. To me napping is lazy, unless there are other reasons like working in a hot climate, siestas are necessary. Or if there is an underlying health condition. |
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"No. No. No... Lol she said, and I quote "sleeping is my favorite hobby"
If it were medical I wouldn't have said anything "
It's definitely my favourite hobby. F'cking love naps. Lol.
If a guy thought my taking naps was boring it'd be an obvious sign were not compatible. No biggie.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe she suffers with Insomnia, as I do.
Some days are better than others.
I've had days where I've been unable to sleep and then struggle to get through the day and on occasion, need to take a nap to recharge the batteries.
This can be the beginning of, what can seem like, a never ending cylce of disruption to ones sleep pattern.
Had a few days last week like this.
Past few days have been a lot better though and am actually getting a reasonable amount of sleep and at the right times.
That said, perhaps you might be better off talking to her about it rather than asking a group of strangers on a swinging site. |
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"No. No. No... Lol she said, and I quote "sleeping is my favorite hobby"
If it were medical I wouldn't have said anything "
She could just me making light of a condition. All I seem to do is nap recently. Turns out I got a few vitamin deficiencies. My body is basically in famine mode. I'm not afraid to tell people, but that's me. Yes, I'm a little embarrassed by it, but hey. I make a tit of myself daily. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If the only thing she tells you about herself is that she's just waking up or just about to nap, I'd be inclined to agree. But if you've been talking for a while, I'm assuming you guys do talk about other things too?
Trust your instincts brother. It's not worth getting into something you're not 100% into but don't go writing her off just because she likes to nap. Just had one myself and it was ace! =)
Maybe she likes to lucid dream..? |
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I can't believe I napped at the start of the thread... awake now though.
Give her a break OP, am sure she'd appreciate you telling all and sundry too and asking if they thought she was boring...
Sheesh Kebabs!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"She is a sweetheart. I just think there is more to see in life than the back of one's eyelids. "
She apparently disagrees if she chooses to sleep a whole heap. |
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I've got someone napping on the sofa as I'm typing. She's done this for the past 12 years we've been together whether she's been working or not. She never sleeps all through the night though as a noise or needing a wee wakes her up and she can't get back to sleep (Unlike me and our son who could sleep through an earthquake) but she's definitely not boring or dull. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"She is a sweetheart. I just think there is more to see in life than the back of one's eyelids. "
Dreams are great though. Don't underestimate the pleasure of spending time idle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm a daytime sleeper; I can't call it a nap as it's usually an hour or two.
Today, I'm fighting to keep myself awake as, although I slept through the night (hurrah!), my new medication is making me very drowsy.
I won't be driving or operating machinery while I'm on them.
I'm amazing in bed  |
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"I have been talking to a woman for some time now. And she naps multiple times a day. Personally I think it makes her appear boring. When I talk to her she is either just waking up or getting ready to take a nap. What do you think? Do you find that boring. Would you want to be around a person that wants to sleep all the time "
When you talk to her she wants to go to sleep? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No. No. No... Lol she said, and I quote "sleeping is my favorite hobby"
If it were medical I wouldn't have said anything "
Do she sleep at night.? Do she work.? Is she bored.? |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"I have been talking to a woman for some time now. And she naps multiple times a day. Personally I think it makes her appear boring. When I talk to her she is either just waking up or getting ready to take a nap. What do you think? Do you find that boring. Would you want to be around a person that wants to sleep all the time "
Have you offered her your chest to lay on?
Because that's exactly what I would do! |
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"I have been talking to a woman for some time now. And she naps multiple times a day. Personally I think it makes her appear boring. When I talk to her she is either just waking up or getting ready to take a nap. What do you think? Do you find that boring. Would you want to be around a person that wants to sleep all the time "
You've been talking to her for a while ? Yet you find her boring ?
C'mon. You don't find her that boring. |
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By *im_66Woman
over a year ago
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"I have been talking to a woman for some time now. And she naps multiple times a day. Personally I think it makes her appear boring. When I talk to her she is either just waking up or getting ready to take a nap. What do you think? Do you find that boring. Would you want to be around a person that wants to sleep all the time "
How rude are you??!!!
Oh my God, maybe it's not your job to monitor her sleeping patterns. If you find her boring, man-up and tell her. I'd love to know what she says back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been talking to a woman for some time now. And she naps multiple times a day. Personally I think it makes her appear boring. When I talk to her she is either just waking up or getting ready to take a nap. What do you think? Do you find that boring. Would you want to be around a person that wants to sleep all the time "
does she use a spinning wheel at all?
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